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Hello nairalanders,

for this issue, I seriously crave for ur matured advice.

Am the first son in my family with a sick father who has stroke, my mum, 2 younger brothers and my kid sis.
My father had stroke late 2019 and since then, I started running his business. My immediate younger brother once went to cape verde to husstle but came back last year wen nothing was coming out. Currently, he is in Anambra doing Yahoo Yahoo but never pick. The other one finished from uni but is yet to get something doing, while my kid sis is at home cos of ASUU strike.

The issue at hand now is business is no longer the way it used to be before cos of the relocation to a new place. (The government demolished our old shop). Income is no longer coming and the little that is coming is no longer sufficient and since it is the only channel of income, its taking its toll on us coupled with our dads illness.
Our dad has an ongoing building project which is at the decking level which I continued until the shops were demolished and two plots of land that is in the innermost rural area and is value will take up to 10-15 years to appreciate.
The conditions around us is really giving me sleepless nights and is starting to show on me. Had it been my younger ones are doing something, I wouldn't be worried cos money will be flowing from different sources but they gat nothing and the only source is drying up.

I got an inspiration which is to convince my peeps to sell that ongoing building project and distribute the money accordingly so that everybody can have something doing but wen I presented it to them, my mum became very adamant because she is so obsessed with being a landlady and said that the day it will be sold is the day she will die for us. This was sometime early this year. Now things are so hard for us that as am even typing this, I haven't sold a damn thing today.

So pls matured fellows, is something wrong with that idea or should I force them to it because there is no time. .

PS: my brothers and I are in our early 30s

First disqualification: alternate account.

Pray they don't ban the account.

I pray they don't ban it cos I wanted anonymosity on this

hmmm life hard ( has your bro if he has any client with local bank or with high credit score make i help him run money) or ask him to get client verify coinbase just $1k-$5k deal (card purchase must be over $500)

You guys should source for funds from other sources ooo. Don't forget that your mum said that she will die if the house is sold ooo. Money does not bring back the dead ooo.

Ferrytech:
hmmm life hard ( has your bro if he has any client with local bank or with high credit score make i help him run money) or ask him to get client verify coinbase just $1k-$5k deal (card purchase must be over $500)

I don't even understand what u said but I will just show him the message

Showmetheway222:
I don't even understand what u said but I will just show him the message

ok

You are not alone in issues such as this but I will say keep on managing till your parents are late, it's kind of a disrespect to sell it when they are alive, try and get a skill or a job, you know that property is the final hope you have got, I am a first son too and it's being had for me but I will try all the patients in the world to wait until they are late..... Then you sell and establish yourself..

Juicie2u:
You are not alone in issues such as this but I will say keep on managing till your parents are late, it's kind of a disrespect to sell it when they are alive, try and get a skill or a job, you know that property is the final hope you have got, I am a first son too and it's being had for me but I will try all the patients in the world to wait until they are late..... Then you sell and establish yourself..

thanks bro. But I don't intend to sell it behind their back or without their consent. I don't even want it to be sold cos that would have been my inheritance. But as it is now, if money is flowing from other sources i.e my brothers, things will continue heading south

How can you live in the future when you haven't lived today ?

So far today no business. No business = no money to live. Mama that refused the idea, is she bringing in sources of income to care for papa ?

Op, will selling it bring big money to keep everyone afloat for years ?

armyofone:
How can you live in the future when you haven't lived today ?

So far today no business. No business = no money to live. Mama that refused the idea, is she bringing in sources of income to care for papa ?

Op, will selling it bring big money to keep everyone afloat for years ?

sure I believe that. For one, my younger ones will start something on their own and as such will start contributing while mine will breath a bit cos pressure will reduce

If ur father didn't acquire those lands and a building project,what would u have sold?

Go and hustle brother.

Ferrytech:
hmmm life hard ( has your bro if he has any client with local bank or with high credit score make i help him run money) or ask him to get client verify coinbase just $1k-$5k deal (card purchase must be over $500)

Stop engaging in and/or encouraging criminal activities

The people you're stealing from worked for their money; go and work for yours

ChybuzzDD:
Stop engaging in and/or encouraging criminal activities

The people you're stealing from worked for their money; go and work for yours

bro it not stealing (am just going to mine coin out it over night (where were you when they took us as slave ) and besides they are not complaining

Ferrytech:
bro it not stealing (am just going to mine coin out it over night (where were you when they took us as slave ) and besides they are not complaining

Go and find something dignifying and legitimate to do, and ask God to bless the work of your hand

There's no justification for stealing.

[s]author=Ferrytech post=113360044] bro it not stealing (am just going to mine coin out it over night (where were you when they took us as slave ) and besides they are not complaining[/s]

A stupid boy glorifying fraud

MAGG0T:
[s]author=Ferrytech post=113360044] bro it not stealing (am just going to mine coin out it over night (where were you when they took us as slave ) and besides they are not complaining[/s]

A stupid boy glorifying fraud

not stupid bro (at least have gotten a lot from it) how about our govement stealing billion$ dally

ibechris:
If ur father didn't acquire those lands and a building project,what would u have sold?

Go and hustle brother.

nwanne na the husstle I dey oo. I just wanna make things easy for everyone.

You mother is been selfish. Because she is already considering staying there in future.

Anyway whatever decision you take ensure it's the best.

Ferrytech:
not stupid bro (at least have gotten a lot from it) how about our govement stealing billion$ dally

boss what's your location

gfon:
boss what's your location

why

Ferrytech:
bro it not stealing (am just going to mine coin out it over night (where were you when they took us as slave ) and besides they are not complaining

You are a criminal. Did the person you are stealing from take you or any member of your family as slaves? Keep justifying fraud. Even the bible says there is a way that seems right but at the end of that road is destruction. Go and work for your money

Ishilove:
You are a criminal. Did the person you are stealing from take you or any member of your family as slaves? Keep justifying fraud. Even the bible says there is a way that seems right but at the end of that road is destruction. Go and work for your money

bro dont get me wrong (i am only collecting the money for the work our forefather did with force (:

fineboynl:
You mother is been selfish. Because she is already considering staying there in future.

Anyway whatever decision you take ensure it's the best.

thanks bro

Ferrytech:
not stupid bro (at least have gotten a lot from it) how about our govement stealing billion$ dally

you really think all you 've got from the fraudulent activities you engage in are yours it will fly back to where it came from just watch.

Ferrytech:
why

would love to roll up with you,share ideas. If that's cool with you