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Do you want the wife to be getting pregnant every month?
It's one of the solutions to incessant/unwanted pregnancies

Your husband don dey bath strong soap.

She should not force him. She will eventually get used to it

Solosolojohquay:
Powerful African men don't sleep in the same room with a woman her husband just go the African way there must be a secret reason behind it strong men don't tell tales either

The best way to enjoy marriage is to have your own room as the husband.

This one don marry western skull miners aka ritualist..him dey observe instruction wey baba give am

ChoCho54:
Nowadays yahoo boys love their privacy like kilode.

I precisely, a lady don’t spend more than 2 days with me! Including my Girlfriend.. just cherish my privacy a lot

Solosolojohquay:
Powerful African men don't sleep in the same room with a woman her husband just go the African way there must be a secret reason behind it strong men don't tell tales either

Swears.

My late grand father even built a separate for his wife and children but in the same compound.

I personally want a separate Bedroom, she shuld keep her clothes, shoes, wigs, handbags, makeup etc in her room, we can always sleep together but sometimes i'll need to be alone.
In dis case the guy has something to hide, no doubt.

mohziz1:
Hi nairalands...

I received a call from my female friend whose wedding is just a year old, she was weeping on phone seriously.

I tried to percify her and asked what the problem is, she said her husband wants to sleep in a separate room and she told him she is not okay with it.

To cut the story short, the husband had succeeded in separating their room, she said she feels lonely at night and she has tried to talk to him but he wouldn't listen.

Pls what advise can I give to her, and is it okay for a newly wedded couple to sleep in a separate room

Ask your female friend what she did wrong that warrants her one year old husband to go go to a separate room and sleep? Tell the elders first

Husband wants separate room? What won't single people like me not see in this month of May.

Wahala for husbands wey want separate room but na one room be their entire house.

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Nobody should disturb me, I'm putting my Make Up.


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LET HER IMPROVE HER PERSONAL HYGIENE. THANK NAIRALAND LATER

1. It's possible they have explored and exploited each other's body so much before wedding such that nothing on the woman's body is exciting to the guy again. One of the downsides of being too intimate (sexually) before wedding. Now the lady doesn't excite the guy anymore... Mind you, this is just one year into the marriage

2. It's also possible that the guy is into something hideous that he doesn't want the girl to know... Probably has to wake up at midnight to do some sort of rituals or deals (maybe Yahoo)

3. It's also possible the guy is one of those guys that so much cherish their personal space to a fault. But then he has to accept that he is now married and has to consider the wife ...

4. He may like air-conditioner while the wife doesn't like it or it may be the other way round hence he needs his own room

5. The wife should check herself to be sure that she isn't the one pushing the man out... Probably, she snores heavily, has some odour or any other thing...

Whatever the reason is I don't think it's really okay for couples to sleep apart especially in a very young marriage... What is there is some medical emergency overnight, only for one to wake up and meet the other person dead or seriously harmed

SNORING or ODOUR or COLLABO of Both

May I not marry a stupid wife that takes marital advice from a male friend...

This Stoopid OP is probably her bestie..

Nonsense people..

zyzywizzy:
I precisely, a lady don’t spend more than 2 days with me! Including my Girlfriend.. just cherish my privacy a lot

Though wen u grow older than this maturity will reset ur default settings, otherwise I pity woman that would end up with u as a wife

When I get home from work at night, my children and wife won't let me rest, they behave as if I've been gone for weeks, I live in 3 bedflat and had to sacrifice 2rooms and the parlour for them, I told my wife that the third room should be left for me so that I can rest whenever I get back from work or on Sunday but immediately I get back from work, both my wife and children go just pack themselves come disturb me.
At op it'll never work, the husband can never be alone except he doesn't love his wife/children, the best thing the husband can do is, have a nice time before you come home

brightest5050:
Truth be told I see nothing wrong in couple having their separate rooms

Certainly they can have their separate rooms, but they must sleep on 1 bed every night. If not, they do not have a marriage, they are just breeding partners.

I have my room and my wife has her own room.
With all the baggage women keep, it's better they have their space.

Seperate room is not my thing. My husband and I will stay in the same room and live in the same house

One year is way too early imho. At a time when sex can and should still be spontaneous versus planned, when there is still a lot of bonding and when children are not yet in the mix - this is distancing in the FIRST year of marriage.

Tell her to accept her fate n see it as normal n get use to it.

mohziz1:
Hi nairalands...

I received a call from my female friend whose wedding is just a year old, she was weeping on phone seriously.

I tried to percify her and asked what the problem is, she said her husband wants to sleep in a separate room and she told him she is not okay with it.

To cut the story short, the husband had succeeded in separating their room, she said she feels lonely at night and she has tried to talk to him but he wouldn't listen.

Pls what advise can I give to her, and is it okay for a newly wedded couple to sleep in a separate room

I feel the man is fetish and he doesn't want to cast in her presence

If it will help him, then its a very good idea..

Nothing wrong in having a separate room, but at night wife should sleep in husband's room my verdict

fikayormi:
Maybe the man is into some strong African jazz

the man might have deep hand into some deep shit,maybe he have to bath some soap in d night n he must not see anyone n must make certain incantations.

Why should a husband and wife share one room if there are available empty rooms?


Nigerian women seems to enjoy overdoing everything they learn from the white culture.


Go and ask your mama, your papa and grandparents had their own separate huts.



Irrespective of marriage, each party ought to have their own privacy still, na wa oh

mohziz1:
Hi nairalands...

I received a call from my female friend whose wedding is just a year old, she was weeping on phone seriously.

I tried to percify her and asked what the problem is, she said her husband wants to sleep in a separate room and she told him she is not okay with it.

To cut the story short, the husband had succeeded in separating their room, she said she feels lonely at night and she has tried to talk to him but he wouldn't listen.

Pls what advise can I give to her, and is it okay for a newly wedded couple to sleep in a separate room

My Wife likes eating in the room,

She still wants me to stay with her in same room but I find it difficult.

Thats reason I had to separate to another room while she works on stopping it.

She comes when she needs hugs.

I go when I need her hug too.

Probably the Man has a reason for this.

It is too early to for the hubby to sleep in a separate room just a year into their marriage. However, it is possible if the husband is the type who works at night and doesnt want disturbance. As for me, i started sleeping in a separate room after the birth of our first daughter due to the nature of my work, a reseacher, i work well at night and the internet is always at its best at night.

mohziz1:
Hi nairalands...

I received a call from my female friend whose wedding is just a year old, she was weeping on phone seriously.

I tried to percify her and asked what the problem is, she said her husband wants to sleep in a separate room and she told him she is not okay with it.

To cut the story short, the husband had succeeded in separating their room, she said she feels lonely at night and she has tried to talk to him but he wouldn't listen.

Pls what advise can I give to her, and is it okay for a newly wedded couple to sleep in a separate room

My candid advice is she should just let him, don't ask him about it anymore. Just show him you are ok without him by yourself side. Don't try to show him your weak points, be strong.
Most expecially be neat in and out,and dress to kill while in the house

incogni2o:
My Wife likes eating in the room,

She still wants me to stay with her in same room but I find it difficult.

Thats reason I had to separate to another room while she works on stopping it.

She comes when she needs hugs.

I go when I need her hug too.

Probably the Man has a reason for this.

My wife enjoy sleeping once she enters her room while I am a late night worker who enjoy working at night, which means my bedroom lights stays on late, and my wife doesn't like sleeping with lights on, now how do we manage this if not by having separate rooms?