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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by DropsMic(m): 12:33pm On Mar 28, 2022
Shokoloko:
The typical African parent is a bully. Children are beaten and tortured for no reason.
Children are beaten up for not understanding her schoolwork, Children are beaten up for getting sexually molested, Children are beaten up for crying from the previous beaten, Children are beaten up for not answering quickly enough, Children are beaten up for daring to have a different point of view.

In your example, how can a man and wife (two people) hit, tackle to the ground and beat the crap out of a 15 year old. Like 2 people to one person? Even if she was an adult and not their daughter, two people to one is an unfair situation.

What Nigerians and Africans refuse to learn is that violence destroys a country. See how all the violent countries are experiencing reduced GDP compared to those that are not. Africans will continue to create and breed monsters.

It will be very easy for a 15 year boy to rape and beat up a 6 year old child because he has been beaten to the point of trauma he feels its not a big deal, his mother's has beaten the house help to stupor, and his father has beaten his mother to stupor so violence is a part of life.

That's why our society is the way it is

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Obagofixxy: 12:34pm On Mar 28, 2022
Try am. For naija now, you and the police man go collect woto woto
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Dshocker(m): 12:36pm On Mar 28, 2022
In 2008 my uncle almost lost his children to New Zealand government,after the police gave him last warning should any of his children ever calls emergency number again...He had to relocate them down to Onitsha.
Right now they have turned to full time igbo children and behaving very well.

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by illicit(m): 12:36pm On Mar 28, 2022
Shokoloko:
The typical African parent is a bully. Children are beaten and tortured for no reason.
Children are beaten up for not understanding her schoolwork, Children are beaten up for getting sexually molested, Children are beaten up for crying from the previous beaten, Children are beaten up for not answering quickly enough, Children are beaten up for daring to have a different point of view.

In your example, how can a man and wife (two people) hit, tackle to the ground and beat the crap out of a 15 year old. Like 2 people to one person? Even if she was an adult and not their daughter, two people to one is an unfair situation.

What Nigerians and Africans refuse to learn is that violence destroys a country. See how all the violent countries are experiencing reduced GDP compared to those that are not. Africans will continue to create and breed monsters.

It will be very easy for a 15 year boy to rape and beat up a 6 year old child because he has been beaten to the point of trauma he feels its not a big deal, his mother's has beaten the house help to stupor, and his father has beaten his mother to stupor so violence is a part of life.


Where did u read that they joined hands to tackle her to the ground and beat the crap out of her undecided

Are u sure we are all on d same page

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Shokoloko(f): 12:37pm On Mar 28, 2022
KanwuliaBaby:


YES!
But they will be sealed. They will show up AS FLAGS!
Some employers will not have time to CALL YOU to ask you what is in there. They will fling your application to the thrash bin and move to the next applicant.

Others that really care will ask you to explain. Very tricky.

What you say might even seal you doom with that employer. They may use it against you.✅

Thanks for a quick response.
How about for the kids?
Do the records parents file against kids show up in their background checks.

You might need to calm down on the filing of records against your kids and check with your local police.

Thankfully my children are grown, but for others who may want to learn.

But I still maintain that its the parenting given to a kid before 12 that establishes character. I guess Canada and US are different. In Canada (at least in my environment), people (including children are a little more chill. From 14 you see children posting on facebook groups offering babysitting, dog-walking, yard clean-up services.)

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by oilmane(m): 12:45pm On Mar 28, 2022
Shokoloko:
The typical African parent is a bully. Children are beaten and tortured for no reason.
Children are beaten up for not understanding her schoolwork, Children are beaten up for getting sexually molested, Children are beaten up for crying from the previous beaten, Children are beaten up for not answering quickly enough, Children are beaten up for daring to have a different point of view.

In your example, how can a man and wife (two people) hit, tackle to the ground and beat the crap out of a 15 year old. Like 2 people to one person? Even if she was an adult and not their daughter, two people to one is an unfair situation.

What Nigerians and Africans refuse to learn is that violence destroys a country. See how all the violent countries are experiencing reduced GDP compared to those that are not. Africans will continue to create and breed monsters.

