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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Lostchild(m): 12:44pm On Feb 12, 2022
The5DME:
You have a victims mentality op.

When experience folks dey talk, small pikin go keep quiet.
Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Lostchild(m): 12:44pm On Feb 12, 2022
pocohantas:


So you can be calm like this? Nawa!

Lol!!!

I am very calm person in nature. Just that, the too much troubles can any make any man to sometime act irrationally.

I keep enduring. sad
Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Lostchild(m): 1:13pm On Feb 12, 2022
frozen70:


Only you can explain what you did to women that made them to hate you despite your caring nature

Just pray to God to bless you with the one made of uoir ribs else you will keep seeing them in a negative way

That alone will definitely affect your marriage

My Darling (frozen)

Did I tell you that every women hate me?

Maybe I forgot to tell you that, women, especially the married women like me too much.

2. Majority of them want my attention and seek my friendship and when I reject them, they become bitter and hateful towards me.

3. Women hate what they cannot control.

MY QUESTION

Do you hate me?
Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by frozen70(f): 1:18pm On Feb 12, 2022
Lostchild:


My Darling (frozen)

Did I tell you that every women hate me?

Maybe I forgot to tell you that, women, especially the married women like me too much.

2. Majority of them want my attention and seek my friendship and when I reject them, they become bitter and hateful towards me.

3. Women hate what they cannot control.

MY QUESTION

Do you hate me?


My dear friend,
The married women that loves you, knows your worth because they are already in the system and they need care and attention, that's just what you are giving to them

But you see those single one's, they have no experience that ha enough to make them understand that you are loving

I will advise you try older women, I mean women that seniors you with just little years difference let's see if the matured one can make you happier

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Lostchild(m): 1:39pm On Feb 12, 2022
frozen70:


My dear friend,
The married women that loves you, knows your worth because they are already in the system and they need care and attention, that's just what you are giving to them

But you see those single one's, they have no experience that ha enough to make them understand that you are loving

I will advise you try older women, I mean women that seniors you with just little years difference let's see if the matured one can make you happier


You kept me laughing very hard.

Even the younger ones likes me too, in fact, they get excited when I talk to them which is very rare.

BUT

1. My heart is very heavy.

2. I cannot be happy with any woman as a broke guy.
Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Double0h7(f): 1:42pm On Feb 12, 2022
Lostchild:
If western women is as cold hearted as Nigeria women, then all yahoo boyz will go broke. In fact, yahoo business would have been null

Lol. So you guys would defraud and rob "warm hearted women" no wonder your women are cold hearted since they have to deal with you guys. Look at the example you gave on the fate of being warm hearted to a Nigerian man, he'll rob and defraud you! grin

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by frozen70(f): 1:45pm On Feb 12, 2022
Lostchild:


You kept me laughing very hard.

Even the younger ones likes me too, in fact, they get excited when I talk to them which is very rare.

BUT

1. My heart is very heavy.

2. I cannot be happy with any woman as a broke guy.






A woman that loves you can be with you and her star can brighten yours

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Raalsalghul: 2:42pm On Feb 12, 2022
frozen70:


My dear friend,
The married women that loves you, knows your worth because they are already in the system and they need care and attention, that's just what you are giving to them

But you see those single one's, they have no experience that ha enough to make them understand that you are loving

I will advise you try older women, I mean women that seniors you with just little years difference let's see if the matured one can make you happier

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by frozen70(f): 2:53pm On Feb 12, 2022
[quote author=Raalsalghul post=110168909][/quote]

How did it affect you, lol
Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Raalsalghul: 2:55pm On Feb 12, 2022
frozen70:


A woman that loves you can be with you and her star can brighten yours

The stuff you guys spill on this forum. Jeez!
Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by socialmediaman: 3:02pm On Feb 12, 2022
pocohantas:


Tell me what I don’t know about yahoo (romance scam). You think Hushpuppy and Invictus made all that money from using the face of a foreigner to tell a white woman that they are military men stuck in Afghanistan?

