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Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by Senobopo: 4:33pm On Feb 20, 2022

Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by oluwaseyi0: 4:33pm On Feb 20, 2022

very simple

whenever you meet buy something for her or be the first to give her money

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Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by illicit(m): 4:33pm On Feb 20, 2022

It's ur aunt

Take it, she's just being generous

Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by enobi2: 4:34pm On Feb 20, 2022

Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by espn(m): 4:34pm On Feb 20, 2022

Give her instead.

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Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by Ajimusty2: 4:35pm On Feb 20, 2022

Candidlady:

Money that you pocket .... Only to come here to start seeking advice...

She sees you as broke.... Up your game....

You prolly look like you need that 1k that's why the poor lady keeps giving you...

Urgent 2k piller

Tueh god forbid

And this one too go call himself man...

MANure that's what you are

and let the war begin.

Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by pocohantas(f): 4:36pm On Feb 20, 2022

She still sees you as a baby. Shebi na 1k? I get one uncle wey dey give me N200. If you see the rice he gave me when last I visited him with very HOT juice. As in, the juice was like he boiled it. I chop am o. Come step am down with the juice. Even his son refused to drink it, hahahaha. It was that HOT!!!

Also ensure you get her things when you visit. Then collect whatever she gives you. Sometimes my aunties would give me 2 udara. Cup of egusi. N200 ugba. Make e just be say them give something. That is what makes them happy. Collect the money o. My grandaunt that year would start crying if you don’t take it. So whenever I want to punish her, I will refuse her one cup of garri. She would na beg me. grin

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Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by Aplaudez(m): 4:36pm On Feb 20, 2022

Candidlady:

Money that you pocket .... Only to come here to start seeking advice...

She sees you as broke.... Up your game....

You prolly look like you need that 1k that's why the poor lady keeps giving you...

Urgent 2k piller

Tueh god forbid

And this one too go call himself man...

MANure that's what you are

Funnily enough it's your type that cannot boast of ordinary 5k in your account, and you're body shaming the man, I just pity your hubby sad

Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by Mariangeles(f): 4:36pm On Feb 20, 2022

linearity:
If you want to stop it, very simple….next time you see her, be the first to give her some money and make a good sum of money.

Or better still, take time out to visit her and buy stuff to take with you and money to thank her for her years of generosity towards you.

You said it.

Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by GboyegaD(m): 4:37pm On Feb 20, 2022

ChizzyBuna:
She is a rich woman, she has everything. If i see her and give her 2k it will look very weird.
I think maybe because i havent married or i dont have car yet

This is your mentality at 35? It is well with the future of Nigeria.

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Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by Awoleesu(m): 4:38pm On Feb 20, 2022*

OP, did I sense an empty ego in your narration... Or I'm wrong?

Something tells me your Aunt knows you're not yet "man" enough hence the continued gifting...

Don't worry, when you reach that stage, no one is gonna tell her to stop...not even you!

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Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by Techm8: 4:38pm On Feb 20, 2022*

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Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by dialfa: 4:39pm On Feb 20, 2022

Start giving her money and she'll stop.

Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by Mariangeles(f): 4:40pm On Feb 20, 2022

Candidlady:

Money that you pocket .... Only to come here to start seeking advice...

She sees you as broke.... Up your game....

You prolly look like you need that 1k that's why the poor lady keeps giving you...

Urgent 2k piller

Tueh god forbid

And this one too go call himself man...

MANure that's what you are

Babygirl, you’re fast changing.

Don’t let this place make you become who you’re not.
Be self conscious and objective in your views.

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Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by SweetDipBenny(m): 4:40pm On Feb 20, 2022

ChizzyBuna:
Im 35 years old and i have one aunty who is a generous lady. Anytime she visits and im around. She is always in the habit of giving us money from 1k to 5k.
Since 2015 she does this
Back then it was cool cuz i was young guy
But now as a man, it makes me feel uncomfortable.

