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Jessepaid:
Hehehe...


Life wasn't fair to you...


You were disadvantaged...


Yet you never gave up and you had your breakthrough...



I like your spirit...




So long as you've settled your immediate family..



You are free to go abroad and hustle legally..


Nothing do you at all


About the girl, let her go...


That's all you can do for her nothing more..


God will bless you more

ibechris:
The only thing I can say here is that,u will surely pay for the sorrows u have caused us as a country,and the people u have made to cry by collecting their monies just to live large.

May God forgive u.

Daniel7543:
I'm depressed and heartbroken. Pls am not a good writer.

All my Life I've been a hustler. 2013 I was a school drop out in 200L due to financial issues. I had no money, no sponsor, my parents were also struggling. I started doing machanic work. I was a machanic for 3-4 years. My boss wasn't paying me well. I couldn't save money at all despite being good at it. And I wanted to go back to school.

2016 i moved to ijebu-ode with a friend to do farm work. He said Diamond Bank bought some acres of land for strictly agriculture including animal farming like fish ponds and poultry, so they need laborers/workers. They're willing to pay 25k monthly. Even aboki too dey apply for the job. Those of you that travels by road would understand how bushy and lonely ijebu-ode express road is. My friend and I was in that bush for over 10 months working our ass out. I was so dark and looking unkept. The job really took my energy that year.

I gathered little money abt 120k and I resigned. I used the money to start okirika (2nd hand clothes) business in kantagua market in Lagos to sustain myself. An old friend of mine in school back then inbox me on Facebook (he's now a graduate) We gist, laugh and exchange contact. He's doing well but He was into yahoo. He invited me to his place in abeokuta. He was actually showing me the way. I didn't like the lifestyle but I have no choice, I began to do yahoo. Over a year I didn't see 1 kobo. But hopes were rising.

2019 I collected abt #3million {6k euro}. It was like a dream, I don't know weda it's God handwork or I'm just lucky. I just remain focus in yahoo, I won't lie. Fast forward to last year June-july I went back to Benin, i met this girl, I told her my hustles and struggles. We started dating early this year. I took care of her. During her nysc I was the one who paid for her accommodation abt 150k.

I wanted to tie the knot. So last week Wednesday I told her about my plans I would like to see her parent for introduction on the 28th next week, since is public holiday. My girlfriend called me at the middle of the night abt 2am telling me "I don't have a degree, I'm not a graduate, I don't have a job. What will I tell her parent when i come for introduction, Her parent won't accept oo I shouldn't bother coming" . It was as if they poured very cold water on my body. She's now giving me attitude. I'm speechless. I explained to my friends this morning they said I should forget about her and I should just travel out.

For those of you saying I'm a simp or I can't help my family or my fellow man. Listen Infact I opened a restaurant for my mother. I bought 2 pieces of land for my father in the village. I'm taking care of my younger ones. I have also helped my fellow guy man. My hands are open.

Nairalanders, here are my plans. I want to travel to Germany, further my studies and work in an automobile company because that's what I'm good at. By the grace of God, April next year I'm planning to move. Am abt to sell my car so I can add it up with the money with me to process our visa. Yahoo has never been on my list nd it's becus of condition I did it.
I just want to settle down by January and travel with her. Age is not on my side. I'm 32. my girlfriend don't wanna listen, she's looking down on me.

Don't know what to do.

Daniel7543:
I'm depressed and heartbroken. Pls am not a good writer.

All my Life I've been a hustler. 2013 I was a school drop out in 200L due to financial issues. I had no money, no sponsor, my parents were also struggling. I started doing machanic work. I was a machanic for 3-4 years. My boss wasn't paying me well. I couldn't save money at all despite being good at it. And I wanted to go back to school.

2016 i moved to ijebu-ode with a friend to do farm work. He said Diamond Bank bought some acres of land for strictly agriculture including animal farming like fish ponds and poultry, so they need laborers/workers. They're willing to pay 25k monthly. Even aboki too dey apply for the job. Those of you that travels by road would understand how bushy and lonely ijebu-ode express road is. My friend and I was in that bush for over 10 months working our ass out. I was so dark and looking unkept. The job really took my energy that year.

I gathered little money abt 120k and I resigned. I used the money to start okirika (2nd hand clothes) business in kantagua market in Lagos to sustain myself. An old friend of mine in school back then inbox me on Facebook (he's now a graduate) We gist, laugh and exchange contact. He's doing well but He was into yahoo. He invited me to his place in abeokuta. He was actually showing me the way. I didn't like the lifestyle but I have no choice, I began to do yahoo. Over a year I didn't see 1 kobo. But hopes were rising.

