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Re: Man Who Built A House For His Girlfriend's Family Wants To Demolish It After.... by Daboomb: 7:24pm On Nov 24, 2021
SmellySperm:
And what if he doesn't have feelings for the younger sister?
Never invest on a girl you not married to undecided
Even the one you are married to, make sure you have five times of whatever you are spending on her, in a secret saving account for yourself.
Las las, you may need to marry another younger girl in your Old age, you will need the Money!

Women are known to abandon their Husbands, when he starts aging towards Sixty years or gone into retirement
They will run away abroad, to go and stay with their Child, doing Omuugo.

I have seen a few 60+yr Old Men waiting for Beans Seller on their Balcony, every morning.
It was a gory sight to behold. Meanwhile, Wives are in America, enjoying their Life. One even get Belle for their Daughter's neighbour in America and refuse to come back to her husband in Nigeria. grin grin

Men need to face reality of this 'modern day' women
Re: Man Who Built A House For His Girlfriend's Family Wants To Demolish It After.... by Echo50(m): 7:27pm On Nov 24, 2021
Where in eleme cos am on google searching........the news is smelling goat meat
Re: Man Who Built A House For His Girlfriend's Family Wants To Demolish It After.... by Daboomb: 7:27pm On Nov 24, 2021
Kingcalls:
Women don't have conscience....they are never considerate and are the most selfish beings on earth
The Frustrated, Single Mother, No-Husband, Feminazzi Gang are coming for your head soon. grin grin

But your assertion is 100% Correct.
Re: Man Who Built A House For His Girlfriend's Family Wants To Demolish It After.... by Soloboss534: 7:30pm On Nov 24, 2021
Akwaibomfirst:
Wow......imagine..... This is very bad....



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How much do u wanna sell them
Are u in lagos?
If yes
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Re: Man Who Built A House For His Girlfriend's Family Wants To Demolish It After.... by Daboomb: 7:31pm On Nov 24, 2021
obembet:
Some men en.. Must you married her? So when u demolish the house now, what did u gain?

Men na scum
Even if he does not demolish the House, What will be his gain? shocked shocked

So, he should just Demolish the House, along with his frustration! tongue tongue grin

Women (at least most), are Ingrates
Re: Man Who Built A House For His Girlfriend's Family Wants To Demolish It After.... by Noblewealth(m): 7:34pm On Nov 24, 2021
Reno omokri articles comes to mind about guys that lavish and buy things for their girlfriends..

How on earth will I build a house for my girlfriend parent..What if she dies in between or anything happens.

Laslas, he became the second Jacob in other way round..
Let him enjoy what he bargains for..
Re: Man Who Built A House For His Girlfriend's Family Wants To Demolish It After.... by ifelawboy(m): 8:18pm On Nov 24, 2021
drizslim:
A Twitter user has revealed how a family in Eleme, Rivers state, paid back a man who helped them financially in hopes of marrying their daughter.

The man reportedly built a house for the family of his lover and shouldered their financial responsibilities.

However, when it was time for marriage, the girl decided that she wanted to be a model and eloped to Paris, France, with a white man.

The distraught man allegedly threatened to demolish the house he built for the family, but they pleaded with him and asked him to marry his ex-lover’s younger sister instead.

The Twitter user, @MaverickThamani, who shared the story online wrote,

“A guy in Eleme built a house for his girl’s family. Carried the whole family on his shoulder. Time for marriage, she said she wants to become a model. Left him and followed one white guy to Paris. Baba said he will demolish the house. Family pleaded and gave him her younger sis”.
Hmnnn!!!! Oro nla!!!! Agbara obo ni e n wo yen o. Eyin ara mi 'ilenaira' . Ki olourun ki o wa pelu wa o. #obosuggests
Re: Man Who Built A House For His Girlfriend's Family Wants To Demolish It After.... by Tbaba001: 8:53pm On Nov 24, 2021
If she no be your wife, no break bank for her, ... In the words of a great wise man "These hoes ain't loyal"
Re: Man Who Built A House For His Girlfriend's Family Wants To Demolish It After.... by authority2006(m): 8:55pm On Nov 24, 2021
SmellySperm:
And what if he doesn't have feelings for the younger sister?
Never invest on a girl you not married to undecided
The feeling will come later. Lol
Re: Man Who Built A House For His Girlfriend's Family Wants To Demolish It After.... by Nobody: 9:22pm On Nov 24, 2021
Serves him right.... they never learn
Re: Man Who Built A House For His Girlfriend's Family Wants To Demolish It After.... by Slimdaddy27(m): 9:45pm On Nov 24, 2021
Kingcalls:
Women don't have conscience....they are never considerate and are the most selfish beings on earth
I second this bro