Lol!!!

I had similar opinion as you until I watched “Trafficked” by Mariana Van Zeller

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PJispDZcB8w
Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by pocohantas(f): 3:08pm On Feb 12, 2022
socialmediaman:


I had similar opinion as you until I watched “Trafficked” by Mariana Van Zeller https://www.nationalgeographic.com/tv/shows/trafficked-with-mariana-van-zeller/episode-guide/season-02/episode-02-romance-scams/vdka25543244

And what part of your opinion did it change? That Romance scam is not as profitable as before? undecided undecided

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by eyinjuege: 4:52pm On Feb 12, 2022
You appear very daft when you talk down on your women.
They are a direct reflection of your society, the one you are supposedly meant to be in charge of. The one you created.
If your women are so bad, it only reflects your own leadership capacity or your lack of any leadership capacity.
It's not surprising that you guys don't have any capacity to lead and will remain the conquered race of men that you are. The only race of men being shat on by Whites, Arabs, Asian etc.
I'm yet to see any popular blogs in the West, Asia or even Arab countries, where so much vitriol is thrown on their women and such attacks are not checked by majority of the other men on such platforms.
They all know the implication of such a collective attack on women that they came out from their wombs.
You need to do better lostchild.
Nobody can ever respect you when they come on NL, hear you whine so much and talk so badly of the women in your society.
It only showcases your own failure as a leader.
It's like many of you guys don't think deeply.
People who claim leadership with no atom of accountability
You can do better.

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by eyinjuege: 4:58pm On Feb 12, 2022
Double0h7:


Lol. So you guys would defraud and rob "warm hearted women" no wonder your women are cold hearted since they have to deal with you guys. Look at the example you gave on the fate of being warm hearted to a Nigerian man, he'll rob and defraud you! grin

Majority of them are daft and are just one way thinkers.
That's why the country itself is the way it is.
A country where someone can tell us snakes swallowed money, and we're expected to swallow that hook, line and sinker.
If only we had more critical thinkers.

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Lostchild(m): 8:12pm On Feb 12, 2022
Double0h7:


Lol. So you guys would defraud and rob "warm hearted women" no wonder your women are cold hearted since they have to deal with you guys. Look at the example you gave on the fate of being warm hearted to a Nigerian man, he'll rob and defraud you! grin

Are you that blind, did I tell you I am a yahoo guy?

https://www.nairaland.com/6887901/origin-history-yahoo-boys
Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Lostchild(m): 8:14pm On Feb 12, 2022
frozen70:


A woman that loves you can be with you and her star can brighten yours

It is possible, but
Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Lostchild(m): 8:55pm On Feb 12, 2022
frozen70:


A woman that loves you can be with you and her star can brighten yours

1. With what I have seen, such a woman is difficult to come by in Nigeria society.

2. In my fallen state, I do not want any woman to suffer with me.

I don't want my children to suffer the way I did.

I cares too much
I am a very protective.
Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by frozen70(f): 9:35pm On Feb 12, 2022
Lostchild:


1. With what I have seen, such a woman is difficult to come by in Nigeria society.

2. In my fallen state, I do not want any woman to suffer with me.

I don't want my children to suffer the way I did.

I cares too much
I am a very protective.

It's ok, but don't forget yourself while caring for others

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Apus: 11:21pm On Feb 12, 2022
Medianna:


If I say I'll drag this case with you, guy you don't stand chance...I was even particular about the bible you brought into this that wasn't correct.Not your hated, your love or acceptance for women.
If you like carry signboard and have women are evil written on it
Take a keke and go to heaven and rally with it
That won't change God's mind from giving people girl child.
So take a chill pill with this mentality and cut the drama

An back to my center of interest Adam was with Eve when the devil was having that conversion with her he just did not partake in the talk...(Gen 3:6)












For your mind, you don drop quote.
I didn't want to reply you as I no too like to argue.

