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*How northern leaders, elite’s silence encourage forceful abductions, child marriage*

For 10 months, TOPE OMOGBOLAGUN traced the families of young girls who were abducted, converted to Islam and married without parental consent

It has been over a year since the disappearance of 15-year-old Aisha Mani, a Christian, from the Gidan Dandada area of Katsina State.

Before her abduction, Aisha, who lived with her elder sister following their mothers’ death, was reportedly harassed by some men who allegedly married her off.

Aisha’s father, Mani, is still distraught. He claimed that despite residing in a community of mixed faiths, Christians had to live at the mercy of Muslims. He noted that there had been widespread fear over rampant cases of girls being abducted and married off without the consent of their parents.

“I noticed that this man known as Mohammed Samaila was becoming unnecessarily close to my daughter and would pass strange comments,” Mani said. “Knowing the kind of environment we live in and past experiences with other girls, I decided to take action. In the same circumstances, about eight girls had been abducted and forced into marriage in our community,” Mani said.

He alleged that the abduction cases were reported to relevant authorities in Samaila, but no action had been taken so far.

The disappearance of Aisha has also taken a toll on the health of her father, who is now battling high blood pressure.


He added, “We were still searching for her when on February 12, 2021, we received a call from the district head of Kafur asking us to stop looking for our daughter. He said Aisha was safe in his house.

“We visited his home and requested that our daughter be released, but he refused on the grounds that they wanted to convert her to Islam.”

However, the Manis weren’t willing to let their daughter go irrespective of the price they had to pay.

Aisha’s uncle, Emmanuel Yawa, a policeman, explained that the abduction, Islamisation and forceful marriage had brought them torture. He noted that Aisha was under his watch when she was taken against their consent, and he could not save her.

Yawa recalled, “About 10 days after her abduction, the district head called us stating that a man identified as Mohammed Samaila wanted to marry our daughter. Our efforts to stop the forceful marriage were futile since the district head went ahead to arrange for Aisha’s wedding without our consent or approval.”

The family contracted a law firm that immediately wrote a petition against the district head, Alhaji Abdulrahman Rabe, and Mohammed Sama’ila to the Katsina State Commissioner of Police through the Malumfashi Area Command. In the petition, the family demanded the immediate arrest, investigation and prosecution of the two suspects.

The petition also demanded the release of Aisha. Unfortunately, no arrests were made. Although Kafur’s district head was summoned, no further action was taken.

He stated, “We later agreed that Aisha be brought to the police station but the district head refused to comply. Instead, he decided to take our daughter to the Emir of Katsina on the same day. The Emir of Katsina facilitated Aisha’s marriage without the consent of her parents.”

Mani noted that other families undergoing the same ordeal failed to air their grievances due to fear.

He said, “These people keep doing what they do and getting away with it because they capitalise on the fear in the minds of the victims. We Christians are in the minority here and we are used to being quiet while they keep abducting our daughters. Once we face them, they come to our house to kill us and bring down our buildings. We are so helpless in the hands of these people.”

According to the Hausa Christian Foundation President, Mr Danlami Jydson, such activities are prevalent in the northern part of Nigeria.

Jydson is actively involved in helping abducted girls reunite with their families.

He continued, “That particular village, Gidan Dandada Rafin Ayaka, Sabuwar Kasa, in Kafur LGA, Katsina State, has suffered such unjust treatment from the district head of Kafur and the Emir of Katsina.

“To date, a total of nine Hausa Christian girls have been abducted, forcefully converted to Islam and forced into early marriage by the same district head that helped Samaila abduct Aisha.”

A reporty by the United Nations Children’s Fund stated that Nigeria has the highest number of child brides. An estimated 22 million child brides live in Nigeria, which accounts for 40 percent of all child brides in the region. Niger, which has the highest prevalence in the world, has 4.1 million child brides.

