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Mariangeles:
A man who loves, provides.
A man shows love by providing.
I’ve said this before; a man expresses love by giving/providing.

Why should a man stop providing for his family?

No dispute na...

As long as grace and health is on his side, he will continue to provide..And gets loads of love in return. From both wify and kids.

A man stops providing due to many factors;
1. Misfortune.
2.health challenge.
3.circumstances beyond his control.
4.laziness
5.Bad decisions.
6.A devouring wife... Infact this one can turn you from somebody to a Nobody.

Maria you know all this things very well...I wuni intelligent babe..these things are natural bound..Except if a man's grace is big enough to help him navigate fine fine..

Love is sweet, according to bible, a man loves his woman, as she cares about him..Love is sweeter when there is finance to aid provisions na.

He becomes more successful and I remain his only beloved wife.

MsFaith:
He becomes more successful and I remain his only beloved wife.

choose one

Iyaebe:
Your husband becomes very successful and takes a second wife or He remains broke and keep only you as his wife. Which of the options will you go for?

Let him take a second wife
Rent an apartment for her and shuttle both homes

By the time he is done fooling himself, me as the first wife has already settled my children

And when he is old, I will make sure he gets the same emotional pains he gave me when he married a second wife

frozen70:
Let him take a second wife
Rent an apartment for her and shuttle both homes

By the time he is done fooling himself, me as the first wife has already settled my children

And when he is old, I will make sure he gets the same emotional pains he gave me when he married a second wife

Thanks for been truthful, you come as a vengeful person sha.

Iyaebe:
Thanks for been truthful, you come as a vengeful person sha.

I have to be truthful but nothing like being vengeful

He married me when he was poor and we worked hard together and now he becomes rich and the best way to appreciate me is to get another wife

Do me I do you, equation balance

No time to tolerate nonsense

frozen70:
I have to be truthful but nothing like being vengeful

He married me when he was poor and we worked hard together and now he becomes rich and the best way to appreciate me is to get another wife

Do me I do you, equation balance

No time to tolerate nonsense

lol but what if your kids frowns at your vengeful actions, you'll have no option than to let go.

Iyaebe:
lol but what if your kids frowns at your vengeful actions, you'll have no option than to let go.

Which kids will frawn

Don't you know that the kids you are talking about cares much about thier mum

Incase you don't know, when a man marries another wife on top of his first wife, the kids becomes more loyal to their mum

frozen70:
Which kids will frawn

Don't you know that the kids you are talking about cares much about thier mum

Incase you don't know, when a man marries another wife on top of his first wife, the kids becomes more loyal to their mum

The female kids but not the make kids.Haven't you observed that male kids always see no problems with their cheating dad,they'll even tell their mom to stop nagging and allow their dad have some rest.

Iyaebe:
The female kids but not the make kids.Haven't you observed that male kids always see no problems with their cheating dad,they'll even tell their mom to stop nagging and allow their dad have some rest.

Why not practice what the topic is by marrying two wives and tell me your experience

Whatever feelings or support the daughters have over thier mum

The home still belongs to their mother

frozen70:
I have to be truthful but nothing like being vengeful

He married me when he was poor and we worked hard together and now he becomes rich and the best way to appreciate me is to get another wife

Do me I do you, equation balance

No time to tolerate nonsense

If that's the case, then I don't advise polygamy and would be the first to chastise the man for cheating.

Since you gave up your hypergamous nature to build with him, it only makes sense he gives up his polygamous nature and stick with/respect you.

I also support you being vengeful in this instance.

Raalsalghul:
If that's the case, then I don't advise polygamy and would be the first to chastise the man for cheating.

Since you gave up your hypergamous nature to build with him, it only makes sense he gives up his polygamous nature and stick with/respect you.

I also support you being vengeful in this instance.

Lol

Iyaebe:
Your husband becomes very successful and takes a second wife or He remains broke and keep only you as his wife. Which of the options will you go for?

I don’t like the idea of having 2 wives bt I hate being broke even more. I will manage the 2 sexy wives and being successful.

Thank you.

jaxxy:
I don’t like the idea of having 2 wives bt I hate being broke even more. I will manage the 2 sexy wives and being successful.

Thank you.

You are a womaniser

Iyaebe:
You are a womaniser

I wish I was bt I’m not. I’m focused on more important things than women. Lol

MufasaLion:
They'd rather die than accept polygamy. It's just a natural instinct.