First You said Eve was deceived and not Adam. Now you're saying Adam was with her all the while she was being deceived. Meaning both were deceived at the same time.

"he just did not partake in the talk..." Can you hear yourself? He didn't partake in the talk. Why shouldn't he since he was present? How was he able to swallow the fruit so easily with raising any objection; and remember, using your own word, " he was not deceived" Go read Genesis 3:17

The woman wanted to play smart, assuming the role of the man and deciding what was best for the both of them. It's why Paul enjoins women to remain silent and remain under the authority of the man.


I can see your logical reasoning is low.
Have a nice day.

Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Lostchild(m): 1:40am On Feb 13, 2022
frozen70:


It's ok, but don't forget yourself while caring for others

Yes I made this mistake, abandone myself for too many years while I think and fight for others

Thank you for the nice advice.
Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Fashionista01(f): 11:14am On Feb 13, 2022
Some men made some women to be cold hearted towards men because of the way some men behave towards them.

Some men help women in other to get something in return.

OP, don't generalize yet. It is not all women that are cold hearted as u claimed.
Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Lostchild(m): 12:25pm On Feb 13, 2022
frozen70:


My dear friend,
The married women that loves you, knows your worth because they are already in the system and they need care and attention, that's just what you are giving to them

But you see those single one's, they have no experience that ha enough to make them understand that you are loving

I will advise you try older women, I mean women that seniors you with just little years difference let's see if the matured one can make you happier



My Frienny (Frozen)

I some times get that feeling of loneliness, and miss the touches and hus of a woman.

I tried relatie with women in the past which didn't end well. I had to stay away from relatie because I felt I might die trying to find a good woman.

1. Something is missing in my life which a woman can't fill, this has brought great unhappiness in me.

2. I need an intelligent woman, most of the women I see are somewhat have traditional mindset. I guess, I need a lot of traveling.

3. I need a woman that can handle me with extra care. When you hold an egg, you use exra care.

4. I need a selfless woman, not someone who will only cares about her kids and family members. Someone we can devote to do the works charity together.

Did I ask too much ?
Is such a woman impossible to find in Nigeria ?
Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Lostchild(m): 12:31pm On Feb 13, 2022
Fashionista01:
Some men made some women to be cold hearted towards men because of the way some men behave towards them.

Some men help women in other to get something in return.

OP, don't generalize yet. It is not all women that are cold hearted as u claimed.

OK. I very much like your imput, I guess you understood much.

smiley
Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by frozen70(f): 12:32pm On Feb 13, 2022
Lostchild:



My Frienny (Frozen)

I some times get that feeling of loneliness, and miss the touches and hus of a woman.

I tried relatie with women in the past which didn't end well. I had to stay away from relatie because I felt I might die trying to find a good woman.

1. Something is missing in my life which a woman can't fill, this has brought great unhappiness in me.

2. I need an intelligent woman, most of the women I see are somewhat have traditional mindset. I guess, I need a lot of traveling.

3. I need a woman that can handle me with extra care. When you hold an egg, you use exra care.

4. I need a selfless woman, not someone who will only cares about her kids and family members. Someone we can devote to do the works charity together.

Did I ask too much ?
Is such a woman impossible to find in Nigeria ?


Waooo, uou really need a sensible person, a woman with a heart of Gold to be with you and nurture you just the way you want it

You are not asking for so much but getting that type of person is rare

You need to ask God and follow it up with prayers

Just believe and it will be settled

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by ibechris(m): 12:50pm On Feb 13, 2022
Any body wey no know u go think say na one big man dey talk.

Abeg pack your load go one corner.

Nigerian women are still the best in Africa. Yes,na me talk am. They are supportive and lovely. Except u met an agbero as a wife or girl friend but in all,Nigerian women cannot be compared with any class of women in Africa.

I am saying what I know.

There many men in Nigeria who are worthless financially,yet the strong women behind them who are the back bone of their wealth are not mentioned because of ego.

