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Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by nextlevel2020: 11:39am On Feb 14, 2022
[quote author=Fxzboyz post=110197358]It’s very popular among guys saying to their selves “make money and you’ll get women”.

They’re right , you’ll get women that want your money not you.

Women like who they like, your money won’t make them like you, there’ll always be one guy she’s in love with, who you have everything more than but her heart will be closed to you.

I support this with all my life. This is a syndrome that I personally is facing at 40. Though background and struggle for survival contributed immensely on my own case, but now that God has answered the prayer, I am now left with the agony of not finding love in the time of difficulty. Last time I tried hard to convince a 32 year old lady to try me first, she said it
openly that I am old, but when she saw one of my pictures that snapped while I was in Europe and found out that I have a genuine source of income, she changed the tone. She said she was joking that age is just a number. In other hand, I have realized that this is not peculiar to women alone. There are men that are looking for women to leverage on too. So may God help us all.
Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by Camelionn: 11:41am On Feb 14, 2022
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FERNANDEZISBACK:
Now you said it all but some folks are still gonna argue their head out..
If you gat feelings let her know..if she's into you cool..
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Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by Camelionn: 11:42am On Feb 14, 2022
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FERNANDEZISBACK:
Now you got it wrong baby boy..no one's talking about sex anyone you want..
They ain't object aiit..what the op is saying is money ain't what's gonna make you to beconsidered by a woman who truly loves you..
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Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by Camelionn: 11:43am On Feb 14, 2022
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FERNANDEZISBACK:
Probably to a youngster tho.. cheesy
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Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by tallceejay(m): 11:44am On Feb 14, 2022
Why is every approved post about women women women ?? Then sex, ritual , violence , more sex , relationship , girlfriend,breakup , then make money etc etc
Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by jaxxy(m): 11:45am On Feb 14, 2022
Chisave:
Bros, when they say that, they don't mean they are chasing money so that girls will like them. We chase money to fill accomplished and achieve our dreams.
If you keep a girl beside when you have not achieved your life goals, it could prevent you from actualizing your goals.

Infact, it not about girls alone. Once you start pursuing your goal seriously, there are a lot of friends you will have to reduce association with. You could change cliques, you could even withdraw from family members for some time if they are a hindrance.

When we say, forget about girls and pursue money, it is not for you to get girls but for you yourself as a man to be happy with yourself.

Besides, know this fact. Whether you believe it or not;

COMFORTABLE GUYS GET GIRLS THAT LOVE THEM MORE THAN BROKE GUYS

To prove it, you hear more quarrels and shouting in broke neighborhood than rich neighborhoods
Comfortable guys get gals that ACT/Pretend like they love them more than broke guys.


I agree with the other parts of ur submission. grin

WHEN U ARE EMPTY/INEPT U NEED MONEY TO GET A GAL. A gal must be attracted to Smtn bt don’t let it be ur money Alone.

I have been dating gals richer than me easily, dating gals who don’t ask me for a dime until I ran into the 1st broke mentality gal.

I think the topic should be changed to HAVE MONEY B4 U CHASE A BROKE NIGERIAN GIRL!
Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by Alaigbopress: 11:45am On Feb 14, 2022
Money attracts positive things including the right woman. So abobi chase the bag and don't forget your social life.
Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by LikeAking: 11:47am On Feb 14, 2022
Fxzboyz:
It’s very popular among guys saying to their selves “make money and you’ll get women”.

They’re right , you’ll get women that want your money not you.

Women like who they like, your money won’t make them like you, there’ll always be one guy she’s in love with, who you have everything more than but her heart will be closed to you.
For a black man, he must make money first before chasing women, else he will loose all his focus and destiny.

Its one of the reason Africa is so poor.

AFRICAN MEN put pussy over MONEY.

Have u heard must men discusing?
Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by Konjiboi: 11:51am On Feb 14, 2022
Fxzboyz:
It’s very popular among guys saying to their selves “make money and you’ll get women”.

They’re right , you’ll get women that want your money not you.

Women like who they like, your money won’t make them like you, there’ll always be one guy she’s in love with, who you have everything more than but her heart will be closed to you.
Go and chase your woman.
Leave us alone.

I am very sure you're not more than 25 years of age. You don't know what life is about yet.

