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| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by Kobojunkie: 2:32pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Uzomarrr12345:Is that really an excuse for Pete's sake? Why are you dating jobless women when you claim what you want is not a jobless woman? ![]() Why date a stingy women when you claim a stingy woman isn't what you want? ![]() Why not leave them for those who can handle them abeg? ![]() What is this? Dem take these things swear for una or what? ![]() |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by Uzomarrr12345: 2:37pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
I really find this topic interesting coz just last week , I was having this sort of discussion with a friend my friend is so fed up of accommodating his wife younger brother in his house , the guy is behaving badly, to the point he had the guts to bring a female to sleep over just imagine , but as usual, he doesn’t have the guts to send the boy packing coz he doesn’t want to look like a bad in-law See plenty annoying tins dey inside this marriage thing , some guys nor just wan Dey talk too much |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by Kobojunkie: 2:39pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Uzomarrr12345:Your friend lacks the gumption to stand up and refuse to be insulted in his own married home and you are quick to assume this a problem with marriage Why? ![]() Your friend needs his head examined, so do you. ![]() |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by Uzomarrr12345: 2:40pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Mr relationship expert , I have a question for you when you meet a pretty woman for the first time , how can you tell she’s stingy ? Is it written somewhere on her body or face ? You don date before at all self You won’t have all these experience until you live with the woman under same roof for a period of time |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by Uzomarrr12345: 2:42pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:You are definitely a child and no nothing about marriage or even relationship self ! I doubt if you pay house rent self ! |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by Uzomarrr12345: 2:43pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:In my friend’s case , don’t you know , the wife should be the one to tell her brother to start going But Nigerian ladies and bias towards dia own family members na 5&6 |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by finishmatter(op): 2:45pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
This is a reality. Women are unappreciative. They are instrinsically selfish They can never be pleased. HarunaWest: |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by Kobojunkie: 2:50pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Uzomarrr12345:Rubbish! ![]() So after clearly stating your friend is the one without guts, you now want to attempt pinning the fault on his wife? ![]() The visitor in their home disrespect them , and yes as a couple they should both give him an ultimatum but in the case that one partner is not being reasonable, it is left to the other member of the team to take one for both of them... and according to you your friend is refusing to do so because he doesn't want to offend his in-laws even though he claims to have already already offended by one of them in his own home. ![]() Look, your friend is likely not telling you the whole truth or he seriously needs his head checked. ![]() |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by Kobojunkie: 2:53pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Uzomarrr12345:Do you date a woman you meet for the first time? ![]() Do you marry a woman you meet for the first time? ![]() If at this age, you think the only way you can get to know someone is only if you live with with person, then something is seriously wrong as it indicates you didn't really learn good social skills as a youngin! ![]() |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by Kobojunkie: 2:54pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Uzomarrr12345:ROFLMAO ![]() See foolishness! ![]() |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by finishmatter(op): 2:55pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
The silence of men is really a problem. Uzomarrr12345: |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by Uzomarrr12345: 2:57pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:how again , can you know a lady better if you don’t live with her ? Is it by checking her Instagram or Facebook page you get to know them better …lol … smh Trust me, you still be pikin ! |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by Kobojunkie: 2:58pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Uzomarrr12345:Again, If at this age, you think the only way you can get to know someone is only if you live with with person, then something is seriously wrong as it indicates you didn't really learn good social skills as a youngin! ![]() I can bet you that even after living with a woman for over a decade, you will still come back to complain that you don't know her. ![]() |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by finishmatter(op): 3:00pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
But you can during dating if she is selfish and financially unreasonable - in terms of her demand. Uzomarrr12345: |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by Uzomarrr12345: 3:06pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
