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I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Goodlyhrt(m): 9:40pm On Dec 19, 2021
The story of my uncle's wedded life is a horrifying one.

My uncle has gotten more than he can ever bargain for in this journey of marriage.

The wife has been a source of sleepless nights and so much pain for my uncle. She is suffering from full blown madness that comes and goes, like when it strikes, my uncle will do all he can to bring her to normal. From endless borrowing to even taking long loans from his place of work to make sure she is revived. Which seems to be futile anyway as before long the illness will come back again.

This has been going on since they got married. And my uncle has been handling the situation like a good husband. There have been three episodes since I started staying with my uncle early 2018 but this last one seems to be the worst of its kind. Made worst actually by the economic situation of the country.

Because the people he goes to for help his christian colleagues in a redeemed parish cannot afford to help him again. Not thier fault.. as things has changed the past few months.

Anguish have taken over my dear uncle. Sometimes I fear for him not to take an extreme measure or for his health not to detoriate further. Do we start talking about millions in debt.

My uncle has become a symbol of "it shall not be my portion" and I don't want to advice him because I will make sure he severes any ties with the wife kpatakpata.

My self I am deeply affected as I cannot watch him suffer and refrain from helping him from the little I have. Right now I have given up my savings that was to fund my binance account for trading. And I will definitely borrow to help him as he's being like my other dad since I came to Lagos.

The story is long I'd have to stop here.

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Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Ulunne777(f): 9:45pm On Dec 19, 2021
Is their any diagnosis?Any triggers?

I pray for healing on his wife.

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Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Nobody: 9:46pm On Dec 19, 2021
Ok sorry for ur uncle. But what do u really want us to do now for ur uncle?

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Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Goodlyhrt(m): 9:49pm On Dec 19, 2021
SmellySperm:
Ok sorry for ur uncle. But what do u really want us to do for uncle now?
I just feel pity for him. He is suffering excess.. his children too. Guy looks older than my father that is atleast 6 yrs his senior.

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Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Moeman: 9:51pm On Dec 19, 2021
have you taken her to hospital?? if yes then its probably spiritual. She needs to sit down and think and know if she has ties to any deity and you people should pray alot. my mother had the same problem so i know how y'all feel.....may God see you through.

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Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by MufasaLion: 9:52pm On Dec 19, 2021
Sad.

In all you do, don't think of it as a spiritual problem.

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Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Nobody: 9:53pm On Dec 19, 2021
Goodlyhrt:
I just feel pity for him. He is suffering excess.. his children too. Guy looks older than my father that is atleast 6 yrs his senior.
I feel his grief... might be a spiritual problem but please stay clear from prayer houses. Just pray for her and be hopeful

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Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by NNtv(m): 9:55pm On Dec 19, 2021
Goodlyhrt:
The story of my uncle's wedded life is a horrifying one.

My uncle has gotten more than he can ever bargain for in this journey of marriage.

The wife has been a source of sleepless nights and so much pain for my uncle. She is suffering from full blown madness that comes and goes, like when it strikes, my uncle will do all he can to bring her to normal. From endless borrowing to even taking long loans from his place of work to make sure she is revived. Which seems to be futile anyway as before long the illness will come back again.

This has been going on since they got married. And my uncle has been handling the situation like a good husband. There have been three episodes since I started staying with my uncle early 2018 but this last one seems to be the worst of its kind. Made worst actually by the economic situation of the country.

Because the people he goes to for help his christian colleagues in a redeemed parish cannot afford to help him again. Not thier fault.. as things has changed the past few months.

Anguish have taken over my dear uncle. Sometimes I fear for him not to take an extreme measure or for his health not to detoriate further. Do we start talking about millions in debt.

My uncle has become a symbol of "it shall not be my portion" and I don't want to advice him because I will make sure he severes any ties with the wife kpatakpata.

My self I am deeply affected as I cannot watch him suffer and refrain from helping him from the little I have. Right now I have given up my savings that was to fund my binance account for trading. And I will definitely borrow to help him as he's being like my other dad since I came to Lagos.

The story is long I'd have to stop here.
Sorry for your uncle.
Have your uncle tried local solutions

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Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Goodlyhrt(m): 9:59pm On Dec 19, 2021
Moeman:
have you taken her to hospital?? if yes then its probably spiritual. She needs to sit down and think and know if she has ties to any deity and you people should pray alot. my mother had the same problem so i know how y'all feel.....may God see you through.
My uncle later conceded and has now taken her to the village for traditional remedy. 5 months now same story. With all the cost.. I don't know again Jaree.

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Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by SportsHD: 10:21pm On Dec 19, 2021
Euthanasia or commitment to a mental facility for life.

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Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Nobody: 10:27pm On Dec 19, 2021
Your uncle is suffering unnecessarily... He should take her to a mental institute and leave her there...

