Lalami3232:
Second wife na pain pass. Do you know why? The second wife dey as legal as the first wife. The second wife get same benefit as the first wife. Some men dey even carry the second wife to come stay same house with the first wife. Second wife get inheritance. Second wife no dey hide, she can so anything because she's legal.
But you see sidechicks, dem dey fear some wives. Dem no fit call the man anyhow because he may be with the wife. A wife can beat up the sidechick but no fit beat second wife because both of them get equal right. God abeg, no ever give us reasons to marry more than one woman for this life. Dear men, we know say only 3% of ladies for this 9ja na get the tendency to be a good wife, so my advise to una be say make una find from those 3% and marry. Polygamy na demonic thing ooooo, I know wetin I dey talk. The father is "OUR FATHER" while the mother is "MY MOTHER". I rather be a single guy forever, than to marry more than one woman. Hence, my reason for abstaining from our 9ja babes because dem go always give you reasons to marry multiple women.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "if no be you disvirgin your wife, oga go for DNA test oooo. Non virgins aka boreholes are not to be trusted. The pikin resemble you, is not a guarantee say na your pikin"

The pikin resemble you, is not a guarantee say na your pikin"..... this your word na killer machine ooooooo

Whazar:
What if I decide to have both?
Second wife and many side chicks

na u cruise pass!

WondaBeauty:
Sharing my husband wit someone occasionally & Sharing my home with someone permanently are 2 different things...


My husband is my joy but my home including him is my peace.


You can share in my joy with me but not my peace.


PEACE IS NEVER SHARED...



I value and cherish my peace very much....

side chick is a killer but second wife can’t if you can’t as a first wife e.g In the case of ataga and chidinma ojukwu

Kriss216:

No gbola is meant for one kpekus. Ever wondered why Sarah instructed Abraham to farm in Hagar's farmland?

no koekus is meant for one gbola I swear I love youthful ones

Salubata:
Second wife!

Women hate rivalry but unfortunately men are polygamous naturally.

There's that silent pride for men in having more than one woman LEGALLY to himself

In all, to each everyone!

so re women

No.
We're Africans, we're well cultured. Polyandry is never our thing.

That aside, the sexual urge for men is greater than that of women. How do you want us to cope

newdawn2017:
so re women

Origin:
It all depends on your perspective...

If you were the child of a side chick or a legitimate wife which would you prefer.

If you were the newcomer would you prefer to be a side chick or a legitimate wife.

By the way, there is nothing like second, third etc wife. Wife is wife..

If you became a widow or divorced (normal life things) would you hope to get remarried or become a sidechick.

The only difference is the legitimacy of the union and the kids. So everyone concerned gains respectability.

Learn to share

WondaBeauty:



Read my comment again and know my answer.



Goodluck....

so.. you are instructing me to go read your message again? Do you know who am I??

WondaBeauty:
Sharing my husband wit someone occasionally & Sharing my home with someone permanently are 2 different things...


My husband is my joy but my home including him is my peace.


You can share in my joy with me but not my peace.


PEACE IS NEVER SHARED...



I value and cherish my peace very much....

Who is this one?

You are the very ones who will curse and crucify adulterers yet,you encourage it?
Who told you the man is meant for one woman?!

Women deceive themselves io much; what our grand parents did with ease are what these deluded generation think they can do better at.

Having more wives will always remain the best in a society where women of marriageable she are more yo avoid adultery and formication.

One man,one wife us a ruse sold by westerners not supported in your very own Bible.

Lalami3232:
Second wife na pain pass. Do you know why? The second wife dey as legal as the first wife. The second wife get same benefit as the first wife. Some men dey even carry the second wife to come stay same house with the first wife. Second wife get inheritance. Second wife no dey hide, she can so anything because she's legal.
But you see sidechicks, dem dey fear some wives. Dem no fit call the man anyhow because he may be with the wife. A wife can beat up the sidechick but no fit beat second wife because both of them get equal right. God abeg, no ever give us reasons to marry more than one woman for this life. Dear men, we know say only 3% of ladies for this 9ja na get the tendency to be a good wife, so my advise to una be say make una find from those 3% and marry. Polygamy na demonic thing ooooo, I know wetin I dey talk. The father is "OUR FATHER" while the mother is "MY MOTHER". I rather be a single guy forever, than to marry more than one woman. Hence, my reason for abstaining from our 9ja babes because dem go always give you reasons to marry multiple women.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "if no be you disvirgin your wife, oga go for DNA test oooo. Non virgins aka boreholes are not to be trusted. The pikin resemble you, is not a guarantee say na your pikin"

You're simply deluded!
You have been heavily brainwashed!