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Medianna(f): 1:18pm On Feb 13, 2022
Apus:

For your mind, you don drop quote.
I didn't want to reply you as I no too like to argue.

First You said Eve was deceived and not Adam. Now you're saying Adam was with her all the while she was being deceived. Meaning both were deceived at the same time.

"he just did not partake in the talk..." Can you hear yourself? He didn't partake in the talk. Why shouldn't he since he was present? How was he able to swallow the fruit so easily with raising any objection; and remember, using your own word, " he was not deceived" Go read Genesis 3:17

The woman wanted to play smart, assuming the role of the man and deciding what was best for the both of them. It's why Paul enjoins women to remain silent and remain under the authority of the man.


I can see your logical reasoning is low.
Have a nice day.


Since my logical reasoning is low lemme keep quite

But I still have not seen where Adam said 'Eve decieve me' sha

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by eyinjuege: 1:31pm On Feb 13, 2022
As usual, we have our regular whining NL males.
Can you stop with the whinging and get to work?
Why are you expecting a woman selling her business to give you stipends from her profit?
What's wrong with you?
If it was too expensive for you, then walk away.
If she could reduce it, she wouldn't want you to go afterall she's selling her goods
Don't feel entitled to her profit. That's wizardry
Nothing more disturbing to see a grown man whinging about.
It's a disgusting trait in females and even more disgusting in males.
Just come out of the closet already, and join the likes of Bobrisky and James Brown.
Embrace your femininity and live your truth
Bob and James are being taken kiaruff and living the soft life.
They're not saddled with the real problems women face and also not burdened with the responsibilities of the men in the society

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Nobody: 1:33pm On Feb 13, 2022
Hmmm

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Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Lostchild(m): 4:09pm On Feb 13, 2022
eyinjuege:
As usual, we have our regular whining NL males.
Can you stop with the whinging and get to work?
Why are you expecting a woman selling her business to give you stipends from her profit?
What's wrong with you?

My doing business with people is more than buying from them. I smile at them and laugh with them as I do my pricing.

The very woman I spoke of, I bought something from her yesterday. I even asked her if she likes the cap I bought, she said, YES.

Your sense of judgment is very poor.

There is nothing wrong asking someone to reduce the price when you buy more.

NOTE: Business is business, but it can turn into friendship, which can possibly turn into relationship.

Be noted.
Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Lostchild(m): 5:29pm On Feb 13, 2022
eyinjuege:
As usual, we have our regular whining NL males.
Can you stop with the whinging and get to work?
Why are you expecting a woman selling her business to give you stipends from her profit?
What's wrong with you?
If it was too expensive for you, then walk away.
If she could reduce it, she wouldn't want you to go afterall she's selling her goods
Don't feel entitled to her profit. That's wizardry
Nothing more disturbing to see a grown man whinging about.
It's a disgusting trait in females and even more disgusting in males.
Just come out of the closet already, and join the likes of Bobrisky and James Brown.
Embrace your femininity and live your truth
Bob and James are being taken kiaruff and living the soft life.
They're not saddled with the real problems women face and also not burdened with the responsibilities of the men in the society

Your sense if judgment is rooted from your hard mindset.

The very woman you quote me about, you see nothing wrong with her mindset. How would it be like if men have the same mindset that, they can never give a woman their money?

I, myself did not asked her for her money. It was just pure business, as I asked her to reduce the price which is normal on all business transactions.

The yahoo boys that are defrauding women, you find no fault in them, but you come here to fault find me just because I asked a woman to reduce her price of something I wanted to buy from her.
Re: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Lostchild(m): 4:07pm On Feb 14, 2022
eyinjuege:

Yestersday night, I was walking home and a woman stop me, and she said.

Brother, please help me with money ! she was very direct.

What if I say to her, I don't give a woman my money?

From your judgment, is she entitled to my money?

Yes.

She is entitle to receive from me anytime she sees me on the road and re- ask ?

Yes.

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