It will be very easy for a 15 year boy to rape and beat up a 6 year old child because he has been beaten to the point of trauma he feels its not a big deal, his mother's has beaten the house help to stupor, and his father has beaten his mother to stupor so violence is a part of life.


Oga u for read the post again, her mum hit her then she tackled her mum to the floor, she push her mum fall then they kponse her, her day beat her for that, I don't think you'll accept that from your child or will you? The bible will not have advised that you spare the rod and spoil the child if it is same thing as bullying the child, some parents go too far yes but then a lot of us would have gone hay wire if not for our tough parents. God bless our parents.

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Ishilove: 12:45pm On Mar 28, 2022
KanwuliaBaby:
Invest in a gooooood security system with gooooood WiFi.✅

Any movement, I get notified. cool
Why is the CSO sleeping on duty? Kindly deduct from his March salary

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by horladexino(m): 12:46pm On Mar 28, 2022
KanwuliaBaby:


Explain further please.
Highlight of whose parenting?
Na only me dey parent am? Im papa nor dey house? cheesy
Did you ever see me dress like an ashi on or off NL? undecided

We don’t live in places like Ajegunle or “Banana Island” in this complex. This is a private residential area. We don’t have Alaye-Slayers roaming aimlessly around here in COBB COUNRRRRY!
Thank you!

Na for this kain neighborhood you wanno commit crime? shocked You see anybarry dey waka with leg for hia? Before you reach here 50 neighbors don snap you with RING camera. CCTV nko? Plus where everyone is FREE to own a GUN? Kam try ya best luck! kiss
Oomo
And I dey nairaland with this kind of people
See life with peace of mind
I must make it in Jesus name Amen

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by masterpiecer(m): 12:46pm On Mar 28, 2022
KanwuliaExtra:
In the West, it is a whole different story. You hear of parents being arrested for hitting their minor children for misbehaving.

How will you handle the incident?

True story of a Nigerian family in my neighborhood.

Case scenario: A mother hits her 15 y/o child and she tackles her down to the floor like a heavy-weight champion. Daddy intervenes and beats the crap out of the 15 y/o daughter.

Daughter calls police and have parents arrested. Father is charged with child-battery and BANNED from coming to the house till the daughter leaves the house at 18 years old.

Fast forward: Daughter is now 20 years old and lives alone with no contact with her parents. When she graduated from high school, her parents did not attend! They practically disowned her and gave her to the state to take care of.

This is so heartbreaking, that girl owes her parents great apology and forgiveness, hence it will haunt her for life especially when she starts having children of her own. That aspect of parenting is what i detest about western culture

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by chiedozie198100: 12:47pm On Mar 28, 2022
All of u praising the western world to high heavens, just shows how shallow and your level of inferiority complex.
-who says people don't steal parcels in abroad.
-who says there are no car jackers in abroad.
-if that ur heaven is that safe, why do people have to buy guns then
-go to any Walmart n u'll see a list of missing persons pasted on the front of the store, mostly minors
-westerners are amazed that we have what is called OMUGWU where u have someone help u out when u have a baby, not in their culture
-mind ur business is causing depression n loneliness abroad, neighbors don't talk to each other
ETC.

naija get issues, but my dear we still have our humanity. overall we are better human beings compared to the whites.

enough of this kolomentality.

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by CoronaVirusPro: 12:47pm On Mar 28, 2022
Shokoloko:
The typical African parent is a bully. Children are beaten and tortured for no reason.
Children are beaten up for not understanding her schoolwork, Children are beaten up for getting sexually molested, Children are beaten up for crying from the previous beaten, Children are beaten up for not answering quickly enough, Children are beaten up for daring to have a different point of view.

In your example, how can a man and wife (two people) hit, tackle to the ground and beat the crap out of a 15 year old. Like 2 people to one person? Even if she was an adult and not their daughter, two people to one is an unfair situation.

What Nigerians and Africans refuse to learn is that violence destroys a country. See how all the violent countries are experiencing reduced GDP compared to those that are not. Africans will continue to create and breed monsters.

It will be very easy for a 15 year boy to rape and beat up a 6 year old child because he has been beaten to the point of trauma he feels its not a big deal, his mother's has beaten the house help to stupor, and his father has beaten his mother to stupor so violence is a part of life.