finishmatter:My point is , you can’t know a lady too well until you spend more time with her or even live with her The other guy is making it look like , he has the magic wand to know a lady in and out from day 1 … lol Try and get my point pls ! |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by Kobojunkie: 3:16pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Uzomarrr12345:Oh now it's no longer that you first need to live with her but that you instead should spend more time with her to know her? ![]() Dude.... I don't need a Magic wand since i know that the same rules apply as far as getting to know the character of another human being... children and adults alike. ![]() |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by Uzomarrr12345: 3:20pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Forget all these your talk baba The best and only way to know a woman well and see her true colors is by living under same roof with her for a period of time Then, see if you guys are compatible ! any other way or method you are advocating here to know a woman better other than that one above …is just dust |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by Uzomarrr12345: 3:22pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
You can never know a woman well by just mere visits once in a while and plenty WhatsApp video calls …lol It doesn’t work that way ! |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by Kobojunkie: 3:22pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Uzomarrr12345:Again, If at this age, you think the only way you can get to know someone is only if you live with with person, then something is seriously wrong as it indicates you didn't really learn good social skills as a youngin! ![]() Notice I have no need to advocate any new way or method. This because what you keep proposing flies in the face of commonsense and you admittedly know it since in your desperate last comment there to the OP you quickly reverted back to using your head for a minute there. ![]() |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by finishmatter(op): 3:22pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Oh nice. I see u point Uzomarrr12345: |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by Uzomarrr12345: 3:27pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
finishmatter:100 percent true Alot Men are going thru hell out there ! But they keep it on the low ! |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by Uzomarrr12345: 3:32pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Oya , mr relationship expert , tell us the other way to know a lady better na ? I have been begging you to tell me Is it by checking her Instagram or Facebook page ? ![]() |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by Kobojunkie: 3:42pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Uzomarrr12345:Dude... you will benefit more from spending less time chasing women either on your whatsapp, Instagram, Facebook or reality. ![]() Go develop yourself, mentally, as an individual! More importantly, focus on acquiring wisdom so life no go dey jam you with trash every which way you turn. ![]() Leave women alone to sort themselves out while you sort your own self out. ![]() |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by Uzomarrr12345: 3:52pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:I asked a simple question You are just trying hard to be a savage troll and make people think you are sharp…lol Lol …troll business no fit you jare … ![]() You are lucky I don’t have time to waste today |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by wunmi590(m): 3:52pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Uzomarrr12345:I bring and she brings willingly, without being force, because as a man I should be able to shoulder my responsibilities.... |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by Kobojunkie: 3:55pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Uzomarrr12345:Your question wasn't simple but silly this right after my affirming that you indeed know what is right even though you talk about of the other side of your mouth in this. ![]() |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by Uzomarrr12345: 3:55pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
wunmi590:Hmmm …okay o ! Nice one anyways. |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by Uzomarrr12345: 3:57pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:I don tell you the hard truth Troll business no fit you …lol You no sabi You wan form savage guy by all means ![]() |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by Kobojunkie: 3:58pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Uzomarrr12345:And again my advice to you.... so you don't keep coming on nairaland to whine remains....... you will benefit more from spending less time chasing women either on your whatsapp, Instagram, Facebook or reality. ![]() Go develop yourself, mentally, as an individual! More importantly, focus on acquiring wisdom so life no go dey jam you with trash every which way you turn. ![]() Leave women alone to sort themselves out while you sort your own self out. ![]() |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by Uzomarrr12345: 4:06pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:The topic says , share your bitter experience or something you don’t like inside marriage matter And you are saying I should leave women alone Are you gay ? ![]() Oya Share your bitter gay experience in another thread na , let normal people in union of “Man and Woman” relationship talk |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by finishmatter(op): 4:37pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Stop this thinking @ the bolded. Fo therein lies a chunk of the problem. wunmi590: |
| Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by Kobojunkie: 4:45pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Uzomarrr12345:But you have shared no bitter experience that directly relates to marriage or relationship. Instead you have only revealed that as an individual you are seriously lacking and need to further work on self. ![]() Yes, you need to leave woman alone so you can spend time improving yourself as an individual first. ![]() |
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