Simran94:

So why are you men always complaining when most Ladies are after men that are wealthy? Men can want women for sex but women can't want men for money, you instantly call them gold diggers.

88natzy:
I don't have any advice to give.
The spinsterhood has no pattern. Good girls are single while bad ones are getting married every Saturday.

sow4me:


Damn!!! Thats actually true bro.

DUNDEEMASTER:
buh funny enough...those virtuous ones wearing long skirts and big tops are the higher percentage of unmarried girls....See u have to make ursef attractive for a man for a man to like you... Religion is really messing with most of our girls big time. as for me, I can't marry any long skirt type, or wait till marriage to taste what is rightly mine

cayorday89:



Bad is relative you know, and what is bad to you is good to someone else. The girl I dated is married now and I am still single, to me she is bad but to her husband, he has found something good, so how do we settle that. Will I continue singing and shouting she is bad, when the husband is cool with her. There are various factors we all want in a person the fact that one person don't meet those factors does not mean they are bad. Eg, a guy who sleeps around is a no no for some women, but a lady is willing to marry him, cos to her its not new, they are all in the game, same with some guys, they are cool with marrying a lady who had multiple body counts because to them its normal but some will not because they are not different either. So why do you have to tag them bad when both parties are cool with it.

NwaAmaikpe:




Don't let these preachers decieve you.
Even the Bible warns in Songs Of Solomon 8:4, "Do not arouse or awaken love, Until it is it's time.”

The Bible knows that once you've tasted sex, you must always crave for it; and because water will always find it's level, you must yield to that craving either with your own hands or through the help of another.

Life is simple abeg, we must not let hypocrites make it any complex for us.

If you are conjied, and you see someone who is willing to help you out, please don't think twice before spreading your legs.
For every leg you close, there are over 5 girls willing to spread the same legs for that man.
So use your kpekus to your advantage.

That's why good girls marry late and wrongly while the bad girls never run out of suitors and have better husbands; because they don't attach so much value to what men value in women.

The same pastor who tells you not to fornicate before marriage is shagging the chorister.
The same pastor will not tell you that your sexual performance can determine the future of that relationship, if it will end as a one-time fling or a forever thing.

88natzy:
I don't have any advice to give.
The spinsterhood has no pattern. Good girls are single while bad ones are getting married every Saturday.

PandoraObi:
When you dress like a prostitute you attract dogs, the way you dress is the way you are addressed, people look at you, your utterances, attitude, your posture before approaching you

sow4me:


Sure i get your point.

Men are insatiable in nature bro and as that, we may wish for a virgin this day and when we get one & find her too conk in religion or innocent with out any bad girl trait in her; may change our wants the next day.

Different taste for different men.
Just gonn do whats good for me.

TinubuGoQuench:
Forget plenty talk. Sex is part of human existence whether married or not. Religion is a scam.

FutureIsFemale:
ALL MEN WANT SEX. What are you saying?

ImoleNaija:
The only way to avoid sex is avoiding romantic relationship.

If you're truly spiritual & godfearing as you claim, it wouldn't be hard for God to show you your right partner even if it would only take you 1-month courtship before marriage.

Pitifully, some girls want no-sex-relationship because they think they are now old enough to get married, so they want their kpetus to have some rest before the last man comes.

If you're a virgin girl or boy & want no sex, stay away from romantic r/ship, I mean bf & gf stuff.

Fyie:
I can't read through...but I sha know the post is about women.

These particular creatures are on earth to destroy men, and men can't do without them.

Vickym1:

The reserved ones are getting old while the bad ones are getting married everyday.

ednut1:
Op keep using religion to deceive women. When they clock 40 and still virgins in their fathers house will you marry them You wont even advise your son or brother to marry them. So get lost

Interesting15:


It is not uncommon seeing women who are always complaining about how they keep meeting men that are only interested in sleeping with them. In fact, some women now thinks there are no responsible men out there that still have full control over themselves and don't fornicate or commit adultery (or other immoral acts)

If you are a single lady who has been dumped by several guys because of your no-sex-till-marriage stance, and you are now getting tired (or about to compromise), this message is meant to strengthen you not to settle for less, and not to allow any guy make you sin against God your Creator.

What God has instructed is that sexual pleasures should only be shared between a married man and his wife inside the safe circle of their marriage institution. So, if you have made a decision to honour Jesus with your life (and body) by adhering to His commandments, then you should not allow anyone make you feel sorry for your purity stance, and you should not allow anyone push you off the path of sexual purity.

Many ladies do ask, "why do I keep meeting men that want sex before marriage?".. The answer is simple: "You keep meeting men who are ungodly and without the fear of God"

I can assure you that there are still lots of God-fearing men out there who themselves are honouring God with their bodies. When I say God-fearing men, I'm talking about men that have made Jesus Christ their Lord and Savior, and are serving God in spirit and in truth. These are the type of men you should associate with. Unlike the "bad boys" out there, a born again Christian won't regard you as a mere tool for bodily pleasure, but will even contribute to your growth in important areas. In fact, a sure way to enjoy your marriage is by marrying a genuine born again Christian, where the foundation of your home is built on Christ. Such a man, who himself is Christ's bride, will know how to please God by treating you as the queen you are meant to be

I see some ladies today living anyhow they want and will always say, 'I want a God-fearing man' (or will always complain that all the men coming to them are only irresponsible sex-chasers). Well, likes will always attract likes. A born again Christian will want to marry a child of God like himself, and won't go for a lady that lives anyhow (indulge in acts contrary to God's Will).

Therefore, to attract a God-fearing born again Christian, you must be a guniune child of God too (God won't give any of His true sons to just any kind of lady that will ruin his sonship). So, you must make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior and start living a life devoid of sin and iniquity. Focus on serving God in spirit and in truth, and He knows how He will connect you with a responsible God-fearing man that will ensure you have a joyful marriage

Please, don't compromise your purity stance. I know you are getting older and many of your mates are already married. But listen to me, God is about to do something great in your life if you will continue holding to His Word. You are facing those temptation because the devil already sensed your greatness, and he is doing all he could to hinder you from being the great woman God has destined you to be.

Men that are disturbing you for sex are majorly agents of satan that were sent to ruin your life. Please, don't allow them. If you are currently in a sinful relationship where you and the guy are already indulging in immoral activities, quit the relationship immediately, and ask God for forgiveness.

https://www.sundayakanni.com/2021/11/when-you-only-meet-men-that-only-want.html?m=1

TemmyT002:
Yes o. Don't give up.
Men who don't want sex are not many but they exist. All you have to do is open your eyes and ears.
Remember that men who demand for sex when they never marry you have no respect for you at all.
They will leave you at the first chance.