Recently i meet her she gave me 1k as i was about to leave. I thought she wanted me to buy something for her. So i asked her what is the 1k for she said its for me.
I kinda felt sad, like why is this woman always giving me money anytime we meet.
One side of me hates this because as a man i feel weird to collect money from women. I feel i should be the one giving not recieving.

I almost didnt want to take the 1k, i just felt like does this woman think im homeless or a hungry broke guy that everytime we meet she give me like 1k oe 2k. Im confused

How do i react next time i see her and she wants to give me money. How should i politely reject it?

Bro if u want her to stop then start giving her moni

Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by slimmoney(m): 4:40pm On Feb 20, 2022

everytime u see her be the first to give her at least 50k, i bet u she will definitely understand that you are a big boy and u've arrived, then she will stop giving u those 1k to 2k stipends. grin

Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by Enyimbamercedes: 4:41pm On Feb 20, 2022

ChizzyBuna:
Im 35 years old and i have one aunty who is a generous lady. Anytime she visits and im around. She is always in the habit of giving us money from 1k to 5k.
Since 2015 she does this
Back then it was cool cuz i was young guy
But now as a man, it makes me feel uncomfortable.

Recently i meet her she gave me 1k as i was about to leave. I thought she wanted me to buy something for her. So i asked her what is the 1k for she said its for me.
I kinda felt sad, like why is this woman always giving me money anytime we meet.
One side of me hates this because as a man i feel weird to collect money from women. I feel i should be the one giving not recieving.

I almost didnt want to take the 1k, i just felt like does this woman think im homeless or a hungry broke guy that everytime we meet she give me like 1k oe 2k. Im confused

How do i react next time i see her and she wants to give me money. How should i politely reject it?

When next she wants to give you 1k, you tell her no thank you and give her 100k. Now that you are a man, you should show her you are a man

Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by AnthonyAk(m): 4:42pm On Feb 20, 2022

ChizzyBuna:
Im 35 years old and i have one aunty who is a generous lady. Anytime she visits and im around. She is always in the habit of giving us money from 1k to 5k.
Since 2015 she does this
Back then it was cool cuz i was young guy
But now as a man, it makes me feel uncomfortable.

Recently i meet her she gave me 1k as i was about to leave. I thought she wanted me to buy something for her. So i asked her what is the 1k for she said its for me.
I kinda felt sad, like why is this woman always giving me money anytime we meet.
One side of me hates this because as a man i feel weird to collect money from women. I feel i should be the one giving not recieving.

I almost didnt want to take the 1k, i just felt like does this woman think im homeless or a hungry broke guy that everytime we meet she give me like 1k oe 2k. Im confused

How do i react next time i see her and she wants to give me money. How should i politely reject it?

Lol she can sense ur lacking. Else at 35 she supposed dey tax you. When ever I'm around my aunties or my parents never pay for anything

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Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by Nobody: 4:42pm On Feb 20, 2022

czarr:
If you no want collect money from her, when next when comes give her money tell her to buy something for herself and trust me she'll stop giving you.....ode na pride go kill you, your problem no be say she dey give you money na the amount she dey give you dey worry you....if she increase am to 20k you go dey talk shii.

The Truth be say you are broke and she dey help your life if you get better work dey drive better car dey live for your own apartment dem no born am well give you that money, she dey give you cos she know say you need am.

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Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by ahnie: 4:42pm On Feb 20, 2022

Candidlady:

Money that you pocket .... Only to come here to start seeking advice...

She sees you as broke.... Up your game....

You prolly look like you need that 1k that's why the poor lady keeps giving you...

Urgent 2k piller

Tueh god forbid

And this one too go call himself man...

MANure that's what you are

Chai you're mean for centuries grin

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Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by nedekid: 4:43pm On Feb 20, 2022

Give her money when you visit.

Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by oladipuposadeeq(m): 4:43pm On Feb 20, 2022

Candidlady:

Money that you pocket .... Only to come here to start seeking advice...

She sees you as broke.... Up your game....

You prolly look like you need that 1k that's why the poor lady keeps giving you...

