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Icouldhave:
We never turn it to evil.

I just want to be the best at all times

THE NUMBER ONE GUY IN CHARGE

Okay, we all want this but healthy people understand that in reality this is not possible. Do you understand and accept that it is not possible?

It's like wanting to grow wings, it's okay to want it but we have to understand that it is impossible and we settle for the next best thing which is sky diving or paragliding lol.

You could use this need to motivate your dreams and aim to succeed. Aim to be better than yourself yesterday and ignore other people's successes. If you can't be happy for them, that too is fine just don't hate them or yourself because of their success. If you can't do this then you might need to see a psychologist to overcome the issues before you develop some sort of personality disorder.

Double0h7:
Okay, we all want this but healthy people understand that in reality this is not possible. Do you understand and accept that it is not possible?

It's like wanting to grow wings, it's okay to want it but we have to understand that it is impossible and we settle for the next best thing which is sky diving or paragliding lol.

You could use this need to motivate your dreams and aim to succeed. Aim to be better than yourself yesterday and ignore other people's successes. If you can't be happy for them, that too is fine just don't hate them or yourself because of their success. If you can't do this then you might need to see a psychologist to overcome the issues before you develop some sort of personality disorder.

The headline topic was just to gain traffic.


The true message is in my first post.


Go back and read it again.



I don't say I don't want you to succeed.


But I don't want you to suceed more than I.


I want to be the number one



Always at the top

Double0h7:
Lol. That's another way to look at it but we can't play armchair psychiatrists and diagnose people as psychopaths. I think we should offer solutions to his problems and validate his feelings because we are human and we are prone to negative thoughts and feelings.

People demonizing him would only make it worse.

It is after we have properly diagnosed him will help then come.

Let's establish the fact first that he's suffering from Persistent Psychopathy.

After which we offer a solution.

The height of wizardry (male) or witchcraft (female). You need deliverance and absolute repentance. Where you cannot do these then death is necessary so you won't be looking for how to knock others off just to reign supreme!

Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.


Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.


Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy


I want to be the giver always

I will advice you to get a pet(s) like a dog(s).
. They will never give you money or over shadow
you
. They will always depend on you to feed them,
show them love and care
. To a dog you are its alpha and omega, a god, it
will look up to you for everything and lick your
feet, literally.
. Its not a person but they are regarded as family
members.

What you are after is master-slave, Master-pet relationship, you cant relate with humans this way.

PAQ:
I will advice you to get a pet(s) like a dog(s).
. They will never give you money or over shadow
you
. They will always depend on you to feed them,
show them love and care
. To a dog you are its alpha and omega, a god, it
will look up to you for everything and lick your
feet, literally.
. Its not a person but they are regarded as family
members.

What you are after is master-slave, Master-pet relationship, you cant relate with humans this way.

come be my dog then

Humans do act like dogs

You are suffering from the same affliction afflicting the apc and buhari.

AllKnowing:
You just need to die nothing else.

MODIFIED:

People like OP grow up to be:
1. Wicked politicians that impoverish their constituents so only their families live in abundance.

2. Lecturers who demand blocking or sex for grades.

3. That your uncle who goes diabolical to kill your father because he was able to train you to the university.

4. That policeman who opens fire on a group of boys in a sleek Mercedes S-class only because he didn’t enjoy such privileges when he was a youngster.

In summary, OP is Chiwetalu Agu in old Nigerian movies!

EkelediliBuhari:
This is a blessing in disguise

You have an inborn drive to success above peers.. all you have to do is make sure you don’t allow your self to be driven to sabotaging others…

Almost all billionaires are wired this way… driven to success above every one else

Find a purpose/hustle and put all your passion into it… I can guide you through if you need

Hi, how can I cultivate this desire/drive above others to succeed like the OP?

daddytime:
Ah ah.....there are more people than you with this kind of condition.

I can't find the name for the condition but I hope someone else can.


Everybody get one strange condition or the order which they exhibit from time to time without even realising it.


Patronise my signature.

Naccissist or psychopaths

caye:
Naccissist or psychopaths

You dey there...

Badguy77:
Every witch that dont like to see us succeed...Die by fire in jesus name

Coming from a user with name badguy

bigcee:
Narcissism!

Exactly!

makavellidon:
you are wicked ds matter wey yan so na death by hanging then suppose give you wicked soul

Hahahaha
E pain you bah?

Knows:
Na normal feeling bro we just deh comot eyes ni.. everyone wanna be the richest.

You are valid!!

Icouldhave:
Coming from a user with name badguy

Coming from a user with icouldhave as a name....Smh

JohnAOne:
Hi, how can I cultivate this desire/drive above others to succeed like the OP?

Just be a wizard and be a wicked person

Baawahala:
You can be the giver and others also givers...Why wishing another down for you to go up?...

I don't wish anyone not to go up...but not above me.

I want to be the number one guy on top

Give your life to Jesus Christ....

Simple!

Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.


Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.


Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy


I want to be the giver always

.Op there is nothing wrong with you.To be very Frank with you, you are a very good person. The only reason why people on this forum are making uncomplimentary statements against you is because of the way you titled your article. What I simply deduced from your write up is that you are killing yourself to be in a position to help people instead of people helping you. There's nothing wrong at all with your desire. Keep praying for God to see you through. Only just remove the jealousy and you are fine.Nobody in his right senses should be happy to be in a position to be receiving help instead of giving help.
My Ernest prayer for you is let this desire to be in a helper's position propel you to better ways of making good and genuine money soon. I am glad we still have people like you in this society.

Peterosky:
.Op there is nothing wrong with you.To be very Frank with you, you are a very good person. The only reason why people on this forum are making uncomplimentary statements against you is because of the way you titled your article. What I simply deduced from your write up is that you are killing yourself to be in a position to help people instead of people helping you. There's nothing wrong at all with your desire. Keep praying for God to see you through. Only just remove the jealousy and you are fine.Nobody in his right senses should be happy to be in a position to be receiving help instead of giving help.
My Ernest prayer for you is let this desire to be in a helper's position propel you to better ways of making good and genuine money soon. I am glad we still have people like you in this society.

You are very much correct, the headline topic was just to get traffic, the real content was in my post

You need to overcome the spirit of greed and self centeredness.

Aries Sun Sign + Aries Moon Sign + Aries Rising Sign

Icouldhave:
Don't hate me.


am Just a realist

He could even be worse than you, don't mind him..
It's good you confessed openly..
Just pay attention to your thoughts, each time such thoughts come, try and replace it with a postive thought in that same vein. Ask the holy spirit for help in the moment such thoughts come. Good luck

moshino:
For how long?

How long do you think Nigerians have been praying for Nigeria to be a better country? Now Nigerians are killing themselves to migrate to other countries, most of which don't believe in prayers, but actions.

Nigerian Christians are praying to God of Israel to protect them, but Israel is buying and building weapons to protect themselves.

Nigerian muslims are praying to Mecca for saviour, but Mecca is buying weapons from America to save itself.

At some point you need to take positive and productive action.

...but I digress...

The battle is not ours but God, so we have no choice than to keep praying.

Pray and try to control the feeling whenever you start getting it..

Testimony1988:
The battle is not ours but God, so we have no choice than to keep praying.

I appreciate your passion. But we have choice, we can pray, but most important, we must continually take positive actions. "God helps those who help themselves". Faith, hope, prayers without continual, relentless positive actions, is a waste of time.

Icouldhave:
The headline topic was just to gain traffic.


The true message is in my first post.


Go back and read it again.



I don't say I don't want you to succeed.


But I don't want you to suceed more than I.


I want to be the number one



Always at the top

I get it but do you think that's possible?

How could anyone be number one and Always at the top?

The worst part is that you probably have a long way to go before you succeed let alone be "Always at the top"

My friend you are deluded and if you don't change your mindset then depression, frustration and ultimately disaster is down the path...

HenryDion:
It is after we have properly diagnosed him will help then come.

Let's establish the fact first that he's suffering from Persistent Psychopathy.

After which we offer a solution.

I might have to join you on the armchair because he comes across delusional

Imagine being poor and basic and then wanting to be the most successful person ever, number one and always at the top!

There's ambition but this is dangerous delusions.

Double0h7:
I might have to join you on the armchair because he comes across delusional

Imagine being poor and basic and then wanting to be the most successful person ever, number one and always at the top!

There's ambition but this is dangerous delusions.

I thought your a matured man with a good understanding that's why I gave you response.

Too bad you just a woman who can't stand to engage a proper conversation without flipping sides.


Oh na am delusional.


Na wa

Everything starts from the mind, that's why the bible said guide your heart for out of it are the issues of life. Learn to appreciate good things when you see one, don't hate , and pray to God for your own. Simple.

Icouldhave:
I don't wish anyone not to go up...but not above me.

I want to be the number one guy on top

Feeling this way will make you sabotage the efforts of people around you who may be trying to rise above you without having anything against you, you are the typical office politician and a nightmare colleague In office. I don't envy your siblings at all.
Anyway my reason for replying you is to let you know that whatever you feel become reality and you are culpable. If you feel no one should be above you so strongly, everyone close to you will start going down if they are not strong spiritually, you don't need voodoo or witchcraft to do evil, whatever you feel is a command to the universe and if it align with love and God you have Angels at your beck and call carrying out your order and if it fulfil the law of satan you have demons and all evil spirit working for you and you belong to the side you lean towards, many people have killed and destroyed others life without going to herbalist or doing any voodoo, it's just by thought, that's why Jesus said you are a murderer if you hate your brother. This particular feeling is against God principle in every way and Obi Cubana and many other billionaires have a heart for people to rise and that's why they got to where they are because you need the help of God to reach the top and God will only dwell in love even if the loving person don't believe God exist.
You need to ask God for help before you start destroying lives with your soul, ask the holy spirit to fill you with love and acceptance of others no matter their status and to also help you to get to the top. If you don't, the consequences of such mind is not long in coming, karma is real and eternity with God require love for others and holiness which will be very far from a envious jealous person