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You saying she's your niece makes so much sense.

You try to pull the wool over people's eyes by calling her my daughter! 'my daughter!' but you never saw her that way.

Which mother comes out to admit their daughter is promiscuous and got raped?

Did the mother of the chrisland girl come out to say anything again since the video of her daughter was released? She's hiding her face in shame and is likely embarrased.
You preserved that girl in no way.

Besides, admitting here your daughter is having underage sex highlights your own parenting.

I feel starting early to teach children of the outcome of some actions can help. Show them situations like this one and ask them how they feel about it. Engage them on discussions, real life discussions. Let them know that they can be pressured but it's deadly to succumb. Tell them they can speak to you freely if they start developing interest in someone and that you will be there to help them make wise decisions.

Decency2020:
Which justice? There is no need for that becuase the story was made up.




They came to drop her at the school gate, which criminal does that?

No Nigerian mother will admit their daughter was promiscuous and raped because it's a bad reflection on them.

Look at the Chrisland girl's mother, she initially tried to lie the girl was raped to save face.

Now that the video has been released. Shes hiding her face in shame.

This story is propaganda.

Teenaira:
Kids don't lie while they are young. Be very friendly with your kids and there is nothing they can't share with you.

Lol you're naive.

virginchaser:
The day i knew rapist lived with us was when a girl visitor was raped down floor below me in school. I called editor of press klub into my room. Luckily for us, the victim was released to go ease herself after the incident. We cornered her into my room and engaged her with short interview and took some pictures, swollen eyes, torned jeans and pant. Unfortunately, the lady didn't allow us to report the incident to school authority.

You see. Women don't want to report rape, due to the shame.

ComeToJesus:
No phones till University
No boarding school
You misbehave, you get grounded and disconnected from all activities.
If you don't listen to the small things they want to tell you today, they won't tell you the big things tomorrow.

No phones till university? Lol at your naivety.

Dada4me:
Let's go back to the Bible and all these will barely surface. We've gone too far from the Bible in the name of liberalism.

How do you train and monitor a child successfully without the word of God? Depending on you own idea and wisdom will fail you. The word of God says that by strength shall no man prevail.

If you can't teach your child the word of God by yourself, expose the child to faith-based gatherings often and send the child to schools that don't joke with God's word.

I know schools that are purely found on God's teaching. The first condition to admit your child is to append your signature on a paper stating that your child must attend the chapel. I have monitored two of such schools since 2011 till date and no record of any scandal even as they turn out over 120 graduates every year.

I lived with Muslim couple that sent their two kids to one of the schools and those children turned out well.

I know of an ogboni man who personally handed his children over to a neighbour to ensure they always followed her to church services promising to give every necessary material support so they don't end up like him.

Involve God in training your children and they will turn out well.

Gtfoh!!


Did the mother in this story tell you she was an atheist?


Was Sylvester not killed in a faith based school??

Was Don-Davis not raped in a faith based school??


Religion doesn't change anything, yet you Nigerians can't shut up about religion for 2 seconds!

DopeChick:
ChrislandSchool- My Daughter Fooled Me Too

https://dopereporters.com/chrislandschool-my-daughter-fooled-me-too/


I saw the video of that Christland girl’s mother online; you know, as a mother, I felt sad for her. Especially when I read that they suspended her daughter.

But something in me said, “hmmnnn, the children we are raising these days are “wiser” than us their parents. I said ‘wiser’ because that is what they think of themselves.

A few days after, when I now saw the video of the small girl that was said to have been raped…I said, oh, these children will not kill us, o��. This is what my own daughter did to me too. How I wish the girl’s mother had just quietly sought help for her child because now we all know the girl isn’t the little innocent the mother thought she was. I am not judging o but everyone who saw it say the girl isn’t as innocent as we think. My own daughter did me the same shege!

Children of these days? Forget them, they can fool you into the well, cover you up and not even blink.

If I have an opportunity to talk to the girl’s mother, I will just tell her to keep quiet, she should learn from me.

