Blackdisciple:
He is a mumu man jail his sorry ass

BigBashiru:


If he has a good lawyer he won't go to jail. Females are fond of keeping their own money so stress can kill the man....

I'm not condoning murder though but his lawyer can argue mental distress.

Lokojatoofar:
Some men will lavish the money once you tell them you have it and share your plan.
If you fear that they wont let the money rest and hide the fact you have the money and invest it wisely, they set you on fire when they gind out.

Lokojatoofar:


Its like a woman saying she killed her husband because he has a side chick which did not allow him care for the home in any way. Will you excuse such a wife?

BigBashiru:


People should discuss terms before getting into marriage. The woman breached her "help meet" terms.

I told my wife before we got married that I will hv side chicks and she has to be okay with it.

If they both agreed no side chick then the man has breached terms. How serious is the breach though? [s]He gives money to run the house and gives his wife attention but has his side chick. [/s]The truth of the matter is that because of how the dating and marriage scene has played out, a man having a side chick is his right.

Lokojatoofar:



So if a wife is doing all her wifey duties, having a man service her when you are out of service and she is in the mood is also justified? Or you also believe that a woman should not think of sex unless her husband thinks of it for his satisfaction?
And did you hear that she stopped playing her wifey roles after she bought those properties? Even If she did not, what exactly was her crime that he had to lay his hands on her? When he buys properties, is he forced to buy in her own name?
Is it not same you guys that insist a woman should endure marital wahala or leave if she cant cope instead of killing the man?

Lokojatoofar:



So if a wife is doing all her wifey duties, having a man service her when you are out of service and she is in the mood is also justified? Or you also believe that a woman should not think of sex unless her husband thinks of it for his satisfaction?
And did you hear that she stopped playing her wifey roles after she bought those properties? Even If she did not, what exactly was her crime that he had to lay his hands on her? When he buys properties, is he forced to buy in her own name?
Is it not same you guys that insist a woman should endure marital wahala or leave if she cant cope instead of killing the man?

Kabongo1:
Two wrongs don't make it right.

What was the motivation behind hiding her investments? Was the man not feeding the family and taking care of bills?
He shouldn't have gone this route.

CHoccolaTE:


Well said.

Some people are mentally unstable. Imagine supporting a murderer when you don't know the full story. He doesn't know if the man was just jealous of his wife's progress, he doesn't know if the wife was the one taking care of family expenses. Just imagined a stupid scenario and started insulting a dead woman.

matrixme:

There is nothing wrong in a woman doing well for herself, who decides that she has married an irresponsible husband, don't want to end the marriage but wants to take the next step in life. Let's stop this nonsense that a man should have utmost control of a woman's properties. Many people should never have married. (Selah)

BigBashiru:


A woman cannot claim to be married and then be dumping stress on the husband. Even mist girls will tell you "I don't want to be stressed"

Money is the crux of the matter in marriage.

Seems you just want to argue for argument sake. I'm done. Bye.

Bye. Please shut the door behind you

BigBashiru:


You are talking nonsense. No one said a man should have utmost control of a woman's properties. The demand is she should not use her money to buy property and then come and be asking me for money because I'm her "husband". She should use her own money to take care of herself while I use mine to take care of myself. And she should make a contribution to her children's school fees and upkeep instead of keeping all her money to herself that's all.

BigBashiru:


The woman is the murderer here. There was a story not too long ago a woman was admitted to emergency sick. It would cost N200k to treat her. The man was running helter skelter to raise money for his "wife" treatment.

Long story short. The woman died and it was found she had about N50k cash on her. She didn't want to spend her own money. So she's the murderer here.

That man would hv died in a car accident under stress trying to get money for the wife healthcare.

CHoccolaTE:


Well said.

Some people are mentally unstable. Imagine supporting a murderer when you don't know the full story. He doesn't know if the man was just jealous of his wife's progress, he doesn't know if the wife was the one taking care of family expenses. Just imagined a stupid scenario and started insulting a dead woman.

