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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Exponental(m): 11:09am On Dec 07, 2021
Noooo... She should learn when she becomes a grandma. Stupid question!!!
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Johel(m): 11:10am On Dec 07, 2021
Iyaebe:
Please is it compulsory that a lady must know how to cook before marriage? What if her fiance accepts her like that, should she still entertain any fears or she should go learn before the marriage.
It's a MUST!!,not for my sake though,but because of the kids make dem no go talk say side chic food sweet pass their own mama food grin grin
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Omicron007: 11:10am On Dec 07, 2021
Iyaebe do you know how to cook?
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by UncleKoboko: 11:11am On Dec 07, 2021
habsydiamond:
It depend on the kind of guy u want to marry.. If u are marrying a white guy u do t need to know how to cook.. Na eatery go suffer am.. If Na big naija Boi same Na restaurant, eateries go suffer am but if Na the average guy.. U marry nobody go tell u b4 u go go learn for utube or go get teacher wey go teach u.. Cos if dem use food frustrate ur life fear go catch u.... Most men for lovey lovey stage will accept anything from their ladies oo. But get married first Na den u go know say an hungry man is an angry man.
Sense dey pain you,
How many so-called white guys or big boi do you know personallyhuhhuhhuh??
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Ladiesdoctor(m): 11:13am On Dec 07, 2021
Yes it is compulsory.
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by ginggerxy: 11:13am On Dec 07, 2021
Iyaebe:
Please is it compulsory that a lady must know how to cook before marriage? What if her fiance accepts her like that, should she still entertain any fears or she should go learn before the marriage.
if you don't know how to cook who will be cooking for you?
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Emk5556: 11:13am On Dec 07, 2021
It's not compulsory but for her own advantage.
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Way4orward: 11:14am On Dec 07, 2021
I guess those commenting nonsense here are not Africans and they lack home training.
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by suffering: 11:14am On Dec 07, 2021
Yes. If your cooking isn’t to his taste he’ll take you to his mother or elder sister’s kitchen for a touch up. If you don’t give yourself sense afterward it’s back to spinsterhood again.
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by xynerise: 11:15am On Dec 07, 2021
I can't risk the health of my children just because I want to form woke
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by jrusky(m): 11:16am On Dec 07, 2021
What a wresting?

Guys pls must you m answer all questions or what type of joblessness should I call these for crying out loudhuh

What a questionhuh
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by bikefab(m): 11:16am On Dec 07, 2021
Question is; why wouldn't a girl of marriageable age know how to cook? Does she expect her family to feed off restaurants or fast foods?
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by brain54(m): 11:16am On Dec 07, 2021
Hmmmm... that first picture though. The food go sweet o!
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Nobody: 11:17am On Dec 07, 2021
Kobojunkie:
I don't eat Gala and Pesi since I can actually cook myself a good meal whenever I want. undecided

So, unless the next person is a world class chef, meaningless things like whether my partner can cook or not is not a stressor in my life and relationship. undecided
This junkie again. You carry embarrassment and disgrace where you go. You no dey tire? Rest nah
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by biggz82: 11:17am On Dec 07, 2021
No it's not compulsory even after marriage it's still not compulsory
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by ramatintin(m): 11:18am On Dec 07, 2021
Omo as a wife you must know to to cook. Imagine your husband comes from work and you serve him salty beans do u think he will smile and hug you. Learn how to cook lady's it's a basic skill don't be fooled by all these feminist garbage.
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Openyamind111(m): 11:19am On Dec 07, 2021
wunmi590:
huh

It is a must for every woman to know how to cook, that's why majority of our African mother make sure that all their daughter learn the art of cooking....

Women stay home more when they get married, so Inturn dish better food for the children and be able to protect them from what they eat...

Even white women wey dey eat yanma yanma self dey cook...

