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SmellySperm:
I be Akwa Ibom boy. You sound stup!d. Cone headed biafran

It seems your father didn't leave any property for you to rent out till 2026?

Christonjnr:
I have this guy who's really broke.squats with his friend Ina one room apartment,when his Frnd got married,they pushed him away.
He came to me asking for my help,he wanted to sale his hand phone but he has lost the receipt. Do to the reason i deal in phones and acessories I helped him and issued his another receipt.
I didn't know he stole the phone.when they got arrested he said I'm a syndicate that used to issued them receipt whenever they stole phone. And they even raped a lady where they stole the phone. I later used 200k to bail my self

O boy!

"Pick up a bee from kindness, and learn the limitations of kindness." —Sufi Proverb

, it will be okay cheer up

Drsnives:
My parents..
For giving birth to me in Nigeria

dapolaw:
Someone I called a friend stole my car where it was parked in my office in 2013. I never knew he had cut a spare key when we both went to Ladipo to love-vendor the ride

The dude was even helping me to look for the thief not knowing he was the one that did the job

How did you find out he did it, and what was his reaction?

I'm sorry for any typo graphical error cos i'm writing this in tears.
I am happy to come across this topic,I come from a family where there's no peace,I grew up knowing my late father nd his elder sister were d only close ones in their family of five,My father served and trusted my aunty so much,My mum started working in my aunty's organization when I was still tender as a cleaner,I remember vividly how my mum worked tirelessly to make my aunty happy,out of the whole women married into the family,she was the only one that respected and served my father's elder sister,she washes her clothes including her undies,people called my mum servant because of how she was running errands for my aunt,infact she saw my aunt as a big sister she never had.My father on his own side helped her alot,he was always there at her beck and call,he made sure he puts smile on her face.When I finished my University Education,I started working in my aunt's organization cause I noticed alot of things going wrong there,I took her as a mum nd loved her so much. I gave her 10years of my life and lost so many opportunities that would have better my life.Unfortunately I lost my dad in 2020.(He died at the age of 56years)
To cut the whole story short,this my aunty abandoned my family and I when my mother had partial stroke and we needed her the most,she accused my mum of witchcraft,due to the shock of what happened I had a premature birth and spent months in the hospital,while in the hospital she refused to pay my salary for the month I stopped working, she also refused to pay my mum who was also on sick bed.The betrayal was too much cos she went as far as tarnishing my family's image,telling everyone how she fed my family,how she single handedly buried my dad which is a big lie,and how my mum is a witch.Right now my mum is dying of heartbreak cos the only person she thought she has has abandoned her.People are laughing at us cos they warned us about this my aunt but we never listen.I'm still waiting on God to judge this case cause the heartbreak is just too much.

Goodoption:
The guy I admit into my apartment, with support for skill acquisition, went ahead and borrow money from his family members to pay my house rent secretly.

Remember my rent is 4 months to due.

But as God has it, he whom liveth and doeth with good heart, can never came out unfortunate.

Proceed to the day of payment, while I was on a trip, my neighbor called me to come back as soon as possible, that he's been outside to dodge his presence.

Thinking that it's a joke, till he brought out the money the guy I admit gave him to help and make the payment. Behold was fed up with goosebumps.


And guess what?

I packed all his belonging, and he lost the skill he's acquiring.

Fear humans, especially your town ppl.


Lesson learnt.

You are very correct at the bolded, only few are actually good.

Okunga:
How old are you?

