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Re: We Want To Adopt A Child As Soon As Possible by emmanuelbrown26: 4:37pm On Apr 27, 2022
JovialJune:
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Pastor righteousness prayed for the woman to birth triplets and you are pained? Are you stupid?
En bi say u never see your period for sometime now? She only came to ask where she can adopt baby and u and that your stupid pastor wanted deviate from the topic of d thread
Re: We Want To Adopt A Child As Soon As Possible by JovialJune(f): 4:42pm On Apr 27, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:
En bi say u never see your period for sometime now? She only came to ask where she can adopt baby and u and that your stupid pastor wanted deviate from the topic of d thread
Don't be stupid, he prayed for Op which Op herself acknowledged him by typing "amen" to his prayers, you that lack comprehension skills came to showcase to the world that illiteracy flows through your veins,

Are you an enemy of progress? Don't you want Op to birth her own kids before or after she successfully adopts one? If you type "amen" to pastor righteousness' prayer, will you die?
Re: We Want To Adopt A Child As Soon As Possible by emmanuelbrown26: 5:05pm On Apr 27, 2022
JovialJune:
Don't be stupid, he prayed for Op which Op herself acknowledged him by typing "amen" to his prayers, you that lack comprehension skills came to showcase to the world that illiteracy flows through your veins,

Are you an enemy of progress? Don't you want Op to birth her own kids before or after she successfully adopts one? If you type "amen" to pastor righteousness' prayer, will you die?
I don't subscripe to stupidity. She didn't come for prayer, she only came to know if anybody could link her where she can adopt baby not prayer, instead of your stupid pastor to give her advice, u are here menstruating
Re: We Want To Adopt A Child As Soon As Possible by JovialJune(f): 5:12pm On Apr 27, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:
I don't subscripe to stupidity. She didn't come for prayer, she only came to know if anybody could link her where she can adopt baby not prayer, instead of your stupid pastor to give her advice, u are here menstruating
And he has prayed for her as a concerned man, and op replied him positively, if not that you are enemy of progress why are you pained that he prayed for her? It's like good news has been absent in you life for a long time, let me pray for you, "may you never be pained or bitter because of another person's prayer in Jesus name" say amen undecided
Re: We Want To Adopt A Child As Soon As Possible by emmanuelbrown26: 5:23pm On Apr 27, 2022
JovialJune:
And he has prayed for her as a concerned man, and op replied him positively, if not that you are enemy of progress why are you pained that he prayed for her? It's like good news has been absent in you life for a long time, let me pray for you, "may you never be pained or bitter because of another person's prayer in Jesus name" say amen undecided
Still won't subscripe to stupidity with emotion
Re: We Want To Adopt A Child As Soon As Possible by juman(m): 5:52pm On Apr 27, 2022
Go bigger cities.
Children plenty.
Go lagos.
Re: We Want To Adopt A Child As Soon As Possible by JovialJune(f): 6:13pm On Apr 27, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:
Still won't subscripe to stupidity with emotion
A stupidly emotional person calling another person same, the wonders of a faceless forum grin
Re: We Want To Adopt A Child As Soon As Possible by emmanuelbrown26: 6:20pm On Apr 27, 2022
JovialJune:
A stupidly emotional person calling another person same, the wonders of a faceless forum grin
Still maintain my ground that your preacher is psycho and hs followers. Advice of adopting a baby is required not prayer
Re: We Want To Adopt A Child As Soon As Possible by JovialJune(f): 6:23pm On Apr 27, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:
Still maintain my ground that your preacher is psycho and hs followers. Advice of adopting a baby is required not prayer
He has prayed for her, go and kill yourself undecided
Re: We Want To Adopt A Child As Soon As Possible by emmanuelbrown26: 7:12pm On Apr 27, 2022
JovialJune:
He has prayed for her, go and kill yourself undecided
Lolsssssss
Re: We Want To Adopt A Child As Soon As Possible by ststyreal(f): 9:23pm On Apr 27, 2022
TheCongo2:
Do you have to be this heartless
Though it is kind of direct but to me the guy simply said the truth! The truth is bitter but it takes a courageous person to say it. The Op sounded so desperate like someone whose hope in conceiving lies in bringing another child close to her. I may be wrong but that is what I can deduce from the Ops desperate need.... May God grant you your heart desires in Jesus name amennn
Re: We Want To Adopt A Child As Soon As Possible by mcdokwe(m): 11:41pm On Apr 27, 2022
preciouslanre:
Myself and my husband concluded to adopt a child, preferably a female for about two years now, but no luck or success in my state. Having passed through all the legal protocol via ministry of women affair and cleared, we have been placed on the waiting list for up to two years. We have equally visited some orphanage homes in the state without luck. We have been married for about 10 years without our own biological child. Hence, we just want a little companion to shower our love.

Pls inform of what else (legitimate thing) to do to get an adoptee sooner. We really don't mind visiting another state for that purpose. You may reach me here: preciouslanre@aol.com

Pls, give us candid options
Thank
God will answer you soon, with your own biological child(ren) but should you adopt one before then, please don't love them less
Re: We Want To Adopt A Child As Soon As Possible by Rubyjade: 6:20am On Apr 28, 2022
preciouslanre:
Myself and my husband concluded to adopt a child, preferably a female for about two years now, but no luck or success in my state. Having passed through all the legal protocol via ministry of women affair and cleared, we have been placed on the waiting list for up to two years. We have equally visited some orphanage homes in the state without luck. We have been married for about 10 years without our own biological child. Hence, we just want a little companion to shower our love.

