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Re: Is Marriage A Distraction In A Person's Pursuit Of Success? by Klass99(f): 4:50pm On Mar 19, 2022
cool

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Re: Is Marriage A Distraction In A Person's Pursuit Of Success? by lexrichy(m): 4:51pm On Mar 19, 2022
nomenclature:
There is no love...its interest ....wake up
seems you're right
Re: Is Marriage A Distraction In A Person's Pursuit Of Success? by Angelfrost(m): 4:52pm On Mar 19, 2022
I think you have answered your own question with the last line... (Giving examples of successful people who are married)!

If a person starts failing in life and career due to marriage, then he made a wrong choice in marriage.

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Re: Is Marriage A Distraction In A Person's Pursuit Of Success? by lalastimlala: 4:53pm On Mar 19, 2022
Vinnie2000:

Honestly, I cant help but Feel that Lionel Messi's somewhat dwindling form in the past 3 years may be because he has A WIFE! sad lipsrsealed

Ronaldo, Wizkid, Burnaboy, Drake, Chris BBrown and lots of Successful Superstars have refused to get Married! Even Alh. Aliko Dangote is said to be single!

Oprah Winfrey, Rihanna have not Married till now. While the dancer Kaffy abandoned marriage because she felt it is an hindrance to her career! sad

SO, IS MARRIAGE A DISTRACTION IN A PERSON'S PURSUIT OF SUCCESS? undecided

Lets not forget that Married Peeps like Beyonce, Jay z, Mercy Johnson, Yul Edochie, etc are doing well! smiley
Bill gate, Elon musk, Mark Zuckerberg, Carlos Slim, Warren Buffett are all married men ooo

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Re: Is Marriage A Distraction In A Person's Pursuit Of Success? by kunkelhanspeter(m): 4:56pm On Mar 19, 2022
I guess you know nothing about football and Messi because he married 5 years ago and he has won world best player since then till now more than any other player on earth.

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Re: Is Marriage A Distraction In A Person's Pursuit Of Success? by Jamaall(m): 4:56pm On Mar 19, 2022
Yeah, it will tie you down especially when you're not financially stable..
Ma view though.

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Re: Is Marriage A Distraction In A Person's Pursuit Of Success? by Gentlerespect76: 4:57pm On Mar 19, 2022
nomenclature:
There is no love...its interest ....wake up
Lol

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Re: Is Marriage A Distraction In A Person's Pursuit Of Success? by harmony75: 4:59pm On Mar 19, 2022
Marriage supposed make your career/business better. Although there's time for everything!

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Re: Is Marriage A Distraction In A Person's Pursuit Of Success? by hibeebeeking: 4:59pm On Mar 19, 2022
When you marry wright, your life will never be the same. But when you marry to a diffuser and confusser. It goes wrong be That

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Re: Is Marriage A Distraction In A Person's Pursuit Of Success? by Maj196(m): 5:01pm On Mar 19, 2022
Yes, it does especially if you married the wrong person.

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Re: Is Marriage A Distraction In A Person's Pursuit Of Success? by heniford2: 5:01pm On Mar 19, 2022
Depends on the kinda lady ur going out with to me marriage is beautiful if your wife see it as a partner stuff in the sense she helps you become more greater and likewise you also help her too

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Re: Is Marriage A Distraction In A Person's Pursuit Of Success? by babyfaceafrica: 5:03pm On Mar 19, 2022
Depends
Re: Is Marriage A Distraction In A Person's Pursuit Of Success? by Klass99(f): 5:05pm On Mar 19, 2022
cool

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Re: Is Marriage A Distraction In A Person's Pursuit Of Success? by franchasng: 5:06pm On Mar 19, 2022
Vinnie2000:

Honestly, I cant help but Feel that Lionel Messi's somewhat dwindling form in the past 3 years may be because he has A WIFE! sad lipsrsealed

Ronaldo, Wizkid, Burnaboy, Drake, Chris BBrown and lots of Successful Superstars have refused to get Married! Even Alh. Aliko Dangote is said to be single!

Oprah Winfrey, Rihanna have not Married till now. While the dancer Kaffy abandoned marriage because she felt it is an hindrance to her career! sad

SO, IS MARRIAGE A DISTRACTION IN A PERSON'S PURSUIT OF SUCCESS? undecided

Lets not forget that Married Peeps like Beyonce, Jay z, Mercy Johnson, Yul Edochie, etc are doing well! smiley
Some marriages slow down partners, while some help the parties to grow more.



I speak as a married young man and ever since I got married, I have grown more than I was as a single man.



In fact, my financial and business growth became more rapid ever since I got married.


Maybe its luck, I don't know sha

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Re: Is Marriage A Distraction In A Person's Pursuit Of Success? by SeaTrade(m): 5:06pm On Mar 19, 2022
My brother told me this like q0 years ago and I'm beginning to think it's true.
As a man,if you have goals to achieve ,especially big ones, it is good to stay away from women.
Comes with all sorts of distractions and drawbacks.

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Re: Is Marriage A Distraction In A Person's Pursuit Of Success? by pansophist(m): 5:08pm On Mar 19, 2022
Confirmation bias.

Just as there are succeful unmarried folks, there are successful married folks. Infact there are more successful married people than the opposite. The crux of the matter is to marry a good partner.

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Re: Is Marriage A Distraction In A Person's Pursuit Of Success? by Johel(m): 5:08pm On Mar 19, 2022
Vinnie2000:

Honestly, I cant help but Feel that Lionel Messi's somewhat dwindling form in the past 3 years may be because he has A WIFE! sad lipsrsealed

Ronaldo, Wizkid, Burnaboy, Drake, Chris BBrown and lots of Successful Superstars have refused to get Married! Even Alh. Aliko Dangote is said to be single!