2019 I collected abt #3million {6k euro}. It was like a dream, I don't know weda it's God handwork or I'm just lucky. I just remain focus in yahoo, I won't lie. Fast forward to last year June-july I went back to Benin, i met this girl, I told her my hustles and struggles. We started dating early this year. I took care of her. During her nysc I was the one who paid for her accommodation abt 150k.

I wanted to tie the knot. So last week Wednesday I told her about my plans I would like to see her parent for introduction on the 28th next week, since is public holiday. My girlfriend called me at the middle of the night abt 2am telling me "I don't have a degree, I'm not a graduate, I don't have a job. What will I tell her parent when i come for introduction, Her parent won't accept oo I shouldn't bother coming" . It was as if they poured very cold water on my body. She's now giving me attitude. I'm speechless. I explained to my friends this morning they said I should forget about her and I should just travel out.

For those of you saying I'm a simp or I can't help my family or my fellow man. Listen Infact I opened a restaurant for my mother. I bought 2 pieces of land for my father in the village. I'm taking care of my younger ones. I have also helped my fellow guy man. My hands are open.

Nairalanders, here are my plans. I want to travel to Germany, further my studies and work in an automobile company because that's what I'm good at. By the grace of God, April next year I'm planning to move. Am abt to sell my car so I can add it up with the money with me to process our visa. Yahoo has never been on my list nd it's becus of condition I did it.
I just want to settle down by January and travel with her. Age is not on my side. I'm 32. my girlfriend don't wanna listen, she's looking down on me.

Don't know what to do.

Daniel7543:
I just want to settle down by January and travel with her. Age is not on my side. I'm 32. my girlfriend don't wanna listen, she's looking down on me.

Don't know what to do.

Daniel7543:
I'm depressed and heartbroken. Pls am not a good writer.

All my Life I've been a hustler. 2013 I was a school drop out in 200L due to financial issues. I had no money, no sponsor, my parents were also struggling. I started doing machanic work. I was a machanic for 3-4 years. My boss wasn't paying me well. I couldn't save money at all despite being good at it. And I wanted to go back to school.

2016 i moved to ijebu-ode with a friend to do farm work. He said Diamond Bank bought some acres of land for strictly agriculture including animal farming like fish ponds and poultry, so they need laborers/workers. They're willing to pay 25k monthly. Even aboki too dey apply for the job. Those of you that travels by road would understand how bushy and lonely ijebu-ode express road is. My friend and I was in that bush for over 10 months working our ass out. I was so dark and looking unkept. The job really took my energy that year.

I gathered little money abt 120k and I resigned. I used the money to start okirika (2nd hand clothes) business in kantagua market in Lagos to sustain myself. An old friend of mine in school back then inbox me on Facebook (he's now a graduate) We gist, laugh and exchange contact. He's doing well but He was into yahoo. He invited me to his place in abeokuta. He was actually showing me the way. I didn't like the lifestyle but I have no choice, I began to do yahoo. Over a year I didn't see 1 kobo. But hopes were rising.

2019 I collected abt #3million {6k euro}. It was like a dream, I don't know weda it's God handwork or I'm just lucky. I just remain focus in yahoo, I won't lie. Fast forward to last year June-july I went back to Benin, i met this girl, I told her my hustles and struggles. We started dating early this year. I took care of her. During her nysc I was the one who paid for her accommodation abt 150k.

I wanted to tie the knot. So last week Wednesday I told her about my plans I would like to see her parent for introduction on the 28th next week, since is public holiday. My girlfriend called me at the middle of the night abt 2am telling me "I don't have a degree, I'm not a graduate, I don't have a job. What will I tell her parent when i come for introduction, Her parent won't accept oo I shouldn't bother coming" . It was as if they poured very cold water on my body. She's now giving me attitude. I'm speechless. I explained to my friends this morning they said I should forget about her and I should just travel out.

For those of you saying I'm a simp or I can't help my family or my fellow man. Listen Infact I opened a restaurant for my mother. I bought 2 pieces of land for my father in the village. I'm taking care of my younger ones. I have also helped my fellow guy man. My hands are open.

Nairalanders, here are my plans. I want to travel to Germany, further my studies and work in an automobile company because that's what I'm good at. By the grace of God, April next year I'm planning to move. Am abt to sell my car so I can add it up with the money with me to process our visa. Yahoo has never been on my list nd it's becus of condition I did it.
I just want to settle down by January and travel with her. Age is not on my side. I'm 32. my girlfriend don't wanna listen, she's looking down on me.

Don't know what to do.

maak400:
Even if the whole world tell you to leave your girlfriend, I know you will never listen until you shed premium tears. A girl has clearly told you that you're not fit to be her husband and you're still acting like a mumu and feeling sad because of a girl. You better leave woman matter and hustle to enjoy your life and help your family. Don't look at the money you have spent on her, just forget it and move on with your life and forget the girl totally.