Few years ago, my daughter, she’s my niece actually; her mother died a long time ago and I have raised her since she was six years old…so she is my child. She was just 15 when this incident happened.

I sent her to one of these Model Colleges in Lagos state.

She was in boarding school. That school didn’t even allow phones or any of this yanmayanma that private schools allow, they are like the old Unity Schools of our days. That’s why I thought, she would be well disciplined and focus on her studies…

She was in SS1. They resumed that day and whenever they resume, the school insisted they returned in their house wears. This was way before Covid when parents and relatives were allowed to follow the returning students into their hostels and help them settle in.

That day, I went to drop my daughter in school…of course she was in her green check house wear. I went with my son, who helped her carry her box and bucket to the front of her hostel. I was at the bursar’s office, settling the outstanding fees and showing receipts for other payments I had made for books… you know that sort of thing.

My son came back to meet me on the queue at the Bursar’s and said his sister was settled…they call each other brother and sister even though they are cousins. Anyway. By the time I finished because there were lots of parents and guardians too who came to settle financial issues with the bursar, it was late. So I told my son to go tell his sister I would come visit in two weeks’ time. I also couldn’t even see her before leaving because it was about 6.30pm and the bell was ringing for students to go into their hostels for head count. The school always did head count every evening and especially upon resumption.

Many of the students still loitering around the premises ran into the hostels to be counted.

We left that day and I thought I had done my job as a mother.

Three days later, that was on a Wednesday, I was called by my daughter’s house mistress asking for my daughter.

I said, “Huh? What are you talking about?”

She said my daughter hadn’t resumed school and that she was wondering what had happened to her!

I said, “Haba! Are you dreaming? I brought her to school on Sunday, she resumed with the rest of her mates on Sunday!”

House mistress said my daughter hadn’t been seen in school for three days and though her bed was always made, she hadn’t been physically seen!

I almost ran mad as I raced to the school that day.

My mind was in a turmoil, I drove her to school myself, and she was checked into the hostel by the house mistresses’ assistant, where could she be?

We got to school, lo and behold, upon speaking to me and realizing something was off, the house mistress had summoned my daughter’s close friends to her office. She wanted to know who had been laying her bed and fooling her staff. Because you see, a laid bed means the child is around, right? So they had been laying her bed, making the hostel staff believe she was around. Empty beds or unlaid beds meant the child hadn’t returned to school.

She called three of my daughter’s closest friends and asked them where my daughter was.

They didn’t tell her, they kept silent but she delivered well intended backhand slaps and they began to confess like witches…she then took them all to the principal’s office, that was where I met them.

The girls were still crying when I got there. They confessed that my daughter had met one boy on Facebook who invited her to come visit him at one hotel. He had called her the following day to meet him at a certain place outside the school gate.

Unfortunately for us, they didn’t know the name of the hotel. They said when I dropped her in school wearing her house wear, she had gone into the hostel and changed to mufti. I had no idea she packed mufti in her box because you see, I packed the box myself. I did so not because I even suspected she would go to school with contraband, (the school allows provisions but there are certain items they forbid like phone, etc); they checked their boxes upon resumption. So I packed her box because when she packed the box, it was so jumbled up, I had to remove everything to repack neatly and it was in my presence her brother dragged the box into the car…so you see these children can fool you.

Anyway, that’s how we began to look for my daughter.

From hotel to hotel, we begged to search, some proprietors allowed us search, many said they didn’t have anyone that looked like her as guest. We went with her photo. Oh yes, we went first to the police before I began searching with my son and another relative of ours.

For two days, we got nothing. I didn’t sleep, I didn’t eat because I believed in my heart my child was deceived by some monster she saw on the internet.

But, my child wasn’t the little innocent I thought she was after all!! Ase, she had been chatting with this man and agreed to come and visit him. She had changed to mufti in the evening and gone out of the school gate disguised as a cleaner in the school!

Meanwhile, as far I knew then, she had no phone. I didn’t buy her a phone because I just couldn’t even afford it; I gave her an old one I had used before but she told me it couldn’t do internet and so she dropped it…I had no idea she had another phone!

