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Mercychen:
Hes different. In fact, the reason I replied his PM then was because after observing him for some time, I discovered he's very reserved. Writes intelligently and only visits mature sections. Religion section.

He was actually talking about a serious relationship. So we exchanged pics but what I saw discouraged me. He had the appearance of a Married man. You know that Married man looks. He called and we Spoke. He speaks so well and sounds great on the phone but I just kept wondering why he looked like that.


Should I tell him straight up what I think? Or ignore him altogether.

I don't know what he wants this time.

ITbomb:
See how the other gender gather to cast aspersions on innocent married men

Mercychen:
Almost Everything. His waistline has dropped.
His wide belly and weak chest. ( Chuckles)

Though he still has a youthful face.

MrBrownJay1:
thats the only way to confirm that he aint married....

Skyview01:
Nope, If she has any doubts, its best to walk away, no house calls.

MrBrownJay1:
problem here is that this is all assumptions because you'd rather run than get answers to your query. you dont want to work that hard for the "possible" right man.

i am not saying he is married but the only way to find out is to actually A) ask and/or B) get proof that he aint. if you believe that this dude aint worth the time/effort then just continue blocking him and be merry.

Mercychen:
Maybe his wife is pregnant again. They are always doing that when their wifes are pregnant.

CatANDratTHEORY:
I stopped reading at
"He had the appearance of a Married man. You know that Married man looks. "

Abeg, how do married men look?

Candidlady:
Ihad to pause to ask a question



How can you have the appearance of a married man?

Like seriously

This is new



Modified : auntie iam done reading erthing please be careful that is all ican say!! These men can't be trusted...



The appearance part in your write up is still cracking me up was it his eyes, height, body size or his lips that gave him out as a married man .

°°°°°choking on my CB°°°

Naijanascam:
How do you know a married man?
Do you see him with sienna vehicle?
Do you hear the cry of a baby in the background?

With all these questions of mine I came to conclude that you are impatient and confused

DarlingtonC:
Observant people can actually know a married man by his looks

Mercychen:
So you don't know how married men look? Hian! Lol..

DarlingtonC:
Observant people can actually know a married man by his looks

Candidlady:
Woah

Can you tell if a Lady is married by her appearance ?

Naijanascam:
Far from that bro

DarlingtonC:
Yes I can

DarlingtonC:
True. It shows on man if he is married or not.

Naijanascam:
It shows on a low budget married man

Candidlady:
How please

DarlingtonC:
It's indescribable. But I can tell

Justkatty:
�������Thank you for making my day

DarlingtonC:
Lies.

Actually shows more on someone who feeds well

Mercychen:
Maybe his wife is pregnant again. They are always doing that when their wifes are pregnant.

faithfull18:
Lol, true or the wife travelled.

Mercychen:
They don't know some of us know their ways .

SweetSauce:
He is probably married, no need asking him, cos he will deny it, just ignore him.

Mercychen:
Yeah. There's this nairalander I became friends with some time last year or after the lock down. I can't really remember.

Hes different. In fact, the reason I replied his PM then was because after observing him for some time, I discovered he's very reserved. Writes intelligently and only visits mature sections. Religion section.

He was actually talking about a serious relationship. So we exchanged pics but what I saw discouraged me. He had the appearance of a Married man. You know that Married man looks. He called and we Spoke. He speaks so well and sounds great on the phone but I just kept wondering why he looked like that.


I told him to send a few more pics, he did but he still had that look.
While I was still caught in the whole confusion, something happened.

He's been the one calling. So one day I felt, let me do the calling today at least. I did but he didn't pick. He now called and said he'll call back later. I didn't think anything of it.
He called and we talked at length and all through he kept talking in the direction of marriage.

I called him another day, he didn't pick but later called and told me he'll call at a particular time. That was when I began to connect the dots. Like why does he prefer to do the calling at a particular hour of the day? I began to zero my mind.

He later called and asked me what time of the day Im free for calls as he wouldn't want to interrupt anything. I told him at nights.

He called me at the agreed time and I picked but the thing is if I call, he never picks.
So one day, he called and I picked then he immediately said I should give him some secs that he needs to change location. He called back and was sounding like someone in a hole. . I asked why the background was so quiet, he said he was in the bathroom. . I let him finish what he was saying and blocked his line and WhatsApp.

Now, i blocked him because I felt he was prolly married, that was why he never picks my calls and choses a paticular time to call me to the point of hiding in the bathroom. So I forgot all about him.

He called me with another line, I blocked it again and it ended there. I deactivated the moniker he knows.

Yesterday, he sent a mail to my old account and was trying to strike a convo and asking why he hasn't heard from me in a while.

He seemed like a good guy/man but that shady character is what I don't get. I have a feeling he's married.

Should I tell him straight up what I think? Or ignore him altogether.

I don't know what he wants this time.