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I remember back in the 70's, 80's, and in the 90's when it was very rare to find a broken home/marriage. Divorce/separation wasn't a day-to-day affair.
I think i can say with conviction that the marriage institution was sacred and unadulterated; which was what made marriage appealing.

In the past, before a man can think of giving his commitment to a lady, virginity was, mostly; the prerequisite, and all other things shall be added unto it. And, if the said intending married man sees nothing wrong in his woman not being a virgin, his family won't wholeheartedly accept, not talk of welcoming the said non-virgin lady into their home.
Some parents will, as a matter of fact, return the lady back to her parents. A thing of shame!

Rape or ravish was an uncommon incident. Our society was safe.
Men were virgins, women were virgins. Heaven is the goal; but, in this scenario: chastity is the goal.
And then, there was nothing like a lady requesting or demanding money from men. There was this level of contentment and self discipline/control.

Virginity, i will say, reflect one's character, upbringing, uprightness, level of chastity, etc. What is marriage when the bed is defiled? And, of the truth, virginity can not alone uphold a marriage. Who doesn't know that?

Now, in this so called liberal time, having sex before ejaculation last than marriage where you can get married today, divorce/separate tomorrow -- such is the state of today's marriage crisis.
But, what change? It was never like this in time past.

When i think deeply into this, the ONLY thing that change was...was...virginity! It ALL boils down to virginity.
Okay, you just said characters and upbringing defers. Fine!
But i beseech you, pray tell, if characters is what uphold marriage, why then has separations/divorces skyrocketed in this liberal times, but the same cannot be said in the past?

In the time past, men and women were virgins = sacred marriage structure

Liberal times, men and women threw virginity out the window = collapsed marriage structure.

This is the only written way i can verbalize/convey my thoughts.

This is what civilization has caused.

The same white pigs that brought Christianity to us are the one telling us that Sex is the ultimate goal in life. They start teaching their children how to satisfy each other right from primary school. They are even forcing nations to legalize homosexualism. Useless instruments of Satan.

StreetFight:
This is what civilization has caused.

True

The same white pigs that brought Christianity to us

I beg to differ on this, though. But continue.

are the one telling us that Sex is the ultimate goal in life. They start teaching their children how to satisfy each other right from primary school. They are even forcing nations to legalize homosexualism. Useless instruments of Satan.

@bolded can you imagine?