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Femi Fani Kayode's custody battle with his estranged wife Precious is all over the news. Precious has been denied visitation rights to see her children. There are online petitions to help her. The real issue is this. FFK has money, power and influence to decide whether Precious sees her sons or not. Precious on the other hand is a nobody. She has no influence or connections. This may sound harsh but it is the reality on ground. Who knew Precious before FFK wooed her?

This is a bitter lesson to women who continue to broke shame poor guys/hustling guys. You want a man that is rich, established and powerful. Can you deal with his ego? There's nothing wrong with wanting a comfortable partner. It is part of nature. The problem is wanting a rich partner when you yourself have nothing to offer. A lady in this very forum actually said that women don't have to bring anything to the table as they are 'help mates'. I'm sure that's what Precious herself thought when she was dating FFK. A lot of these men from rich homes don't respect you if you have nothing to offer. To them, you are just a trophy/arm candy to impress their friends. If you misbehave, they will remind you of your class and how they polished you to their tastes. Can you handle that?

If Precious has done her research and was not so materialistic, she would have known that FFK's first and second marriages crashed because of his character. The women he was previously married to were from his class but left him when they couldn't deal with his narcissitic behaviour. As they were from the same class as FFK, they could afford to take care of their children and retain custody of them. Precious is not in the same position.

Also look at what happened to Caroline Danjuma. Her ex-husband had no respect for her and threw her out when he got bored of her. Mind you, Musa Danjuma's only achievement is being the brother of General Danjuma. Now contrast that to that of his nephew who is married to Agbani Darego. Agbani came to the marriage as an independent woman who can finance her own lifestyle. Why won't Ismaila Danjuma respect her? Nigerian women need to change their ways before it's too late.

The only reason Chikwendu or whatever she calls herself is seeking custody of those children is child support.

Chikwendu is unemployed and has nothing doing, why will she be requesting for custody of FFK children he had with her?

After alleging the children were brutalized and bullied with physical injuries, you now want to see same children you wished evil

FFK can be anything but he's not a SIMPle man. He's a real African man. He's not Westernized.

Nigerian men: forever advising Nigerian women to be cautious of Nigerian men.

Never changing.

FFK should hand over her children to her what more is she asking. Child support or not she wants to see her children is that hard too ask. I never liked that man for one-day. Don't know why,I feel her pains and pray she gets justice. You're right @Op women should try and be established before marriage so all these nonsense and insults won't be repeating itself.

Deborah98:
FFK should hand over her children to her what more is she asking. Child support or not she wants to see her children is that hard too ask. I never liked that man for one-day. Don't know why,I feel her pains and pray she gets justice. You're right @Op women should try and be established before marriage so all these nonsense and insults won't be repeating itself.

Go and kidnap the children and hand them over to your Chikwendu. Onyeoma CY

Zonefree:
Go and kidnap the children and hand them over to your Chikwendu. Onyeoma CY

I've noticed you. Try next door wailer

Nobody disrespects an asset...

Bros, I am not talking about alpha male or being a SIMP. I am looking at this simply from a social class perspective. All I am saying is that most broke Nigerian women believe that they don't have to bring anything to the table and expect a rich man to love them just the way they are. Of course Chikwendu is unemployed. If she had the resources to take care of her children, she would not be in this position. I actually don't have symphathy for her as she got herself into this mess.

Zonefree:
The only reason Chikwendu or whatever she calls herself is seeking custody of those children is child support.

Chikwendu is unemployed and has nothing doing, why will she be requesting for custody of FFK children he had with her?

After alleging the children were brutalized and bullied with physical injuries, you now want to see same children you wished evil

FFK can be anything but he's not a SIMPle man. He's a real African man. He's not Westernized.