23

Adunmhi:
Akin he always like a blood brother to me I never knew he has is own plan
We do talked about my future,education,my sex life we also talked about him too
The movement of destruction started June 05 2020 Aunty Oyin wedding,he invited me to follow him to the wedding which I did we had fun and he take care of me after about two week I followed him to another wedding in yaba, the wedding was on Saturday so we left oshodi on Friday night since yaba is just some hours from oshodi.
We both logged in the same room I had to pull off my bra so I slept off with my cloth on I started feeling some strange touch in my body I had to wake up and check only for me to find out he’s the one touching me sexually I pleased with him not to do this to me that I don’t want any sexual contact from him I briefly remember he telling me that is going to be secret betweeen the both of us I said no we had a little argument over it and he stop touching me
On the wedding day he expected me to react to show him attitude but I didn’t cause I thought is temptation we came home friendly after everything
The next three days we had a conversation on the issue and he tried to force himself on me fortunately I just finish my menstruation he penetrated with force which resolve to me bleeding blood from my vagina he apologize and claim nothing happen that he was unable to penetrate we fought for like 20second before he asked me to clean up myself
Two day after that we both agreed on a contract that we are going to have sex for one month and he’s going to pay 70k we started having the sex ending of June Nd is meant to end in July but because he can’t resist me we had it till the day I left for school which is August 23rd of 2020 he gave me the money I remember during those time I did everything called house chores including his laundry
I went to school on 23rd of August since then we have been communicating like we are dating until I met oluwafemi I told akin about femi but he said no that I should not get close to him but I ignored him because he once told me he had sex with shukurat when I was away
I came back home on the 26th of December i had to tell him everything that happen between me and oluwafemi cause my real boyfriend Emma was fighting with me then.finding out the truth about me and femi made him give me some attitude which I later pleased with him to forgive me since I came back he has been trying to have sex with me again but I told him we ended the contract that we can’t have sex,due to the fact that am having feeling for him I allowed him to continue having sex with me there was a day I was on drip he stop the drip and had sex with me in the midnight till I almost lost conscious I had to go back to school cause we are to resume back to school which is on the 25th of January we are both calling each other doing videos call and showing him all my body he ask me to come to his home town which I did and we spent some days before he ask me to come to Lagos I said no but he said he will give me full attention that no one will come between us he also said he will fight with Iya Malik (the married woman I thought they are friend but they dating) just to be with me till I go back to school everything change the moment I get to Lagos he started going to Iya Malik shop to sit down while me am waiting for him inside is room when ever am with him and she came am the one to leave that spot I had to control myself just because I don’t want to hurt him on the 4th of March he confront me that am showing her attitude and the woman will be thinking we are both having sex he also told me that he prefer I know that he had sex with her than her to know we both are having sex that statement got me upset that I kept malice with him for 4 days he later called me to apologize and we had sex that day upon all his pleading he still went back to the woman I told him that I want to cook for him he said Jumai(the girl he accommodated because he had accommodation issue)will be upset if I cook,on the 11th of March I had to summon courage to tell him my mind but he said he want us to stop everything we are doing that is a sin, he not proud of it that he don’t want anybody in the street to know about us,I just told him yes that we are done.
It really painful cause I thought he will be different from all my ex boyfriend but no he’s also like them he’s even more corny than them

Baby girl, your story is very weird. Nevertheless, a single advice I'd give you is that you stop sleeping with them.

Any small thing, sex. Ahn ahn, I can count more than 7 times you wrote sex.

I don't think Lab rats even have sex that frequently.

Just Calm down.

Bought an ice cream to a bitch she took it to her new boyfriend and enjoy with him, when I realized I was damn angry, I confronted the bitch and got my money back no cap.

Jesus is Lord.

Christonjnr:
I have this guy who's really broke.squats with his friend Ina one room apartment,when his Frnd got married,they pushed him away.
He came to me asking for my help,he wanted to sale his hand phone but he has lost the receipt. Do to the reason i deal in phones and acessories I helped him and issued his another receipt.
I didn't know he stole the phone.when they got arrested he said I'm a syndicate that used to issued them receipt whenever they stole phone. And they even raped a lady where they stole the phone. I later used 200k to bail my self

Very sorry to hear this, it is hurtful to be in a position that no body cares.

But, why do you think it was a betrayal on that part and not shared wickedness and lack of empathy?

For someone to betray you, you must have given them some in confidence or trust and there is a verbal and no verbal understanding or knowledge to be toll the line but they later fall out and turned against you.

e.g. It will be a betrayal if you had given them money to buy you food or take care of you and they assured you that will do it, but later turned their back on you and don’t do it.