Supporting this, another report by Statista in 2022 stated that Between 2012 and 2018, 18 percent of females in Nigeria were married before the age of 15, whereas 44 percent of girls before the their 18th birthday.

Notably, Nigeria’s rate of child marriage is one of the highest in Africa. This is in spite of the Child Rights Act, 2003 that prohibits marriage below the age of 18 and the provision of Section 17 (3)(f) under Chapter II of the 1999 Constitution that the state shall direct its policy towards ensuring that “children, young persons and the age are protected against any exploitation whatsoever, and against moral and material neglect.”

Meanwhile, some of the states that operate Sharia Law have failed to adopt that provision of the CRA, 2003 federal law which stipulates 18 as the age of maturity for marriage. Similarly, some southern states that have localised this provision have yet to take adequate steps to implement it as there are some cases of child marriage.

Like Aisha, 16-year-old Joy Dankaka was abducted in the middle of the COVID-19 pandemic. She was on her way back from school just before the lockdown was imposed as a safety measure. Dankaka, who lived with her foster parents from Dorayi Gidan Sarki in Kano State, was also forcefully married off without the consent of her guardians.

Her father, Rev Markus Ahmadu, noted that they were expecting Dankaka back home when the Kaduna State Government ordered the closure of schools on March 23, 2020, as part of methods to contain the pandemic.

Ahmadu said, “It was in the course of the search that the village head of Rumi informed us that Joy was with him in the house of the Chief Imam of Ikara, Hamza Bello. Fortunately, Joy was able to get access to a phone which she used to send a message to her relative that she had been abducted and that her life was in danger.”

Upon visiting the house of the Chief Imam, they were told their daughter had now become a Muslim and could no longer live among Christians.

“We insisted on getting our daughter back, but the Chief Imam declined, claiming that she had to be married and her Muslim parents had given their consent. On another occasion, when we went back, the Imam incited some youths to threaten our lives.”

The matter was reported to the authorities, but the lockdown delayed the pursuit of justice. Fortunately, there was a reprieve for the Ahmadu family after the Hausa Christian Foundation intervened, leading to the rescue of Dankaka in 2021.

Her rescue brought relief to her family but her father pointed out that the teenager was still traumatised.

Jydson explained that in the Hausa Christians Foundation, advocacy is a vital tool for restoring the dignity and freedom of the people. He noted that abductions and forced marriage had become familiar and rooted in many northern Muslims’ cultural and religious beliefs.

He said, “This is an issue that has been around since time immemorial, but the world is now civil and the people here have refused to let go of this barbaric practice. It is even sadder because when these girls are abducted and we carry out investigations, we discover that these acts are perpetrated by wealthy Muslims, Alhajis, Emirs and politicians.”

He stated that the involvement of influential individuals in marrying off young girls made it challenging to get justice.

“What we do is that we speak and fight for those who cannot speak or fight for themselves,” he noted. “In our belief that all humans are created equal irrespective of tribe, gender or religion, we advocate for upholding the sanctity of life, protection of fundamental human rights, religious freedom, girl child education and encouraging peaceful coexistence and religious tolerance.”

In the last three years, the foundation has managed to rescue 16 Christian girls in the North reportedly abducted, forcefully Islamised, sexually abused and married off without the consent of their parents.

“We intervened through our legal personnel in four other cases and unjust treatment of northern Nigeria Hausa Christians. We still have more girls and even married women still in captivity going through the same experience Dankaka went through,” he added.

Crying for help in captivity

Asabe Mani, a resident of Rafin Iyak in Katsina State, was abducted over a year ago and is still in captivity. According to her uncle, Dauda Idris, she was kidnapped while running an errand.

He said they were waiting for her to return home, but her whereabouts were unknown. Idris explained that as residents, they suspected what could have happened to Asabe.

“We contacted the relevant authorities to report it but we were made to realise that she was kept in the residence of the district head. On visiting the district head, we were informed that Asabe was forced to convert to Islam.

