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Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by Cpumping(m): 10:50am On Feb 18, 2022
Good Morning people,


Please I want to know, does having sex with your spouse during fasting in anyway affect/spoil the prayer?

I would need scriptural backing.
Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by advanceDNA: 10:59am On Feb 18, 2022
In my understanding....sex is a form of pleasure for the body just the same with food food and drinks ....fasting is depriving the body of the usual enjoyment you give it for a while so that you can pray and increase spiritual capacity....

So until you finish your fast you shouldnt have sex....some people don’t even watch tv (movies and other entertainment ) becos they also consider it as a way of consecrating their mind for the fasting period..

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Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by Flexherbal(m): 11:04am On Feb 18, 2022
Salvation is personal.

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Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by YinkaOlusesi16(m): 11:05am On Feb 18, 2022
The bible says defraud ye not one another except for fasting & prayer, that you give yourself to God so that the devil tempt you not.

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Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by duro4chang(m): 11:10am On Feb 18, 2022
Yes now.
Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by 1nigeriamyfoot: 12:09pm On Feb 18, 2022
Don't fucck while fasting
Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by thorpido(m): 12:23pm On Feb 18, 2022
Your fasting is not marathon is it(without a break period)?
If you are saying from 6am to 6pm for instance,when you break at 6pm,you can have sex afterwards.
It should also be with the consent of your spouse.You should agree on staying apart for the period.

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Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by Mariangeles(f): 12:30pm On Feb 18, 2022
Question wey you suppose ask your pastor na im you carry come nairaland. undecided

Anyways, if you’re a Christian, you are not supposed to have sex during the whole period of your fasting and prayer, but it must be in consent with your spouse.

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Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by Mariangeles(f): 12:30pm On Feb 18, 2022
thorpido:
You fasting is not marathon is it(without a break period)?
If you are saying from 6am to 6pm for instance,when you break at 6pm,you can have sex afterwards.
It should also be with the consent of your spouse.You should agree on staying apart for the period.

That is not true.
Smh! cheesy

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Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by Kobojunkie: 1:06pm On Feb 18, 2022
Mariangeles:
Question wey you suppose ask your pastor na im you carry come nairaland. undecided

Anyways, if you’re a Christian, you are not supposed to have sex during the whole period of your fasting and prayer, but it must be in consent with your spouse.
Why ask pastor when na from the same Bible all of una dey supposedly read from? undecided

Any man or woman who depends on another man or woman for the Word of God does so at his/her own soul's peril. Your Pastors and mogs have so filled your heads with life and stories that have no bearing with God and Jesus Christ the the average Christian is no different from a juju worshiper or pagan out there today. undecided

Anyone who truly knows God would know the meaninglessness of the question asked by the Op right off the bat, but these are the kind of questions many who call themselves Christians go around asking. undecided

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Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by Kobojunkie: 1:08pm On Feb 18, 2022
thorpido:
You fasting is not marathon is it(without a break period)?
If you are saying from 6am to 6pm for instance,when you break at 6pm,you can have sex afterwards.
It should also be with the consent of your spouse.You should agree on staying apart for the period.
God no command you to engage in these starvation diets which you call fasting to begin with. The kind of fasting which He asked from you is detailed in Isaiah 58 and has nothing to do with torturing your bodies in any way or form. undecided
Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by Mariangeles(f): 1:11pm On Feb 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Why ask pastor when na from the same Bible all of una dey supposedly read from? undecided

Any man or woman who depends on another man or woman for the Word of God does so at his/her own soul's peril. Your Pastors and mogs have so filled your heads with life and stories that have no bearing with God and Jesus Christ the the average Christian is no different from a juju worshiper or pagan out there today. undecided

Anyone who truly knows God would know the meaninglessness of the question asked by the Op right off the bat, but these are the kind of questions many who call themselves Christians go around asking. undecided

And then Kobo comes along…grin

I swear, my mind been don tell me say you go quote me. cheesy

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Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by Kobojunkie: 1:15pm On Feb 18, 2022
Mariangeles:
And then Kobo comes along…grin

I swear, my mind been don tell me say you go quote me. cheesy
I am serious.... those of you who bow to the doctrines and traditions of men(and their churches) are headed in the opposite direction of what Jesus Christ taught and this according to Jesus Christ Himself - Matthew 15 vs 1 - 14 and Mark 7 vs 1 - 13. . That is the reason why with well over 1/4th of the planet wearing the Christian title, the light of God remains near no where to be seen.. undecided
Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by thorpido(m): 3:38pm On Feb 18, 2022
Mariangeles:


That is not true.
Smh! cheesy
Prove to me it is not.
Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by Karleb(m): 3:44pm On Feb 18, 2022
Where is it written that you shouldn't have sex while fasting in the Bible?
Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by thorpido(m): 3:48pm On Feb 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
God no command you to engage in these starvation diets which you call fasting to begin with. The kind of fasting which He asked from you is detailed in Isaiah 58 and has nothing to do with torturing your bodies in any way or form. undecided
Kobo Kobo cheesy

After fasting forty days and forty nights,he was hungry. The tempter came to him and said, “If you are the Son of God,tell these stones to become bread.” Matthew 4:2:-3.

