MufasaLion:


Not everyone wants kids. Why is it difficult you to understand?

Thanks for clearing the air. Nigerian are too backward, oyibo don't see having kids as achievement.

dettolgel:


Did you hear me complain about the man's choice?

This one pain you, I am so sorry but I just have to tell you the simple truth of the fate that awaits your likes.

For you to react that way shows that you had a miserable upbringing. Am so sorry for your pains, but it's not my fault and don't think everyone will have same experience as you did. I think you need a psychological therapist.

MITCHELL96:
Lmao Wtf is this ??


This guy Na big werey, So will having kids ruin you ?

You're not a man jare, Abeg getat!

You're talking as if not having kids will ruin you

A King! What are women going to hold as leverage now?

Healthrelatedjo:
U go later regret this ur action.

Nobi small regret, and that Vasco can be revised ,

YOU SHOULD JUST RUN AND JOIN " THE REVEREND FATHERSHIP"

Reverend Fada work will fit you now.

Every mallam and him own kettle.

He had to make it public so that no Slay mama will come tomorrow and say "You made me pregnant" "I am carrying your baby"


Smart guy. Totally his choice.

Dextre:


That’s a regret sir, no need for sugarcoating. 10-20years down the line, he will regret it and that’s fact. But then again, it’s his decision

who's this clichè human being?

Fcwilly:


For you to react that way shows that you had a miserable upbringing. Am so sorry for your pains, but it's not my fault and don't think everyone will have same experience as you did. I think you need a psychological therapist.

Hahaha. Based on what I do for living I see idiots like you and their offsprings seeking for help. Well I don't judge them as it is my job to provide them the help they seek.

But outside official capacity I try to call people like you back to your senses. The problem with half wits like you is that you can neither help yourself nor can any form of rehabilitation. Lol

Anyways like I said you know the options available to you, you either do the right thing or people like us with the means will turn your daughters to low key olosho.

When they ask for quick 2k we will give them but we must shift their pants because their papa born pikin wey he no fit train.

Bros please go ahead and keep supplying we Naija men with young and fresh low key olosho.

If na boy e go enter street hard go touch am. Lol

Fcwilly:
Hope you will not call my children to send them on errand? Because na that time thunderbolt go strike you dead.

So the first thing you can think of concerning kid-adult relationship, is errands?


Seems like the guy really made the right choice for himself afterall

Dextre:


That’s a regret sir, no need for sugarcoating. 10-20years down the line, he will regret it and that’s fact. But then again, it’s his decision

How did you arrive at this conclusion about a random guy on the Internet? Do you now him personally to know that he will surely regret it?

Do you know if he has a genetic disorder that he does not want to pass on? Do you know what actually drives his decision?

Nigerians and jumping to conclusions based on little or no information is like 5 & 6.

DownChelsea:


So the first thing you can think of concerning kid-adult relationship, is errands?


Seems like the guy really made the right choice for himself afterall

Don't mind that fool. I am sure he is among the 'bless us gang" or "do give away for us".

Leebeedo:
He's gonna die alone, with his dog

And you going to die with your kids?

Leebeedo:
He's gonna die alone, with his dog

Everybody dies ALONE. Death per se is not an issue for the dead. How one dies is the problem.


Physiologically speaking, there is no difference between a dead rat and a dead man.

E no fit regret anything

Those wey born like pigs down nko up north, no be almajiri dem dey do up and down

Healthrelatedjo:
U go later regret this ur action.

Not stupid, you wronf

illicit:
Stupid

Shut up, na nonsense you dey talk

MITCHELL96:
Lmao Wtf is this ??


This guy Na big werey, So will having kids ruin you ?

You're not a man jare, Abeg getat!

Your Grammar too much
.his decision and cup of tea

advanceDNA:


Lol...I understand it..it’s not difficult...
u are the one that doesn’t understand that every decision, opinion, desire or mentality stem out or is driven by a premise...

There’s always a psychological reason behind these decision. Sometimes, the person may not even know about it, because it has been hidden in the past or subconscious as coping mechanism of the mind..

It could be fear of failure
Childhood pain caused by parent
Abandonment fear..
Self-esteem issues..

The list is almost endless..

His choice

There's level to all this dramas.

I don't know if it's melodramatic or tragic but this kain thing dey Taya me o

He knows there's something wrong with his lineage and he wouldn't want that evil to continue. Good choice, if you asked me

Even those who are not responsible towards their kids will crucify him. It is his life and his code. We shouldn't discuss it.