CHoccolaTE:


What is my business with the other story you are telling? The story on this thread never mentioned if the dead woman was the one providing or if she was the one feeding the husband, you just jumped to conclusions and started insulting her.

BigBashiru:


Men are actually very simple creatures. They do not want to be cheated... they only act violent when cheated. What the woman is alleged to have displayed is my money is my money while your money is our money and no man should condone that.

This woman is alleged/believed to still collecting money from her husband instead of using her money to take care of herself causing the husband undue stress that can kill him

Lokojatoofar:


He is one of those so called "woke" men. They mostly think one way. Man is ALWAYS right and woman is ALWAYS wrong.

SoapQueen:


Read what you wrote and go back to the story. And answer one question, how did you arrive at this conclusion?

From the story;
✓ The father COOKED dinner.
✓ The mother went out and came back (probably from her business or work)
✓ The woman bought a vehicle and some parcels of land.

What did you deduce? That the late wife is probably the breadwinner of the family and the man is a jealous, insecure lazy soul who felt threatened (not betrayed) by his wife's growth.

Lokojatoofar:



So if a wife is doing all her wifey duties, having a man service her when you are out of service and she is in the mood is also justified? Or you also believe that a woman should not think of sex unless her husband thinks of it for his satisfaction?
And did you hear that she stopped playing her wifey roles after she bought those properties? Even If she did not, what exactly was her crime that he had to lay his hands on her? When he buys properties, is he forced to buy in her own name?
Is it not same you guys that insist a woman should endure marital wahala or leave if she cant cope instead of killing the man?

matrixme:

This is a pure lie. Having lived in Akure for sometime, I know for a fact that many men in that city are not responsible for their family upkeep. The women works twice harder to provide for their home and hide their burden under the impression of wanting to keep their marriage. This hardworking woman fell in love with a wrong person.

CHoccolaTE:


The woman might have been taking care of the family's expenses while watching the husband lazy about and squander his meager earnings on prostitutes and alcohol so she decided to safeguard her children's future by investing in land for them.
If she had told the useless husband maybe he would have demanded the land and squandered the money as usual.


Men are naturally wicked and violent creatures.


I hope the lazy, jealous bastard and his supporters die a slow painful death wherever they are.

FunKiller:
This man has probably been footing all the family bills and expenses including that of that of his now dead wife, all the whole she pockets her money acquiring property and buying vehicles for road.
Why did she hide it from husband, this is wickedness and she is wrong.
Years of betrayal and lying to his face everyday can drive a man crazy, It is not about jealousy or whatnot .
Most women are naturally selfish creatures.
His wife was a Opp and Opps get killed on sight.
Let us see her enjoy the property in hell naw.
Bomboclart !

CHoccolaTE:


The woman might have been taking care of the family's expenses while watching the husband lazy about and squander his meager earnings on prostitutes and alcohol so she decided to safeguard her children's future by investing in land for them.
If she had told the useless husband maybe he would have demanded the land and squandered the money as usual.

Men are naturally wicked and violent creatures.


I hope the lazy, jealous bastard and his supporters die a slow painful death wherever they are.

Hisbah21:


so just because of that she deserve to set ablaze?

CHoccolaTE:


The woman might have been taking care of the family's expenses while watching the husband lazy about and squander his meager earnings on prostitutes and alcohol so she decided to safeguard her children's future by investing in land for them.
If she had told the useless husband maybe he would have demanded the land and squandered the money as usual.

Men are naturally wicked and violent creatures.


I hope the lazy, jealous bastard and his supporters die a slow painful death wherever they are.

GindoX:

Yes

BigBashiru:


If he has a good lawyer he won't go to jail. Females are fond of keeping their own money so stress can kill the man....

I'm not condoning murder though but his lawyer can argue mental distress.

dre11:


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/02/husband-sets-wife-ablaze-in-ondo/

BigBashiru:


What the woman should have done if the man is irresponsible is to report the man to his family and to the Church...