Presently passing through a similar stuff

Will share to NAIRALAND wen am ready
Re: Man Who Built A House For His Girlfriend's Family Wants To Demolish It After.... by Exodora: 10:05pm On Nov 24, 2021
Forget all the names calling, women have always being uptop of the game from the beginning of time.
Just legodu nu!
Re: Man Who Built A House For His Girlfriend's Family Wants To Demolish It After.... by Exodora: 10:14pm On Nov 24, 2021
UTILITYMAY:
They are mad!
I'll pursue them out of the house. If I don't have anything to do with the house, I'll either sell it or donate it to orphanage.
You have a problem , he can only sell the house only if the land is his .
Re: Man Who Built A House For His Girlfriend's Family Wants To Demolish It After.... by Poleski: 10:57pm On Nov 24, 2021
The guy is a huge m*oron! Some men are plain scumbags when it comes to wasting money! No sane man would invest so much in a woman he's not married to! This is stupidity of the highest order!

This reminds me of another idiot in the Netherlands who sponsored a woman in Nigeria through university, hoping to marry her after graduation. She was the one who created this condition (unbelievable).

On the day she graduated, she called him on the phone to say she was in love with another man.
Re: Man Who Built A House For His Girlfriend's Family Wants To Demolish It After.... by Akwaibomfirst: 11:04pm On Nov 24, 2021
Soloboss534:
How much do u wanna sell them
Are u in lagos?
If yes
Chat me up on 09023565708
Will call tomorrow
Re: Man Who Built A House For His Girlfriend's Family Wants To Demolish It After.... by Impregnablefolk: 11:07pm On Nov 24, 2021
Kingcalls:
Women don't have conscience....they are never considerate and are the most selfish beings on earth
QFT! If u know, u know!
Re: Man Who Built A House For His Girlfriend's Family Wants To Demolish It After.... by Alaganature09(m): 11:10pm On Nov 24, 2021
Pweetiedude:
Person wey him suppose don knack belle
What if she comot the belle? The man here is to be blame why on earth will you built a house for a girl you haven’t got married to.. Nah this kind me dey collect poor men wife because he get money, God don catch am
Re: Man Who Built A House For His Girlfriend's Family Wants To Demolish It After.... by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:35pm On Nov 24, 2021
JuanDeDios:
You're jumping again. Nothing in the story says this isn't what happened - in fact, it's quite likely, but it would definitely be presented by the parents since that's how things are done around here. Even if it was the parents that first mooted the idea, the girl must've seen the merit in it.
assumptions assumptions assumptions....
comparing to you, i aint assuming, YOU are the one making assumptions...the story does say that the parents pleaded with him and asked him to marry his ex-lover’s younger sister instead. sista didnt offer herself it is the parents who offered the daughter.
Re: Man Who Built A House For His Girlfriend's Family Wants To Demolish It After.... by Impregnablefolk: 11:50pm On Nov 24, 2021
Some of these he-goats go dey ur area or ur class n wen u ask dem make "BORROW" u money dem go refuse, say dem no get. Wen d family empty d man wey him go bankrupt, him eye go open. He's truly drunk in love.
Re: Man Who Built A House For His Girlfriend's Family Wants To Demolish It After.... by Babalola0920: 12:25am On Nov 25, 2021
MrBrownJay1:
Africa and the deluded state of mind of many parents... in order to keep all the wealth embezzled (under the guise of marriage), these deluded parents sold off their second daughter to this conned man! what a sad life (especially for the poor sister who was forced to marry the dude).

***spit on floor***
Simple solution let the guy scatter the house and there daughter be free, NOT WILL EVER BE FREE let that be a painful truth
Re: Man Who Built A House For His Girlfriend's Family Wants To Demolish It After.... by Poleski: 2:35am On Nov 25, 2021
Soloboss534:
How much do u wanna sell them
Are u in lagos?
If yes
Chat me up on 09023565708
Be careful, there are a lot of scammers here.
Re: Man Who Built A House For His Girlfriend's Family Wants To Demolish It After.... by Nobody: 4:32am On Nov 25, 2021
drizslim:
A Twitter user has revealed how a family in Eleme, Rivers state, paid back a man who helped them financially in hopes of marrying their daughter.