The fact that you related it to Africans is my problem with you.


African kids are the most trained and upright kid in the whole world and thats because of how morals and home training.

Since you mentioned Africa, I will ask you, Are European or American kids better than African Kids? Its a "NO"



Stop accusing Africans out of low self esteem. Africans are learners compared to the Western kids. A 15 year old boy/girl in Africa is a learner to his counterpart in UK or USA.


Its as easy as ABC to go astray in same western countries cos of this same "spare the rod" mentality.

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by JohnBullMySon: 12:48pm On Mar 28, 2022
KanwuliaBaby:


It is ridiculous. Then those busy bodies aka school social workers and school nurses will keep interrogating in school and won’t concentrate on the children that truly need help.

The police even goes to the school to take the children OUT OF SCHOOL TO INTERROGATE THEM WITHOUT YOUR CONSENT! Ha! shocked


GIRLS ARE THE MOST DIFFICULT ENTITIES TO RAISEEEEE! Kai!

Boys get their own wahala sha- I don’t even near that area. I let my husband handle his OWN 3 boys! I nor fit deal with testosterone- Very unemotional creatures. You can NEVER tell what is going on their minds . Pass good morning and good night - finish o. IF THEY NEED ME, LET THEM APPROACK ME! Shikena. kiss I only do estrogen abeg. With boys YOU HAVE TO GO PHYSICAL! Naaaah. I can’t. ✅

Retire as a nurse ke? Never. I just work from home. Over 20 years as a bedside nurse? I can NEVER go back to working in ANY HOSPITAL. Too much time away from home o. With these “fast tails” under my roof? shocked
Before we comeback from work, dem go do reach down town, shoplift with their useless gang-touts and be back home like nothing happened. grin


They are FILTHY!
They are MOUTHY!
They are EXTREMELY HORMONAL!
They are MANIPULATIVE!
Extremely PSYCHO-SOCIOPATHIC!

When boyfriends enter nko? Na competition to belong with street urchins!
God! I don DIE!!!! Dem go make mouth like:
“I garra boyfren. . . I garra boyfen. . . . yen yen yen yen yen. . . . * cheesy

MADNESS !
Sorry to fault you, but your behavior, maturity and attitude goes a long way to determine whether your children will respect and listen to you.

From your writups here its already clear to me that you're very erratic and full of drama. Before blaming your kids, question your own attitude.

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Ishilove: 12:50pm On Mar 28, 2022
kingreign:


Hahahahah this one na diaspora agbero style of parenting o. Using the flaws within the system to your advantage
I am so taking notes. No child of mine will ever disgrace me like this. I will rather send you to Nigeria to learn proper home training

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Nauttyprof(m): 12:51pm On Mar 28, 2022
Shokoloko:
The typical African parent is a bully. Children are beaten and tortured for no reason.
Children are beaten up for not understanding her schoolwork, Children are beaten up for getting sexually molested, Children are beaten up for crying from the previous beaten, Children are beaten up for not answering quickly enough, Children are beaten up for daring to have a different point of view.

In your example, how can a man and wife (two people) hit, tackle to the ground and beat the crap out of a 15 year old. Like 2 people to one person? Even if she was an adult and not their daughter, two people to one is an unfair situation.

What Nigerians and Africans refuse to learn is that violence destroys a country. See how all the violent countries are experiencing reduced GDP compared to those that are not. Africans will continue to create and breed monsters.

It will be very easy for a 15 year boy to rape and beat up a 6 year old child because he has been beaten to the point of trauma he feels its not a big deal, his mother's has beaten the house help to stupor, and his father has beaten his mother to stupor so violence is a part of life.


I find these points of yours ridiculous.

Have you heard of the USA and its crime rate? Even shocking ones you will never hear of in Africa. Tell me again if your points hold water.

The truth is that no method of raising a child is absolutely perfect either you avoid flogging or you do this.

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by femijay8271(m): 12:52pm On Mar 28, 2022
KanwuliaExtra:
I personally went through a similar experience with one of my daughters.
She loved to dress provocatively at THIRTEEN!

One day she wore this::
I appealed to her nicely that it was 42 degrees outside and she had to change this outfit it I would drive her to school.

