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They say to err is human.
I have always wondered why it's so difficult to forgive

Forgive person may de Bleep around like charity organization....

Its in GOD nature and not dat of man.

Bluesea1and2:
They say to err is human.
I have always wondered why it's so difficult to forgive

Cos Some have been hurt way too much...If you hurt them again the trust that is required to forgive you is harder to get back..Some can't just let go..


The person's EGO has a big part to play in it too..Because in order to forgive someone you must first accept that not everyone is perfect that people are not always in control of their actions and words...this is something most people don't have..
They feel once you hurt them you are forever responsible for their suffering..

When you are wounded both emotionally or physically it takes time to heal hence the saying " injuries heal with time".
Our systems is designed that way.
Is it easy now?

It’s not difficult to forgive. It’s difficult to forget. People tend to confuse both together. You can forgive and remember who hurt you. That’s what happens mostly anyway.

Even God did not completely forgive Adam and Eve. Instead He chased them away to start suffering that’s how I got to Nigeria.

if you learn to move on maybe one day you forgive.

Carchoice:
Even God did not completely forgive Adam and Eve. Instead He chased them away to start suffering that’s how I got to Nigeria.

Hmm deep

Forgiving isn’t my problem … forgetting is my problem