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So about 3wks ago I summoned the courage to speak to the lady.Not minding my state financially and even my employment status. She said will pray about it.
I am familiar with this particular tactics of hers. She once said it to a man. That said he wants to marry her about a year ago...
She has said same to me to.
I am not surprised that ever since I spoke my mind to her, she hasnt made any contact with me. She has literally ghosted me. She doesn't even check my status.
Usually previously she shares job links with me on WhatsApp, etc. But she has stopped
I am particularly happy I talk to her because it made me know her through intentions/feelings towards me.

You already fu*ked yourself up right from the beginning and you can't expect her to agree to your proposal.

You are seeing yourself as inferior. You asked someone out, you lost your job during that period because of that you now ran away from her making yourself to look like someone of low quality... you stop calling, you stop the care and you want her to accept your proposal....tarh, is not done that way..

Now that she kept disturbing you, you now want to try your luck again... thats a big No... You are not reliable.

You are not bold.

You dont know what you want my bro.. go and get a job...

Una go dey carry toto matter for head instead of money matter.

SIMPly go and rest.....

Most women out there won't dive into a relationship with an unemployed man .

So don't sweat it

Get a job first bro

Healthrelatedjo:
Get a job first bro

Well, I will get a good job. The question or my concern is is she interested in me just like I do or she just want friendship. The latter is what I feel she wants. But I am really not comfortable with that. Even though she's a great person.

Let me be real with you OP;

You're a very unwise and weak man. I carefully read through all your threads, and I must confess that your cognitive thinking level is really below par.

May God help you. Amen.

Relationship wey no even start, dem don break ur heart!
Op u be correct emotional werey!

younglleo:
Relationship wey no even start, dem don break ur heart!
Op u be correct emotional werey!

You're a mad man too

Ocholu:
Let me be real with you OP;

You're a very unwise and weak man. I carefully read through all your threads, and I must confess that your cognitive thinking level is really below par.

May God help you. Amen.

I know people like you. You said you'd read through and this is the best you can offer.

Ebubechuwku:
You already fu*ked yourself up right from the beginning and you can't expect her to agree to your proposal.

You are seeing yourself as inferior. You asked someone out, you lost your job during that period because of that you now ran away from her making yourself to look like someone of low quality... you stop calling, you stop the care and you want her to accept your proposal....tarh, is not done that way..

Now that she kept disturbing you, you now want to try your luck again... thats a big No... You are not reliable.

You are not bold.

You dont know what you want my bro.. go and get a job...

Watin this one they talk? Mumu

Ebubechuwku:
You already fu*ked yourself up right from the beginning and you can't expect her to agree to your proposal.

You are seeing yourself as inferior. You asked someone out, you lost your job during that period because of that you now ran away from her making yourself to look like someone of low quality... you stop calling, you stop the care and you want her to accept your proposal....tarh, is not done that way..

Now that she kept disturbing you, you now want to try your luck again... thats a big No... You are not reliable.

You are not bold.

You dont know what you want my bro.. go and get a job...

I have gotten a job. I did last week.
But I need to know if she's interested

Iamzealousman:
I have gotten a job. I did last week.
But I need to know if she's interested

Concentrate on the job, and make money.

Congrats!

So I can move on with my life