“We didn’t object since we have Muslim relatives. We only suggested that Asabe should be released to us to practise the religion of her choice in her father’s house, but the district head had refused to let her go. We reported this incident to the area command of Malumfashi, but nothing came out of it. Rather, we were told that she had been married off to someone,” he said.

Idris added that the girl was married to a man in Bara Kusa, adding that efforts to get her back had not been successful.

Pastor Markus Shawai, the father of Rikatu, also explained how his daughter was abducted. Shawai said it was essential to act fast before the girls were married off.

He added that in his case, he found out that his nephew was part of the ploy, but thankfully, he was able to secure the release of his daughter.

“I complained to the district head about my daughter’s abduction the following day. Fortunately, my daughter was released after 48 hours. In the course of the investigation, it was revealed that Usman, who was my nephew, played a part in her abduction,” said Shawai.

Her daughter is now married in a consensual relationship.

Besides young girls, even married women are prone to abduction. For instance, Thibi Timothy, a mother of two, was abducted on her way to work.

Her father, Idris, said, “Thibi was abducted in Kano on April 15, 2020. Before then, she and her husband ran a business together. We heard rumours that Thibi was kidnapped, but unfortunately, the marriage proposal was dissolved for unknown reasons. Subsequently, Thibi got released, and she is now home with her husband and children.”

on that would allow a child of 12, 13, 14 and 15 years to be taken as a bride. No religious argument should be allowed to justify that kind of behaviour because those who are supporting this religious bigotry, their children do not go through that.

“No northern senator or northern governor in this country would allow his female child of a teenage age to be taken as a bride. They send their kids to top schools abroad or here in Nigeria; they give them the best life and they even marry among themselves.”


Effiong also stated that the National Agency for the Prohibition of Trafficking in Persons had done little about the case of abduction and forceful marriage.

He said, “If it is proven that an emir abducted a child for his bride or allows child marriage to take place under his emirate or even orchestrated such marriage, he should be deposed.

“That is why we need to sanitise the system; we have a problem where people are not ready to abide by the law, and that is because they use religion to keep the people intoxicated; they make it look like a state of Islamophobia to speak against vices.

“The results are glaring, and that is why I have always said that the leadership has to drive it. While the media can make a lot of noise around the issue, the real decision-making must lie with the decision-makers, which is the government.

“Unfortunately for Nigeria, the politician is driving towards religious bigotry. They have politicised religion, so they don’t even give room for serious arguments about these things.”

Effiong stated that even the police should be blamed for the issue of abduction and forceful marriage.

He added, “When issues are reported, the police often shy away from it. We have a senator who married a young girl, and people were clapping for him, and they couldn’t talk. They were defending him. We cannot be living a primitive lifestyle and expect the result of civilisation; it is not possible.

“The leaders must lend their voices against these vices. Sharia is inferior to the supremacy of Nigeria. The only law that is superior is the constitution because we cannot have the supremacy of religion over the constitution. A country like ours must be heterogeneous; if it is religious, it will result in strife and anarchy. Over and above every other law is the constitution.”

Relevant authorities keep mum on the issues

All efforts to get the Pentecostal Fellowship of Nigeria proved abortive as the spokesperson, Mr Kayode Oladeji, who promised to revert with a response did not, in spite of six weeks of constant calls and messages as reminders. “I will get back to you. Sorry for the late reply,” he had said.

Similarly, when our correspondent reached out to the District Head of Kafur Local Government Area of Katsina State, Chief Abdulrahman Rabethe, on his involvement in the abduction and forceful marriage of Aisha and other girls in the community, he declined to comment.

He spoke in Hausa, “I cannot comment on the issue. If you want any information from me, come to the community to hear what I have to say.” Despite persuasions by our correspondent for him to speak on the telephone because of the distance apart, he declined.

Also, the spokesperson for the Emir of Katsina, Mallam Iro Bindawa, said it wasn’t his place to comment on the issue but that he would get back to our correspondent.

