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Kineticcasihk6:
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Read the Bible properly & understand how to preach so you don’t make a mediocrity of both your self & preaching the gospel. Your message is titled “FREE SEX IS NOT FREE” you should have made the topic the center of your write up, using points such as the risk of diseases which you tried to present & the stress of emotional attachment especially for women which you also tried to present but again in a clumsy manner.

Now back to the gospel, first of all note that sex was created for pleasure then procreation in a monogamous setting (today the world has changed), while the word of God never does (I strongly believe the Bible needs to be updated anyway), for this reason Christians are admonished to adhere to the word but this generation of Christians have begun to challenge a lot that has been passed down to them & sadly those who passed it down to them are unable to further convince them simply for their own lack of proper knowledge of the word. My question for you is asides the Bible saying sex outside marriage is fornication & in marriage with another who isn’t your wife adultery do we then say polygamy is a sin because even this our preachers have not been able to answer which means Muslims will go to hell then.. I mean by their teachings lol. Now how else can you convince anyone on why indeed sex outside marriage or in marriage with someone who isn’t your wife a sin? Don’t forget in the same bible some of the wealthiest & closest people to God had sex outside marriage & in marriage.. Abraham, King Solomon etc. The funny point of sex having negative spiritual consequences if done outside marriage is also dumfounded because there is no where in the Bible where it says sex has spiritual consequences as our preachers teach, in fact the Bible God commanded someone to marry a prostitute. So my dear friend if you want to preach pls study properly or pick topics you & firstly start by understanding your audience, align your message with the audience then come up with a message that’s understandable, a message you can defend. Let me tell you why today many people don’t wanna hear this things; you say sex brings all sorts of bad spiritual consequences yet King Solomon was the richest man ever, people before you & I you see as role models have defied what this thought. Ok so why did God create it & gave access to it outside the conditions? You see I understand what you are trying to do but O am playing devils advocate to educate you.. Thank you & all the best.

Sunday Bullshit!

Nairaland is a Sellout!

So, the news of 70 people killed inside a church never made front page abi?

Interesting15:
Free sex is not actually free. For every action, there is a reaction. When you had "free" casual sex with someone not your married spouse, don't think you have had a free meal that won't had a price attached (a resultant effect) - you have actually taken poison.

You see, God, the Great Manufacturer of sexual pleasure, gave a commandment as touching how these things should be approached: All forms of sexual pleasure should be shared between a man and his married wife in the safe confines of their marriage institution, with no other party involved.


So, sex is not even meant to be 'free' from onset, as it is not meant to be a 'playing thing' which you have with just anyone just for fun. God has made sex a sacred thing that should be between a married couple so He could achieve certain purposes without issues. One of these purposes is to ensure the continuous enhancement of the bond between a husband and his wife - because these things are His delight. So, just as you can't handle gold and diamond just anyhow due to their value and essence, you shouldn't approach sex just anyhow you like because of it divine purposes. It is a sacred act that should come with responsibilities - between a married couple. Sex is not meant to be 'let's just do it without emotional attachments'. Sex is not meant to be 'free'

Also, when you had your 'free' immoral sex, you are actually buying negative things into your life - curses, STDs, heartaches, soul aches, etc. So, is it really 'free'?

Please, take these things with seriousness. Take the things of the Spirit with seriousness. And if you have committed the sin of fornication or adultery, go on your knees and ask God for forgiveness. He will definitely restore you and all what you've lost in Jesus Name.


Listen to me my friends. We were created by our loving God to thrive and flourish in Him. However, the evil devil capitalized on sin to cause a separation between us and our loving Father. Nevertheless, because God loves us so much, He came in Jesus Christ to redeem us back to Himself. When we embrace Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, we receive eternal life (the very Life of God), and we are empowered of the Precious Holy Ghost to live a fulfilling life of bliss and victory, where we live in perfect dominion here on earth and reign triumphantly in eternity.

Please, don't settle for less. Don't settle for mediocrity in sin. Jesus will help you live above sin.

Scriptures says: "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son (Jesus) that whosoever believes in Him should not perish but have eternal life." (John 3:16).

Now, how can you make things right with God your Creator?

"That if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart one believes to righteousness, and with the mouth confession is made to salvation." Romans 10:9,10

Walk with Jesus Christ in Spirit and in Truth henceforth.

