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Lalami3232:
Second wife na pain pass. Do you know why? The second wife dey as legal as the first wife. The second wife get same benefit as the first wife. Some men dey even carry the second wife to come stay same house with the first wife. Second wife get inheritance. Second wife no dey hide, she can so anything because she's legal.
But you see sidechicks, dem dey fear some wives. Dem no fit call the man anyhow because he may be with the wife. A wife can beat up the sidechick but no fit beat second wife because both of them get equal right.

Where have you been living? Side chicks are already beating up the real wife in this Naija. Lol

God abeg, no ever give us reasons to marry more than one woman for this life. Dear men, we know say only 3% of ladies for this 9ja na get the tendency to be a good wife, so my advise to una be say make una find from those 3% and marry. Polygamy na demonic thing ooooo, I know wetin I dey talk. The father is "OUR FATHER" while the mother is "MY MOTHER". I rather be a single guy forever, than to marry more than one woman. Hence, my reason for abstaining from our 9ja babes because dem go always give you reasons to marry multiple women.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "if no be you disvirgin your wife, oga go for DNA test oooo. Non virgins aka boreholes are not to be trusted. The pikin resemble you, is not a guarantee say na your pikin"

Someone who has never entered monogamous family setting dey give advice against polygamous family setting. It's alright

side dick now

Salubata:
Second wife!

Women hate rivalry but unfortunately men are polygamous naturally.

There's that silent pride for men in having more than one woman LEGALLY to himself

In all, to each everyone!

Silent pride in which men? Where did you get this tosh from?

WondaBeauty:
Sharing my husband wit someone occasionally & Sharing my home with someone permanently are 2 different things...


My husband is my joy but my home including him is my peace.


You can share in my joy with me but not my peace.


PEACE IS NEVER SHARED...



I value and cherish my peace very much....

I'm not pro side chick though but this lady here is a virtuous woman.

Juoflife1:
Both hurt so bad. As a man in a relationship with me, you are not permitted to cheat, but I can.
To your question op, second wife hurts some women more. Side chicks come and go.

Interesting insights.

Origin:
It all depends on your perspective...

If you were the child of a side chick or a legitimate wife which would you prefer.

If you were the newcomer would you prefer to be a side chick or a legitimate wife.

By the way, there is nothing like second, third etc wife. Wife is wife..

If you became a widow or divorced (normal life things) would you hope to get remarried or become a sidechick.

The only difference is the legitimacy of the union and the kids. So everyone concerned gains respectability.

am not sure a female wrote this.

The most childish thread for the year. Courtesy of Yul’s declaration. Most of ya father are products of polygamy and well behaved than yourselves.

The west whom you copy divorce an average of 4times in one life time.

Kidults everywhere.

Second wife...

Depends on the man , if he is wealthy women will tolerate themselves provided they dont stay in the same vicinity.

Pronlem starts when the man insists that they stay in 1 house, which for me means the man is poor.

Polygamy is for the rich, nothing wrong with spreading your gene pool, its a survival instinct.

SensualMan:
2nd wife.

The greatest gift God ever gave me was making me a man.

If u are PROUD to ba man Hands up?

Too many hands

Haven't u heard "hands in air'' na for people wey never fùck up?

Omo Na side chick with her skinny jeans o

Kriss216:
Only a selfish and greedy woman will monopolize gbola created for many.

so ur mum gave it to many, are u sure u are true son of ur father?

WondaBeauty:
Sharing my husband wit someone occasionally & Sharing my home with someone permanently are 2 different things...


My husband is my joy but my home including him is my peace.


You can share in my joy with me but not my peace.


PEACE IS NEVER SHARED...



I value and cherish my peace very much....

let's get married

Kriss216:
No gbola is meant for one kpekus. Ever wondered why Sarah instructed Abraham to farm in Hagar's farmland?

You will gloss over what made Sarah to ask his husband to farm in Hagar's farmland. You'll ignore that societal pressure made her make the hard decision so her husband could sire a child.

To what end? To validate your promiscuity. Continue servicing the female community with your tool with your flimsy reason.

