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Kunja2:
And when you got out of hospital, how did your work people react? And your family?

Adunmhi:
Akin he always like a blood brother to me I never knew he has is own plan
We do talked about my future,education,my sex life we also talked about him too
The movement of destruction started June 05 2020 Aunty Oyin wedding,he invited me to follow him to the wedding which I did we had fun and he take care of me after about two week I followed him to another wedding in yaba, the wedding was on Saturday so we left oshodi on Friday night since yaba is just some hours from oshodi.
We both logged in the same room I had to pull off my bra so I slept off with my cloth on I started feeling some strange touch in my body I had to wake up and check only for me to find out he’s the one touching me sexually I pleased with him not to do this to me that I don’t want any sexual contact from him I briefly remember he telling me that is going to be secret betweeen the both of us I said no we had a little argument over it and he stop touching me
On the wedding day he expected me to react to show him attitude but I didn’t cause I thought is temptation we came home friendly after everything
The next three days we had a conversation on the issue and he tried to force himself on me fortunately I just finish my menstruation he penetrated with force which resolve to me bleeding blood from my vagina he apologize and claim nothing happen that he was unable to penetrate we fought for like 20second before he asked me to clean up myself
Two day after that we both agreed on a contract that we are going to have sex for one month and he’s going to pay 70k we started having the sex ending of June Nd is meant to end in July but because he can’t resist me we had it till the day I left for school which is August 23rd of 2020 he gave me the money I remember during those time I did everything called house chores including his laundry
I went to school on 23rd of August since then we have been communicating like we are dating until I met oluwafemi I told akin about femi but he said no that I should not get close to him but I ignored him because he once told me he had sex with shukurat when I was away
I came back home on the 26th of December i had to tell him everything that happen between me and oluwafemi cause my real boyfriend Emma was fighting with me then.finding out the truth about me and femi made him give me some attitude which I later pleased with him to forgive me since I came back he has been trying to have sex with me again but I told him we ended the contract that we can’t have sex,due to the fact that am having feeling for him I allowed him to continue having sex with me there was a day I was on drip he stop the drip and had sex with me in the midnight till I almost lost conscious I had to go back to school cause we are to resume back to school which is on the 25th of January we are both calling each other doing videos call and showing him all my body he ask me to come to his home town which I did and we spent some days before he ask me to come to Lagos I said no but he said he will give me full attention that no one will come between us he also said he will fight with Iya Malik (the married woman I thought they are friend but they dating) just to be with me till I go back to school everything change the moment I get to Lagos he started going to Iya Malik shop to sit down while me am waiting for him inside is room when ever am with him and she came am the one to leave that spot I had to control myself just because I don’t want to hurt him on the 4th of March he confront me that am showing her attitude and the woman will be thinking we are both having sex he also told me that he prefer I know that he had sex with her than her to know we both are having sex that statement got me upset that I kept malice with him for 4 days he later called me to apologize and we had sex that day upon all his pleading he still went back to the woman I told him that I want to cook for him he said Jumai(the girl he accommodated because he had accommodation issue)will be upset if I cook,on the 11th of March I had to summon courage to tell him my mind but he said he want us to stop everything we are doing that is a sin, he not proud of it that he don’t want anybody in the street to know about us,I just told him yes that we are done.
It really painful cause I thought he will be different from all my ex boyfriend but no he’s also like them he’s even more corny than them

Kunja2:
do you live in Lagos?

Netblyss:
I was in my year 1 and I had used up my school fees to cover some other unexpected expenses. I didn't want to bother my dad to send money again as he was going through a lot, plus retirement. I planned I will have to sacrifice my pocket money to make up the school fees.
Well, things didn't go as planned. I was short N10k and exam was the following week.
I was scared and frustrated because they kept saying those who had not paid would not write the exams.
I wanted badly to tell my dad but I remembered I had already told him that the school fees was already paid.

