Its everywhere. I gave my uncle 150k to pay his son school fees following month he asked me for new year gift. I gave him 20k till now he hasn't even acknowledged the money.

But how do you guys keep meeting such lowlifes and leeches in human forms?

What is so hard in telling such persons that they should just get the fuck_ off and leave you alone?

Damn!

This so called Lolo Nneka is a useless person. We were not there when you have him 20k and his children 5k, he politely also asked for a phone for his wife thinking he can trust you to say YES or NO but instead you ran to social media like the fowl yánsh you are to embarrass someone just for likes and shares because we all know dragging pastors in Nigeria is the fastest way to gain social media engagement. He didn't command, he only pleaded yet you did this ? Wow

God work in mysterious ways, sometimes ignore your woke mentality and act like a fool, it could be the spirit of God testing you.


Giving have a special blessing attached to it no matter who you are giving to.



This lady ought not to have brought this to the public, she should have just closed eye and bought her an average Tecno phone or just ignored the message.


In life, always pray to be the giver even if the whole world is begging from you. As for me, I pray to be the one lending people money and if possible let my entire state or even Nigeria depend on me if God can grant that prayer.


You will never know what God did for you until you are dead broke and can't fend for yourself.

All ye that have, rejoice in the Lord and give to all that need help with joy.

Amotolongbo:
Since it is the spirit of God that sent him to the lady, the lady should harken to the word of the spirit and buy iPhone 12 pro max (512GB) for the Pastor’s wife!

May God bless you as you disobey me

hahahaaaaaasaaàs. U bad die.

I think that's how some people are when you start helping them often and often. They become so entitled. Had a friend that did something close to what the OP wrote.

jesusjnr2020:
People can be really inconsiderate though, not just the pastor. They just have this sense of entitlement, as if it was their right, so just do whatever you could to help whenever you're able to do so, so you don't get discouraged to help others because of such ingrates.

God bless.

This sister has already fallen into the man's trap, am sure if you have the money you will still buy the car for him.


The man is a Yahoo Boy, while you are the client. It is only God that can deliver you from him. You may soon be fallen in love with the man.

Why is he the only one you give to? Are there no other people in need around the place?



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZwJlWtL8jf0

How difficult is it to say NO?

The man added please

She could have turned down his request rather than bring this to the media

joinpreneur:
These days, it is very hard to find someone who does ministry with integrity. To find one, you will travel miles away.


Testaments of God to His People for the Glorious Year 2022
https://www.nairaland.com/6918874/testaments-god-people-glorious-year

there is still ,just that is very small. Like 5 out of 100

70 % of pastors make ridiculous demands in the name of the lord. God hasn’t made any man a channel to know or serve him unless u are lazy and unserious in knowing him then other taking undue advantage Will merchandise him to u.

That's the price you will pay when you associate with businessmen marauding as men of God. They're all the same.

You have tried for him lolo but you could have settled it out of social media.
God bless you

doggedfighter:




From the way you are quoting Bible justifying rubbish seems you are the pastor.

If you are a committed Christian, you will understand...

Nobody is justifying laziness, but giving is a comnandment succinctly exhorted to by God...

Bill Gates and other philanthropists spend billions of dollars each trying to help lift people they barely know out of poverty and disease...

See what we have here: a misguided young woman disturbing our peace over the gift of N20k to a "struggling pastor"...

Someone else would have obliged the fellow noiselessly.

Humility and circumspection are really great virtues...

Kobojunkie:
They are the thieves that Jesus Christ warned are come to steal from His sheep, kill the fat among His flock and destroy His flock in His name - Ezekiel 34 vs 1 - 16 & John 10 vs 1 - 16

This includes the big Men of God

Amotolongbo:
Since it is the spirit of God that sent him to the lady, the lady should harken to the word of the spirit and buy iPhone 12 pro max (512GB) for the Pastor’s wife!