Continue ranting.
Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by obinna58(m): 11:52am On Feb 14, 2022
Believe me whether woman like you or not it doesn't matter

Be wise

Take time to develop yourself overall, good character is not formed in a week or a month it's created day by day, little by little with effort. Upgrade yourself and every woman will want you then with your money added, you'll become impossible.
Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by T0BY(m): 11:53am On Feb 14, 2022
May you live long.
Chisave:
Bros, when they say that, they don't mean they are chasing money so that girls will like them. We chase money to fill accomplished and achieve our dreams.
If you keep a girl beside when you have not achieved your life goals, it could prevent you from actualizing your goals.

Infact, it not about girls alone. Once you start pursuing your goal seriously, there are a lot of friends you will have to reduce association with. You could change cliques, you could even withdraw from family members for some time if they are a hindrance.

When we say, forget about girls and pursue money, it is not for you to get girls but for you yourself as a man to be happy with yourself.

Besides, know this fact. Whether you believe it or not;

COMFORTABLE GUYS GET GIRLS THAT LOVE THEM MORE THAN BROKE GUYS

To prove it, you hear more quarrels and shouting in broke neighborhood than rich neighborhoods
Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by phemmyfour: 11:56am On Feb 14, 2022
Fxzboyz:
It’s very popular among guys saying to their selves “make money and you’ll get women”.

They’re right , you’ll get women that want your money not you.

Women like who they like, your money won’t make them like you, there’ll always be one guy she’s in love with, who you have everything more than but her heart will be closed to you.
lies

She LL only like you for few months/years until she sees a ready made guy.....She'll leave you and cleave to him. E.g Regina Daniels
Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by jaxxy(m): 11:59am On Feb 14, 2022
Fxzboyz:
It’s very popular among guys saying to their selves “make money and you’ll get women”.

They’re right , you’ll get women that want your money not you.

Women like who they like, your money won’t make them like you, there’ll always be one guy she’s in love with, who you have everything more than but her heart will be closed to you.
Op Change ur topic to HAVE MONEY B4 CHASING A NIGERIAN BROKE MENTALITY GIRL. grin
Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by NigeriaB(m): 12:01pm On Feb 14, 2022
Whether you like it or not, there are only two forms of unconditional love in this life:

1. God's love for humanity

2. Mother's love for her children

Guys, please fee free to make your money because even when you find the love, you surely need money to fuel and drive that love.
Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by anungangampu: 12:01pm On Feb 14, 2022
Seriously, I need this advice blasting inside my brain all the time.
Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by winner37(m): 12:01pm On Feb 14, 2022
This is absolutly correct cause am a living testimony of this fact. This girl is living with a guy who provides her with almost everything but she doesn't love the guy,she likes my presence, hanging out and doing some stupi thing with me more than the guy she is living with
Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by MARS1(m): 12:04pm On Feb 14, 2022
This guy is very wrong, has he not seen stingy rich men, some people are rich and yet stingy, while some, they are rich, and still get girls that love them genuinely. So it is not a one way thing, but in all, sha have money because even with the love, money would make it sweeter. When someone has money and also successful, it is nature that the person would be shown love more, so in all, sha have money legitimately biko.
Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by Nobody: 12:05pm On Feb 14, 2022
True!!!

People think making money is the hardest thing. Lol.

Have you tried finding a partner?
Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by NigeriaB(m): 12:06pm On Feb 14, 2022
winner37:
This is absolutly correct cause am a living testimony of this fact. This girl is living with a guy who provides her with almost everything but she doesn't love the guy,she likes my presence, hanging out and doing some stupi thing with me more than the guy she is living with
Please don't give in to her. You must be your brother's keepers at all times. That's what kings do. Tell her to go and love the guy who is providing her with everything. Tell her to stop hanging around you.
Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by tiswell(m): 12:16pm On Feb 14, 2022
Blablamalala:
Except if you are not good in bed. That's all that makes the difference.
alaye,money will always be good in bed with naija girls
Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by Milly44(f): 12:25pm On Feb 14, 2022
Nobody love you, they love the little money you have plus the good look and peace of mind you offer them. Once that is no more comes stress plus cheating
Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by pacespot(m): 12:25pm On Feb 14, 2022
At least make money to take care of yourself first before thinking of women. These days, i see many young boys with dirty pants who cannot even afford to feed themselves chasing women up and down. Your commitments as a single man will be higher once you have a girlfriend or fiance, so make some money for yourself not to impress a woman you are about to date.
Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by Eastcaostboy: 12:26pm On Feb 14, 2022
Fxzboyz:
It’s very popular among guys saying to their selves “make money and you’ll get women”.

They’re right , you’ll get women that want your money not you.