What kind of fasting did Jesus do that made him hungry according to Isaiah 58?
Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by Kobojunkie: 3:48pm On Feb 18, 2022
thorpido:
Prove to me it is not.
But none of what you claim is written in scripture though. undecided
Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by Kobojunkie: 3:53pm On Feb 18, 2022
thorpido:
Kobo Kobo cheesy

After fasting forty days and forty nights,he was hungry. The tempter came to him and said, “If you are the Son of God,tell these stones to become bread.” Matthew 4:2:-3.

What kind of fasting did Jesus do that made him hungry according to Isaiah 58?
1. Jesus Christ fasted as a result of spending forty days and forty nights unplanned nights in the wilderness. Same happened to Moses, when, again, unplanned, went to see God. God never commanded them to fast nor were there fasts of the 6-to-6 kind you lot have formulated for yourselves. undecided

2. The fasting which Jesus Christ however commands of you is the fasting that God commanded...which is detailed in Isaiah 58 for all those who will obey Him. This the same Jesus Christ who told you that those who are of Him, those who love Him, are those who obey His commandments- John 14 vs 15 - 25 - His friends are those who do what He says - John 15 vs 14. undecided

So if your religion in no way resembles that commanded of you by Jesus Christ, don't you see how it is in vain? undecided
Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by thorpido(m): 3:59pm On Feb 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
But none of what you claim is written in scripture though. undecided
1 Corinthians 7:5 admonishes couples to separate consensually for fasting and prayer and to come together again when the fast is over.When they break fasts,they eat and drink and can enjoy other pleasures(that are not sin when the fast is ended).
Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by thorpido(m): 4:05pm On Feb 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
1. Jesus Christ fasted as a result of spending forty days and forty nights unplanned nights in the wilderness. Same happened to Moses, when, again, unplanned, went to see God. God never commanded them to fast nor were there fasts of the 6-to-6 kind you lot have formulated for yourselves. undecided

2. The fasting which Jesus Christ however commands of you is the fasting that God commanded...which is detailed in Isaiah 58 for all those who will obey Him. This the same Jesus Christ who told you that those who are of Him, those who love Him, are those who obey His commandments- John 14 vs 15 - 25 - His friends are those who do what He says - John 15 vs 14. undecided

So if your religion in no way resembles that commanded of you by Jesus Christ, don't you see how it is in vain? undecided
Then was Jesus led up of the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted of the devil.Matthew 4:1

He was led by the Spirit........ how did you come up with the idea the trip was not planned?
Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by Kobojunkie: 4:09pm On Feb 18, 2022
thorpido:
1 Corinthians 7:5 admonishes couples to separate consensually for fasting and prayer and to come together again when the fast is over. When they break fasts,they eat and drink and can enjoy other pleasures(that are not sin when the fast is ended).
So you are insinuating that when a person goes one of your starvation diets, it is sin to engage in sex during such a time? Where exactly is this sin stated by Jesus Christ, the one who is God's actual Law and Truth in the Kingdom of God? undecided

Surely, you don't believe the opinions of Paul expressed in his letters written mainly to his Jewish audience overturns Jesus Christ, God's very own Law and commandments to you, right?, undecided
Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by thorpido(m): 4:12pm On Feb 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
So you are insinuating that when a person goes one of your starvation diets, it is sin to engage in sex during such a time? Where exactly is this sin stated by Jesus Christ, the one who is God's actual Law and Truth in the Kingdom of God? undecided

Surely, you don't believe the opinions of Paul expressed in his letters written mainly to his Jewish audience overturns Jesus Christ, God's very own Law and commandments to you, right?, undecided
I have not found it written anywhere in the scriptures that while people fasted,they also engaged in sex.

Apostle Paul's letters did not go contrary to Jesus's words.
Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by Kobojunkie: 4:15pm On Feb 18, 2022
thorpido:
Then was Jesus led up of the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted of the devil.Matthew 4:1

He was led by the Spirit........ how did you come up with the idea the trip was not planned?
Jesus Christ was also led by the Spirit of God to His death.... but we don't see people volunteering to be crucified on a cross like Jesus Christ was either.... your point? undecided

As I said.... Jesus Christ and Moses and even Elijah(I believe) all fasted for 40 days and 40 nights as a result of being with God in the wilderness for that long. The eventual fasting that took place was not planned by any of the men neither were they your 6-to-6 kind of starvation diets which you have all taken to formulating pretending you do so on behalf of God. undecided

On more than one occasion, including in Isaiah 58, God has instead cautioned that He does not care for your diets or your starving of your bodies..... in Isaiah 58, He again makes this known and reveals the kind of fasting He prefers from you - the key to letting your light shine as commanded by Jesus Christ. undecided
Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by thorpido(m): 4:19pm On Feb 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Jesus Christ was also led by the Spirit of God to His death.... but we don't see people volunteering to be crucified on a cross like Jesus Christ was either.... your point? undecided[b]