May God bless you as you disobey me

Funny

MASTAkiLLAh:
This so called Lolo Nneka is a useless person. We were not there when you have him 20k and his children 5k, he politely also asked for a phone for his wife thinking he can trust you to say YES or NO but instead you ran to social media like the fowl yánsh you are to embarrass someone just for likes and shares because we all know dragging pastors in Nigeria is the fastest way to gain social media engagement. He didn't command, he only pleaded yet you did this ? Wow

She may have lost the rare opportunity to be super blessed this New Year with this clout chasing post she made.


She spoilt all the good works she did before

For me it's the phonelessness that cracked my rips and set me rolling on the floor.. small gods of men and their debased entitlements

maestroferddi:
If you are a committed Christian, you will understand...

Nobody is justifying laziness, but giving is a comnandment succinctly exhorted to by God...

Bill Gates and other philanthropists spend billions of dollars each trying to help lift people they barely know out of poverty and disease...

See what we have here: a misguided young woman disturbing our peace over the gift of N20k to a "struggling pastor"...

Someone else would have obliged the fellow noiselessly.

Humility and circumspection are really great virtues...

Its really sad.


She started well and ended badly.


Many people underrate power of giving. That power of giving is part of what made me who I am today.



Last year alone, I can't count how many cars I drove, it was as if I was a car dealer, to the extent someone at a filling station where I go to wash car jokingly told me that boss, be careful oh make them no kidnap you oh. I jokingly asked him why, he said bros you don change more than 5 cars in 2 months, I just smiled and borrowed sense from his statement.


My point is, I remember during my time of struggling, I cherished giving to people, just anybody. Sometimes I give almost all I had and I won't even be scared.


I even gave almost all my entire savings as a seed to a Church building project and when I got home I was so scared that I will go broke but a spirit in me reassured me not to worry. Giving unlucks supernatural blessings.


Givers with joy never lack no matter what, I am a living witness and my wife is yet to come to terms with my giving spirit, sometimes she will be like, na wa oh, take am easy oh and I will tell her, you won't understand cos truly she won't understand, it's between me and my maker.


I cherish giving a lot


Dear God, make me a giver to nations and I promise not to grumble.

franchasng:
God work in mysterious ways, sometimes ignore your woke mentality and act like a fool, it could be the spirit of God testing you.


Giving have a special blessing attached to it no matter who you are giving to.



This lady ought not to have brought this to the public, she should have just closed eye and bought her an average Tecno phone or just ignored the message.


In life, always pray to be the giver even if the whole world is begging from you. As for me, I pray to be the one lending people money and if possible let my entire state or even Nigeria depend on me if God can grant that prayer.


You will never know what God did for you until you are dead broke and can't fend for yourself.

All ye that have, rejoice in the Lord and give to all that need help with joy.

It's all well and good,but the pastor goofed by saying that he wanted the phone ' because his wife needed the phone'

Suppose she gave him the phone? What lesson is she teaching the kids? Status is more important than godly living?

Then the pastor earlier asked fr car because ' children are ashamed their daddy does not have a car'

So someone must dash pastor car so that God would be glorified, or so that children would be happy that pastor daddy has car and they can stand up with pride among their mates?
Is that godly behaviour?

Besides the pastor is in essence begging for material goods and services, not for things that would advance the kingdom.He wants to keep his family happy , not God happy?

I grew up in a house where we did not have things like VCR, telephone, color television, etc. My classmantes had better things than I did. Was I sad we did not have those things? Yes. But we learned a lesson, not to value material things.

Pastor wants to buy things ,not glorify God.

Of course, many Pentecostal and other denominations don't pay their pastor's well. That's a big problem highlited by this story. But it does not excuse this man's behaviour

Incase you don't know, the pastor has this strong conviction that God is using you for him, as long as you keep helping him he will continue demanding. Stop the financial support for sometime.

maestroferddi:
If you are a committed Christian, you will understand...

Nobody is justifying laziness, but giving is a comnandment succinctly exhorted to by God...

Bill Gates and other philanthropists spend billions of dollars each trying to help lift people they barely know out of poverty and disease...