Pls inform of what else (legitimate thing) to do to get an adoptee sooner. We really don't mind visiting another state for that purpose. You may reach me here: preciouslanre@aol.com

Pls, give us candid options
Thank
Are you interested in surrogacy?
Re: We Want To Adopt A Child As Soon As Possible by preciouslanre(op): 11:43am On Apr 28, 2022
Thank you so much for this. We are evaluating all open options but want the adoption asap.

Regards



Acidosis:
Sincerely I don't have a solid or reliable information regarding surrogacy centres in Nigeria. But I do know that some fertility clinics may be able to help you through the process (i.e. getting a surrogate mother, legal procedures, etc.).

N10m is too much though. Many surrogate mothers would accept a N1-2m deal. You don't even need IVF with this option as intrauterine insemination (IUI) of 200-250k can get the job (conception) done. Hospital bills, legal fees, and others can be in the range of N700k (Total: N3m). A fertility clinic asking for more than 4-5 m for the process should be avoided.

By the way, is surrogacy the best/only option for you? You don't have to go into the details for privacy reasons.
Re: We Want To Adopt A Child As Soon As Possible by preciouslanre(op):
Thank you.
We absolutely understand that the adoptee becomes part of us and entitled to nothing less as expected. Having one via biological birth later will NEVER diminish such love, right and privileges.

Grateful


mcdokwe:
God will answer you soon, with your own biological child(ren) but should you adopt one before then, please don't love them less
Re: We Want To Adopt A Child As Soon As Possible by preciouslanre(op): 11:47am On Apr 28, 2022
Yes, surely interested

Rubyjade:
Are you interested in surrogacy?
Re: We Want To Adopt A Child As Soon As Possible by Acidosis(m): 3:14pm On Apr 28, 2022
preciouslanre:
Thank you so much for this. We are evaluating all open options but want the adoption asap.

Regards
Okay ma'am. I wish you all the very best on this journey.
Re: We Want To Adopt A Child As Soon As Possible by naija4life247: 5:44pm On Apr 28, 2022
DontBullshitMe:
So, you can turn the innocent child into a house help?

Your intentions are not genuine enough. You only chose to adopt after failing to conceive a baby, she's like a second choice who will be maltreated.

Only couples who adopt at the early stage of their marriage voluntarily and got sterilised afterwards are worthy parents of those motherless babies. Not you who is doing it not out of the goodness of your heart but for selfish reasons of not wanting to be lonely.
Whatever you are smoking, stop it before it stops you
Re: We Want To Adopt A Child As Soon As Possible by podium(m): 1:44pm On Apr 29, 2022
preciouslanre:
Myself and my husband concluded to adopt a child, preferably a female for about two years now, but no luck or success in my state. Having passed through all the legal protocol via ministry of women affair and cleared, we have been placed on the waiting list for up to two years. We have equally visited some orphanage homes in the state without luck. We have been married for about 10 years without our own biological child. Hence, we just want a little companion to shower our love.

Pls inform of what else (legitimate thing) to do to get an adoptee sooner. We really don't mind visiting another state for that purpose. You may reach me here: preciouslanre@aol.com

Pls, give us candid options
Thank
Can you DM me.. or call 08137423236
Re: We Want To Adopt A Child As Soon As Possible by SmileDance(f): 5:20pm On Apr 29, 2022
Have you considered other methods of having biological children, IVF, Surrogacy?
Adoption isnt easy over here, which is why people patronize baby factories.
Re: We Want To Adopt A Child As Soon As Possible by preciouslanre(op): 5:06pm On May 01, 2022
Yeah, we have attempted one ivf that was not eventually successful.

We may consider surrogacy if cost is pocket- friendly. Still searching for viable centre.

SmileDance:
Have you considered other methods of having biological children, IVF, Surrogacy?
Adoption isnt easy over here, which is why people patronize baby factories.
Re: We Want To Adopt A Child As Soon As Possible by ernessey(m): 3:15pm On Dec 28, 2024
Please House, am sorry this will be a bit long, I need to detail my life story in summary

Greetings everyone, am an only son / surviving child, lost all my brothers to SS due to my parent terrible genotype combination (my mom and dad are both AS), 2elder and one Handsome younger, I don't know the elders ones so I can't gove their description,

I've Bsc in CS 1st degree, saw myself through school, I left home as a boy, Apparently am somehow a bit comfortable now, multi skilled in both different hard skill and soft skill , am Freelancer in both insurance, consulting, some other digital services, am 28yrs old, recently got admission one of the school of legal studies to pursue my ambition of study law, YES!! am very ambitious.

now the problem is that my mom have been on my neck to marry and give her a grandchild.. as we speak she gave me next year as her deadline, but am very stubborn with reasons, am very observant and I took my time studied some patterns in our family of which I don't want repeat or even allow to continue. I believe my decisions and choices can lay a solid foundation a new era

Hence I want a partner with same growth mindset, ambitious, God fearing and hardworking, and must not be AS... Even if we love each other yet our genotypes doesn't match then there won't be any marriage.

Having the aforementioned in mind, there clearly no strong serious relationship romance wise in my life, and I don't intent TO make someone's daughter baby mama (to me that's selfishness).. just please my mom or family (bcoz she is gradually escalating the whole matter)...

Now am considering the idea of adopting a kid bro or sister (infant-2years) in both myself and my mom's name. The will be both my child, sibling and everything even before after I start raising my own biological kids

Important to say that I recently moved my mom out of the village to join me where I reside. I will fully establish her in coming months God's willing.

Please I need suggestions, advice and guide because sometimes I feel bad not having a younger sibling. And my mom wants grandchild, siblings and companionships to both her and me

Even if it's a small Blessed marriage I can consider with a fellow with same growth mindset, supportive to my dreams and aspirations
Re: We Want To Adopt A Child As Soon As Possible by Favourite19: 9:37am On Oct 25, 2025
If you still need to adopt a new born baby you can let me know, by email me
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