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Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by anthonyuncle(m): 10:48pm On Dec 19, 2021
pray for him.

encourage him with words also.

help him take care of some tasks and duties

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Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Nobody: 11:22pm On Dec 19, 2021
Goodlyhrt:
I just feel pity for him. He is suffering excess.. his children too. Guy looks older than my father that is atleast 6 yrs his senior.
tell your uncle to tell his wife to get some clean water, original honey, & a some little salt, purify the water by boiling it enough for drinkable, when it is exactly 1am in d midnight then add the honey & the little salt, into the purify water, nah just little salt oo. Then take ur bible, open & read psalm 29 & 44, three three times into the water, pray a long prayer of total healing & deliverance into water. After that the woman can be taking the water little little till it finish. U will see the great power of GOD, every chronic disease in her body she will urinate away, it`s a great prophetic work & it`s working. try & see

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Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Kobojunkie: 12:50am On Dec 20, 2021
Goodlyhrt:
My self I am deeply affected as I cannot watch him suffer and refrain from helping him from the little I have. Right now I have given up my savings that was to fund my binance account for trading. And I will definitely borrow to help him as he's being like my other dad since I came to Lagos.

The story is long I'd have to stop here.
In all this time, has your uncle actually taken his wife for mental health treatment and has she been taking her meds daily? undecided

If yes, what was her diagnosis? Is it the cost of treatment that has been eating up his money? Does the wife not work? undecided

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Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Kobojunkie: 12:51am On Dec 20, 2021
Goodlyhrt:
I just feel pity for him. He is suffering excess.. his children too. Guy looks older than my father that is atleast 6 yrs his senior.
Why exactly is your uncle suffering? What has he been spending his money on? Doesn't he and his wife work? undecided
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Kobojunkie: 12:53am On Dec 20, 2021
Goodlyhrt:
My uncle later conceded and has now taken her to the village for traditional remedy. 5 months now same story. With all the cost.. I don't know again Jaree.
What was it your uncle conceded to? undecided

Traditional remedy for what exactly?
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Originalsly: 4:37am On Dec 20, 2021
Didn't the wife had same problems before marriage? .... if yes I guess he was hoping a marriage will end it all. Most likely she has mental problems... should be taken to a psychiatric hospital. Does anyone in her family suffer the same? Your uncle need to stop dashing money .... a psychiatrist..... not pharmacist.... a psychiatrist should be able to prescribe drugs to control her flare ups.

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Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by pointblank247(m): 5:18am On Dec 20, 2021
Take her to a Sabbath Church.

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Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Imustnottalk: 5:37am On Dec 20, 2021
Nawa health is weakth any sickness taking so long to cure is not ordinary

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Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by BlackfireX: 5:51am On Dec 20, 2021
Maybe it is.....






Covers my mouth
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by shawnfamous(m): 6:38am On Dec 20, 2021
I feel pity for him too
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Moeman: 8:28am On Dec 20, 2021
Goodlyhrt:
My uncle later conceded and has now taken her to the village for traditional remedy. 5 months now same story. With all the cost.. I don't know again Jaree.
not about medicine..take note of everything she says and dose when she's better ask her questions...she probably made a promise and forgot to keep it

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Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Mide1data: 8:35am On Dec 20, 2021
HOLY SHIT

Give God a chance, take your uncle and his wife to the Global Crusade Great Explosion of Miracles happening in Lagos as from tomorrow. Live with pastor W.F Kumuyi and gospel minister Paul Baloche.
So many people have testified about their miracles even a Chinese girl all the way from China, an American in USA, and I bet yours won't be a difference.
It starts from Tuesday 21st-26st Sunday, December 2021.
You can either visit Lagos yrself, any local church nearest to you or join through any of his social media handles.

WHAT DA BLEEP IS HAPPENING

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Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Remman(m): 8:56am On Dec 20, 2021
He needs help. Sometimes, put yourself in people's shoes before you judge. If you were the wife and such a thing happened to you, you'd be happier if you have people who truly cares. Well, may God provide for him and heal his dear wife. On the other hand, your uncle is a hero. People like that are very rare. I've witnessed a husband who left his mad wife on the streets and remarry without doing anything about it. At my residence, there's this man who has mental issues. He has a big shop managed by his wife but he roams on the streets and sleeps outside in the colds while the wife flirt with almost all the men that she wants with the mad husband's money.

This your uncle has a special place in heaven. It's very rare for a man to put his life at debt risk over a full blown mad wife when there are so many women & in a society that permits polygamy. This is the real unconditional love, the actual for better for worse. Not a lot of women can do this for their husband.

May God help & bless this man... Amen!

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Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by ednut1(m): 9:14am On Dec 20, 2021
He should divorce na
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Sonnobax15(m): 9:18am On Dec 20, 2021
lipsrsealed
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by FactBoyz: 9:36am On Dec 20, 2021
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Optimistguy1969: 9:36am On Dec 20, 2021
Everyday, marriage wahala for Nairaland.


Where una dey see Karishika marry sef?
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by empressSkincare(f): 9:36am On Dec 20, 2021
Sorry ooo
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by emmalexdboy(m): 9:37am On Dec 20, 2021
We don't really know how to really help as there lots of details you left behind but the bottom line is: your uncle knows the source of the problem.

If he doesn't, then he should find the source of the problem and tackle it: whether spiritual or physical or village people follow follow spirit.

Once you know the source, you know how to deal with it. FIND THE SOURCE OF THE PROBLEM.

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Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Furcko: 9:37am On Dec 20, 2021
empressSkincare:
Sorr
Stop booking space

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