God bless you in Jesus Name.

https://www.sundayakanni.com/2022/06/free-sex-is-not-really-free.html?m=1

This should have been posted by @Righteousness2.. Just saying

Antoeni:
"Ladies If your primary objective is to look sexy...
you will only attract guys whose primary objective is to have sex"

Sense will not kill you

Interesting15:
Free sex is not actually free. For every action, there is a reaction. When you had "free" casual sex with someone not your married spouse, don't think you have had a free meal that won't had a price attached (a resultant effect) - you have actually taken poison.

You see, God, the Great Manufacturer of sexual pleasure, gave a commandment as touching how these things should be approached: All forms of sexual pleasure should be shared between a man and his married wife in the safe confines of their marriage institution, with no other party involved.


So, sex is not even meant to be 'free' from onset, as it is not meant to be a 'playing thing' which you have with just anyone just for fun. God has made sex a sacred thing that should be between a married couple so He could achieve certain purposes without issues. One of these purposes is to ensure the continuous enhancement of the bond between a husband and his wife - because these things are His delight. So, just as you can't handle gold and diamond just anyhow due to their value and essence, you shouldn't approach sex just anyhow you like because of it divine purposes. It is a sacred act that should come with responsibilities - between a married couple. Sex is not meant to be 'let's just do it without emotional attachments'. Sex is not meant to be 'free'

Also, when you had your 'free' immoral sex, you are actually buying negative things into your life - curses, STDs, heartaches, soul aches, etc. So, is it really 'free'?

Please, take these things with seriousness. Take the things of the Spirit with seriousness. And if you have committed the sin of fornication or adultery, go on your knees and ask God for forgiveness. He will definitely restore you and all what you've lost in Jesus Name.


Listen to me my friends. We were created by our loving God to thrive and flourish in Him. However, the evil devil capitalized on sin to cause a separation between us and our loving Father. Nevertheless, because God loves us so much, He came in Jesus Christ to redeem us back to Himself. When we embrace Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, we receive eternal life (the very Life of God), and we are empowered of the Precious Holy Ghost to live a fulfilling life of bliss and victory, where we live in perfect dominion here on earth and reign triumphantly in eternity.

Please, don't settle for less. Don't settle for mediocrity in sin. Jesus will help you live above sin.

Scriptures says: "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son (Jesus) that whosoever believes in Him should not perish but have eternal life." (John 3:16).

Now, how can you make things right with God your Creator?

"That if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart one believes to righteousness, and with the mouth confession is made to salvation." Romans 10:9,10

Walk with Jesus Christ in Spirit and in Truth henceforth.

God bless you in Jesus Name.

https://www.sundayakanni.com/2022/06/free-sex-is-not-really-free.html?m=1

hmm nothing is free o

kimco:
Let me say your take on this. Im not impressed.

1. You assume that what worked for a few must work for all. But refuse to see the the few are outliers not the norm.

2. Even without watching sexually explicit things you will still have strong urges. That is nature doing its thing. You can fight it, but you will lose one way or the other.

3. You defication analogy is flawed. In the same analogy if you were to hold the faeces for so long not only will you get an infection but you will most likely deficate yourself in public. That is why you must find a place to do it otherwise you might do it in the open behind someone's posh house.

4. If praying for financial stabily works nobody in Africa will be poor. This is just an insensitive way of looking at this. Put a stop to it now.

Don't mind them. If illicit or as they put it illegal sex attract curses and buying negative things into their life, Elon Musk will not be the richest man in the world. Elon Musk that is reputed to chook his prick into any fine young woman he sees (while smoking igbo).

Oya, you that is sexually pure and celebrate, are you richer than Elon Musk? Are you even rich at all?

Sex is dangerous,it kills,it deprives you of your joy and destiny, desist from it totally

THEREISGODINHEA:
Sex is dangerous,it kills,it deprives you of your joy and destiny, desist from it totally

If truly sex is that dangerous, we will all be dead. That you are alive means your parents and ancestors engaged in sex and it did not destroy them.

If you study the lives of the most successful men in Nigeria and indeed the world, you will see they have an abundance of sexual energy.

All is well. We no go Bleep witch or water goddess

kimco:
Let me ask two questions.

