APC2:
I created this new account to hide my identity.

We live in a highbrow area in Ogun state with one Kid of 2 years. My wife is not working, she is attending a university in Ogun state where we lived. My wife always watch African Magic, Zee World or running from one prayer house to another. She does not respect me at all.

Yesterday, she told me that she attended a program conducted by a prayer ministry and the the General Overseer, a woman told her to bring a bag of rice as a seed. I told her I don't have money to buy a bag of rice for a ministry I don't know anything about. She got angry and told me that I must give her the money before I go to work. To my greatest surprise, she block the door and told me that I am not going anywhere until I give her the money for the bag of rice that the woman of God need the rice that yesterday. I got angry and tried to push her, she gave me a heavy slap and began to shout and insulting me using English so that every neighbour will hear. I was so ashamed and forced my myself out of the flat, she ran after me, held my clothe and tear it down.

I return back to my flat, carry a cable wire and beat her until she couldn't stand up. I'm an operation manager in my company, I went to work, took excuse and went to police station. I carried two police to arrest the general overseer, when we got there, she started swearing that she did not tell my wife to bring any rice, that it is my wife that volunteer to bring. The police did not arrest her again. I returned to office and notify her parents.

Her parents came in the night and after I explained to them, they insulted their daughter and apologize to me. I told my wife to follow her parents she refused.

So about 12:00 midnight, my wife started again, threatening me that she will deal with me, talking loudly again that I called her parents to come and insult her and she will pay me back in a way that I will regret knowing her.

When I couldn't sleep, I went out of the house at about 2:00AM to look for a near-by hotel to sleep. Immediately I entered the hotel, a young lady standing in front of the hotel followed me to the reception. I was thinking she want to book a room as well. The receptionist told me that the available room is 17, 000. I accepted and paid. I was directed to the room and as I entered, somebody knocked the door. I open the door and it was the young lady that followed me to the reception when I was entering the hotel. Before I knew she entered the room and said, "oga, I will do you well, na just 4,000 you go give me". She started touching me and I told her to stop it. I was so disturb by wife problems and I needed someone to talk with. So I accepted the lady. We spent the night together and had sex twice. This is my first time of having sex with another woman since I married in 2019.

I am always at home with my family when I return from work and I think my wife is taking that for granted. I will be going out from now to meet other women. I am completely tired of the marriage and I am considering marrying another wife that can give me peace and respect.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
File for a divorce ASAP...

APC2:

My father told me that I should marry another wife before talking about divorce. That when I give my attention to the second wife, my only wife now will regret and change. And I am also considering my son too. I can take care of two wives comfortalbly.

Jamesbiodun:
na the sex her twice got me cracking
Seriously I don't like people that carry pastor for head, I always believe they make themselves feel intimidated...
She promised bag if rice as seeds when she knows she is not working, that is her been silly ...
She is going to school for nothing

APC2:

My father told me that I should marry another wife before talking about divorce. That when I give my attention to the second wife, my only wife now will regret and change. And I am also considering my son too. I can take care of two wives comfortalbly.

APC2:

My father told me that I should marry another wife before talking about divorce. That when I give my attention to the second wife, my only wife now will regret and change. And I am also considering my son too. I can take care of two wives comfortalbly.

Candidlady:





You paid iPo that followed you to the so called pastor's place. Amount unknown


your booked over night 17 thou'

You paid a sex worker 4 thou'

Sure you got high on some liquor and prolly got food. Amount unknown

How much is a bag of rice.?

skoskosko:

This part got me thinking, capitulate to stupidity for the sake of peace? Today she pledge bag of rice, tomorrow she will pledge 50 bags of cement, next time she will pledge a land or sow your car as seed while you are away while she isn’t working. Imagine how entitled she is!

No amount is too big to pay for your his sanity before she drives him crazy. @Op, since she is unwilling to stop or learn and take correction after the same steps you have taken, it is sure, she wants to goad you into domestic violence and turn you into a suspect. I am not saying you should divorce your wife, but ensure she goes back to her parents house, if she doesn’t, use legal means possible alleging domestic violence and threat to life, until such a time she comes to realize she has done wrong and makes attempts to change, if she doesn’t, let her go for good. Don’t try to manage the situation by enduring her, you can’t endure a marriage. Some will say walk away whenever she starts her madness, please are you ready for decades of always walking? Even in the dead of the night at your own risk and detriment? Else you mistakenly kill her someday and go to jail.

ibechris:
Oga,u have done well and I don't think any married here man would ever judge because of one stupid wife of yours.

However,I want say it categorically clear here that many women have used their foolishness and entitlement mentality to wreck their marriages.

If a bad wife gives u a problem,hmm that is when u will know that prostitutes serve a purpose in our society.

U don't need to marry another woman bros,just ease yourself whenever she comes with her demonic powers.

Get a permanent girl friends that might lead to marriage if the issue becomes too hard to solve.

Good luck to u sir.


But if u must marry another wife,pls marry a working class lady and u will see the difference.

LilMissFavvy:
That is why it is good for a woman to have a source of income. If she had her own money, she would have bought what she wanted.

Very bad that she fought her husband, and only she knows if she truly wanted a bag of rice or she needed money for something else.

The same man who said he didn't have money for a bag of rice, had 20k to pay for hotel room and prostitute'. He also says he will start patronising prostitutes',. The marriage is already ruined.

LilMissFavvy:
That is why it is good for a woman to have a source of income. If she had her own money, she would have bought what she wanted.

Very bad that she fought her husband, and only she knows if she truly wanted a bag of rice or she needed money for something else.

The same man who said he didn't have money for a bag of rice, had 20k to pay for hotel room and prostitute'. He also says he will start patronising prostitutes',. The marriage is already ruined.

Candidlady:


Your wife cfvkd up hitting you was something she shouldn't have done.

But since you also pulled a wire on her iguess you guys are even.


You paid iPo that followed you to the so called pastor's place. Amount unknown


your booked over night 17 thou'

You paid a sex worker 4 thou'

Sure you got high on some liquor and prolly got food. Amount unknown

How much is a bag of rice.?

Don't get me wrong iam not in support of what your wife did. Matter of fact Ihate lousy ladies


don't forget you have a kid... just hope it is not a boy child and if it is then ireally do not care whatever happens to him as a result of your toxic marriage/relationship