She refused and did not take her to school. I don’t know how she got to school.

When she returned, I told her she could not enter my house o. I RIPPED THE SKIRT OFF HER ARSE RIGHT THERE BY THE MAILBOX with only her UNDERWEAR on her and locked her OUT OF MY HOUSE. She stayed in the garage and told her she should only come in to use the bathroom.She called the police and told them I was freezing her outside. grin

OMO!


See SWAT TEAM for front of my house? shocked

There were TEN of them in 6 police vehicles.
They told me I MUST LET HER INTO THE HOUSE. because it was too cold! I refused.
I told them it was her punishment for disobedience and she is locked out of my house for 4 hours.

I provided her with a space heater, some clothes, a pillow and blankets to SLEEP on the floor!

The police told me she had EVERY RIGHT to be inside the house. I told them to have me arrested if I was breaking any law.

The useless white cops left!
Imagine the embarrassment in front of ALL the neighbors? My husband was SPEECHLESS!

Na man/woman u be jare

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by shantti(m): 12:53pm On Mar 28, 2022
KanwuliaExtra:
In the West, it is a whole different story. You hear of parents being arrested for hitting their minor children for misbehaving.

How will you handle the incident?

True story of a Nigerian family in my neighborhood.

Case scenario: A mother hits her 15 y/o child and she tackles her down to the floor like a heavy-weight champion. Daddy intervenes and beats the crap out of the 15 y/o daughter.

Daughter calls police and have parents arrested. Father is charged with child-battery and BANNED from coming to the house till the daughter leaves the house at 18 years old.

Fast forward: Daughter is now 20 years old and lives alone with no contact with her parents. When she graduated from high school, her parents did not attend! They practically disowned her and gave her to the state to take care of.

Her kids would do worse to her angry angry angry angry, wetin be this?
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by chiedozie198100: 12:54pm On Mar 28, 2022
KanwuliaExtra:
In the West, it is a whole different story. You hear of parents being arrested for hitting their minor children for misbehaving.

How will you handle the incident?

True story of a Nigerian family in my neighborhood.

Case scenario: A mother hits her 15 y/o child and she tackles her down to the floor like a heavy-weight champion. Daddy intervenes and beats the crap out of the 15 y/o daughter.

Daughter calls police and have parents arrested. Father is charged with child-battery and BANNED from coming to the house till the daughter leaves the house at 18 years old.

Fast forward: Daughter is now 20 years old and lives alone with no contact with her parents. When she graduated from high school, her parents did not attend! They practically disowned her and gave her to the state to take care of.

most of this kids are traumatized by the AMERICAN experience.
the level of hate and bullying and racism these innocent kids face on a daily basis right from infancy is scary, mostly in school.
can u imagine where a 3 year old faces racism from everyone around him/her, even from so called adults- the teachers.
and who do they blame for this, the parents that yanked them from their normal existence in Africa n dumped them in the abroad, all in the name of greener pastures.

sadly we don't seem to realize this PANDEMIC going on in the African community.

i have taught in the American school system, it's heart wrenching the way African kids are treated in American schools. i faced my own dose of bullying, racism and passive aggression, even as a teacher, an adult. then u can imagine what these little ones go through.

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Ekejoestar(m): 12:55pm On Mar 28, 2022
KanwuliaBaby:


You have to be creative.
You know it gets to a stage you call the police and the lt ALREADY KNOW YOU BY YOUR FIRST NAME! cheesy

They will say “Hello “MISS LAURA”, are you calling about your “REPEAT OFFENDERS” again?

And I will reply: “YEP”!
Then they will say-“We are on our way”!

One day, the sent 4 HEAVY BLACK COPS to tackle 2 of them. The cops insulted the children ehn? Shegeeeeey!

The children told them I threatened to SHOOT them! cheesy

I told them YES! In self defense. kiss
I told them I would not hesitate to gun them down if they show up in MY SIDE OF THE HOUSE UNINVITED. They can reach me via phone or landline intercom.✅


Lol
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by shantti(m): 12:56pm On Mar 28, 2022
Shokoloko:
What is the point of beating a 15 year old.
Any correction not given before 12 might be a waste as character is already formed. What were the parents doing all those years.