One of the reason I married my wife is because she's a great cook, I can't go near anywoem that doesn't know how to cook
You’re very correct.. for our side there’s a saying “olobe lo loko” person like me wey like food no fit fall in love with a woman that can’t cook..
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Stricher: 11:19am On Dec 07, 2021
Iyaebe:
Please is it compulsory that a lady must know how to cook before marriage? What if her fiance accepts her like that, should she still entertain any fears or she should go learn before the marriage.
Women should be able to cook decent meal,even men sabi cook these days so wtf
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by ramatintin(m): 11:19am On Dec 07, 2021
Omo as a wife you must know to to cook. Imagine your husband comes from work and you serve him salty beans do u think he will smile and hug you. Learn how to cook lady's it's a basic skill don't be fooled by all these feminist garbage.
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Grandmeister(m): 11:19am On Dec 07, 2021
If you don't intend on having kids then it is not compulsory. I don't see how a reasonable MOTHER will be comfortable having her kids eat shyt.
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by HERITAGEFASHION(m): 11:20am On Dec 07, 2021
To Me That Should Be The Last Thing To Consider.
As Long As She Knows The Ethics Of Cleaning And She's Willing To Learn Cooking From Me,We Are Good.

What Most Men Can't Manage Is A Dirty Lady!
My Opinion
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Edusouls(m): 11:20am On Dec 07, 2021
New generation of Nigerian girls can’t cook, they can only boil white rice and indomie. This is terrible..
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Stevyne: 11:20am On Dec 07, 2021
Iyaebe:
Please is it compulsory that a lady must know how to cook before marriage? What if her fiance accepts her like that, should she still entertain any fears or she should go learn before the marriage.
If no be say you stewpid see question wey you deh ask
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by ramatintin(m): 11:20am On Dec 07, 2021
KingEverest:
Depends on the man she's about to marry, if he's ok with it or not undecided
lets stop deceiving ourselves with this narrative
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by mkoabiola: 11:21am On Dec 07, 2021
Mumu question
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Fourwinds: 11:21am On Dec 07, 2021
AdaSunshine:
Yes, it is very compulsory for a woman to know how to cook before marriage, if not for anything, for the sake of her children.
How can you as a woman nurture healthy children when you don't even know how to cook, how much more cook nutritional food?
A woman who does not know how to cook should endeavour to learn how to cook first before getting married.
Thank you....

End of discussion
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by optimusprime2(m): 11:21am On Dec 07, 2021
I used to say so...
Until I realised how much I spent on Restaurants weekly. It finally occurred to me, that home cooked food is irreplaceable.
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by ramatintin(m): 11:22am On Dec 07, 2021
Kobojunkie:
I don't eat Gala and Pesi since I can actually cook myself a good meal whenever I want. undecided

So, unless the next person is a world class chef, meaningless things like whether my partner can cook or not is not a stressor in my life and relationship. undecided
cap
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Peace1993: 11:22am On Dec 07, 2021
crackhaus:
This one that almost everybody is just talking about man and husband... cheesy

My own is, a woman that doesn't know how to to cook, how will she be able to feed her own children properly?

This is just one example of the many problems bedeviling you so-called modern women – una nor dey ever gree think further than the length of your wigs and fake eyelashes.




As the fiancé has accepted her like that, should the unborn kids who will require good nutrition for proper growth also accept her like that?
If una die na sense kill una
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by BabylonCruise(m): 11:22am On Dec 07, 2021
It's too sad that in our quest to sound woke we end up abandoning our ability to reason like human beings.
Some people are busy shouting "it's not a Must"
Sister let me ask one question that you have obviously not asked yourself.
What will your children eat when they start coming?
If your husband doesn't mind Your children definitely WILL.
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by kingandamy4life(m): 11:23am On Dec 07, 2021
Please if the woman does not know how to cook she should not complain when the man finds a good cook outside and should not start complaining he is cheating on me. You think is only sex we love, we love good food even better than sex sef
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by ajbiggie(m): 11:26am On Dec 07, 2021
Which kind mum question u dey asked, who is going to cook for the family abi u go employ cook?
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