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Mumben:
I am speaking from experience as a married woman of over a decade. She said she last saw her period on 19th and had sex on 23rd. Now let's do d maths. She most likely bled from 15_19. From 15_23 is 9 days and for a regular cycle, ovulation will most likely take place 14 days after menses which should be around 28_29 of d same month.

That 23rd still falls within her safe days but anything from 25 is her fertile period. This brings me to d conclusion that her husband to be who started having sex with her on d 25 is most likely d owner of d pregnancy.

But all in all, like I said earlier, she no try at all. The young man doesn't deserve this but d deed has been done and for her to clear her mind, she can go for DNA after d baby is born but I am almost certain the baby is not d exes'

JONNYSPUTE:
....Is like you are not really getting the exact picture of this particular situation.

Her ex cannot marry her maybe because he is not financially stable.
She left him and meets another man who is ready and stable to settle down.
She now went back to have sex with the broke ex who is not ready to get married or father a child.
Then she still had sex with the husband to be that same period.

Now let's see. The husband to be finds out,threw her out and get married to another person.
The broke ex denied the pregnancy and disappear.
She alone is left to suffer to raise the child
Who is to be blamed here?
Who is the irresponsible one here? Pls note that I'm not here to win an argument but only want to correct some notions here regarding responsibility or irresponsibility

Is high time people starts taking every responsibilities resulting from their actions whether good or bad and stop looking for whom to blame.

Favfables1:
Chief leave this tin...
You and I both know that they will still twist it and blame the ex/man for the whole thing...

In their eyes...
The woman cannot be irresponsible and thus is blameless ....

Mendeline:
Thank you for taking your time to explain all this ma. Actually 19th was the first day of my last cycle which was January. I bled till 23rd that I mistakenly had sex with my ex. Even while doing it blood was still coming out

Mumben:
In that case, there is no way you could have been pregnant for your Ex. Ur husband to be is responsible for it but going forward, cut ties with your ex and always resist the urge to see him much less get down with him cos it's not worth the stress and if ur hubby finds out you are a gonner.

If you are a Christian, seek forgiveness from God.

Mumben:
I am speaking from experience as a married woman of over a decade. She said she last saw her period on 19th and had sex on 23rd. Now let's do d maths. She most likely bled from 15_19. From 15_23 is 9 days and for a regular cycle, ovulation will most likely take place 14 days after menses which should be around 28_29 of d same month.

That 23rd still falls within her safe days but anything from 25 is her fertile period. This brings me to d conclusion that her husband to be who started having sex with her on d 25 is most likely d owner of d pregnancy.

But all in all, like I said earlier, she no try at all. The young man doesn't deserve this but d deed has been done and for her to clear her mind, she can go for DNA after d baby is born but I am almost certain the baby is not d exes'

Mendeline:
My traditional wedding is in 2 months time but I just discovered I am pregnant. My last period was 19 of January and on 23rd, I had sex with my ex mistakenly and it happened without protection. I didn't allow him release his fluid inside me because I started feeling pains and when he pull out, there was plenty blood on his dick. So yesterday I went for scan and I was told I am 5weeks 5days gone. From the scan gestational sac was seen but fetal pole hasn't formed yet
From 25th January my husband to be has been having sex with me almost everyday. Now I don't know who is responsible for my pregnancy.
Doctors in the house, please who could be responsible? I don't want any issue in my marriage

Baitullah:
Mistakenly slept with my ex

You are not serious at all.

Mumben:
I am speaking from experience as a married woman of over a decade. She said she last saw her period on 19th and had sex on 23rd. Now let's do d maths. She most likely bled from 15_19. From 15_23 is 9 days and for a regular cycle, ovulation will most likely take place 14 days after menses which should be around 28_29 of d same month.

That 23rd still falls within her safe days but anything from 25 is her fertile period. This brings me to d conclusion that her husband to be who started having sex with her on d 25 is most likely d owner of d pregnancy.

But all in all, like I said earlier, she no try at all. The young man doesn't deserve this but d deed has been done and for her to clear her mind, she can go for DNA after d baby is born but I am almost certain the baby is not d exes'

Mendeline:
My traditional wedding is in 2 months time but I just discovered I am pregnant. My last period was 19 of January and on 23rd, I had sex with my ex mistakenly and it happened without protection. I didn't allow him release his fluid inside me because I started feeling pains and when he pull out, there was plenty blood on his dick. So yesterday I went for scan and I was told I am 5weeks 5days gone. From the scan gestational sac was seen but fetal pole hasn't formed yet
From 25th January my husband to be has been having sex with me almost everyday. Now I don't know who is responsible for my pregnancy.
Doctors in the house, please who could be responsible? I don't want any issue in my marriage

Mendeline:
My traditional wedding is in 2 months time but I just discovered I am pregnant. My last period was 19 of January and on 23rd, I had sex with my ex mistakenly and it happened without protection. I didn't allow him release his fluid inside me because I started feeling pains and when he pull out, there was plenty blood on his dick. So yesterday I went for scan and I was told I am 5weeks 5days gone. From the scan gestational sac was seen but fetal pole hasn't formed yet
From 25th January my husband to be has been having sex with me almost everyday. Now I don't know who is responsible for my pregnancy.
Doctors in the house, please who could be responsible? I don't want any issue in my marriage

Kajaard:
You are extremely stupid to say you mistakenly slept with your ex when you are about getting married to another. Promiscuous idiot

Mumben:
In that case, there is no way you could have been pregnant for your Ex. Ur husband to be is responsible for it but going forward, cut ties with your ex and always resist the urge to see him much less get down with him cos it's not worth the stress and if ur hubby finds out you are a gonner.

If you are a Christian, seek forgiveness from God.

Mariangeles:
What about the man he cheated on?

Favfables1:
A man has proposed to you....
Spent money on your head (knocking)....
Fixed a date for your TM...
And this is how you repay him? By "mistakenly" having sex with your ex?

You don't want any issue in your marriage, yet you're already sleeping around months before your TM? Mttttttwwwww
I have no advice for you ....

Czarina21:
Men do the same all the time.
In as much as I don't condone her actions.
Her husband is responsible for the pregnancy.

Mariangeles:
I felt disgusted reading this!

kennybabs1980:
Your ex banged you during your safe period. This other one that have time to bang everyday is definitely responsible for the pregnancy. He has been hanging you everyday, where does he got that kind of time and energy.

Mendeline:
Thank you for taking your time to explain all this ma. Actually 19th was the first day of my last cycle which was January. I bled till 23rd that I mistakenly had sex with my ex. Even while doing it blood was still coming out

Favfables1:
So now, it's a competition against men ba?
LMAO

So if people are doing bad things, that is enough reason for you to also do it ba? ...

And besides...
Not everything is a man vs woman battle, so please don't try to make it so ...

Munzy14:
It is now a normal...

My guy his babe was getting married when we still dey school..after paying of her dowry, babe returned...And called my guy to come chop Any thing he will be needing from her..

I am sure they reached 12rounds within the 24hrs...

A bakashi charalam my friend ahu eeh...Sleeping with a lady onye ozo kwurula ugwo ishi ya..disgusting

He later removed himself from her life..mana karma ya na bia.

Ishilove:
Your husband to be is responsible for the pregnancy.

For God's sake you people should stop this rubbish of hooking up with exes. You did not 'mistakenly' sleep with your ex, you slept with him with your two eyes wide open. Stop this rubbish, please!!!

Mariangeles:
Uwa mmebi!



Ya jikere.
O ga a kwurila ugwo o ji.

bigjackass:
you can't be serious

Iyaebe:
Why are you sleeping with two men at the same time?sort yourself out