He said, “I can’t really talk on the issue, I need to contact the right person and get back to you.” Meanwhile, the response has yet to come as of press time.

This story was produced with a reporting grant from ICFJ in conjunction with Code for Africa.

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Happy Sunday everybody. First to comment! Please shower me with likes! Please no bashing on this thread. Thank you.

What sort of premitive , animalistic, crude babaric practice is this

No toasting, no loving, no dating, no Shawarma , Pizza, Suya and Ice cream , no urgent 2k , no meeting of the family no introduction

Just arrange your guys, kidnap who you like, take her to your village chief and start diving in raw and making babies


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Northern leaders are totally useless.

This is modern slavery and a crime on womanhood.

This is why Northern women are running away from the North.

Mooh247:
What sort of premitive , animalistic, crude babaric practice is this

After this we need to talk about grooming in south East, it is equally as bad

SlyDev:
After this we need to talk about grooming in south East, it is equally as bad

Burying their heads in the sand.

SlyDev:
After this we need to talk about grooming in south East, it is equally as bad

Sure every African tribe with primitive culture regarding marriage must stop it

Wether Child bride, kidnapped bride or huge bride price we need to redesign our culture and custom to fit modern realities

Girls in northern Nigeria are 9nly a few steps away from being tied up with ropes and being shackled like those slaves sold in the 1700s


Is a normal thing here in the North most especially the villages where the Hausa Christians (Maguzawa) share the same community with their fellow Muslims counterparts.The Muslims mostly abduct the Christians girls child (under age) and forced them to convert and marry without the consent of their biological parents.This same incident happened in Anchau town (Kubau LGA) Kaduna state late last year where one Igbo girl was abducted and forced to convert andmarry one Alhaji without her parents consents.
This is a story I know very well ....

DrGoodman:
Burying their heads in the sand.

An igbo man will see a 14years old girl, feel sexually attracted to her, then start sending her gift, send her to school with the aim of marrying her, he may even decide to exploit her sexually during this period. When you challenge this people, they will say it is their culture


How are you different from Hausa in the North

DrGoodman:
Girls in northern Nigeria are 9nly a few steps away from being tied up with ropes and being shackled like those slaves sold in the 1700s

Girls as little as 12-14 are kidnapped in South East by criminals and then trafficked to as far as Libya for prostitution, the one that failed landed here in South West.


What is the future of these women? Their future is far worse than the people you are castigating above, an Hausa married woman have roof on her head, free from HIV/Aids, free from sexual molestation and harassment.

We need to put hand together and save women, they are our mother, sister and wife, stop insulting women online

SlyDev:
An igbo man will see a 14years old girl, feel sexually attracted to her, then start sending her gift, send her to school with the aim of marrying her, he may even decide to exploit her sexually during this period. When you challenge this people, they will say it is their culture


How are you different from Hausa in the North

Compare this with forcing a 7 year old hausa girl who hasn't started menstruating being forced to open her tiny baby legs to an 80 year old fulani man who may be laden with generous doses of decade old diseases. All in the name of child marriage.

SlyDev:
Girls as little as 12-14 are kidnapped in South East by criminals and then trafficked to as far as Libya for prostitution, the one that failed landed here in South West.

Kidnappers are criminals, that's a punishable crime.

We are discussing a horrible northern culture of pedophilia, a culture that supports the rape of minors, the destruction of young sectual organs right in the full glare of the whole tribe.

God forbid bad thing.

DrGoodman:
Compare this with forcing a 7 year old hausa girl who hasn't started menstruating being forced to open her tiny baby legs to an 80 year old fulani man who may be laden with generous doses of decade old diseases. All in the name of child marriage.

You are not getting it grooming is equally as bad as early child marriage, during the period of grooming, the man maybe sexually exploiting the little girl. What is bad is bad stop child grooming and early marriage

SlyDev:
You are not getting it grooming is equally as bad as early child marriage, during the period of grooming, the man maybe sexually exploiting the little girl. What is bad is bad stop child grooming and early marriage

MAYBE just maybe.