Women like who they like, your money won’t make them like you, there’ll always be one guy she’s in love with, who you have everything more than but her heart will be closed to you.
Tell that to the slow life boys like you. The only thing that makes women relax is basically if a man is financially okay
Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by winner37(m): 12:29pm On Feb 14, 2022
NigeriaB:
Please don't give in to her. You must be your brother's keepers at all times. That's what kings do. Tell her to go and love the guy who is providing her with everything. Tell her to stop hanging around you.
bro. Not that am happy with this,my mind is judging me. There is no room for privacy i would have love to tell you more of this. After we met i toasted her i didn't knew she was living with a guy so started spending night together when the other guy is on night work.when i discovered everything i tried to end the relationship something very bad happend, she told me why will i have to dump her after the love she is having for me that she is living with the guy on conditions. Seriously am confuse i don't know what to do to end the shit now but its late now
Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by Heterodox(m): 12:32pm On Feb 14, 2022
Fxzboyz:
It’s very popular among guys saying to their selves “make money and you’ll get women”.

They’re right , you’ll get women that want your money not you.

Women like who they like, your money won’t make them like you, there’ll always be one guy she’s in love with, who you have everything more than but her heart will be closed to you.
You make money to give yourself a life.


This opinion of yours is daft anyways.
Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by seyz91(m): 12:35pm On Feb 14, 2022
donbachi:
100% correct.

Guys fvcks who they can and girls fvcks whi they want.

Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by geunik(m): 12:36pm On Feb 14, 2022
Fxzboyz:
It’s very popular among guys saying to their selves “make money and you’ll get women”.

They’re right , you’ll get women that want your money not you.

Women like who they like, your money won’t make them like you, there’ll always be one guy she’s in love with, who you have everything more than but her heart will be closed to you.
Let's hear from those who where poor and later became rich like portable. He said it all
Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by NigeriaB(m):
winner37:
bro. Not that am happy with this,my mind is judging me. There is no room for privacy i would have love to tell you more of this. After we met i toasted her i didn't knew she was living with a guy so started spending night together when the other guy is on night work.when i discovered everything i tried to end the relationship something very bad happend, she told me why will i have to dump her after the love she is having for me that she is living with the guy on conditions. Seriously am confuse i don't know what to do to end the shit now but its late now
If she doesn't love the guy, Please advise her to go now and tell the guy. In this case, the guy will stop fooling himself and he will be able to reasonably account for his money instead of wasting it on the girl. The girl is just using the two of you.
Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by yemmit90: 12:37pm On Feb 14, 2022
Fxzboyz:
It’s very popular among guys saying to their selves “make money and you’ll get women”.

They’re right , you’ll get women that want your money not you.

Women like who they like, your money won’t make them like you, there’ll always be one guy she’s in love with, who you have everything more than but her heart will be closed to you.
You need absolutely nothing in life but money. You may not be rich but at least have something doing or little source of income to sustain your relationship or marriage.

Do not be deceive, a woman can love you withiout money but her heart is always at where she would get the desire comfort she's natural built to seek after. No matter how a woman love you, she will definitely cheat on you or leave you when hunger reset her brain. A rich man wife hardly cheat if her husband show/give his love, time and good sex.
Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by seyz91(m): 12:37pm On Feb 14, 2022
You right

Because women are attracted to money
.i've been saying same thing, girls associate with the benefits, once the benefit finish they japa

Guys go for ritual not because of helping their family but to attract and impress a lot of girls
.it is what it is!
toujurs:
Why do you think boys now go into ritual killing just to make money, and killing their girlfriends for rituals. "Make money before you go after women" led them into it
Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by winner37(m): 12:38pm On Feb 14, 2022
NigeriaB:
Please don't give in to her. You must be your brother's keepers at all times. That's what kings do. Tell her to go and love the guy who is providing her with everything. Tell her to stop hanging around you.
bro. I have tried to fixe some sense to her brain but all avail. She do tell me that she is living with the guy on condition, when the guy is on night work spending night with me is her choice. I don't know how to end this cause any time i try she will be saying i was only after her body why do i have to dump her
Re: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by Exceed15: 12:38pm On Feb 14, 2022
Fxzboyz:
It’s very popular among guys saying to their selves “make money and you’ll get women”.

They’re right , you’ll get women that want your money not you.

Women like who they like, your money won’t make them like you, there’ll always be one guy she’s in love with, who you have everything more than but her heart will be closed to you.
How old are you first?
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