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Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Love Other People's Children by Connected1: 6:31am On Mar 14, 2022
frozen70:
Am I your uncle wife ?
If you had a bad experience it's not my business
undecided
If you don't know what to say just keep quiet

I spoke for myself not your uncle wife

Ewu
It's obvious you don't even have sense.

undecided

If she sends other children errands and leaves her own children, that's not hatred probably she fees those ones are more matured for the job

Women loves children irrespective if who gave birth to who

So far you are a mother you will live them all, especially at children level


Tell me that the bolded is about yourself alone and I will know that you are completely foolish.
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Love Other People's Children by cococandy(f): 6:42am On Mar 14, 2022
Daisyyy:
Some women are actually softhearted enough to bond with kids that are not biologically theirs.
Some others literally goad themselves into doing it in order to be in the good books of the man.
It depends on the woman and the uniqueness of each situation, I guess.
Bonding is possible. It takes time and reciprocity. Even biological moms don’t bond with their kids immediately, so it’s not really about soft heartedness.

You’re right the uniqueness of each situation will make a lot of difference
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Love Other People's Children by Nobody: 6:43am On Mar 14, 2022
alanto:
I always wonder, a woman will shield and protect her own children, she will leave her children eating or doing something irrelevant and then send someone else's child on errands her child or children could run for her. I have noticed that though women love and care for their children like every other animals they always find it hard to love other people's children.
This is too general as an opinion, and the case in example (italics) is extremely narrow and insufficient to support your claim.


Not every woman acts and behaves like you stated.
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Love Other People's Children by stacyadams: 7:23am On Mar 14, 2022
cococandy:
Some of them remarry because they can’t cope with being single parents. They need a live-in babysitter and care giver. So they marry women they barely know expecting that woman to automatically have the same bond the biological moms had with those kids. It makes not sense.

They should be asking for and signing up to lessons from single moms on how to cope without a partner instead of subjecting their kids to that harsh reality .
...it's very painful...
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Love Other People's Children by frozen70(f): 7:52am On Mar 14, 2022
Connected1:
It's obvious you don't even have sense.

undecided

If she sends other children errands and leaves her own children, that's not hatred probably she fees those ones are more matured for the job

Women loves children irrespective if who gave birth to who

So far you are a mother you will live them all, especially at children level


Tell me that the bolded is about yourself alone and I will know that you are completely foolish.
Is because you are a beast that's why you are masturbating on a woman topic
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Love Other People's Children by Dainy1(m): 8:17am On Mar 14, 2022
Not only women. African black men and women.
The same reason men find it difficult to love other people's children.
Most of you here saying women are wicked, can not marry a single mother because you can not love her child.
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Love Other People's Children by Connected1: 10:12am On Mar 14, 2022
frozen70:
Is because you are a beast that's why you are masturbating on a woman topic
Nothing Surprising because your daft brain has nothing meaningful to say.

grin
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Love Other People's Children by Kobojunkie: 10:20am On Mar 14, 2022
missidy:
A lot of men don't know this, I have experienced it first hand. Those women only pretend to love the man's children so that the man can marry them. Immediately after the wedding, they start showing their true colour and the worst part is the men don't even protect their children from these women. No woman can take care of or love a child like his/her mother, not even your blood sister that came out from the same womb with you.
Please stop.... from your story, it's clear the men are well aware of the problems they help create for their own blood ...and are complacent in it. Stop with the desperate attempts at trying to exonerate them abeg! undecided
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Love Other People's Children by Kobojunkie: 10:22am On Mar 14, 2022
Dainy1:
Not only women. African black men and women.
The same reason men find it difficult to love other people's children.
Most of you here saying women are wicked, can not marry a single mother because you can not love her child.
You deserve a prize for pointing this out! undecided
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Love Other People's Children by skultrick(m): 6:44pm On Mar 14, 2022
cococandy:
Some of them remarry because they can’t cope with being single parents. They need a live-in babysitter and care giver. So they marry women they barely know expecting that woman to automatically have the same bond the biological moms had with those kids. It makes not sense.

They should be asking for and signing up to lessons from single moms on how to cope without a partner instead of subjecting their kids to that harsh reality .
All these feminists on this forum, everything is always about gender equality.

This guy asked a simple question, but you ladies have turned it into a dick measuring challenge.
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