Rubyjade:
People will betray you, you can't escape it. What is more important is that you come out Better

Have you being betrayed before? Share your story, you might heal

Use share so others can learn


While I was working for a company. I got diagnosed of a kidney infection and was admitted in the hospital for two weeks. I was staying with my father’s elder sister at the time because my parents were here in Abuja

Two weeks of constant drugs,drips and injections on my *you know* and guess what, my aunt and her family never came to visit for one day. My friends(even tho I didn’t have a lot of them) were to busy to come see me. No company representative to pay me a visit.

Everyday I would walk to the little store close to the hospital to buy biscuits and yoghurt because no one would bring them to me.


Betrayal hurts so bad because it never comes from strangers but those of your household.

This is why I recommend people live like they are alone on this planet. Have zero expectations. Any human can become anything at anytime.When u expect so much from people, betrayal is inevitable. Live ur life without expectations.

na so life be o

https://gist.am/question/people-will-betray-you-you-cant-escape-it-have-you-being-betrayed-before-share-your-story

Brandonx:
After I was betrayed by a friend I arrived at the conclusion that thing happens for a reason.

Years ago I was still trying to get on my feet , I was working somewhere and I needed a better job. I met one woman (a family friend to my friend) who told me she had a better job for me , I went to her place with my friend, he sat and watched me negotiate salary and saw that the salary was big Two days later he came to me that the woman said I shouldn’t resume. I later found out he resigned from where he was and started working for the woman.

I already resigned so I was jobless , he probably felt bad so he looked for a demeaning job for me, I had no option than to accept. I was angry for months and I hated my friend for that .

But that job paved way for me, tho the pay was very small and I worked there for three months but the connections I made whilst working there brought me to where I am today.

Today that same friend is still trying to get on his feet.

Adunmhi:
23

Na only sex sex and more sex I Dey see for your post.

Them done use sex/preeq confuse you.


Let go off all the men in your life and stick with the single one, that’s if he is really single.


But 70k for 1 month?? How many rounds a day? Just curiously asking

No betrayal spotted here. Welcome to the real world, where everybody dey run their race

Rubyjade:
People will betray you, you can't escape it. What is more important is that you come out Better

Have you being betrayed before? Share your story, you might heal

Use share so others can learn


While I was working for a company. I got diagnosed of a kidney infection and was admitted in the hospital for two weeks. I was staying with my father’s elder sister at the time because my parents were here in Abuja

Two weeks of constant drugs,drips and injections on my *you know* and guess what, my aunt and her family never came to visit for one day. My friends(even tho I didn’t have a lot of them) were to busy to come see me. No company representative to pay me a visit.

Everyday I would walk to the little store close to the hospital to buy biscuits and yoghurt because no one would bring them to me.


Betrayal hurts so bad because it never comes from strangers but those of your household.

This is why I recommend people live like they are alone on this planet. Have zero expectations. Any human can become anything at anytime.When u expect so much from people, betrayal is inevitable. Live ur life without expectations.

Honestly, i have been betrayed and i have betrayed others. I am not perfect either.

I think some type of betrayal are very hurtful, but there is always hope, and we should try as much as possible to not betray others.

SmellySperm:
Who gave this one mkpurumiri to take?

What a humour with stone face..

marsman:
Be prepared for another awful defeat, for i am the roman who has travelled through many life times defeating the emperor along the way and this time won't be any different.

Ah, it is you, the bloody Romans. We have fought your kind and have always tasted victory. There is yet a war that we haven't fed your people to the vultures... This time we come, not just the emperor but with his allies, for since hearing of the emperor's rebirth and knowing of the wars to come, I scoured the earth, making alliances with many kings, fortifying our Kingdom.

Speak no more for you and your kind shall fall at wielding of my sword the next time I set eyes on you.

nickyj19:
Me i betray my yoruba friend i Bleep im yoruba bitch.
the girl say im boy friend get small preeq.
yoruba people useless die
all dere men get low sperm count

Lol
See me laughing at your stup*dity
Maluu

HenryDion:
My best friend...