Can you swear that you've not slept with more than one girl?
But making it (sex) legal is a curse?but sleeping with multiple girls is a blessing?.

Delusional!

Origin:
It all depends on your perspective...

If you were the child of a side chick or a legitimate wife which would you prefer.

If you were the newcomer would you prefer to be a side chick or a legitimate wife.

By the way, there is nothing like second, third etc wife. Wife is wife..

If you became a widow or divorced (normal life things) would you hope to get remarried or become a sidechick.

The only difference is the legitimacy of the union and the kids. So everyone concerned gains respectability.

The only sensible mention so far.

Some so called graduates don't think for themselves, they'd rather prefer zombie-like approach.

Emma1Oj:
so.. you are instructing me to go read your message again? Do you know who am I??

Lol yeah, go back and read all over if you want to know my answer.



I don't know you and I don't care either.





Ciao...

jasmeel:
No m sure it can do a lot beta d way I see

a lot better like what exactly?

NotBeenPaid:

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Sometimes I can’t help but to question the sanity of the mods on this forum. What a thread.

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WondaBeauty:



a lot better like what exactly?

ur opinion on dat topic jst got me wondrn wia it cm frm

jasmeel:
ur opinion on dat topic jst got me wondrn wia it cm frm

Well, it came from the mind and poured out through the lips of WONDABEAUTY.

WondaBeauty:




Well, it came from the mind and poured out through the lips of WONDABEAUTY.

Hmm intresting

WondaBeauty:
Sharing my husband wit someone occasionally & Sharing my home with someone permanently are 2 different things...


My husband is my joy but my home including him is my peace.


You can share in my joy with me but not my peace.


PEACE IS NEVER SHARED...



I value and cherish my peace very much....

brilliant

WondaBeauty:



Lol yeah, go back and read all over if you want to know my answer.



I don't know you and I don't care either.





Ciao...

U still have the mind to quote me the bolded? What if I tell you I'm one of your close neighbor who live a street away from u that you can't do without? How will you handle that? God is watching you with 4G.

jasmeel:
Hmm intresting

yeah...

WondaBeauty:


yeah...

So r u marid

Salubata:
No.
We're Africans, we're well cultured. Polyandry is never our thing.

That aside, the sexual urge for men is greater than that of women. How do you want us to cope

kid not urself women ve great sexual urge more than men. What is good for d goose, its good for d gender. Africans women re polyandrous, u don't know ur history well

jasmeel:
So r u marid

Not yet.



Btw its my birthday 2day.

WondaBeauty:



Not yet.



Btw its my birthday 2day.

ahn'ahn seriously?

jasmeel:
ahn'ahn seriously?

yeah...

WondaBeauty:


yeah...

Ok api baiday. U go chop rice n stew?

jasmeel:
Ok api baiday. U go chop rice n stew?

Lol, thank you cos i've already eaten and thanks for the wishes.

WondaBeauty:


Lol, thank you cos i've already eaten and thanks for the wishes.

Correct

Righthussle:
Whether na side chic or second wife or side c..ock for women, just do whatever you like provided it is not against the law of the land. Life is too short. Enjoy your life now. If you die, that your beautiful wife that wants you to be with only her will not be buried with you.

In addition, when you die, another guy will ride your wife with reckless abandon.

buchi4action:


In addition, when you die, another guy will ride your wife with reckless abandon.

I dey tell you.

Gunners89:
Second Wife anyday, anytime

Only women who had been on or experience both sides could relate very well to this. And we should understand that men differ from each other. Personal encounter of women who had experienced or experiencing this goes a long way. Those things should be shared on here to give your response(s) a meaningful thoughts.

Not at all. Joke on you

newdawn2017:
kid not urself women ve great sexual urge more than men. What is good for d goose, its good for d gender. Africans women re polyandrous, u don't know ur history well