At that time also, I had a really good friend, lets call him Fred. He would occasionally come to campus to see me. We would take strolls and gist for long. He was a graduate and was working at the time. We were not dating. Just friends. Whether he was planning on asking me out, I don't know but I saw him as a nice guy.

I had a handful of good friends but I couldn't ask them as they were students myself. So, my last option was to ask Fred. He said okay and that he would come to campus that evening.

Couple of hours later, he called me to come meet him outside the hostel.
As I was coming out, I saw him but with another guy. Immediately, I got a bad vibe. But I still went to him. We exchanged pleasantries and he and this other guy started asking weird questions like who my father was, what he does for a living, what about my mom etc.
I answered them but I was getting pissed. Like what's all these questions for. It's 10k I asked for not N10M. And to God who made me, I fully intended on paying him back.

At a point during the questioning, I told him to forget about the money but before I could take one step, he was calling one girl I remember was in final year at the time. He started telling her that I told him that people who have not paid school fees would not write exams. You can imagine my surprise when the girl said that was a lie. Nothing of such was said bla bla.
I wanted to smack his grinning face. Numerous time we warned in class to pay our school fees else no exam for us. Like why would I lie?
I argued with the girl but she just shrugged and said "whatever sha. All I know is that I know students who have not paid school fees for 2 semesters but they wrote exams"

At this point I was visibly shaking with rage and tears was welling up in my eyes. I could see my friend and the other guy chuckling and smiling to themselves like they had caught me in a lie. I was so embarrassed. Above all, I felt sad that someone I thought was my friend would do this to me.
I felt even if you had doubts, you could have met me personally and told me not try to shame me in front of people.
He then proceeded to tell me not to try to con him again.

In all my years in this life, I had never felt so embarrassed and ashamed. I hated myself for asking him at all. I went to my room and cried like a baby.

As God would have it. One of my good friends and a course mate of mine saw me in class about 2 days after that incident looking very sad. He pestered me to know what the problem was. I was reluctant to tell him but after much cajoling I told him I needed 10k to complete my school fees.
He assured me everything would be fine.
That evening, he came to my room and handed me an envelope. In it was N20k.
I cried like a baby, but this time out of joy.
He said I shouldn't dare pay him back.
Ty! We are not in touch anymore but I love you and will never forget your act of kindness.

Kunja2:
what about this Fred guy, did he ever tried reaching you again?