Things were progressing for me and suddenly, his countenance changed.

It's over 4 months since I relocated and this dude haven't called for me once, despite the fact that he's owning me some funds which he used to finance his business.

It's a ghosting game now, and I know we'll see each other one day, and I'll give him a piece of my mind if he dares anything.

And you are forbidden to call him, right? This is no betrayal instead it seems like an entitlement mindset to me.

Netblyss:
I was in my year 1 and I had used up my school fees to cover some other unexpected expenses. I didn't want to bother my dad to send money again as he was going through a lot, plus retirement. I planned I will have to sacrifice my pocket money to make up the school fees.
Well, things didn't go as planned. I was short N10k and exam was the following week.
I was scared and frustrated because they kept saying those who had not paid would not write the exams.
I wanted badly to tell my dad but I remembered I had already told him that the school fees was already paid.

At that time also, I had a really good friend, lets call him Fred. He would occasionally come to campus to see me. We would take strolls and gist for long. He was a graduate and was working at the time. We were not dating. Just friends. Whether he was planning on asking me out, I don't know but I saw him as a nice guy.

I had a handful of good friends but I couldn't ask them as they were students myself. So, my last option was to ask Fred. He said okay and that he would come to campus that evening.

Couple of hours later, he called me to come meet him outside the hostel.
As I was coming out, I saw him but with another guy. Immediately, I got a bad vibe. But I still went to him. We exchanged pleasantries and he and this other guy started asking weird questions like who my father was, what he does for a living, what about my mom etc.
I answered them but I was getting pissed. Like what's all these questions for. It's 10k I asked for not N10M. And to God who made me, I fully intended on paying him back.

At a point during the questioning, I told him to forget about the money but before I could take one step, he was calling one girl I remember was in final year at the time. He started telling her that I told him that people who have not paid school fees would not write exams. You can imagine my surprise when the girl said that was a lie. Nothing of such was said bla bla.
I wanted to smack his grinning face. Numerous time we warned in class to pay our school fees else no exam for us. Like why would I lie?
I argued with the girl but she just shrugged and said "whatever sha. All I know is that I know students who have not paid school fees for 2 semesters but they wrote exams"

At this point I was visibly shaking with rage and tears was welling up in my eyes. I could see my friend and the other guy chuckling and smiling to themselves like they had caught me in a lie. I was so embarrassed. Above all, I felt sad that someone I thought was my friend would do this to me.
I felt even if you had doubts, you could have met me personally and told me not try to shame me in front of people.
He then proceeded to tell me not to try to con him again.

In all my years in this life, I had never felt so embarrassed and ashamed. I hated myself for asking him at all. I went to my room and cried like a baby.

As God would have it. One of my good friends and a course mate of mine saw me in class about 2 days after that incident looking very sad. He pestered me to know what the problem was. I was reluctant to tell him but after much cajoling I told him I needed 10k to complete my school fees.
He assured me everything would be fine.
That evening, he came to my room and handed me an envelope. In it was N20k.
I cried like a baby, but this time out of joy.
He said I shouldn't dare pay him back.
Ty! We are not in touch anymore but I love you and will never forget your act of kindness.

what about this Fred guy, did he ever tried reaching you again?

NetValueFX:
It seems your father didn't leave any property for you to rent out till 2026?

Trying so hard to be savage. Put more effort you buttscratcher

Rubyjade:
People will betray you, you can't escape it. What is more important is that you come out Better

Have you being betrayed before? Share your story, you might heal

Use share so others can learn


While I was working for a company. I got diagnosed of a kidney infection and was admitted in the hospital for two weeks. I was staying with my father’s elder sister at the time because my parents were here in Abuja

Two weeks of constant drugs,drips and injections on my *you know* and guess what, my aunt and her family never came to visit for one day. My friends(even tho I didn’t have a lot of them) were to busy to come see me. No company representative to pay me a visit.

Everyday I would walk to the little store close to the hospital to buy biscuits and yoghurt because no one would bring them to me.


Betrayal hurts so bad because it never comes from strangers but those of your household.