Whazar:
What if I decide to have both?

Second wife and many side chicks

Wahala no dey tire you?

Did you come to this life to separate fight?

Hmmm....continue.

WondaBeauty:
Sharing my husband wit someone occasionally & Sharing my home with someone permanently are 2 different things...


My husband is my joy but my home including him is my peace.


You can share in my joy with me but not my peace.


PEACE IS NEVER SHARED...



I value and cherish my peace very much....

Deep and thoughtful. Oya come be my wife na

NotBeenPaid:

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Sometimes I can’t help but to question the sanity of the mods on this forum. What a thread.

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As opposed to posting about climate change or Biden having economic conference with parliament members in the White house right?

Try dey calm down serious man, life's not so hard.

WondaBeauty:
Sharing my husband wit someone occasionally & Sharing my home with someone permanently are 2 different things...


My husband is my joy but my home including him is my peace.


You can share in my joy with me but not my peace.


PEACE IS NEVER SHARED...



I value and cherish my peace very much....

You are wise

WondaBeauty:
Sharing my husband wit someone occasionally & Sharing my home with someone permanently are 2 different things...


My husband is my joy but my home including him is my peace.


You can share in my joy with me but not my peace.


PEACE IS NEVER SHARED...



I value and cherish my peace very much....

Wetin come be ur answer

Whazar:
What if I decide to have both?

Second wife and many side chicks

Then you're as good as 6 feet beneath, don't even try it, because it's more or less a suicide mission.

jasmeel:
please hw old r u?

I don't think my age would be enough to buy you the lowest airtime or even a wrap of fufu

EmekaA125:
Wetin come be ur answer

Read my post well and comprehend my answer from it.


Have a nice day....

yanabasee:
You mean a community pr|ck?

Community service.

drmuchin:
between devil and Lucifer which would u choose?

Why not Satan?

Origin:
It all depends on your perspective...

If you were the child of a side chick or a legitimate wife which would you prefer.

If you were the newcomer would you prefer to be a side chick or a legitimate wife.

By the way, there is nothing like second, third etc wife. Wife is wife..

If you became a widow or divorced (normal life things) would you hope to get remarried or become a sidechick.

The only difference is the legitimacy of the union and the kids. So everyone concerned gains respectability.

Nature no give children to choose their parents na.

WondaBeauty:
I don't think my age would be enough to buy you the lowest airtime or even a wrap of fufu

No m sure it can do a lot beta d way I see

Wow it amazing how pips in this forum have gone low. Polygamy is a form of marriage, freaking legal in this part of the world. Who likes a cheat? Guess what lowlife Nairalander. It doesn't make sense to prefer a cheat to one who want more wife. Some monogamous homes are as hell as a polygamous homes. Some of you should cut the crap. Are some of the Yahoo boys, touts, cult gang, prostitute and other despicable pips around not from monogamous homes. Some of you will just open your mouth waaw without proper thinking before saying things. Polygamy as it's bad side but can be properly manages same goes to monogamy. You see a cheat I hate the most. A cheat is a cheat it has nothing to do being polygamous. A polygamous man is someone who has more than one wife. Men who want more then one wife will go for such marriages but a cheat is a dishonest and disease carrier lowlife scum anywhere you find them.

WondaBeauty:
Sharing my husband wit someone occasionally & Sharing my home with someone permanently are 2 different things...


My husband is my joy but my home including him is my peace.


You can share in my joy with me but not my peace.


PEACE IS NEVER SHARED...



I value and cherish my peace very much....

SMH!

Who marries two ladies and puts them under same roof in this present day.

It will shock you to know that many ladies who think they are the wives are actually the side chic and the one outside is the main wife of the man.

Ladies are so naive.

WondaBeauty:
Sharing my husband wit someone occasionally & Sharing my home with someone permanently are 2 different things...


My husband is my joy but my home including him is my peace.


You can share in my joy with me but not my peace.


PEACE IS NEVER SHARED...



I value and cherish my peace very much....

Very thought provoking.I doff my hat.

This 1 way tin cost
2nd wife ooooo.....

Oh

Hmmmm