Hope u will take it with joyful heart, for ur wife to pass one night on Dangote bed with amazing rough sex and make u rich the second day.
(Dnt forget not that Dangote wants to be dating her or make her second wife o)

frozen70:
Let him take a second wife
Rent an apartment for her and shuttle both homes

By the time he is done fooling himself, me as the first wife has already settled my children

And when he is old, I will make sure he gets the same emotional pains he gave me when he married a second wife

Na wah... na real Frozen70

killmods:
Na wah... na real Frozen70

Lol, I will just freeze him

frozen70:
Lol, I will just freeze him

Hmm... The worst that can happen to anyone is suffering in old age and i don't believe u can be that wicked

killmods:
Hmm... The worst that can happen to anyone is suffering in old age and i don't believe u can be that wicked

Really
So when he married another wife to rival me, its not wickedness ?

frozen70:
Really
So when he married another wife to rival me, its not wickedness ?

Well.. It's a case of two wrongs not making it right. It's best to leave this place happy u know and u nor go fit happy when ur the cause of his pain. Just let karma do her thing

killmods:
Well.. It's a case of two wrongs not making it right. It's best to leave this place happy u know and u nor go fit happy when ur the cause of his pain. Just let karma do her thing

Exactly

MufasaLion:
Exactly!

Even we men wouldn't want our woman to be shared.

A woman that's being shared is called: a 304, and she belongs to the STREETS.
Men and women are NOT equal. Each have its own strength and weaknesses.

Iyaebe:
Simple question that demands simple answer but you decided to type trash.

He's probably a grad/an undergrad of one of our "prestigious" tertiary institutions. Another reason ASUU should never resume, I mean these are their products anyways.

Very successful and takes a second wife.

FlowerGirl040:
Very successful and takes a second wife.

Are you sure it’s coming from your heart

Iyaebe:
Are you sure it’s coming from your heart

Very well. I have no prob at all. I have my reasons

FlowerGirl040:
Very well. I have no prob at all. I have my reasons

Let's read your reasons and are you a Christian?

Iyaebe:
Let's read your reasons and are you a Christian?

The thing is to pray for a good Co wife. So that the both can help each other,when the other one is sick or something. When one put to birth,there is someone close by to help. When one wife is down with a brief illness or childbirth,Oga will have someone to satisfy his sexual urge to me it's better a man who has the resources to marry a second wife than sleeping around secretly or been unfaithful. What am I saying sef well,I don't know for other women but my selflessness and kind soul will have no prob having a good Co wife. Life is easy. Let another woman come enjoy marital bliss with me instead of sleeping around with men or jumping from one boyfriend to another.

Just so you know,I am married already and a Muslim, though I know why you ask if I am a Christian

FlowerGirl040:
The thing is to pray for a good Co wife. So that the both can help each other,when the other one is sick or something. When one put to birth,there is someone close by to help. When one wife is down with a brief illness or childbirth,Oga will have someone to satisfy his sexual urge to me it's better a man who has the resources to marry a second wife than sleeping around secretly or been unfaithful. What am I saying sef well,I don't know for other women but my selflessness and kind soul will have no prob having a good Co wife. Life is easy. Let another woman come enjoy marital bliss with me instead of sleeping around with men or jumping from one boyfriend to another.

Just so you know,I am married already and a Muslim, though I know why you ask if I am a Christian

I understand you better now and would like to put it to you that no matter how kind your soul is,jealousy will certainly set in at some point,you try all the same

Iyaebe:
I understand you better now and would like to put it to you that no matter how kind your soul is,jealousy will certainly set in at some point,you try all the same

Yes,I am aware of the jealousy,been able to control it is the best and also having it in mind that naturally men are not the same with we women. And if the man itself knows how to control his home,put everyone in order,abide by his rules and talk things out then there will be some peace.

There are some men that you can't stop them from doing what they want to do. Everything is about wisdom. Last last na the woman go leave her marriage. Or jumping from one marriage to another

FlowerGirl040:
Yes,I am aware of the jealousy,been able to control it is the best and also having it in mind that naturally men are not the same with we women. And if the man itself knows how to control his home,put everyone in order,abide by his rules and talk things out then there will be some peace.

There are some men that you can't stop them from doing what they want to do. Everything is about wisdom. Last last na the woman go leave her marriage. Or jumping from one marriage to another

Well,you tried if you truly mean all you typed