Oprah Winfrey, Rihanna have not Married till now. While the dancer Kaffy abandoned marriage because she felt it is an hindrance to her career! sad

SO, IS MARRIAGE A DISTRACTION IN A PERSON'S PURSUIT OF SUCCESS? undecided

Lets not forget that Married Peeps like Beyonce, Jay z, Mercy Johnson, Yul Edochie, etc are doing well! smiley


For a guy still building up,yes it is.
For a man that's fulfilled,No it's not.

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Re: Is Marriage A Distraction In A Person's Pursuit Of Success? by Smashspesh(m): 5:09pm On Mar 19, 2022
Obembet's alternative account

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Re: Is Marriage A Distraction In A Person's Pursuit Of Success? by franchasng: 5:10pm On Mar 19, 2022
SeaTrade:
My brother told me this like q0 years ago and I'm beginning to think it's true.
As a man,if you have goals to achieve ,especially big ones, it is good to stay away from women.
Comes with all sorts of distractions and drawbacks.
Not always true my brother, sometimes it depends on the woman.



Some women will inspire and assist you to become great while some will slow you down. So before you marry, pray to your God on your own and also use your wisdom, romantic love is not enough reason to marry anybody.



Marriage is more than love and butterfly feelings. Don't marry a girl just because you feel you love her. Most men marry foolishly in the name of love. Use your number 6.

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Re: Is Marriage A Distraction In A Person's Pursuit Of Success? by BluntTheApostle(m): 5:11pm On Mar 19, 2022
It depends on the individuals in the marriage.

And it depends on the type of pursuits as well.

You want to become a prolific writer of quality fiction, you need an extremely understanding spouse.

While writing Attahiru, Ahmed Yerima had to leave home for months to research and gather materials for his work in Sokoto.

And that is just one instance.

You want to be a great actor, you need a very understanding spouse, otherwise you will not get far.

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Re: Is Marriage A Distraction In A Person's Pursuit Of Success? by nesgeeek(m): 5:11pm On Mar 19, 2022
Marriage is a blessing from God. He who finds a wife findeth good thing and obtaineth favour from the Lord.

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Re: Is Marriage A Distraction In A Person's Pursuit Of Success? by Smashspesh(m): 5:13pm On Mar 19, 2022
kunkelhanspeter:
I guess you know nothing about football and Messi because he married 5 years ago and he has won world best player since then till now more than any other player on earth.

That's Obembet's alternative account
She's/he's a Messi hater
Re: Is Marriage A Distraction In A Person's Pursuit Of Success? by Fxwarrior: 5:13pm On Mar 19, 2022
Vinnie2000:

Honestly, I cant help but Feel that Lionel Messi's somewhat dwindling form in the past 3 years may be because he has A WIFE! sad lipsrsealed

Ronaldo, Wizkid, Burnaboy, Drake, Chris BBrown and lots of Successful Superstars have refused to get Married! Even Alh. Aliko Dangote is said to be single!

Oprah Winfrey, Rihanna have not Married till now. While the dancer Kaffy abandoned marriage because she felt it is an hindrance to her career! sad

SO, IS MARRIAGE A DISTRACTION IN A PERSON'S PURSUIT OF SUCCESS? undecided

Lets not forget that Married Peeps like Beyonce, Jay z, Mercy Johnson, Yul Edochie, etc are doing well! smiley

It depends on the person but there are certain decisions you can take as a single that you can't take as a married person. You have to consider your family.

Besides it also depends on the type of wife you married. If she's a drama queen, your name is "sorry".

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Re: Is Marriage A Distraction In A Person's Pursuit Of Success? by Fiscus105(m): 5:14pm On Mar 19, 2022
Vinnie2000:

Honestly, I cant help but Feel that Lionel Messi's somewhat dwindling form in the past 3 years may be because he has A WIFE! sad lipsrsealed

Ronaldo, Wizkid, Burnaboy, Drake, Chris BBrown and lots of Successful Superstars have refused to get Married! Even Alh. Aliko Dangote is said to be single!

Oprah Winfrey, Rihanna have not Married till now. While the dancer Kaffy abandoned marriage because she felt it is an hindrance to her career! sad

SO, IS MARRIAGE A DISTRACTION IN A PERSON'S PURSUIT OF SUCCESS? undecided

Lets not forget that Married Peeps like Beyonce, Jay z, Mercy Johnson, Yul Edochie, etc are doing well! smiley


Ronaldo, wizkid, davido are all married mr MR.


For them not to get papper back up doesn't stop them to function the same way those who did elaborate weddings as husband and father do.

Infact they do more of husband and father functions far more than many unknown certificate backed husbands.

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Re: Is Marriage A Distraction In A Person's Pursuit Of Success? by Penboy: 5:15pm On Mar 19, 2022
CocaineLord:
Marriage can make or mar you wink

I have seen broke ass men with potentials turned successful after marriage.... I've also seen billionaires turn into a pauper after marriage.

Marriage ain't for the weak smiley smiley


Which billionaire have you seen turned into pauper?

No come here dey lie Biko

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Re: Is Marriage A Distraction In A Person's Pursuit Of Success? by lakezone67(m): 5:16pm On Mar 19, 2022
It is
Re: Is Marriage A Distraction In A Person's Pursuit Of Success? by calddon(m): 5:20pm On Mar 19, 2022
What is success?

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Re: Is Marriage A Distraction In A Person's Pursuit Of Success? by Awoleesu(m): 5:20pm On Mar 19, 2022
It depends...

What I'll tell you is marriage is about the two compromising and sacrificing their personal pleasures for a joint venture...

The "Joint venture" is where an admixture of pros and cons happen...


Thing is, if you cannot sacrifice that thing 'so special' to you on the altar of a joint venture, then rule out marriage!

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