As I said.... Jesus Christ and Moses and even Elijah(I believe) all fasted for 40 days and 40 nights as a result of being with God in the wilderness for that long. The eventual fasting that took place was not planned by any of the men neither were they your [b]6-to-6
kind of starvation diets which you have all taken to formulating pretending you do so on behalf of God. undecided

On more than one occasion, including in Isaiah 58, God has instead cautioned that He does not care for your diets or your starving of your bodies..... in Isaiah 58, He again makes this known and reveals the kind of fasting He prefers from you - the key to letting your light shine as commanded by Jesus Christ. undecided
Kobojunkie,is anyone's death apart from that of Jesus of any spiritual significance?
Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by Kobojunkie: 4:20pm On Feb 18, 2022
thorpido:
1. I have not found it written anywhere in the scriptures that while people fasted,they also engaged in sex.

Apostle Paul's letters did not go contrary to Jesus's words.
Actually, many of Paul's opinions contradict Jesus Christ and that expressed in 1 Corinthians 7 vs 1 - 6 is one of them. undecided

This since in Luke 20 vs 34 - 36 , Jesus Christ more than made it clear that your marriages are of this world and not of His Kingdom. So why Paul would take it on Himself to counsel people regarding that which has nothing to do with the Kingdom of God (the definition of sin is of the Kingdom of God) is beyond me. undecided

And following Jesus Christ, it is not a sin for a married couple to have sex, before, during or after obeying God's own kind of fasting- Isaiah 58 - this since Jesus Christ decreed it as such. And no man, not even Paul has authority to add or remove from that which has been decreed in God's Law. undecided
Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by Kobojunkie: 4:23pm On Feb 18, 2022
thorpido:
Kobojunkie,is anyone's death apart from that of Jesus of any spiritual significance?
So somehow we are to go on starvation diets(fast) exactly as He did even though God, and Jesus Christ never asked us to? . undecided

But we must not in the same breath die exactly as Jesus Christ did because our deaths will not be of spiritual significance but somehow our starvation dieting(fasting) like Him will? undecided

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Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by thorpido(m): 4:27pm On Feb 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
So somehow we are to fast exactly as He did even though God, and Jesus Christ never asked us to? . undecided

But we must not in the same breath die exactly as Jesus Christ did because our deaths will not be of spiritual significance but somehow our fasting like Him will? undecided

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Jesus did.He once told his disciples there are things that can't be achieved but by praying and fasting.

Howbeit this kind goeth not out but by prayer and fasting.Matthew 17:21
Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by Kobojunkie: 4:30pm On Feb 18, 2022
thorpido:

Jesus did.He once told his disciples there are things that can't be achieved but by praying and fasting.

Howbeit this kind goeth not out but by prayer and Matthew 17:21
The mistake is mine here in that I forgot to make myself clear in that ...again.

So somehow we are to go on starvation diets(fast) exactly as He did even though God, and Jesus Christ never asked us to? . undecided

But we must not in the same breath die exactly as Jesus Christ did because our deaths will not be of spiritual significance but somehow our starvation dieting(fasting) like Him will? undecided

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Jesus Christ never did command His disciples to go on your starvation diet kind of fasting as that would have been in contradiction of God's own commandment given us in Isaiah 58.
Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by Richy4(m): 4:33pm On Feb 18, 2022
Cpumping:
Good Morning people,


Please I want to know, does having sex with your spouse during fasting in anyway affect/spoil the prayer?

I would need scriptural backing.

Just read 1 Corinthians 7 Vs 5... It's self explanatory.. ie if u were a Christian
Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by thorpido(m): 4:34pm On Feb 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
My mistake... here

So somehow we are to go on starvation diets(fast) exactly as He did even though God, and Jesus Christ never asked us to? . undecided

But we must not in the same breath die exactly as Jesus Christ did because our deaths will not be of spiritual significance but somehow our starvation dieting(fasting) like Him will? undecided

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Fasting is for individual self spiritual development.Every Christian needs it.

No man's death has any significance (and cannot have) like the death of Jesus.
Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by Kobojunkie: 4:35pm On Feb 18, 2022
thorpido:
Fasting is for individual self spiritual development.Every Christian needs it.

No man's death has no significance (and cannot have) like the death of Jesus.
Jesus Christ never did command His disciples to go on your starvation diet kind of fasting as that would have been in contradiction of God's own commandment given us in Isaiah 58. undecided

Starvation diets have nothing to do with what you call the Spiritual but instead to do with the human body and its fat deposits. When Jesus Christ came out of the wilderness from his ordeal, you are told He was hungry- His body as a result. undecided

If no man's death is of significance then of what significance is your starvation diet fasts which you claim is as taken from Jesus Christ starving for 40 days and nights? undecided
Re: Does Sex As A Couple During 'fasting And Prayer' Invalidate The Prayer? by Cpumping(m): 10:16pm On Feb 18, 2022
In other words, it exactly doesn't matter?
Richy4:


Just read 1 Corinthians 7 Vs 5... It's self explanatory.. ie if u were a Christian

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