As much as the situation is sad I see a silver lining. The girl is not all that useless because she actually graduated, meaning she has some sense. She should channel the rejection into something good and make good use of her life.

She is not the one who banned her father from the house. She did the natural thing: if I was been beaten up the most natural thing would be to call a higher authority for help.

Did u even read the story. She wrestled her mum to the ground for beating her. What did u expect the husband of the man to do?

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Nobody: 12:56pm On Mar 28, 2022
I can understand your pain ,even here in Nigeria the other day I heard my neighbor tell her kids " as una say una wicked ,I go dey wicked follow una".Madam was forced to speak pidgin by force grin grin grin grin

Omo those kids are a hand full ,very stubborn, dem nor dey hear word.

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Pimine: 12:56pm On Mar 28, 2022
Shokoloko:
The typical African parent is a bully. Children are beaten and tortured for no reason.
Children are beaten up for not understanding her schoolwork, Children are beaten up for getting sexually molested, Children are beaten up for crying from the previous beaten, Children are beaten up for not answering quickly enough, Children are beaten up for daring to have a different point of view.

In your example, how can a man and wife (two people) hit, tackle to the ground and beat the crap out of a 15 year old. Like 2 people to one person? Even if she was an adult and not their daughter, two people to one is an unfair situation.

What Nigerians and Africans refuse to learn is that violence destroys a country. See how all the violent countries are experiencing reduced GDP compared to those that are not. Africans will continue to create and breed monsters.

It will be very easy for a 15 year boy to rape and beat up a 6 year old child because he has been beaten to the point of trauma he feels its not a big deal, his mother's has beaten the house help to stupor, and his father has beaten his mother to stupor so violence is a part of life.
Aswearugaaad

Shebi you will not calm down to read and understand?

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by masterpiecer(m): 12:56pm On Mar 28, 2022
oilmane:



Oga u for read the post again, her mum hit her then she tackled her mum to the floor, she push her mum fall then they kponse her, her day beat her for that, I don't think you'll accept that from your child or will you? The bible will not have advised that you spare the rod and spoil the child if it is same thing as bullying the child, some parents go too far yes but then a lot of us would have gone hay wire if not for our tough parents. God bless our parents.

My God will richly bless u.

Just take a look at this generation, the decay is so disgusting, I'm a proud product of wat u stated; infact my mum was really strict on me cos I was so head strong but whenever I look back I bless her soul for the upbringing, in my tribute to her during her funeral, I promised to raise my kids with same values I was raised.

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by godofuck231: 12:58pm On Mar 28, 2022
KanwuliaExtra:
I personally went through a similar experience with one of my daughters.
She loved to dress provocatively at THIRTEEN!

One day she wore this::
I appealed to her nicely that it was 42 degrees outside and she had to change this outfit it I would drive her to school.

She refused and did not take her to school. I don’t know how she got to school.

When she returned, I told her she could not enter my house o. I RIPPED THE SKIRT OFF HER ARSE RIGHT THERE BY THE MAILBOX with only her UNDERWEAR on her and locked her OUT OF MY HOUSE. She stayed in the garage and told her she should only come in to use the bathroom.She called the police and told them I was freezing her outside. grin

OMO!


See SWAT TEAM for front of my house? shocked

There were TEN of them in 6 police vehicles.
They told me I MUST LET HER INTO THE HOUSE. because it was too cold! I refused.
I told them it was her punishment for disobedience and she is locked out of my house for 4 hours.

I provided her with a space heater, some clothes, a pillow and blankets to SLEEP on the floor!

The police told me she had EVERY RIGHT to be inside the house. I told them to have me arrested if I was breaking any law.

The useless white cops left!
Imagine the embarrassment in front of ALL the neighbors? My husband was SPEECHLESS!
na now you become woman , before na wife you be , if to say your husband talk i for send enders clme beat am , thats how kids get themselves into trouble at a young age , when they get raped or pregnant your husband points the accusing finger to you , for not bringing them up properly, strong woman ........ orijin na for men and the gods but come drink small ........

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by shantti(m): 12:59pm On Mar 28, 2022
KanwuliaExtra:
I personally went through a similar experience with one of my daughters.
She loved to dress provocatively at THIRTEEN!