Do you know how we found her?

On Friday, early in the morning, around 5.30 am, the evil boy she went to meet dumped her naked in front of the school gate!

Yes.

They had raped her, used her…it was a painful sight. She had red blotches all over her body. They were many boys who raped her over and over again…for five days. She was barely alive when they dumped her at their school gate. Maybe they had heard police was looking for her, I don’t know.

The gate man said he heard a sound, like some crying feebly at the gate, he opened the gate and saw a naked girl…that was my own child. The child I sent to school telling myself she was safe in school! I would swear my daughter was well behaved. Quiet, didn’t even go out when on holidays. Many times I forced her to go do some deliveries for me; she preferred being indoors, watching Tv.

When they identified her as their student, she was able to say her name before she fainted again. They called me, I went to the school and took her straight to a nearby hospital.

They admitted her and began to treat her.

A few days later, when she had regained her strength, she told me what happened.

She was begging me and crying saying she had learned her lessons and would never deceive me again. I couldn’t even scold her because seeing her condition, I saw she had suffered enough. Her punishment was all over her body. She suffered several lacerations on her vagina, one broken rib, she said they were beating her as they raped her; her face was badly swollen and red with blood, her hands and feet had been tied during the acts… and I knew a great lesson had been learned.

What else was there to say to her?

She spent three weeks in the hospital after which the school suspended her for that term… Oho! I don’t blame the school. The story had gone out that she was setting a bad example.

Ha!

She herself saw hell that period. Walking and urinating was hell for some time; thankfully she didn’t get pregnant because that would have meant she would’ve had to stop school entirely.

But I thank God today. I made her go back to finish school. She was ashamed and didn’t want to go back, I said, “what did you say?”

She repeated but is just one year behind her mates and she is determined to do better. Sometimes, experience truly is the best teacher, now my daughter mentors younger girls and advises them against online predators and not telling their parents where they were going…

Today, I’m proud of my daughter, we both “bleeped up", but like that musician, Black Sherif said, “Of course, I bleeped up…Who never bleeped up, hands in the air, no hands?” # DEAR PARENTS, PLEASE LET'S LEARN TOGETHER. OUR CHILDREN SHALL MAKE US PROUD & NOT BRING SHAME TO US IN JESUS NAME . AMEN.
(written by Peju Akande and based on true story)

A beautiful write up. The world will be a better place when we all own up to our mistakes.

specialbobby:
From that school they know something about the missing girl, that school should be closed down

Go and close it down.

siofra:
All I learned from this is that MEN ARE EVIL!!!

u be evil mother ofcourse,na women born evil

You should have left that girl for a more responsible person rather than destroying her life. God will judge u. Only if she was your daughter.
Mama na mama nothing else can take the place of mama

1Sharon:
Gtfoh!!


Did the mother in this story tell you she was an atheist?


Was Sylvester not killed in a faith based school??

Was Don-Davis not raped in a faith based school??


Religion doesn't change anything, yet you Nigerians can't shut up about religion for 2 seconds!

You own right to your opinion.

JovialJune:
Very evil, she was gang raped for 5 days, hands and legs tied and mouth gagged, it takes a special case of stone cold demonic heart to do something like that to a little girl

Did u watch her ridding video?

Three years ago, a beautiful young woman who was under 21 and in a private university in the south east of Nigeria came to my residence with her luggage to come and stay with me. But I refused to accept her decision and advised her to return to her family. She concluded that I did not love her.

JovialJune:
Very evil, she was gang raped for 5 days, hands and legs tied and mouth gagged, it takes a special case of stone cold demonic heart to do something like that to a little girl

Most of the child sex abuses and killings of same kids in the US and Europe have female handlers who lure these girls and actually watch the, being dehumanised by those wicked men.

Both the men and women involved are wicked and devilish. Haven't you seen women pour hot pepper into the privates of a 7 or 9 year old house help?

Human can be wicked and it isn't gender related!

And this how some of these girls walk into ritualist hands and get slaughtered.

I hope the mother took her for prayers and deliverance because the actions of those animals are suspicious.