This is why I recommend people live like they are alone on this planet. Have zero expectations. Any human can become anything at anytime.When u expect so much from people, betrayal is inevitable. Live ur life without expectations.

Sup Bruh,i got the kidney infection too and it's killing me...I have taken many drugs buh no improvement.can I have your Whatsapp number?or you can have mine 09137922878.P lease bruh,i wanna know how you treated yours

It hurts what people don't even know about me was told to them by an insider
Too many more also which I can't disclose here sometimes I wonder if there is anything like blood

Adunmhi:
Akin he always like a blood brother to me I never knew he has is own plan
We do talked about my future,education,my sex life we also talked about him too
The movement of destruction started June 05 2020 Aunty Oyin wedding,he invited me to follow him to the wedding which I did we had fun and he take care of me after about two week I followed him to another wedding in yaba, the wedding was on Saturday so we left oshodi on Friday night since yaba is just some hours from oshodi.
We both logged in the same room I had to pull off my bra so I slept off with my cloth on I started feeling some strange touch in my body I had to wake up and check only for me to find out he’s the one touching me sexually I pleased with him not to do this to me that I don’t want any sexual contact from him I briefly remember he telling me that is going to be secret betweeen the both of us I said no we had a little argument over it and he stop touching me
On the wedding day he expected me to react to show him attitude but I didn’t cause I thought is temptation we came home friendly after everything
The next three days we had a conversation on the issue and he tried to force himself on me fortunately I just finish my menstruation he penetrated with force which resolve to me bleeding blood from my vagina he apologize and claim nothing happen that he was unable to penetrate we fought for like 20second before he asked me to clean up myself
Two day after that we both agreed on a contract that we are going to have sex for one month and he’s going to pay 70k we started having the sex ending of June Nd is meant to end in July but because he can’t resist me we had it till the day I left for school which is August 23rd of 2020 he gave me the money I remember during those time I did everything called house chores including his laundry
I went to school on 23rd of August since then we have been communicating like we are dating until I met oluwafemi I told akin about femi but he said no that I should not get close to him but I ignored him because he once told me he had sex with shukurat when I was away
I came back home on the 26th of December i had to tell him everything that happen between me and oluwafemi cause my real boyfriend Emma was fighting with me then.finding out the truth about me and femi made him give me some attitude which I later pleased with him to forgive me since I came back he has been trying to have sex with me again but I told him we ended the contract that we can’t have sex,due to the fact that am having feeling for him I allowed him to continue having sex with me there was a day I was on drip he stop the drip and had sex with me in the midnight till I almost lost conscious I had to go back to school cause we are to resume back to school which is on the 25th of January we are both calling each other doing videos call and showing him all my body he ask me to come to his home town which I did and we spent some days before he ask me to come to Lagos I said no but he said he will give me full attention that no one will come between us he also said he will fight with Iya Malik (the married woman I thought they are friend but they dating) just to be with me till I go back to school everything change the moment I get to Lagos he started going to Iya Malik shop to sit down while me am waiting for him inside is room when ever am with him and she came am the one to leave that spot I had to control myself just because I don’t want to hurt him on the 4th of March he confront me that am showing her attitude and the woman will be thinking we are both having sex he also told me that he prefer I know that he had sex with her than her to know we both are having sex that statement got me upset that I kept malice with him for 4 days he later called me to apologize and we had sex that day upon all his pleading he still went back to the woman I told him that I want to cook for him he said Jumai(the girl he accommodated because he had accommodation issue)will be upset if I cook,on the 11th of March I had to summon courage to tell him my mind but he said he want us to stop everything we are doing that is a sin, he not proud of it that he don’t want anybody in the street to know about us,I just told him yes that we are done.
It really painful cause I thought he will be different from all my ex boyfriend but no he’s also like them he’s even more corny than them

do you live in Lagos?