In the North its a certainly that old men must tear their way into small children's hymen just to fulfil an age old culture of pedophilia. This is not a case of maybe.

DrGoodman:
Kidnappers are criminals, that's a punishable crime.

We are discussing a horrible northern culture of pedophilia, a culture that supports the rape of minors, the destruction of young sectual organs right in the full glare of the whole tribe.

God forbid bad thing.

Not only criminals, men of South East extraction support child grooming, it is of recent women from South East start speaking up.

Both is horrible culture we need to abolish now!

SlyDev:
Not only criminals, men of South East extraction support child grooming, it is of recent women from South East start speaking up.

Both is horrible culture we need to abolish now!

As old as I am, I haven't seen any case of sexual crime committed by people helping children, don't know where you got the word grooming from.

On the other side in northern Nigeria, the evil of opening wide a little girls private parts to be wide enough to take a shrivelled grand fathers privates is a celebrated act, reported widely in radios and television as the shocked girl is being led into the bedroom of one big alhaji to be raped.

Only God will forgive these monsters in northern Nigeria.

DrGoodman:
MAYBE just maybe.

In the North its a certainly that old men must tear their way into small children's hymen just to fulfil an age old culture of pedophilia. This is not a case of maybe.

Grooming of a child is also an old culture of pedophilia. Most of the time the both cultures prey poor girls from poor family

SlyDev:
Grooming of a child is also an old culture of pedophilia. Most of the time the both cultures prey poor girls from poor family

God, please forgive the evil men of northern Nigeria. Their crimes against humanity has become too much. A set of very backward and destructive people.

You don't expect them to go against their religion. Underage girls is what some of them are enjoying in their pissful religion

following

we are finished

Shame on all elders in every corners of Nigeria (North, East, West amd South) encouraging all evil vices.

The Lion they tamed is coming back to haunt them all down.

Northerner leaders are the biggest obstacle to their Development they keep supporting evils, from Bokoharam, Bandits, Kidnapping, etc

For us in the North it's all about self preservation, if you speak out about the ills in public as a politician or elite, the many Islamic scholars with very poor knowledge of Islam will use it and preach against you in their recorded religious messages or Tafsir sermons, this is usually widely circulated as blasphemy against the "teachings" of the prophet Muhammad (SAW) and it can cost you the next election.
Living under hypocrisy is why the North remains backward in several human development indices.

The Bet9ja guy with red signpost above is virtually on every thread, I blame Seun Osewa for allowing all the unsolicited adverts taking up spaces here

Mooh247:




What sort of premitive , animalistic, crude babaric practice is this

No toasting, no loving, no dating, no Shawarma , Pizza, Suya and Ice cream no urgent 2k , no meeting of the family no introduction

Just arrange your guys, kidnap who you like, take her to your village chief and start diving in raw and making babies


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A very misleading and myopic fake news, imagine tagging all igbos child traffickers because 90% of those babies factories owners are igbos or believing that all Yoruba's are skull minners because of the incidents mostly reported happened to be committed by Yoruba's.
You can't use a single incident & generalize with it, if your brain is still functional.

The evil going on in the North isn't well reported

What makes it worse is that the people don't criticize and especially when such is done to Christians

It's not like in the east were people are literate and are objective and outspoken in nature

Just as agberos don't hide in West and South East,these bandits don't hide themselves from the community again,it is seen as an occupation and a norm

If not,why would 11 local governments be taken over by bandits and the army can't flush them out

These criminal co-inhabit with their host community and subject them to tax and levies

Exactly.

No mind dem

Savages!!!!


Bursters!!!!!!!

R

DrGoodman:
Girls in northern Nigeria are 9nly a few steps away from being tied up with ropes and being shackled like those slaves sold in the 1700s

Happening already They offer their daughters to Bandits to prevent attack