Urgent 2k piller

Tueh god forbid

And this one too go call himself man...

MANure that's what you are

why are you always like this grin

Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by Mariangeles(f): 4:43pm On Feb 20, 2022

GboyegaD:
This is your mentality at 35? It is well with the future of Nigeria.

I actually understand where he’s coming from.

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Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by baralatie(m): 4:44pm On Feb 20, 2022

czarr:
If you no want collect money from her, when next when comes give her money tell her to buy something for herself and trust me she'll stop giving you.....ode na pride go kill you, your problem no be say she dey give you money na the amount she dey give you dey worry you....if she increase am to 20k you go dey talk shii.

The Truth be say you are broke and she dey help your life if you get better work dey drive better car dey live for your own apartment dem no born am well give you that money, she dey give you cos she know say you need am.

Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by phenase(m): 4:45pm On Feb 20, 2022

Next time when you see her dodge under the bed till she passes by. You said that you are 35.

Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by ahnie: 4:45pm On Feb 20, 2022

Because you also looks and act broke

Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by SeriouslySense(m): 4:45pm On Feb 20, 2022

Sometimes, when people give me gift, and i don't need, it, i still thank them and collect it, because it makes me feel good that someone appreciate me and it also makes them feel good, that they can show that they care for someone.

She giving you gift, is not really because you need money, it makes her feel good, that she can show she cares.

One Aunty of mine always does that, and even if i don't need the money i collect it and thank her, it makes her happy.

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Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by Depressed101: 4:46pm On Feb 20, 2022

ChizzyBuna:
Im 35 years old and i have one aunty who is a generous lady. Anytime she visits and im around. She is always in the habit of giving us money from 1k to 5k.
Since 2015 she does this
Back then it was cool cuz i was young guy
But now as a man, it makes me feel uncomfortable.

Recently i meet her she gave me 1k as i was about to leave. I thought she wanted me to buy something for her. So i asked her what is the 1k for she said its for me.
I kinda felt sad, like why is this woman always giving me money anytime we meet.
One side of me hates this because as a man i feel weird to collect money from women. I feel i should be the one giving not recieving.

I almost didnt want to take the 1k, i just felt like does this woman think im homeless or a hungry broke guy that everytime we meet she give me like 1k oe 2k. Im confused

How do i react next time i see her and she wants to give me money. How should i politely reject it?

oga you are broke . Buy her car and see if she will come be dashing you 1k.use it to pay her for all the generosity she has been doing for you

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Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by xxgig(m): 4:46pm On Feb 20, 2022

ChizzyBuna:
Im 35 years old and i have one aunty who is a generous lady. Anytime she visits and im around. She is always in the habit of giving us money from 1k to 5k.
Since 2015 she does this
Back then it was cool cuz i was young guy
But now as a man, it makes me feel uncomfortable.

Recently i meet her she gave me 1k as i was about to leave. I thought she wanted me to buy something for her. So i asked her what is the 1k for she said its for me.
I kinda felt sad, like why is this woman always giving me money anytime we meet.
One side of me hates this because as a man i feel weird to collect money from women. I feel i should be the one giving not recieving.

I almost didnt want to take the 1k, i just felt like does this woman think im homeless or a hungry broke guy that everytime we meet she give me like 1k oe 2k. Im confused

How do i react next time i see her and she wants to give me money. How should i politely reject it?

You can't stop her, she is your aunt, and your senior. Not collecting it is you insulting her. Learn to gift her things too. Make a deliberate effort to give her something nice next time you see her

Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by Nobody: 4:46pm On Feb 20, 2022

Candidlady:
Brooklyn bridge ambassador spotted

Babe stop this broke shaming jarey undecided

not everybody can make it in life. You are privileged or from a privileged background does not mean every one had that opportunity k. You haven't seen over 35 year old men begging young guys of 20-25 money before? Just let them alone. Even me I'm saddened when I see a broke man because I know he's not living up to the potential God created him to be .

You are blessed. Happy sunday

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