marianneada:
I'm sorry for any typo graphical error cos i'm writing this in tears.
I am happy to come across this topic,I come from a family where there's no peace,I grew up knowing my late father nd his elder sister were d only close ones in their family of five,My father served and trusted my aunty so much,My mum started working in my aunty's organization when I was still tender as a cleaner,I remember vividly how my mum worked tirelessly to make my aunty happy,out of the whole women married into the family,she was the only one that respected and served my father's elder sister,she washes her clothes including her undies,people called my mum servant because of how she was running errands for my aunt,infact she saw my aunt as a big sister she never had.My father on his own side helped her alot,he was always there at her beck and call,he made sure he puts smile on her face.When I finished my University Education,I started working in my aunt's organization cause I noticed alot of things going wrong there,I took her as a mum nd loved her so much. I gave her 10years of my life and lost so many opportunities that would have better my life.Unfortunately I lost my dad in 2020.(He died at the age of 56years)
To cut the whole story short,this my aunty abandoned my family and I when my mother had partial stroke and we needed her the most,she accused my mum of witchcraft,due to the shock of what happened I had a premature birth and spent months in the hospital,while in the hospital she refused to pay my salary for the month I stopped working, she also refused to pay my mum who was also on sick bed.The betrayal was too much cos she went as far as tarnishing my family's image,telling everyone how she fed my family,how she single handedly buried my dad which is a big lie,and how my mum is a witch.Right now my mum is dying of heartbreak cos the only person she thought she has has abandoned her.People are laughing at us cos they warned us about this my aunt but we never listen.I'm still waiting on God to judge this case cause the heartbreak is just too much.

how will God judge the case? I'm not saying God isn't good but com'on you're a University graduate and thinking like this? Which one is waiting for God to judge the case?

I'll advise you try and get well and do anything possible to stand on your feet and fight for a better life for you, your kid and your mom. The only revenge for that Aunty of yours is to be successful. Read this book: The secret by Rhonda Byrne

Good luck.

When I was still in secondary school, my aunts and uncles always promised to help me in school especially financially, but since I got admission into university from year 1 to my current level (final year) I didn't receive a kobo from any of them, each time I call them it will always end with the usual,
Let me see what I can do these are the people that my dad, trained and Paid their fees in school, And now they are very rich, but one thing is certain, I have learnt not expect anything from people, atleast my dad is trying for me, but I have made up my mind to do the same to my cousins too, They will not receive a kobo from me too, May God keep me till then sha.

Rubyjade:
People will betray you, you can't escape it. What is more important is that you come out Better

Have you being betrayed before? Share your story, you might heal

Use share so others can learn


While I was working for a company. I got diagnosed of a kidney infection and was admitted in the hospital for two weeks. I was staying with my father’s elder sister at the time because my parents were here in Abuja

Two weeks of constant drugs,drips and injections on my *you know* and guess what, my aunt and her family never came to visit for one day. My friends(even tho I didn’t have a lot of them) were to busy to come see me. No company representative to pay me a visit.

Everyday I would walk to the little store close to the hospital to buy biscuits and yoghurt because no one would bring them to me.


Betrayal hurts so bad because it never comes from strangers but those of your household.

This is why I recommend people live like they are alone on this planet. Have zero expectations. Any human can become anything at anytime.When u expect so much from people, betrayal is inevitable. Live ur life without expectations.

And when you got out of hospital, how did your work people react? And your family?

Won't call mine "betrayal" in the full sense of it. Would prefer the word.."disappointment"
Here it goes.... Uncle promised me a car for Uber. The same uncle promised to sponsor me to Canada for masters...... it's over 3 years now and ayam still waiting for him.


Moral of the short story..
If promises come from anything Uncle or aunty... Beta don't cast all ya hope on Dem by folding ur hands and waiting for them to act. Get ur ass into the street and hustle. If the uncle later fulfill d "promise"..FINE. If him no fulfill the promise, you are still fine. So it's a win win for you anyway.