What a way forward. Humans can never be 100% rational. Even Jesus had small irrationality for him head.
He knows what is good for him. He didn't do anything stupid.
Infact am doing mine tomorrow

Healthrelatedjo:
U go later regret this ur action.

He's already regretting na him make put am online to console himself and lead others into abyss. Haven't watched transgender persons that are regretting?

Him suppose sell am give infertile person wey need am

His life, his choice.

He can still have kids.

Testicular sperm aspiration (TESA) is a sperm extraction operation where the testes can be injected and the sperm extacted with little discomfort.

Vasectomy (Less than 50k and done in under 30 mins) is just about cutting off the sperm delivery tubing called the Vas Deferens. The body still continues to produce sperm. That can be pulled out when needed.

TESA depending on where it is done can cost around 250k. That way, he can have a baby with whomever he wants and whenever he is ready for it.

https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/treatment-tests-and-therapies/sperm-retrieval-procedures#:~:text=for%20sperm%20harvesting%3A-,Testicular%20sperm%20aspiration%20(TESA),and%20tissue%2Fsperm%20are%20aspirated.

MufasaLion:


He might not. Well, later in life, he might wish he had kids (maybe a thought of that just flashed through his mind for few minutes) but that doesn't make it a regret.

treatise:


He's already regretting na him make put am online to console himself and lead others into abyss. Haven't watched transgender persons that are regretting?

Dextre:


That’s a regret sir, no need for sugarcoating. 10-20years down the line, he will regret it and that’s fact. But then again, it’s his decision

groovie:
What's the problem here?? The procedure is reversible.

SIRTee15:


U think every one reason like a typical African man.
Having a child is an individual thing influenced by personal decision. There's nothing like regret.
There are married couples here in western countries who prefer to own a dog for companion than have children. It's their choice.
Lord lugard that created the misery called Nigeria had no child. Yet u guys won't stop talking about him.

meedoLock:
It doesn't just sound ok enough, I mean, people will just do the unthinkable probably to stand out amongst the usual route of everyone or at times for no genuine reasons.

Even if he doesn't want to father a kid, I don't think he needs to go through this expensive surgery that the money could av being used for something productive. But people will say 'his money his problem'

We are all just reasoning anyway.

Very Stupid decision! Children are gifts from God, very lovely creatures.

Hit me up for your academic research writing services!

dettolgel:


Does this your long grammar holds true for those who have kids?

Because from the look of thinks most Nigerians start having kids because they believe that since nothing else is working at least let start having family while we watch things improve.

But I am yet to see people going after them with the same logic of yours?

Mayb u missed my point, which is common in in dialogues on nairaland...especially when people jump in the middle of a dialogue after

My point is every decision is driven by something.... it could be environmental/social psychological, medical, etc....that’s someone psych 101

People who just give birth because they can or because everyone is doing it are perhaps driven by family, social or environmental condition... is it right? Who cares. It’s not a right or wrong issue..

The man’s decision up there is also not a right or wrong decision...however, my comment was in response to someone who said some people don’t just want kids.... it’s not true.. something always influences these kinds decision, which are the examples I gave..

aribisala0:
Is having a kid changeable
once he has started using Mpopomiri do you behead him?
If you want to argue learn better use of logic

There are many kids in this Nigeria that it is better they were not born
Often this is predictable when you look at the background but people deceive themselves quoting God.
I would take it further and say even beyond choice not everyone should be ALLOWED to have children

U obviously ddnt get my point...so why jump at my comment just to respond

advanceDNA:


Mayb u missed my point, which is common in in dialogues on nairaland...especially when people jump in the middle of a dialogue after

My point is every decision is driven by something.... it could be environmental/social psychological, medical, etc....that’s someone psych 101

People who just give birth because they can or because everyone is doing it are perhaps driven by family, social or environmental condition... is it right? Who cares. It’s not a right or wrong issue..

The man’s decision up there is also not a right or wrong decision...however, my comment was in response to someone who said some people don’t just want kids.... it’s not true.. something always influences these kinds decision, which are the examples I gave..

Okay I completely agree with you that every decision we make in life no matter how big or small is influenced by something.

But you could have still passed your point across without being a drama queen with your opening sentence just the way I would have ended mine without calling you a drama queen.