One day she wore this::
I appealed to her nicely that it was 42 degrees outside and she had to change this outfit it I would drive her to school.

She refused and did not take her to school. I don’t know how she got to school.

When she returned, I told her she could not enter my house o. I RIPPED THE SKIRT OFF HER ARSE RIGHT THERE BY THE MAILBOX with only her UNDERWEAR on her and locked her OUT OF MY HOUSE. She stayed in the garage and told her she should only come in to use the bathroom.She called the police and told them I was freezing her outside. grin

OMO!


See SWAT TEAM for front of my house? shocked

There were TEN of them in 6 police vehicles.
They told me I MUST LET HER INTO THE HOUSE. because it was too cold! I refused.
I told them it was her punishment for disobedience and she is locked out of my house for 4 hours.

I provided her with a space heater, some clothes, a pillow and blankets to SLEEP on the floor!

The police told me she had EVERY RIGHT to be inside the house. I told them to have me arrested if I was breaking any law.

The useless white cops left!
Imagine the embarrassment in front of ALL the neighbors? My husband was SPEECHLESS!

You did well ma. Imagine not being able to correct your kids

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Whoknowsme: 12:59pm On Mar 28, 2022
Shokoloko:
The typical African parent is a bully. Children are beaten and tortured for no reason.
Children are beaten up for not understanding her schoolwork, Children are beaten up for getting sexually molested, Children are beaten up for crying from the previous beaten, Children are beaten up for not answering quickly enough, Children are beaten up for daring to have a different point of view.

In your example, how can a man and wife (two people) hit, tackle to the ground and beat the crap out of a 15 year old. Like 2 people to one person? Even if she was an adult and not their daughter, two people to one is an unfair situation.

What Nigerians and Africans refuse to learn is that violence destroys a country. See how all the violent countries are experiencing reduced GDP compared to those that are not. Africans will continue to create and breed monsters.

It will be very easy for a 15 year boy to rape and beat up a 6 year old child because he has been beaten to the point of trauma he feels its not a big deal, his mother's has beaten the house help to stupor, and his father has beaten his mother to stupor so violence is a part of life.
Pls read very well. It said the mother hit the child, then the child tackles and beats the mother. The husband can't take that shit so he puts the child down and beat her very well after which the child calls police to arrest the father...........

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by babajeje123(m): 12:59pm On Mar 28, 2022
KanwuliaBaby:


Good to see you madam B!❤️

Thank you!
I go show dem ke. cheesy
Dem go call police TAYA!

I told the police to please take anyone who can't tolerate the home rules. Do you know what the stupidd cops told me? angry

They said their “books” are full and there is no space in “the system”! Oh? shocked

It got to a stage I filed a complaint against the police dept for RACISM! tongue Arrrrrrrgh, they started sending only BLACK COPS to my house o!

If ANY CHILD DISOBEYS, I CALL THE POLICE!

I wore them out. grin

No one wants to call police any more o! cheesy
I became an EXPERT in calling the police.

If you nor wash plate- POLICE!
If your nor brush teeth- POLICE!
If you disobey curfew- POLICE!
If you nor do homework- POLICE!
If you use foul language at home- POLICE!

The police were tired of me o! I taught them and the children a gravvvve lesson.

Now, I can parent in. PEACE! cool
grin grin grin grin
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by cocolacec(m): 1:00pm On Mar 28, 2022
KanwuliaExtra:
I personally went through a similar experience with one of my daughters.
She loved to dress provocatively at THIRTEEN!

One day she wore this::
I appealed to her nicely that it was 42 degrees outside and she had to change this outfit it I would drive her to school.

She refused and did not take her to school. I don’t know how she got to school.

When she returned, I told her she could not enter my house o. I RIPPED THE SKIRT OFF HER ARSE RIGHT THERE BY THE MAILBOX with only her UNDERWEAR on her and locked her OUT OF MY HOUSE. She stayed in the garage and told her she should only come in to use the bathroom.She called the police and told them I was freezing her outside. grin

OMO!


See SWAT TEAM for front of my house? shocked

There were TEN of them in 6 police vehicles.
They told me I MUST LET HER INTO THE HOUSE. because it was too cold! I refused.
I told them it was her punishment for disobedience and she is locked out of my house for 4 hours.

