₦airaland Forum

Beebah2000:
You want to pregnant the woman u love, but u will not marry her??

Marriage is not for everybody sha.
Okay, I don talk finish.

yunqdady:
What's with your signature?

yunqdady:
What's your obsession with these Korean pictures? It's disturbing please.

And I hope it's not a case of inferiority complex, get a grip

Myrealself:
I took a lot of character from my dad that I don't like about myself. I have come to realize that marriage is not for me. I see the way my mum and dad acts towards each other, and I don't like it.

If it happens that I never get married, what is the implication of that for me? Although I might have a child with a woman I love, but marriage is out of it.

I need different perspective on the matter from matured people.

Lush100:
Bro, u still reside in ibadan?

Kind of bored,
Maybe we can link up for outings if you are open to it

Myrealself:
I took a lot of character from my dad that I don't like about myself. I have come to realize that marriage is not for me. I see the way my mum and dad acts towards each other, and I don't like it.

If it happens that I never get married, what is the implication of that for me? Although I might have a child with a woman I love, but marriage is out of it.

I need different perspective on the matter from matured people.

Kobojunkie:
The world will not end and no hole will swallow you up.

Your life..your decision. By the way, if you get a woman pregnant, you might as well have married her since she is forever joined to you as a result.

Gentlerespect76:
Though getting married isn't a guarantee, yet it affords you a sort of stability in life. You already know who you are; you are an incorrigible, difficult soul. Therefore, work on yourself a little, then look for a woman to get close to, with whom nothing about you is hidden. If that woman is ready to tolerate you, that's compatibility. Marry her.

You see bro, you go regret tire if you had opportunity to make hay while the sun burned brightly and failed.

emmanuelbrown26:
Not necessary, he can get a woman pregnant without marring her

Myrealself:
Yes I'm open to it. Drop your WhatsApp number on dappyadex4sci@yahoo.com

Kobojunkie:
And what would be the benefit to him if the woman ends up marrying another man leaving the child without a stable home complete would a mum and dad?
Is such a child any better than say an orphan then?

emmanuelbrown26:
Which unstable home are u talking about here?
U would only hv an unstable home if there are no resources to keep the home going which is cash.
Or didn't u read the young guy that adopted a baby girl here in Lagos, after every necessary documentation, guy man sent the girl to US to go and stay with the sister?

Myrealself:
I took a lot of character from my dad that I don't like about myself. I have come to realize that marriage is not for me. I see the way my mum and dad acts towards each other, and I don't like it.

If it happens that I never get married, what is the implication of that for me? Although I might have a child with a woman I love, but marriage is out of it.

I need different perspective on the matter from matured people.

Solofresh2:
The fact that your parents marriage is not successful does not mean yours will not be successful
If you decide not to get married, the implications are: Companionship,i mean you won't have a companion.Another thing is that,it might deny you of notable positions in the future.imagine been a king without a Queen,a president without a first lady etc.
Another thing is that,it might affect your kids psychological well being, because they will also experience how things are done in the family way.

efficiencie:
You want to love a woman and have a child with her but do not want to marry her! How old are you? 17?

Foodqueen:
Not really, but someday you just might wish u give it a try.

The truth is u will no longer av your friends Everytime as before. They will tell u they've got to be with their families.

emmanuelbrown26:
A woman will always be a woman. All u wrote up their is nonsense

MufasaLion:
What I noticed in most of you advising him to marry is that y'all are just scared of being lonely in future.

kay9:
Bros, you should know better than to be arguing with idiots. It's a waste of time.

olabrinks:
loneliness is real I work with old people. The old men that are taken care of, are those with wives. The ones without wives sit alone in their house watch tv all day and sit in the balcony watching people walk past. Children will grow up and leave you. Family members/siblings/friends will not have your Time. Your wife is the person that will be next to you on your death bed. Women have it easier than men in old age, as people are more sympathetic towards women in general. But men are left to die alone. You will not be young forever, try to remember this.

Kobojunkie:
A stable home for a child is not made with money but with love. You said you want to have a child out of wedlock with a woman. And I asked you what happens to the child when the women gets married to another man making your child an outsider where his mother is concerned? Or do you intend to raise your child all by yourself?

emmanuelbrown26:
Listen woman, the world is changing so shall every tricks about marriage, loneliness in old age should change.
Having a baby with a woman should be a thing of mutual agreement.

emmanuelbrown26:
Maybe u didn't read everything, he said, u will get a girl pregnant without marrying the girl. It means, he can have children without any woman giving him headache and heart attack.
after all, what's the essence of marriage even not children

MufasaLion:
What I noticed in most of you advising him to marry is that y'all are just scared of being lonely in future.

Double0h7:
Nobody wants to be alone, it's not good for our health because humans are social creatures.

Kobojunkie:
Again....
A stable home for a child is not made with money but with love. You said you want to have a child out of wedlock with a woman. And I asked you what happens to the child when the women gets married to another man making your child an outsider where his mother is concerned?

Or do you intend on raising your child all by yourself?

Gentlerespect76:
I am not talking about a child's play here.

emmanuelbrown26:
U hv already answered your question

Kobojunkie:
and what answer would that be?

Kobojunkie:
Marriage is not the only way to fight loneliness though.

Us being social creatures simply means we interact with other humans from time to time, not that we marriage to stave off loneliness.

There are so many married folks out there who are struggling with loneliness even at that.