See what we have here: a misguided young woman disturbing our peace over the gift of N20k to a "struggling pastor"...

Someone else would have obliged the fellow noiselessly.

Humility and circumspection are really great virtues...

I know you are one of those pastors living off people.




Reason you are not happy she gave 20k and refused to give a car and phone.

Everyone should go and work.

Or go and ask Jesus you're working for, for money.

Kobojunkie:
Sad and disgusting what these blind teachers and prophets resort to in the name of God.

She was coddling a grown man and is reaping the results.

Pastors abroad work for their keep, as far as the ones I've met. But the Nigerian ones want their flock to feed them, then beat their chests on their pulpits that they can never be poor in loud bragging voices. Yet it is the members feeding them.

Their god must be so lopsided.

Kobojunkie:
Also....
Jesus Christ didn't send us out to be enablers of evil but of good.

You didn't see.1Tim.5:8, 1Thessalonians 2:9-12.
He should go and work and stop disguising as spiritual yahoo fellow.

Must you come and tell the world



You gave ordinary #20k

illicit:
U encouraged him

Infact u are his mugu

Maga


Shege danboroba

#Gbam you got it...The Op is just trying to wave it aside when in reality she is a Maga. So the pastor is the only struggling in your area that you have to transfer the mugu to your friend.

MASTAkiLLAh:
This so called Lolo Nneka is a useless person. We were not there when you have him 20k and his children 5k, he politely also asked for a phone for his wife thinking he can trust you to say YES or NO but instead you ran to social media like the fowl yánsh you are to embarrass someone just for likes and shares because we all know dragging pastors in Nigeria is the fastest way to gain social media engagement. He didn't command, he only pleaded yet you did this ? Wow

You are that pastor are shameless ones for using God said to hustle car and phone from a vulnerable person. Tufiakwa.

Is it not too early for tales like this?

jesusjnr2020:
People can be really inconsiderate though, not just the pastor. They just have this sense of entitlement, as if it was their right, so just do whatever you could to help whenever you're able to do so, so you don't get discouraged to help others because of such ingrates.

God bless.

Sometimes to even start being kind becomes scary.

franchasng:
Its really sad.


She started well and ended badly.


Many people underrate power of giving. That power of giving is part of what made me who I am today.



Last year alone, I can't count how many cars I drove, it was as if I was a car dealer, to the extent someone at a filling station where I go to wash car jokingly told me that boss, be careful oh make them no kidnap you oh. I jokingly asked him why, he said bros you don change more than 5 cars in 2 months, I just smiled and borrowed sense from his statement.


My point is, I remember during my time of struggling, I cherished giving to people, just anybody. Sometimes I give almost all I had and I won't even be scared.


I even gave almost all my entire savings as a seed to a Church building project and when I got home I was so scared that I will go broke but a spirit in me reassured me not to worry. Giving unlucks supernatural blessings.


Givers with joy never lack no matter what, I am a living witness and my wife is yet to come to terms with my giving spirit, sometimes she will be like, na wa oh, take am easy oh and I will tell her, you won't understand cos truly she won't understand, it's between me and my maker.


I cherish giving a lot


Dear God, make me a giver to nations and I promise not to grumble.

Don't you think he is taking advantage of her at this point? His wife needs a new years present? His children want a car? If all the projections he gave her were fake, don't you think he is an opportunist?

jesusjnr2020:
People can be really inconsiderate though, not just the pastor. They just have this sense of entitlement, as if it was their right, so just do whatever you could to help whenever you're able to do so, so you don't get discouraged to help others because of such ingrates.

God bless.

I haven't seen such. Only my ugly scarry black face like Mr. Ibu no go let u ask me money agaiy

jesusjnr2020:
People can be really inconsiderate though, not just the pastor. They just have this sense of entitlement, as if it was their right, so just do whatever you could to help whenever you're able to do so, so you don't get discouraged to help others because of such ingrates.

God bless.

I haven't seen such. Only my ugly scarry black face like Mr. Ibu no go let u ask me money again.