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It'd be 27 this year...
I can't speak my local dialect fluently.
I am good at writing English language.
But I am not an articulate speaker of English.

Most times, I make big blunders while I speak.
Which are not intended.
I get lost for words to say while communicating to the extent that I stutter a lot
I am an introvert.

Adekunlegold9ja:
It'd be 27 this year...
I can't speak my local dialect fluently.
I am good at writing English language.
But I am not an articulate speaker of English.

Most times, I make big blunders while I speak.
Which are not intended.
I get lost for words to say while communicating to the extent that I stutter a lot
I am an introvert.

...listen to news more both local and foreign..read write ups online, anything of your interest and if you love football,listen keenly to commentaries..all those will help improve your grammar...on the aspect of you being an introvert,just relate more with people that share your area of interest,trust me you will start sharing good conversation with them...good luck

Adekunlegold9ja:
It'd be 27 this year...
I can't speak my local dialect fluently.
I am good at writing English language.
But I am not an articulate speaker of English.

Most times, I make big blunders while I speak.
Which are not intended.
I get lost for words to say while communicating to the extent that I stutter a lot
I am an introvert.

It is simple, I use to have that problem before now I am a very skilled orator.

1. Do not be scared to make blunder. It makes you nervous and causes you to make more blunder.

2. If you have intention of speaking in public, make sure you practice in front of a mirror. Record your voice. You are not actually doing it to practice what to say, rather you are doing so to build confidence.

3. Before you talk, think. Make a picture of what you want to say in points. From those points buttress on that.

4. If you have nothing to say, then keep shut. Most people just want to talk even though they have no tangible things to say. This is what lead to blunder in speech sometimes.

5. At night before you sleep make a review of important conversation you contributed to, and think of ways you would have contributed better, most especially the choice of words to be used.

6. When you make blunders and you notice, move on. Don't try to correct yourself at the time you made the blunder.

7. When others are talking, it is advisable you don't talk, just listen. Listen to what everybody says and then chip in your little contribution. People who listens are often perceived as a good communicator than people who just keep talking; even though the good listener end up saying nothing.

I hope it helps.
It helped me though

Pick a role model online and behave like them in reality.

Adekunlegold9ja:
It'd be 27 this year...
I can't speak my local dialect fluently.
I am good at writing English language.
But I am not an articulate speaker of English.

Most times, I make big blunders while I speak.
Which are not intended.
I get lost for words to say while communicating to the extent that I stutter a lot
I am an introvert.

First thing first, your problem with communication has absolutely nothing to do with your being an introvert or not.

Second, if your problem has entirely to do with speech, then you could easily train yourself by watching and imitating others. You could repeat after characters while watching movies and practice on your own to improve your ability to express yourself in different situations.

Third, if however, the problem is due to possible mental illness- anxiety or even aphasia, then I suggest you please visit a doctor or psychiatrist for help in getting you back to regaining your ability to comfortably communicate.

Seek God

sorority11:
It is simple, I use to have that problem before now I am a very skilled orator.

1. Do not be scared to make blunder. It makes you nervous and causes you to make more blunder.

2. If you have intention of speaking in public, make sure you practice in front of a mirror. Record your voice. You are not actually doing it to practice what to say, rather you are doing so to build confidence.

3. Before you talk, think. Make a picture of what you want to say in points. From those points buttress on that.

4. If you have nothing to say, then keep shut. Most people just want to talk even though they have no tangible things to say. This is what lead to blunder in speech sometimes.

5. At night before you sleep make a review of important conversation you contributed to, and think of ways you would have contributed better, most especially the choice of words to be used.

6. When you make blunders and you notice, move on. Don't try to correct yourself at the time you made the blunder.

7. When others are talking, it is advisable you don't talk, just listen. Listen to what everybody says and then chip in your little contribution. People who listens are often perceived as a good communicator than people who just keep talking; even though the good listener end up saying nothing.

I hope it helps.
It helped me though

I developed a wrong habit... Through a suggestion by people. To participate in football argument in viewing centres.

This has done more harm than good to me

Adekunlegold9ja:
It'd be 27 this year...
I can't speak my local dialect fluently.
I am good at writing English language.
But I am not an articulate speaker of English.

Most times, I make big blunders while I speak.
Which are not intended.
I get lost for words to say while communicating to the extent that I stutter a lot
I am an introvert.

When ever you are with people or discussing with people, use simple English tense

Adekunlegold9ja:
I developed a wrong habit... Through a suggestion by people. To participate in football argument in viewing centres.

This has done more harm than good to me

Then stop arguing.