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AlexanderOkey:
Hey guys, i'm not writing to mock anyone but I need to know if I was wrong in my actions.

Ladies should really stop asking for money from guys who aren't their boyfriends/husbands/business partners or who they don't intend to sleep with. At least nothing above 5-10k lets not confuse ourselves.

So I met this lady through my colleague at the office. All three of us hung out the first time and we exchanged numbers and started chatting on whatsapp. Since then we haven't seen as i'm always busy and most times I don't really follow up as I don't really have time. But we were always chatting. Some weeks after we met she called me that she needed my help and was broke. I called my friend to tell him about it and he asked me to send her some money if my mind was okay with it. The next day I sent her 10k with no strings attached. I just saw it as a friend helping another friend out. This was about two months ago.

Fast forward yesterday, this same girl called me that she needed my help urgently. I asked the problem and she said her rent had expired and she needed money. Asked how much and she said 300k. I told her I didn't have that much but she said I can help out with like 100k. I just paused like this girl really looks at me like a maga. She didn't even mention it as a loan. Secondly I don't even loan girls money because of my experience with them. If i can afford it I give, if I cannot afford it I tell them I don't have rather than loan them and time to pay it will become common 100k.

I told her to meet up and just this morning I woke up to list of insults from this girl saying how i'm just like every other guy and we all want the same thing because she asked me for money. I go so upset and insulted her back and blocked immediately but I really want to know from other guys, is that how you people dash out 100k to your female friends? Am I the odd one out? And im not an angel, if given the chance yes I wanted to smash before giving that 100k because I know she won't pay back as a loan.

This is someone that has never even bought me N100 airtime before. Even a happy birthday wish on my birthday I didn't get. No positive impact, nothing at all.

Girls that request for money from guys without wanting to give anything do they think that's how we give out money to our fellow guys? As a guy I know the friends I can call if I need 100k and it will be a loan not even as gift. Secondly they will give me because they know what I have done for them and future business we will still do. Most guys I know as hi, hi, friends will simply tell me they don't have if I ask because they have never gained anything from me. Nothing goes for nothing in this world honestly even between us guys so why do you people feel bad when a guy asks for something in return?

I stand to be corrected though.

AlexanderOkey:
Hey guys, i'm not writing to mock anyone but I need to knàow if I was wrong in my actions.

Ladies should really stop asking for money from guys who aren't their boyfriends/husbands/business partners or who they don't intend to sleep with. At least nothing above 5-10k lets not confuse ourselves.

So I met this lady through my colleague at the office. All three of us hung out the first time and we exchanged numbers and started chatting on whatsapp. Since then we haven't seen as i'm always busy and most times I don't really follow up as I don't really have time. But we were always chatting. Some weeks after we met she called me that she needed my help and was broke. I called my friend to tell him about it and he asked me to send her some money if my mind was okay with it. The next day I sent her 10k with no strings attached. I just saw it as a friend helping another friend out. This was about two months ago.

Fast forward yesterday, this same girl called me that she needed my help urgently. I asked the problem and she said her rent had expired and she needed money. Asked how much and she said 300k. I told her I didn't have that much but she said I can help out with like 100k. I just paused like this girl really looks at me like a maga. She didn't even mention it as a loan. Secondly I don't even loan girls money because of my experience with them. If i can afford it I give, if I cannot afford it I tell them I don't have rather than loan them and time to pay it will become common 100k.

I told her to meet up and just this morning I woke up to list of insults from this girl saying how i'm just like every other guy and we all want the same thing because she asked me for money. I go so upset and insulted her back and blocked immediately but I really want to know from other guys, is that how you people dash out 100k to your female friends? Am I the odd one out? And im not an angel, if given the chance yes I wanted to smash before giving that 100k because I know she won't pay back as a loan.

This is someone that has never even bought me N100 airtime before. Even a happy birthday wish on my birthday I didn't get. No positive impact, nothing at all.

Girls that request for money from guys without wanting to give anything do they think that's how we give out money to our fellow guys? As a guy I know the friends I can call if I need 100k and it will be a loan not even as gift. Secondly they will give me because they know what I have done for them and future business we will still do. Most guys I know as hi, hi, friends will simply tell me they don't have if I ask because they have never gained anything from me. Nothing goes for nothing in this world honestly even between us guys so why do you people feel bad when a guy asks for something in return?

I stand to be corrected though.

MJBOLT:

if they ask you for money, what's stopping you from saying No??
Na una dey always cause problem for una self,abeg get out.

MrCork:
brother if u broke...juss say so n quit naggin!!(no oofenese)

Senomi:
If you date any nigerian girl you must give her ur blood + ur money, while she go give u only boxers, singlets,biro, key holder .

And yet she will claim to have given you heaven and earth

Some may even claim to have given you long life and prosperity

GoodHardDick:
OP, you gave her 10k? you're a SIMP!!!
why on earth would you give her that money??

You just met an international Olosho plus a coded runz girl who wanted to turn you into her maga. She wanted to use you and cash out and after which she'll dump you and move on to the next available guy to continue the billing

You should know 99.9% of Nigeria girls are thieves and so full of entitlement mentality. They feel men MUST give them money just because he simply said ''hi'' to them. Imagine the idiot wanted to reap where she did not sow

This is why I advised every guy out there to become a red piller immediately, so as to avoid being manipulated and controlled by these ladies. This is a new year and no guy is expected to simp around.

MJBOLT:

if they ask you for money, what's stopping you from saying No??
Na una dey always cause problem for una self,abeg get out.

MJBOLT:

if they ask you for money, what's stopping you from saying No??
Na una dey always cause problem for una self,abeg get out.

AlexanderOkey:
Mehn, my mistake oo because my friend encouraged me I thought I was helping someone in need not knowing its a set up for further billing. Worst part is she was talking about the money like it was for dash. Not even saying if she will pay back or when.

MJBOLT:

if they ask you for money, what's stopping you from saying No??
Na una dey always cause problem for una self,abeg get out.

AlexanderOkey:
Broke?? Haha!! Not broke just don't have 100k to dash around. More important things to do with it. Since you're so rich you can have her number if you want and help her na

MrCork:
Really, i payed a lady 200k in November juss for chillin wit me for 2hour.she was shock but very happy & then when she ask for my nomba, i told her not to woooooory simply becuz 200k is no big deal...i only do this when somebody make me very happy.women dhold be treated like queens..pirrrrrod!!!!((REAL TALK))

Duchessree:
You would have simply told her you don't have any money to give her, instead of telling her to meet up (I'm suspecting this your "meet-up" implies sex*) before you give her the 100k .

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I'm sure your mother must have asked for 2k , You might have mentioned No...

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AlexanderOkey:
Ah young billionaire sorry oo. Not all of us have 200k to give out just for chilling. Yes ladies should be treated like queens but not when you insult me first I was only angry she resorted to insults. I only told her lets see. I just wanted to know if its a loan and how she will pay back. She assumed I wanted to see to smash and started insulting me. Like i said you can help her with her rent if you want.

Duchessree:
You would have simply told her you don't have any money to give her, instead of telling her to meet up (I'm suspecting this your "meet-up" implies sex*) before you give her the 100k .

AlexanderOkey:
Honestly if she had explained how she will pay back or we reached an agreement I might have given her so why say no? It's the insult that pain me pass

AlexanderOkey:
Didn't even have smashing in mind, not saying if it came up I wouldn't, but did you expect me to just transfer 100k like that without seeing and discussing terms? Someone that I've only hung out with once and since then it's just money request. Honestly I would have given her if we discussed and I was sure she would pay that's why I never said no.