The man reportedly built a house for the family of his lover and shouldered their financial responsibilities.

However, when it was time for marriage, the girl decided that she wanted to be a model and eloped to Paris, France, with a white man.

The distraught man allegedly threatened to demolish the house he built for the family, but they pleaded with him and asked him to marry his ex-lover’s younger sister instead.

The Twitter user, @MaverickThamani, who shared the story online wrote,

“A guy in Eleme built a house for his girl’s family. Carried the whole family on his shoulder. Time for marriage, she said she wants to become a model. Left him and followed one white guy to Paris. Baba said he will demolish the house. Family pleaded and gave him her younger sis”.
When will men learnhuh undecided
Re: Man Who Built A House For His Girlfriend's Family Wants To Demolish It After.... by samwillyco1(m): 5:01am On Nov 25, 2021
Pweetiedude:
Person wey him suppose don knack belle
Na girls wey no Sabi ways dey get bell ooo
Re: Man Who Built A House For His Girlfriend's Family Wants To Demolish It After.... by yahmohy27: 7:27am On Nov 25, 2021
SmellySperm:
And what if he doesn't have feelings for the younger sister?
Never invest on a girl you not married to undecided
Nice Advice but some simpi will not heed to it
Re: Man Who Built A House For His Girlfriend's Family Wants To Demolish It After.... by JuanDeDios: 7:39am On Nov 25, 2021
MrBrownJay1:
assumptions assumptions assumptions....
comparing to you, i aint assuming, YOU are the one making assumptions...the story does say that the parents pleaded with him and asked him to marry his ex-lover’s younger sister instead. sista didnt offer herself it is the parents who offered the daughter.
No, you made the assumptions first. And you're still doing so. They pleaded with the man - that is, they got him to agree to what the family had already agreed. Read between the lines.

The FACT is, we don't know the content of the parents' discussion with their daughter. Saying they forced her is a leap. But according to the story, someone who knows say they're now living happily.
Re: Man Who Built A House For His Girlfriend's Family Wants To Demolish It After.... by Soloboss534: 8:33am On Nov 25, 2021
Poleski:
Be careful, there are a lot of scammers here.
Thank u sir
I will
Re: Man Who Built A House For His Girlfriend's Family Wants To Demolish It After.... by TeeGod(m): 10:07am On Nov 25, 2021
Baba no gree o... We most demolish that house
Re: Man Who Built A House For His Girlfriend's Family Wants To Demolish It After.... by swiftyc00l(m): 3:25pm On Nov 25, 2021
JuanDeDios:
No, you made the assumptions first. And you're still doing so. They pleaded with the man - that is, they got him to agree to what the family had already agreed. Read between the lines.

The FACT is, we don't know the content of the parents' discussion with their daughter. Saying they forced her is a leap. But according to the story, someone who knows say they're now living happily.
Someone who allegedly knows them doesn't know their issues deep down. This kind of compensation wife often raise their hands attracting sympathy when you discover through DNA that the babies she produced are from her ex who she couldn't marry because of her duty to family to marry a man she doesn't really love.
The story na rubbish, the guy should come and rent bull dozer from my friend joo
Re: Man Who Built A House For His Girlfriend's Family Wants To Demolish It After.... by JuanDeDios: 3:39pm On Nov 25, 2021
swiftyc00l:
Someone who allegedly knows them doesn't know their issues deep down. This kind of compensation wife often raise their hands attracting sympathy when you discover through DNA that the babies she produced are from her ex who she couldn't marry because of her duty to family to marry a man she doesn't really love.
The story na rubbish, the guy should come and rent bull dozer from my friend joo
IF she was forced into the marriage, or if she didn't like him but married him because she felt pressured, that is not a good thing. I hope the man watched out for this because it's a recipe for trouble. My point is that we don't know this is what happened.

Arranged marriages and "compensation wives" have been happening and working out well since time immemorial. A few fail - just like "love marriages" do fail.
Re: Man Who Built A House For His Girlfriend's Family Wants To Demolish It After.... by Mizahn: 4:20pm On Nov 26, 2021
It's really a question of financial literacy. Just because he had hopes of marrying a girl does not mean that she had hopes of marrying him.
He was in love with her and thus tried to win her love. She was not in love with him, and having fallen in love with another man, she quickly ran off.
He needed to build a house for himself. On his own plot of land. Or he should have married her first, had children, and then built a house with his children living there.
Because the sister option is a very questionable one. To marry someone you don't love just to keep the house you built yourself?
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