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Surulere.

chiipink:
If to say na yoruba woman forget it , she will be lashing out there those female yoruba tailors are something else

"Female married woman cheating" has no tribe.

Goodluck to you

FamilyAdviser:
Many relationship and family today have been teared apart because there is lack of trust.

Here is my true story!

It started early this year when I sensed that my wife I dated for 12years before marrying her maybe cheating on me.

My wife is a fashion designer, it happens that a particular number was calling her frequently and it was a male voice.

Each time her phone rang from this particular number at night, she will give the caller an excuse that she was busy and instruct him to call in the morning. After dropping the call, I would expect her to tell me who called but I noticed she usually abscond from discussing on it, so I wouldn't bother her or give her the reason to suspect I am not comfortable with her call.

Been a gentleman, I had never raised a hand on my wife even in our courtship. I always avoid arguments because it may lead to some uncertainties in our marriage so I need a enough evidence before unleashing the beast in me.

One fateful day, I over heard her telling the same caller "REMEMBER I AM MARRIED". That night I couldn't hold myself I vowed to double my lead in finding out who my wife was crushing on.

I made some contacts from experts and they billed me huge amount to record the callers conversation with my wife.

To cut the story short, I bought exact phone with my wife and one day I pretend as if I mistakenly took hers instead of mine, I took her phone to the technical gurus and something was installed, all my wife's call is now been recorded.

Within a space of days I replayed her conversation with the caller, behold it was her customer. The man is a Keke Rider and always have chance at night. All these while, my wife who is a professional tailor was sawing ashoebi cloths for his wife to be. The man is the one footing the bills and he is paying it gradually hence the conversation.

I was shocked, I became speechless. One day the man called again after she dropped the call I jokingly told her who called you abi na your catch? She replied "Godforbid baby while should you say things like that, I no Igbo tradition more than you do, any married man that sleeps with another man is bringing untimely death to her husband, I don't want to be widow she replied emotionally". I tendered her an apology and regretted why I allowed my emotions to judge my woman wrongly.

Since after this incident I concluded that many broken home today maybe as a result of lack of trust and communication.

As many innocent people are in prison for what they know nothing about so is many family broken for no just reasons.

If I don't have the money to track that caller I could have concluded that my wife is cheating on me and sent her packing.

May God give us the wisdom to manage our home!

Are you sure it happened and you are a man

Nice one.


But 12 years? O gah o

Op, you don't know women! A woman who is prepared to deceive you will do so successfully. The active word here is "prepared". Keep praying for that your wife because lust supercedes any culture or tradition. Only self control and Jesus can help.

"Godforbid baby while should you say things like that, I no Igbo tradition more than you do, any married man that sleeps with another man is bringing untimely death to her husband, I don't want to be widow she replied emotionally".

Is this true?
In other cultures eg Yoruba, Hausa etc, what is the repercussion.

Lool good thing you didn't open a thread on NL to table the matter. The red pillers gang would have had a field day, romance section boys would have finished your wife with their Chochocho and you too would have misbehaved.

If she had even told you he was a customers hubsband would you have believed.

Even as you have confirmed the main thing you can still see some of them flocking around to convince you otherwise.

Hmmmm

gasparpisciotta:
What if she is smarter than you ?

Just asking ooo!!!!

No punches meant!

Plot twist. (•‿•)

Keke rider toasting my wife??

I will make sure that Keke is seized and melted down to make spoons.

Your BP done calm down now.

You don give these cheating women mouth to talk now. They’ll be citing you as an excuse for flirting with other men.

You go soon see wetin you dey find.

BlackXabbath:
I thought she did the do too.

OP just stage.. Una that is a super story. Pigment of his imagination... Well nice story Sha.. Cos in the real life one no be Keke ride e go be.. E go be one good looking mobile on auto guy wey go dey give a doggy on a regular..

this OP is a capital SIMP.

I guess this will make you trust her forever abi?
Women are more smarter and emotionally manipulative than you think.

If ur story is not figment, I think ur wife made it to be suspicious.

Meanwhile, if ur wife is a social media user , find ways to log in into her social media account for final verification.

chiipink:
If to say na yoruba woman forget it , she will be lashing out there those female yoruba tailors are something else

Tribalism
Must you bring it in everything.? Cheating has nothing to do with tribe male and female cheat regardless of which tribe they come from..

gasparpisciotta:
What if she is smarter than you ?

Just asking ooo!!!!

No punches meant!

Tuale!

Really smart woman there, and she further used this to box him to a corner and submission

She replied "Godforbid baby while should you say things like that, I no Igbo tradition more than you do, any married man that sleeps with another man is bringing untimely death to her husband, I don't want to be widow she replied emotionally".

@op, make I smile jare.

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Confess to your wife and make a sincere apology to her

InTheCloudySky:
He has found out his wife is not cheating. That should be enough to remove all doubts from his mind as per her faithfulness to him, hence no need for him to continue recording her calls. Continuing would be taking it too far and invading her privacy.

Which privacy? Omo, I no get privacy for where my woman is abeg. Couples shouldn't.
Privacy ko, privacy ni.
My woman has access to my phone as she has to hers. She is free to call anyone she likes from my phone. None of my business

Women are very smart .... do not be surprised that she suspected you put something on her phone.

that's why communication is vital, there is nothing wrong in asking her who was calling since you're not comfortable with the call instead of going into that emotional pressure

Kudos to op

gasparpisciotta:
What if she is smarter than you ?

Just asking ooo!!!!

No punches meant!

Daleru daleru

FamilyAdviser:
Many relationship and family today have been teared apart because there is lack of trust.

Here is my true story!

It started early this year when I sensed that my wife I dated for 12years before marrying her maybe cheating on me.

My wife is a fashion designer, it happens that a particular number was calling her frequently and it was a male voice.

Each time her phone rang from this particular number at night, she will give the caller an excuse that she was busy and instruct him to call in the morning. After dropping the call, I would expect her to tell me who called but I noticed she usually abscond from discussing on it, so I wouldn't bother her or give her the reason to suspect I am not comfortable with her call.

Been a gentleman, I had never raised a hand on my wife even in our courtship. I always avoid arguments because it may lead to some uncertainties in our marriage so I need a enough evidence before unleashing the beast in me.

One fateful day, I over heard her telling the same caller "REMEMBER I AM MARRIED". That night I couldn't hold myself I vowed to double my lead in finding out who my wife was crushing on.

I made some contacts from experts and they billed me huge amount to record the callers conversation with my wife.

To cut the story short, I bought exact phone with my wife and one day I pretend as if I mistakenly took hers instead of mine, I took her phone to the technical gurus and something was installed, all my wife's call is now been recorded.

Within a space of days I replayed her conversation with the caller, behold it was her customer. The man is a Keke Rider and always have chance at night. All these while, my wife who is a professional tailor was sawing ashoebi cloths for his wife to be. The man is the one footing the bills and he is paying it gradually hence the conversation.

I was shocked, I became speechless. One day the man called again after she dropped the call I jokingly told her who called you abi na your catch? She replied "Godforbid baby while should you say things like that, I no Igbo tradition more than you do, any married man that sleeps with another man is bringing untimely death to her husband, I don't want to be widow she replied emotionally". I tendered her an apology and regretted why I allowed my emotions to judge my woman wrongly.

Since after this incident I concluded that many broken home today maybe as a result of lack of trust and communication.

As many innocent people are in prison for what they know nothing about so is many family broken for no just reasons.

If I don't have the money to track that caller I could have concluded that my wife is cheating on me and sent her packing.

May God give us the wisdom to manage our home!

ok you are lucky that all