When an antelope refuse to rest, he would soon become food for the Lion.

The girl wanted to chill with the big boys and got served.

At least, she learnt the lesson and came out alive.

Finally, the devil lives in Nigeria. Some men are demonic beasts. These are people's sons, brothers and even husbands

sulmeza:
Y'all really need to start taking responsibility for your actions and learn to live with the consequencies.

At 21, you deceived your parents, travelled across state borders to visit a man, and you are here claiming rape? You can do better than that.

Please, let's stop sounding as if we don't think.

She took responsibility for her actions.

She was raped because she didn't go there for sex.

It's true that society has made it look like once a girl visits a guy, she wants sex.

People visit people because they feel at that point that they are in love. Being in love doesn't mean she wants sex.

She has learnt from her mistake

But please, don't discredit her claim and experience because she caused her problem.

She was raped even though she went there herself.

Note: because of how I know that society will claim I wasn't raped because I went to the man's house myself, I learnt not to visit. But that doesn't make it right to discredit rape case because the lady went to the house.

In abroad, it's rape. It's just because Nigeria is messed up that's why men get away with a lot of things

Jackossky:
It's very hard raising a girl child in today's clime. For male child, parent should be wary of deviants.

However, girls jave more pressure to socially belong, I've seen a young girl of 15 ask her parent for an iphone.

The reason is because most of her friends are using it. Peer pressure really have a great influence on the life of a girl child.

I know the hurdles my parent passed through before my sister got into higher institution. She advises her almost everyday.

Girls mostly want to belong, even if they are to go solo, theu should be cynosure of all eyes. This is unlike guys that will willfully be subservient to other guys in the hood just to learn a skill or learn how to make money.

Some males would even assume less and just be contented but you see females, the distractions are just too much.

Oga, those that raped the girl are men/boys.

They are the ones that need training more.

They have turned to monsters, rapist, ritualist, armed robbers, kidnappers etc.

The male child that didn't ask for iphone but is a rapist or ritualist, how is he better?

Parents need to train our men. A lot of badly raised heartless men out there.

It was the girl that actually raped the boys

9182736455O1999:
Why didn't you think of seeking justice for the girl.

Because the useless society and people will ask what she went there to do.

There is no justice for the girl child.

I saw another lady recount her experience of rape, and check the response she got. They asked her why she went there.

If a lady is raped, she hardly speak up because they will shame and turn the whole thing against her

GOFRONT:
Mothers never even see anything yet from their upcoming daughters.

He go shock many of them since they chose to feel relaxed

So the daughter only belong to the mother not both parents?

And the spoilt boys that are rapists and ritualist and kidnappers were failed by their fathers too? I guess not, any spoilt child is the mothers own.

You forget that it's called parenting not mothering or fathering.

If the boy or girl turns bad, both father and mother should be held accountable.

What justice again? Against the unseen monsters who could have suspended or deleted the Facebook account. She walked into their nets. Thank GOD she came back alive

9182736455O1999:
Why didn't you think of seeking justice for the girl.

Jsaviour:
Oga, those that raped the girl are men/boys.

They are the ones that need training more.

They have turned to monsters, rapist, ritualist, armed robbers, kidnappers etc.

The male child that didn't ask for iphone but is a rapist or ritualist, how is he better?

Parents need to train our men. A lot of badly raised heartless men out there.

i tend to have been misquoted.
Asking for an iphone doesn't make a girl a hoe or make a guy a ritualist. It's the motivation behind the request.


I've heard of a 19 year old girl getting staffed by a multinational company. If she asks for an iphone, won't it be considered permissible?


Those that raped the girl, chances are they are older than her. If that's the case, those are child i warned parent to be wary of.

There's now way you are going to put it, women have more role to play in the life of a child.

Now, imagine that women was well trained, the male child will come out good.


What you are insinuating is just like a girl getting beaten by her sugar daddy cum yahoo boyfriend. You'd be tempted to blame the sugardaddy but you will forget she left guys in her circle to go for something out of reach.

