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good day my fellow nairalanders

let me cut the story short

I and my babe started dating 6 months ago , I really love her so much ,infact am planning to propose to her this year.., during the first week of our relationship she told me her self that's she's still a virgin without asking her , nd I was somehow happy inside me ......then after some months she told me again that she was raped at age 16 without asking her ....I replied her okay .. now I demanded for sex from her for the first time but she kept avoiding me telling me she's not ready, the funniest part of it is that she messaged me yesterday that her body count was 1 that she once had sex with iz former bf......nd mind u she's in school while I reside in ilorin ..........I don't know if I should break up with her cuz to me she's a chronic lier and a cheater

.then after some months she told me again that she was raped at age 16 without asking her

An average Nigerian girl will tell you she got deflowered through this process.

Some will say they got deflowered by riding horse or bicycle

This gender is something else


No sane man should be in a serious relationship with a Nigerian girl still in school.

Kiliwuwu:
good day my fellow nairalanders

let me cut the story short

I and my babe started dating 6 months ago , I really love her so much ,infact am planning to propose to her this year.., during the first week of our relationship she told me her self that's she's still a virgin without asking her , nd I was somehow happy inside me ......then after some months she told me again that she was raped at age 16 without asking her ....I replied her okay .. now I demanded for sex from her for the first time but she kept avoiding me telling me she's not ready, the funniest part of it is that she messaged me yesterday that her body count was 1 that she once had sex with iz former bf......nd mind u she's in school while I reside in ilorin ..........I don't know if I should break up with her cuz to me she's a chronic lier and a cheater

You don't start a serious relationship with long distance especially with a student. Let your instincts guide you. Look well before you leap into marriage.

U are dating someone in school, oh boy u get mind ooo.

And you still believe a Nigerian girl?

Well, I'll advice you to advice yourself,

Lie no1. I am a virgin.(u agreed without making efforts to confirm physically)

Lie no2. I was raped at age 16( iro po)

Lie no3. I only have one body count ( e fit be say she don't forget)

A foundation built on lies cannot stand

Blunttruth:
You don't start a serious relationship with long distance especially with a student. Let your instincts guide you. Look well before you leap into marriage.

I don wise self like dis

Ekejoestar:
U are dating someone in school, oh boy u get mind ooo.

And you still believe a Nigerian girl?

Well, I'll advice you to advice yourself,

Lie no1. I am a virgin.(u agreed without making efforts to confirm physically)

Lie no2. I was raped at age 16( iro po)

Lie no3. I only have one body count ( e fit be say she don't forget)

A foundation built on lies cannot stand

na to just type my break up epistle give her diz night

Kiliwuwu:
na to just type my break up epistle give her diz night

Downgrade the relationship to the lowest level in your heart, smash her like a side chic which i bet will last longer and more enjoyable.
Stop fiancé/fiancee stuff right from your heart and treat her like an object without attaching anything to the relationship.
I bet, if she truly loves you, the truth will come out.
Use a mind game on yourself by telling your mind that she's nothing but a cheap girl in your neighbourhood.
Don't quarrel,don't argue and don't bother yourself about it. Turn her to side chic and continue your normal doings with her.
Don't hurry for main chic but you already know that she's a side chic awaiting main

Kiliwuwu:
na to just type my break up epistle give her diz night

Or you could just ghost her... stop being too nice and move on when someone misbehave. Only give explanation to nice honest people who their karma might scatter you. Don't reward lying, devious, broken people. Ghost them instead and hopefully you'll help change their behaviour for the rest of us.

Ur own gf still dey put some truth in her confession. My own gf told me that she went to a guyz house & he offer her a soft drink but unknown to her the drink has been injected, she said after she drank it she doze off but the guy did not do anything. Imagine nigeria girls lies, they will lie like this u will just faint.

Only God can advice u

If u are tired then use the door

No come here dey seek advice

YinkaOlusesi16:
Ur own gf still dey put some truth in her confession. My own gf told me that she went to a guyz house & he offer her a soft drink but unknown to her the drink has been injected, she said after she drank it she doze off but the guy did not do anything. Imagine nigeria girls lies, they will lie like this u will just faint.

this your issue get k keg ooooo

Worry less Sir, your breakfast is in the microwave.

Na laugh I dey laugh since today