₦airaland Forum

I believe abortion is not a good thing for both married and single ladies ( even though some stupid guys pushed single ladies into it... That's off topic anyway). But there some married women that determine not to have kids again due to the numbers they already have, Some even go for family planning but the truth is family planning do failed.

Now in a situation couple mostly gotten all the kids and base on thier income and planing, they decided not to have kids again but woman get pregnant. If they allow the baby to grow, it will affect the financially.

Let look at another example by Richy4

A situation where hoodlums invaded a home of a married couple and raped the woman.. she conceived in the process.... Is it appropriate for her to abort the pregnancy considering the fact that she is a married woman

So it's Biblical for the woman to terminate the pregnancy?


Lalasticlala
Seun
mynd44
Mukina2
dominique

Abortion is abortion...whether married or single.

donbachi:
Abortion is abortion...whether married or single.

But in a situation where you already have 4 kids and base on your income and economy, u can't afford to have another one again, what will you do?

obembet:
But in a situation where you already have 4 kids and base on your income and economy, u can't afford to have another one again, what will you do?

use birth control measures....too many out there.no dey use withdrawal method next time.

Marital status doesn't change what abortion is.

It's a sin to starve your children or not to be able to care for them...

Married or single it’s the same. Marriage doesn’t make one woman better than another or more worthy of reproductive rights & healthcare than another.

I’m saying this because in my experience, people find it easier to judge single women for having abortions but will excuse it if it’s a married woman.

obembet:
So it's Biblical for the woman to terminate the pregnancy since the it's early?

Your question makes little to no sense since Jesus Christ made it know that your marriages have absolutely nothing to do with His Kingdom- Luke 20 vs 34-36.

I dont think it's right for married women to have abortion when it can be prevented thru family planning. However I would only suggest abortion if the pregnancy is life threatening, the baby is deformed or has some health abnormalities.

Otherwise she should keep the pregnancy since she knew their financial condition yet she couldn't prevent the pregnancy after 4 kids.

Let her birth this one, both of them will be more careful next time..

Single women—— Abortion
Married women—— Termination of pregnancy

Beremx:
Single women—— Abortion
Married women—— Termination of pregnancy

Double standards.

obembet:
I believe abortion is not a good thing for both married and single ladies ( even though some stupid guys pushed single ladies into it... That's off topic anyway). But there some married women that determine not to have kids again due to the numbers they already have, Some even go for family planning but the truth is family planning do failed.

Now in a situation where couple already have kids and base on thier income and planing, they decided not to have kids again but woman get pregnant. If they allow the baby to grow, it will affect the financially.

So it's Biblical for the woman to terminate the pregnancy since the it's early?


Lalasticlala
Seun
mynd44
Mukina2
dominique

Sin is sin.

There is no big and small sin

Whether single or married, it is inhumane to end a life.
It is hard enough to uproot a growing plant, how much more a growing child.

It depends on the decisions of the couples.

Saintmary:
Double standards.

exactly!!

Beremx:
exactly!!

In Ondo State, unmarried women were excluded from the free family planning initiative provided by Dr Mimiko's administration around 2016. The discrimination was perpetrated by Nurses in Primary Health Centers. You must come with your husband.


I wonder if women's uteruses are only activated by wedding rings.

ahnie:
I did 37 abortions last week,now m looking for my womb


Incase you see my lost womb,pls kindly help me hang it at my door knob

It's medically impossible to get pregnant 37 times in a week.

It takes 14 days for a human zygote to get implanted in the uterus.


After a natural or medically induced miscarriage, you need nothing less than 14-28 days before another ovulation occurs.


I don't know where you got your story from.

Saintmary:
It's medically impossible to get pregnant 37 times in a week.

It takes 14 days for a human zygote to get implanted in the uterus.


After a natural or medically induced miscarriage, you need nothing less than 14-28 days before another ovulation occurs.


I don't know where you got your story from.

Just bn sarcastic.

It's easy to judge women, of course they are soft targets, there is no consequence for using women as butts of ignorant jokes.


But to my knowledge, sexual intercourse is done by two individuals.

It is completely absurd to hang only one party to dry and the most annoying part is that this is done by women mostly, men only treat women as badly as women treat women.




Sure, you're perfect, you've never sinned, you gave your virginity to your husband on your matrimonial bed.


Perfect, quintessential virtuous woman.


We hail you.


That is why you can't approach your fellow women when trouble comes, when you've tangled up yourself in your web of self righteousness, isn't your life so lonely?


Wee you just keep kwayet?

cococandy:
Married or single it’s the same. Marriage doesn’t make one woman better than another or more worthy of reproductive rights & healthcare than another.

I’m saying this because in my experience, people find it easier to judge single women for having abortions but will excuse it if it’s a married woman.

Saintmary:
In Ondo State, unmarried women were excluded from the free family planning initiative provided by Dr Mimiko's administration around 2016. The discrimination was perpetrated by Nurses in Primary Health Centers. You must come with your husband.


I wonder if women's uteruses are only activated by wedding rings.

These nurses are women

ahnie:
Just bn sarcastic.

Sarcasm at women's expense?


I don't think you're female!

Saintmary:
These nurses are women

Yes. Sadly the notion that married women deserve certain rights over single women is upheld by women. It’s a lot to unpack.

They’ll come for my head now if I start, as if I don’t like married women. But I think all women deserve equitable consideration . Marriage doesn’t place one on a pedestal over being a single lady or single mom.

Beremx:
Single women—— Abortion
Married women—— Termination of pregnancy

Haha. Sounds perfect

cococandy:
Haha. Sounds perfect

na so coco. That’s how Nigerians have classified it

How are you doing? Enjoy your new week sis

cococandy:
Yes. Sadly the notion that married women deserve certain rights over single women is upheld by women. It’s a lot to unpack.

They’ll come for my head now if I start as if I don’t like married women. But I think all women deserve equitable consideration . Marriage doesn’t place one on a pedestal over being a single lady or single mom.

Abortion with single women is not the same as abortion among married women. When a married woman considers abortion, she's mostly gotten all the kids. You can't say the same for single women who are at risk of unwanted or undesired complications.

A complicated or bad womb to a mother of 4 is not a bad news.

Depends on the legal status of abortion wherever she is

Acidosis:
Abortion with single women is not the same as abortion among married women. When a married woman considers abortion, she's mostly gotten all the kids. You can't say the same for single women who are at risk of unwanted or undesired complications.

I’m talking from the perspective of wrong versus right.

You know how some people feel abortion is wrong but they have a different opinion if the person who does it is married. I feel they should keep the same energy both ways.

Beremx:
na so coco. That’s how Nigerians have classified it

How are you doing? Enjoy your new week sis

I’m fine dear. Thanks
You too have a great week.

Saintmary:
Sarcasm at women's expense?


I don't think you're female!

Pls take it easy ma'am.