Adunmhi:
Akin he always like a blood brother to me I never knew he has is own plan
We do talked about my future,education,my sex life we also talked about him too
The movement of destruction started June 05 2020 Aunty Oyin wedding,he invited me to follow him to the wedding which I did we had fun and he take care of me after about two week I followed him to another wedding in yaba, the wedding was on Saturday so we left oshodi on Friday night since yaba is just some hours from oshodi.
We both logged in the same room I had to pull off my bra so I slept off with my cloth on I started feeling some strange touch in my body I had to wake up and check only for me to find out he’s the one touching me sexually I pleased with him not to do this to me that I don’t want any sexual contact from him I briefly remember he telling me that is going to be secret betweeen the both of us I said no we had a little argument over it and he stop touching me
On the wedding day he expected me to react to show him attitude but I didn’t cause I thought is temptation we came home friendly after everything
The next three days we had a conversation on the issue and he tried to force himself on me fortunately I just finish my menstruation he penetrated with force which resolve to me bleeding blood from my vagina he apologize and claim nothing happen that he was unable to penetrate we fought for like 20second before he asked me to clean up myself
Two day after that we both agreed on a contract that we are going to have sex for one month and he’s going to pay 70k we started having the sex ending of June Nd is meant to end in July but because he can’t resist me we had it till the day I left for school which is August 23rd of 2020 he gave me the money I remember during those time I did everything called house chores including his laundry
I went to school on 23rd of August since then we have been communicating like we are dating until I met oluwafemi I told akin about femi but he said no that I should not get close to him but I ignored him because he once told me he had sex with shukurat when I was away
I came back home on the 26th of December i had to tell him everything that happen between me and oluwafemi cause my real boyfriend Emma was fighting with me then.finding out the truth about me and femi made him give me some attitude which I later pleased with him to forgive me since I came back he has been trying to have sex with me again but I told him we ended the contract that we can’t have sex,due to the fact that am having feeling for him I allowed him to continue having sex with me there was a day I was on drip he stop the drip and had sex with me in the midnight till I almost lost conscious I had to go back to school cause we are to resume back to school which is on the 25th of January we are both calling each other doing videos call and showing him all my body he ask me to come to his home town which I did and we spent some days before he ask me to come to Lagos I said no but he said he will give me full attention that no one will come between us he also said he will fight with Iya Malik (the married woman I thought they are friend but they dating) just to be with me till I go back to school everything change the moment I get to Lagos he started going to Iya Malik shop to sit down while me am waiting for him inside is room when ever am with him and she came am the one to leave that spot I had to control myself just because I don’t want to hurt him on the 4th of March he confront me that am showing her attitude and the woman will be thinking we are both having sex he also told me that he prefer I know that he had sex with her than her to know we both are having sex that statement got me upset that I kept malice with him for 4 days he later called me to apologize and we had sex that day upon all his pleading he still went back to the woman I told him that I want to cook for him he said Jumai(the girl he accommodated because he had accommodation issue)will be upset if I cook,on the 11th of March I had to summon courage to tell him my mind but he said he want us to stop everything we are doing that is a sin, he not proud of it that he don’t want anybody in the street to know about us,I just told him yes that we are done.
It really painful cause I thought he will be different from all my ex boyfriend but no he’s also like them he’s even more corny than them

anayolity:
God bless TY for us.... I think you should make a little effort to know about TY's whereabout

Netblyss:
Thank you. I think I should definitely reach out to him. I can get him on FB

Demigod22:
I have experienced multiple betrayal but there's this one that really enter me. Because I was threatened to break up with Khadija and for the sake of my life I broke up, Khadija and my friend had sex just to hurt me for breaking up with her, a breakup that wasn't intentional.

Demigod22:
I have experienced multiple betrayal but there's this one that really enter me. Because I was threatened to break up with Khadija and for the sake of my life I broke up, Khadija and my friend had sex just to hurt me for breaking up with her, a breakup that wasn't intentional.

Demigod22:
I have experienced multiple betrayal but there's this one that really enter me. Because I was threatened to break up with Khadija and for the sake of my life I broke up, Khadija and my friend had sex just to hurt me for breaking up with her, a breakup that wasn't intentional.

TruthUntold:
you need help

anayolity:
Yeah on FB will be fine or ask an old coursemate

nickyj19:
I'm from Kogi smellysperm d greatest werey of all time..
smellysperm sense 0%.
smellysperm madness 100%.

Demigod22:
I have experienced multiple betrayal but there's this one that really enter me. Because I was threatened to break up with Khadija and for the sake of my life I broke up, Khadija and my friend had sex just to hurt me for breaking up with her, a breakup that wasn't intentional.

nickyj19:
Me i betray my yoruba friend i Bleep im yoruba bitch.
the girl say im boy friend get small preeq.
yoruba people useless die
all dere men get low sperm count

Moeman:
in my former life i was an emperor and i was stabbed and sold off to the romans by my brother while i was planning what would have been the greatest invasion in history..

BuddhaPalm:
How did you find out he did it, and what was his reaction?

GboyegaD:
And you are forbidden to call him, right? This is no betrayal instead it seems like an entitlement mindset to me.

okwadatigbogal:
Trusting a so-called 'man' and 'woman' of God they ended up being total trash! My trust is in God and God alone now! I don't need to access God through any mommy of daddy GO!

Moeman:
in my former life i was an emperor and i was stabbed and sold off to the romans by my brother while i was planning what would have been the greatest invasion in history..

