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I have noticed I rather watch porn than have sex, I get tired of sex, I feel watching porn is all about me but having sex is more about satisfying your partner. Stoping watching porn is not an option for me. I want to enjoy sex more

How can I unread this this morning?

helinues:
How can I unread this this morning?

you can’t

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2buffagain:
Spirit husbands have lined up for you

hmmmmm

So I’m the only one or what

Liliantalks:
So I’m the only one or what

What you described is the beginning of sexual retardation.

Eventually you will Bleep up your mind so badly that you will not be aroused by humans again, but your hand+toys+porn.

It's a very real issue.

Liliantalks:
I have noticed I rather watch porn than have sex, I get tired of sex, I feel watching porn is all about me but having sex is more about satisfying your partner. Stoping watching porn is not an option for me. I want to enjoy sex more

That's what porn does to your brain. Even you can't see it until you quit.

Cucumber & ur fingers go don tire for the stress wey u dey give them. All you need is self control.

Op is male.

Liliantalks:
I have noticed I rather watch porn than have sex, I get tired of sex, I feel watching porn is all about me but having sex is more about satisfying your partner. Stoping watching porn is not an option for me. I want to enjoy sex more

Its the second stage of pornographyy addiction

Your mind is creating a false comfort zone around the high dose of sexual images you have been consuming watching

It may actually be a pointer to another psychological issue. perhaps you have been unconsciously developing fear or dislike for relationships because you feel it wont work, ( rate of divorce, heartbreak, domestic violence, insensitive women/men behavior in relationship etc),
so your mind may just be switching to a convenient coping mechanism to help you become more comfortable without intimacy with others...

Altogether it’s antisocial and may case total dissociation problems....u might need to reduce your p0rn dose or stop p0rn completely

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2buffagain:
What you described is the beginning of sexual retardation.

Eventually you will Bleep up your mind so badly that you will not be aroused by humans again, but your hand+toys+porn.

It's a very real issue.

Very true, and people that are involve in the act of watching porn will think that they are doing themselves good, not knowing that they are killing their sexual drive... Happy Sunday everyone..

Liliantalks:
I have noticed I rather watch porn than have sex, I get tired of sex, I feel watching porn is all about me but having sex is more about satisfying your partner. Stoping watching porn is not an option for me. I want to enjoy sex more

there are massive advantages of porn just as its disadvantages , sadly the media covers mostly its advantages, which is of equal measure to the bad side

I want to believe what I just read is something like joking stuffs?
If it’s true and if OP is truly a Lilian and not a Steve then it’s so freaking abnormal and I am not trying to judge you but you need to stop it because from my understanding it’s more like you are hooked on it already but it’s at its infant stage you can still do away with it because soon you won’t be attracted or aroused by nothing else other than porn or intimacy gadgets
You need to work with your partner try to enjoy his schlong and make everything about the pleasure and clear your mind off any pornos

2buffagain:
What you described is the beginning of sexual retardation.

Eventually you will Bleep up your mind so badly that you will not be aroused by humans again, but your hand+toys+porn.

It's a very real issue.

what can be done about it

advanceDNA:
Its the second stage of pornographyy addiction

Your mind is creating a false comfort zone around the high dose of sexual images you have been consuming watching

It may actually be a pointer to another psychological issue. perhaps you have been unconsciously developing fear or dislike for relationships because you feel it wont work, ( rate of divorce, heartbreak, domestic violence, insensitive women/men behavior in relationship etc),
so your mind may just be switching to a convenient coping mechanism to help you become more comfortable without intimacy with others...

Altogether it’s antisocial and may case total dissociation problems....u might need to reduce your p0rn dose or stop p0rn completely

it’s hard to stop seriously.

Liliantalks:
it’s hard to stop seriously.

I know...many people have been down that ugly road...
It’s one of those dirty things people should never see... but if you are determined, it’s possible to stop..

tillaman:
I want to believe what I just read is something like joking stuffs?
If it’s true and if OP is truly a Lilian and not a Steve then it’s so freaking abnormal and I am not trying to judge you but you need to stop it because from my understanding it’s more like you are hooked on it already but it’s at its infant stage you can still do away with it because soon you won’t be attracted or aroused by nothing else other than porn or intimacy gadgets
You need to work with your partner try to enjoy his schlong and make everything about the pleasure and clear your mind off any pornos

I’ll try my best , I haven’t been in a serious relationship of constant sex , and I hate having sex with random people

Liliantalks:
I’ll try my best , I haven’t been in a serious relationship of constant sex , and I hate having sex with random people

very understandable but then let no one judge you
The smartest people are the ones who admit they have a weakness unlike the ones that won’t swallow their pride and come out clean so they can get the help they deserve

Thinking of how to increase my sex drive .

i have update on this.

Liliantalks:
i have update on this.

oya share us na

Have u bn fvcking rather than self servicing??

Liliantalks:
i have update on this.

we're all eyes..

still havnt stoped, tho i enjoy sex better now than i use to because i have had a better sex partner, but then i still enjoy the experience with pornography. worse thing is i don’t ever want to change, like i don’t ever want to stop, previously i had the impression that i needed to stop , but now i don’t care anymore, it makes me happy and satisfacted, doesn’t break my heart and very reliable, so why not?

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Liliantalks:
still havnt stoped, tho i enjoy sex better now than i use to because i have had a better sex partner, but then i still enjoy the experience with pornography. worse thing is i don’t ever want to change, like i don’t ever want to stop, previously i had the impression that i needed to stop , but now i don’t care anymore, it makes me happy and satisfacted, doesn’t break my heart and very reliable, so why not?

live your life. no one really cares

Liliantalks:
still havnt stoped, tho i enjoy sex better now than i use to because i have had a better sex partner, but then i still enjoy the experience with pornography. worse thing is i don’t ever want to change, like i don’t ever want to stop, previously i had the impression that i needed to stop , but now i don’t care anymore, it makes me happy and satisfacted, doesn’t break my heart and very reliable, so why not?

Interesting insights.

Do you watch soft or hardcore porn?
Second, as a female, where you ever a reader of intense romance novels before gravitating to porn?

I read years back that about 70 percent of ladies have watched some level of porn in their lives. Some females are mentally and visually wired to have a keen sense of imagination though.