₦airaland Forum

Chiefecho:
.you have not answered my question

This question: what is the it that is a dead end?

meobizy:
Not when we have diverse untouched issues in this country. I blame this forum for stifling members creativity.

Yeah right?! Untouched issues, when touched by nairalanders will make the issues go away? Right?

How many issues have we touched here and yet it still lingers? Look lady, untouched issues that can only be fixed here are mostly personal issues, personal issues relating to, or directed at or in conjunction to. Yes, those are the issues that get fixed here.

FishySmell:
If only MEN could be like me, Ladies will not see any HUSBAND to marry.
But can they They can't

na your marriage oga ?

Y u come dey pray such prayer for your mind ?

SirMichael1:
Yeah right?! Untouched issues, when touched by nairalanders will make the issues go away? Right?

How many issues have we touched here and yet it still lingers? Look lady, untouched issues that can only be fixed here are mostly personal issues, personal issues relating to, or directed at or in conjunction to. Yes, those are the issues that get fixed here.

Intellectually untouched issues.

meobizy:
Intellectually untouched issues.

Example??

SirMichael1:
Example??

Shift!

nedubrazil111:
My friend got married sometime back to her husband who is supposedly well exposed. They both tested and discovered that they were both AS.

After all the crying, they still went ahead to get married, but this genotype thing has been hidden from the husband's family. He doesn't want them to know because his last relationship crashed for the same reason.

Now they're hoping a Doctor will give them hope of having non AS children or a Pastor will invoke the heavens for them.

I hear there is now preimplementation genetic testing and it's linked to IVF.
Your friend should find out about it.

meobizy:
Shift!

See it? The first question and she skedaddled! Typical of most Nigerian ladies. Obtuse beings.

Tbh, it goes both ways. Transparency is key. In Nigeria, most folks with AS genotype wouldn’t agree to marry another AS genotype partner for obvious reasons.

But this is 2022, there are solutions to these things now provided you have the money and the emotional strength to support each other when on it. Before marriage, discuss extensively with fertility experts and gynaecologists. There are various options to take for child birth. A common one is IVF. Know the pros and cons of it. If any of you are having doubts at this point, it is safe to call it quits. These processes are of course more expensive than natural conception. So it only makes sense to be financially buoyant if you’re considering marriage in this condition.

Adoption is also another “solution” or you guys can decide not to have biological children till you can financially and emotionally afford IVF or other solutions.

If you meet a partner and the only “red flag” is genotype, it can be worked around provided you both are on the same page so nothing actually comes as a surprise during marriage. Life no suppose hard especially if money Dey

Richardjcooper:
Tbh, it goes both ways. Transparency is key. In Nigeria, most folks with AS genotype wouldn’t agree to marry another AS genotype partner for obvious reasons.

But this is 2022, there are solutions to these things now provided you have the money and the emotional strength to support each other when on it. Before marriage, discuss extensively with fertility experts and gynaecologists. There are various options to take for child birth. A common one is IVF. Know the pros and cons of it. If any of you are having doubts at this point, it is safe to call it quits. These processes are of course more expensive than natural conception. So it only makes sense to be financially buoyant if you’re considering marriage in this condition.

Adoption is also another “solution” or you guys can decide not to have biological children till you can financially and emotionally afford IVF or other solutions.

If you meet a partner and the only “red flag” is genotype, it can be worked around provided you both are on the same page so nothing actually comes as a surprise during marriage. Life no suppose hard especially if money Dey

Gbam! Well put bro

meobizy:
Not when we have diverse untouched issues in this country. I blame this forum for stifling members creativity.

I agree with you on this.

Amazingify:
Genotype doesn't work in naija, u just grow fall in love, born first, then get married. After that we await any surprise package

i swear....

It is very very important to know to avoid stories that touches the heart, but since am AA i dont border to ask,

True talk.
Available for your car inspection and scanning

dollynnn:
Beautifully couched!
Knowing each other's genotypes will save unnecessary expenses and unnecessary emotional investment.
But then, I still fear some of our ladies. Hmmmm, let me stop here.

Nice people meets nice people.youre what you attract

headbasher96:
My sisters on nairaland, you have been in a relationship for years and you are yet to know his genotype, if eventually he serves you breakfast dont be suprised ooo.

A lot of ladies out there don't pay attention to all these important details.

There is this friend of mine that was unknowingly commiting incest little did the manchi know that the girl was from his extended family.

Pls ladies, checking for compatibility is very important in a relationship. Not till he proposes to you before you will start investigating about him. There is more to a relationship than he is the perfect man for me. Because he is financially stable, you forget the rest.

Before the first one hand u give to him try to ask questions to avoid future regrets.

Isn't this message suppose to be directed to everybody. Man or woman. Abi na only women be AS?

dollynnn:
Beautifully couched!
Knowing each other's genotypes will save unnecessary expenses and unnecessary emotional investment.
But then, I still fear some of our ladies. Hmmmm, let me stop here.

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This seems unreasonable, but some ethnicities do this because of certain birth defects, for example, Jewish people and Tay-Sachs.

Amazingify:
Genotype doesn't work in naija, u just grow fall in love, born first, then get married. After that we await any surprise package

I go just knack you AKPAKO. Are you proud of what you just wrote?

The first thing i always ask any girl I date is her genocide, it is very very important in a serious relationship

Cutehector:
Its only poor people that all these issues concern.

My guy u nor get joy oo..

Me self � reason am like dat

nedubrazil111:
My friend got married sometime back to her husband who is supposedly well exposed. They both tested and discovered that they were both AS.

After all the crying, they still went ahead to get married, but this genotype thing has been hidden from the husband's family. He doesn't want them to know because his last relationship crashed for the same reason.

Now they're hoping a Doctor will give them hope of having non AS children or a Pastor will invoke the heavens for them.

AS children should be the least of tbeir worries. What if dem born SS?

kevinexit:
My guy u nor get joy oo..

Me self � reason am like dat

peeople dey castigate me , i just look them dey laugh. If one is exposed, they wont be talking what they are saying here.

Hmmm

They only care about his pocket

SirMichael1:
Yes there is a way but that way is mere probability. In AS/AS marriages, at least 1 of 4 kids is SS.

It could be your first child, the second, the third or even the fourth. Mere probability.

Except you want to go for external fertilization with is expensive but if it's natural, science has only made us know the likelihood of having an SS child. Don't take it.

It is not a probability. It is 100% accurate. Make your research.

Regards.

Beebah2000:
Importanta

Importantest

nedubrazil111:
My friend got married sometime back to her husband who is supposedly well exposed. They both tested and discovered that they were both AS.

After all the crying, they still went ahead to get married, but this genotype thing has been hidden from the husband's family. He doesn't want them to know because his last relationship crashed for the same reason.

Now they're hoping a Doctor will give them hope of having non AS children or a Pastor will invoke the heavens for them.

That was a huge risk they took.

olenyi:
It is not a probability. It is 100% accurate. Make your research.

Regards.

I hope this shuts you up.

SirMichael1:
I hope this shuts you up.

Go do your research man. Stop quoting write-ups from unknown people. Haba.

Just look at their responses, money is important, Nigerian girls with their poverty stricken mindsets!
No wonder they use you for rituals, just throw in a few notes and they open their legs like elevators.