Kunja2:
how will God judge the case? I'm not saying God isn't good but com'on you're a University graduate and thinking like this? Which one is waiting for God to judge the case?

I'll advise you try and get well and do anything possible to stand on your feet and fight for a better life for you, your kid and your mom. The only revenge for that Aunty of yours is to be successful. Read this book: The secret by Rhonda Byrne

Good luck.

Kunja2:
how will God judge the case? I'm not saying God isn't good but com'on you're a University graduate and thinking like this? Which one is waiting for God to judge the case?

I'll advise you try and get well and do anything possible to stand on your feet and fight for a better life for you, your kid and your mom. The only revenge for that Aunty of yours is to be successful. Read this book: The secret by Rhonda Byrne

Good luck.

Rubyjade:
People will betray you, you can't escape it. What is more important is that you come out Better

Have you being betrayed before? Share your story, you might heal

Use share so others can learn


While I was working for a company. I got diagnosed of a kidney infection and was admitted in the hospital for two weeks. I was staying with my father’s elder sister at the time because my parents were here in Abuja

Two weeks of constant drugs,drips and injections on my *you know* and guess what, my aunt and her family never came to visit for one day. My friends(even tho I didn’t have a lot of them) were to busy to come see me. No company representative to pay me a visit.

Everyday I would walk to the little store close to the hospital to buy biscuits and yoghurt because no one would bring them to me.


Betrayal hurts so bad because it never comes from strangers but those of your household.

This is why I recommend people live like they are alone on this planet. Have zero expectations. Any human can become anything at anytime.When u expect so much from people, betrayal is inevitable. Live ur life without expectations.

moyosore32:
It was exam period in skul and most of us(student never pay skul fee) so we all agreed that on d day exam was gonna commence, we go stage protest and disagree say mk dem postpone exam for one more week as saving grace for pple wen never pay
D day was finally here, some of my guys and I were fully prepared for the protest, fortunately for us our gathering and all was noticed by the SU president and he came to dialogue with us, we sha tell am say we never pay fee na why we want mk dem adjust the date of exam blah blah, d SU presido resin well with us, kon give us backing say our fate dey our hand, we were to carry on with our initial plan of disrupting the exam halls so as to make it impossible for the others to write the exam.... naso we begin bombard all d classes wey students don already full, getting set to write the exam, lo and behold as I enter one hall laidat I see my padi wen we gather plan to disrupt exam hall on ds particular day confidently sitted and waiting for the question paper to be distributed and passed to him, as our eyes jam, I felt let down after about few secs i went straight for him with d stick in my hand, my brothers and my sisters if to say d Weyrey no follow window jp I for use that kondo scatter him head for that spot that day lol

Christonjnr:
I have this guy who's really broke.squats with his friend Ina one room apartment,when his Frnd got married,they pushed him away.
He came to me asking for my help,he wanted to sale his hand phone but he has lost the receipt. Do to the reason i deal in phones and acessories I helped him and issued his another receipt.
I didn't know he stole the phone.when they got arrested he said I'm a syndicate that used to issued them receipt whenever they stole phone. And they even raped a lady where they stole the phone. I later used 200k to bail my self

Okunga:
I helped an A list celebrity which you alll celebrate his music that he is filled with wisdom…



I fed him, cloth him, introduced him to my family and lot more. I even gave him the money to shoot his first video before he was helped by another A list celebrity and became really famous.



Omo the guy change am for me like he’s been waiting to show me pepper when him blow. Like I don’t get, I never for once had any form of misunderstanding or anything but he changed and couldn’t even do a track with me to put me on the limelight too. Lol


In life be mindful the people you help, because some of them wan big pass you to show you pepper and some of them will not show you their real self till they start making money.


I left music feeling devastated because I was so confused and started doubting my craft because the energy in the industry is so FAKE.

I recorded 2 songs last month and I am thankful growth and wisdom.

Well I done move on. Loving life and expecting a baby girl from my wife soon…


In all; Awesome God indeed.