I provided her with a space heater, some clothes, a pillow and blankets to SLEEP on the floor!

The police told me she had EVERY RIGHT to be inside the house. I told them to have me arrested if I was breaking any law.

The useless white cops left!
Imagine the embarrassment in front of ALL the neighbors? My husband was SPEECHLESS!

That was unfair and unnecessary exposure to harm.Why dehumanise your own daughter?
What if she developed pneumonia or got raped that is how she would have turned to a street girl.
Parents raising their children fails to understand these children are peer pressured in schools and the environmemt they find themselves.All you needed to do was have a heart to heart talk with her not master/slave relationship most Nigerian parents have with their children.Africans parents only thrive in destroying their erring children not correct them in love and kindness.
I will never treat my daughter like that.

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Generalkorex(m): 1:01pm On Mar 28, 2022
KanwuliaBaby:


You have to be creative.
You know it gets to a stage you call the police and the lt ALREADY KNOW YOU BY YOUR FIRST NAME! cheesy

They will say “Hello “MISS LAURA”, are you calling about your “REPEAT OFFENDERS” again?

And I will reply: “YEP”!
Then they will say-“We are on our way”!

One day, the sent 4 HEAVY BLACK COPS to tackle 2 of them. The cops insulted the children ehn? Shegeeeeey!

The children told them I threatened to SHOOT them! cheesy

I told them YES! In self defense. kiss
I told them I would not hesitate to gun them down if they show up in MY SIDE OF THE HOUSE UNINVITED. They can reach me via phone or landline intercom.✅


This got me laughing.
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by venabili: 1:02pm On Mar 28, 2022
KanwuliaBaby:


Good to see you madam B!❤️

Thank you!
I go show dem ke. cheesy
Dem go call police TAYA!

I told the police to please take anyone who can't tolerate the home rules. Do you know what the stupidd cops told me? angry

They said their “books” are full and there is no space in “the system”! Oh? shocked

It got to a stage I filed a complaint against the police dept for RACISM! tongue Arrrrrrrgh, they started sending only BLACK COPS to my house o!

If ANY CHILD DISOBEYS, I CALL THE POLICE!

I wore them out. grin

No one wants to call police any more o! cheesy
I became an EXPERT in calling the police.

If you nor wash plate- POLICE!
If your nor brush teeth- POLICE!
If you disobey curfew- POLICE!
If you nor do homework- POLICE!
If you use foul language at home- POLICE!

The police were tired of me o! I taught them and the children a gravvvve lesson.

Now, I can parent in. PEACE! cool

Thank you. You just made my day!!! grin grin

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Nauttyprof(m): 1:03pm On Mar 28, 2022
Shokoloko:
On top of all the "African disciplining, the average African from 12 years is corrupt.
A westerner will turn a new leaf because he wants to be a better person, an African will turn a new leaf because there is a likelihood to be caught and disgraced or jailed.

At 12 years an African child in boarding house will try to BRIBE the gate men to let them go out indiscriminately. At 12 introducing their classmates to cultism as long as they do not get caught. At 12 multiple abortions claiming to be virgins. Certified runs girl at 15.
Upon all the disciplining.

No, africans are not law- abiding, empathetic and less corrupt. It was over here I saw that on a bus younger people stand up to allow older people, pregnant women and disabled people to sit down. I never saw it in Nigeria.

Over here UPS and DHL drops your package in front of your door. The package remains there until you come home at night and pick it. It cannot happen in Nigeria. Since I started buying cars I have locked car doors less than 5 times. Sometimes I forget to lock my door.

Upon all our discipline.


It is in USA you hear of crazy crime conducted by teens in high school. Have you heard any Nigerian school where a teenager walks into the school and starts shooting at fellow students?

Nigerians are quick to appreciate whatever will see over there without also looking at the bad side of whatever they practice. Both systems are not perfect.

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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Whoknowsme: 1:05pm On Mar 28, 2022
shantti:


Did u even read the story. She wrestled her mum to the ground for beating her. What did u expect the husband of the man to do?
I noticed that most nairalanders have issue with reading that's why you see them making unreasonable and off point comments

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