Now, who does the onus lie on?

The girl child should be well monitored/trained.

aspabay:
Go and close it down.

But you mumu small oo
Maybe when your sister or daughter in this kind of story you will have sense

1Sharon:
Gtfoh!!


Did the mother in this story tell you she was an atheist?


Was Sylvester not killed in a faith based school??

Was Don-Davis not raped in a faith based school??


Religion doesn't change anything, yet you Nigerians can't shut up about religion for 2 seconds!

NO,I DO NOT AGREE WITH U

Jackossky:
i tend to have been misquoted.
Asking for an iphone doesn't make a girl a hoe or make a guy a ritualist. It's the motivation behind the request.


I've heard of a 19 year old girl getting staffed by a multinational company. If she asks for an iphone, won't it be considered permissible?


Those that raped the girl, chances are they are older than her. If that's the case, those are child i warned parent to be wary of.

There's now way you are going to put it, women have more role to play in the life of a child.

Now, imagine that women was well trained, the male child will come out good.


What you are insinuating is just like a girl getting beaten by her sugar daddy cum yahoo boyfriend. You'd be tempted to blame the sugardaddy but you will forget she left guys in her circle to go for something out of reach.

Now, who does the onus lie on?

The girl child should be well monitored/trained.

And the boy child should be left without training and then he ends up a ritualist or rapist?

The way some of you men leave your manly duties of training your son's and later come out to lament.

You all shame single mothers of doing bad jobs and how the children turned bad because there is no father figure but you fail to train even the boys with both parents intact.

The hypocrisy of this generation is amazing

Jsaviour:
And the boy child should be left without training and then he ends up a ritualist or rapist?

The way some of you men leave your manly duties of training your son's and later come out to lament.

You all shame single mothers of doing bad jobs and how the children turned bad because there is father figure but you fail to train even the boys with both parents intact.

The hypocrisy of this generation is amazing

Quote the exact line I said the boy should be left without training?

There's no argument here, you've not been able to comprehend my little assertion, should I expound more, you still wouldn't get it. Adios

Jackossky:
Quote the exact line I said the boy should be left without training?

There's no argument here, you've not been able to comprehend my little assertion, should I expound more, you still wouldn't get it. Adios

We don't need to argue anything.

The only thing I want you to know is that parenting is called so because the man and the woman are responsible for training children.

You said "the girl child need to be monitored/trained"

This means the boy doesn't need to be monitored and trained if not, you would have written, "children should be monitored/trained.

It's this advocating for training of girl child and leaving boy child out that has led us to the place we are today (sons who murder their mother for ritual, sons who murder girls for ritual, rapists and kidnappers)

We all see how single women get shamed & told that their children need make figure. Yet the family with male figure or father still claim a father has no role in his children turning bad.

Are we confused or what?

Men have a different psychology from women which fathers will understand better, so sons need their father to train them. But fathers and men like you are here telling us and believing women are responsible for the job?

Men should continue hiding from their parenting role towards the boys while the boys turn into holigans and menace to the society.

Jackossky:
Quote the exact line I said the boy should be left without training?

There's no argument here, you've not been able to comprehend my little assertion, should I expound more, you still wouldn't get it. Adios

Again, there is an extent a mother can teach her daughter. It's the father that shows her others.

A father will show her daughter how she should be treated by other men by how he treats her mother.

A father is his daughters first love. You show her love to the point that she will have how to measure what she deserves.

It's not a mother that will tell a son how to handle cultist of they disturb him. She may not understand that psychology and that's were the father comes in.

A father is the one to teach a son the dignity in labour. How to be contented and how to work hard, choose a career to enable him earn money legitly and avoid yahoo. Or you will also tell me it's the mothers duty too.

The more you men hide from parenting, the more we keep breeding devourers who will devour the girl child you have trained well.

The Umeron lady that was raped and killed was trained well, she even told people where she was going. sheh it was job for went for and a badly trained boy murdered her.

You all should keep deceiving yourselves

ogododo:
Na woman first taught bad things, when I never open eyes.

Same with me.