T O DARLING

Adunmhi:
Akin he always like a blood brother to me I never knew he has is own plan
We do talked about my future,education,my sex life we also talked about him too
The movement of destruction started June 05 2020 Aunty Oyin wedding,he invited me to follow him to the wedding which I did we had fun and he take care of me after about two week I followed him to another wedding in yaba, the wedding was on Saturday so we left oshodi on Friday night since yaba is just some hours from oshodi.
We both logged in the same room I had to pull off my bra so I slept off with my cloth on I started feeling some strange touch in my body I had to wake up and check only for me to find out he’s the one touching me sexually I pleased with him not to do this to me that I don’t want any sexual contact from him I briefly remember he telling me that is going to be secret betweeen the both of us I said no we had a little argument over it and he stop touching me
On the wedding day he expected me to react to show him attitude but I didn’t cause I thought is temptation we came home friendly after everything
The next three days we had a conversation on the issue and he tried to force himself on me fortunately I just finish my menstruation he penetrated with force which resolve to me bleeding blood from my vagina he apologize and claim nothing happen that he was unable to penetrate we fought for like 20second before he asked me to clean up myself
Two day after that we both agreed on a contract that we are going to have sex for one month and he’s going to pay 70k we started having the sex ending of June Nd is meant to end in July but because he can’t resist me we had it till the day I left for school which is August 23rd of 2020 he gave me the money I remember during those time I did everything called house chores including his laundry
I went to school on 23rd of August since then we have been communicating like we are dating until I met oluwafemi I told akin about femi but he said no that I should not get close to him but I ignored him because he once told me he had sex with shukurat when I was away
I came back home on the 26th of December i had to tell him everything that happen between me and oluwafemi cause my real boyfriend Emma was fighting with me then.finding out the truth about me and femi made him give me some attitude which I later pleased with him to forgive me since I came back he has been trying to have sex with me again but I told him we ended the contract that we can’t have sex,due to the fact that am having feeling for him I allowed him to continue having sex with me there was a day I was on drip he stop the drip and had sex with me in the midnight till I almost lost conscious I had to go back to school cause we are to resume back to school which is on the 25th of January we are both calling each other doing videos call and showing him all my body he ask me to come to his home town which I did and we spent some days before he ask me to come to Lagos I said no but he said he will give me full attention that no one will come between us he also said he will fight with Iya Malik (the married woman I thought they are friend but they dating) just to be with me till I go back to school everything change the moment I get to Lagos he started going to Iya Malik shop to sit down while me am waiting for him inside is room when ever am with him and she came am the one to leave that spot I had to control myself just because I don’t want to hurt him on the 4th of March he confront me that am showing her attitude and the woman will be thinking we are both having sex he also told me that he prefer I know that he had sex with her than her to know we both are having sex that statement got me upset that I kept malice with him for 4 days he later called me to apologize and we had sex that day upon all his pleading he still went back to the woman I told him that I want to cook for him he said Jumai(the girl he accommodated because he had accommodation issue)will be upset if I cook,on the 11th of March I had to summon courage to tell him my mind but he said he want us to stop everything we are doing that is a sin, he not proud of it that he don’t want anybody in the street to know about us,I just told him yes that we are done.
It really painful cause I thought he will be different from all my ex boyfriend but no he’s also like them he’s even more corny than them

Wahala

Rubyjade:
While I was working for a company. I got diagnosed of a kidney infection and was admitted in the hospital for two weeks. I was staying with my father’s elder sister at the time because my parents were here in Abuja

Two weeks of constant drugs,drips and injections on my *you know* and guess what, my aunt and her family never came to visit for one day. My friends(even tho I didn’t have a lot of them) were to busy to come see me. No company representative to pay me a visit.

Everyday I would walk to the little store close to the hospital to buy biscuits and yoghurt because no one would bring them to me.

Oh gosh Ruby. I'm so sorry. This your experience is sad. Forget your colleagues at work. It's your few "friends" and family that are kinda worrying me. You'd be justified in deleting their contacts from your phone.

I've learnt to keep my friendship circle lean. Very lean. And even they, have to be tried and tested before coming into my circle.

You'll be fine Ruby.

Hector09:
I have learned to live alone...since my mum, elder brother and sister betrayed me

Hmmm! Won't like to take ur story hook line and sinker.

Would love to hear from ur family members.

T O DARLING