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| Why Is There Always Trouble In Extended Families? by Jun10r(op): 1:31am On Apr 21, 2022 |
My step mom made life hell on earth for me. She vows I will never succeed in anything in life. Have you ever been hated or discriminated on? Yes I have by friends, family and everyone. In school I was an underachiever. Dad lost interest in sponsoring me because he thinks am of no good use. And because he loves his second wife much and care more about them. Mom loves me very much but due to dads negligence among our family, dad only pay attentions to my step mom and her children. I we where only two that my mom gave birth for my dad and my step mom gave birth to 6. I have no option because my second died in a very gruesome way. I really don't have anyone who sees any good in me. I am not a bad person I don't know where I got that luck from. I dropped out of secondary schools during waec because nobody believed they can spend anything on me. They believed I am not productive, they believed I will never succeeded. So I totally lost my confidence and become very low thinking about myself. Since no one sponsored me to even write waec atleast I managed to learn a skill all by myself I learnt tailoring and design. But I couldn't proceed more further because nobody help me. Anytime there is any important meetings in the family no one respects me, the younger ones are even allowed to make a say before I do and mine will be neglected because I don't have money or a shop or a job. I desired to have a normal life, like getting getting a job but no results. I desire to help others rejected like me but who am I ? Who will listen to me when am penniless? All this mistreatment gave me a big scars in life that changed my mentality and robbed me of being myself. I pray so hard. I work very hard but I wonder what am not doing right. What is the purpose of my life? Tomorrow I am going to look for any car I can jump and follow to abuja and see if I can hustle to enable me use my skill to open a shop. I will prove everyone that thinks I will never make it in life wrong. Only if it could be that I know any important person in my life to help establish a workshop and my life and story will change forever. Because I believe No one is an overachiever. How can you rise above your level of competency? Everyone is an underachiever to different degrees. The harder you work, the more luck you will have. I will be very greatful to anyone that can change my story and give a meaning to my life by opening a shop for me to work for him/her. I am the last person in whatever I do because everyone already made me feel that way. What can I do in my case? |
| Re: Why Is There Always Trouble In Extended Families? by chatinent: 1:48am On Apr 21, 2022 |
Don't let anyone change you. You'll be great if you become great now. |
| Re: Why Is There Always Trouble In Extended Families? by Jun10r(op): 2:01am On Apr 21, 2022 |
chatinent:I hope so, man thanks for the encouraging advice. |
| Re: Why Is There Always Trouble In Extended Families? by jalodo2: 8:59am On Apr 21, 2022 |
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