1. If I have no money to get mrried till Im 40, should I stay a virgin till I indeed get money to marry?

2. If God wanted us to not have sex till marriage, why activate our sexual libido and abilities before marriage? Wouldnt it have been smart to activate it upon marriage instead?

This repression might be a big issue towards the way we reason and we must take it serious.

God is not a dictator..he gives you opportunity to make your own choices...that is why he doesn't force you into doing his will

NNTR:
1. My dear beloved Muslim brother friend, what sons are you suggesting that the biblical God was unable to stop from coming to earth to have sex with humans, then dropping Genesis 6:1-4?
2. Whats the identity of the sons you are talking of here please?

They are the sons of Elohim. Sons of Elohim can copulate with humans.

Send me your WhatsApp number. You can drop it on an empty thread

Okobalo123:
[am really touch by this msg, can you chat me up off camera, you might just help save a confused heart.. quote author=Interesting15 post=113484686]

Free sex is not actually free. For every action, there is a reaction. When you had "free" casual sex with someone not your married spouse, don't think you have had a free meal that won't had a price attached (a resultant effect) - you have actually taken poison.

You see, God, the Great Manufacturer of sexual pleasure, gave a commandment as touching how these things should be approached: All forms of sexual pleasure should be shared between a man and his married wife in the safe confines of their marriage institution, with no other party involved.


So, sex is not even meant to be 'free' from onset, as it is not meant to be a 'playing thing' which you have with just anyone just for fun. God has made sex a sacred thing that should be between a married couple so He could achieve certain purposes without issues. One of these purposes is to ensure the continuous enhancement of the bond between a husband and his wife - because these things are His delight. So, just as you can't handle gold and diamond just anyhow due to their value and essence, you shouldn't approach sex just anyhow you like because of it divine purposes. It is a sacred act that should come with responsibilities - between a married couple. Sex is not meant to be 'let's just do it without emotional attachments'. Sex is not meant to be 'free'

Also, when you had your 'free' immoral sex, you are actually buying negative things into your life - curses, STDs, heartaches, soul aches, etc. So, is it really 'free'?

Please, take these things with seriousness. Take the things of the Spirit with seriousness. And if you have committed the sin of fornication or adultery, go on your knees and ask God for forgiveness. He will definitely restore you and all what you've lost in Jesus Name.


Listen to me my friends. We were created by our loving God to thrive and flourish in Him. However, the evil devil capitalized on sin to cause a separation between us and our loving Father. Nevertheless, because God loves us so much, He came in Jesus Christ to redeem us back to Himself. When we embrace Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, we receive eternal life (the very Life of God), and we are empowered of the Precious Holy Ghost to live a fulfilling life of bliss and victory, where we live in perfect dominion here on earth and reign triumphantly in eternity.

Please, don't settle for less. Don't settle for mediocrity in sin. Jesus will help you live above sin.

Scriptures says: "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son (Jesus) that whosoever believes in Him should not perish but have eternal life." (John 3:16).

Now, how can you make things right with God your Creator?

"That if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart one believes to righteousness, and with the mouth confession is made to salvation." Romans 10:9,10

Walk with Jesus Christ in Spirit and in Truth henceforth.

God bless you in Jesus Name.

https://www.sundayakanni.com/2022/06/free-sex-is-not-really-free.html?m=1

AntiChristian:
They are the sons of Elohim. Sons of Elohim can copulate with humans.

My dear beloved Muslim brother friend, what sons are you suggesting that the biblical God was unable to stop from coming to earth to have sex with humans, then dropping Genesis 6:1-4?
2. Whats the identity of the sons you are talking of here please?
3. Who are the sons of Elohim?
4. What are the sons of Elohim?
5. Are your so called sons of Elohim still copulating with humans now?
6. What human being gender are so your called sons of Elohim copulating with?

_{Personal text: Jesus is not a theologian. He is God who told stories.}

NNTR:
My dear beloved Muslim brother friend, what sons are you suggesting that the biblical God was unable to stop from coming to earth to have sex with humans, then dropping Genesis 6:1-4?
2. Whats the identity of the sons you are talking of here please?
3. Who are the sons of Elohim?
4. What are the sons of Elohim?
5. Are your so called sons of Elohim still copulating with humans now?
6. What human being gender are so called sons of Elohim copulating with?

You should answer the questions!

AntiChristian:
You should answer the questions!

My dear beloved Muslim brother friend, you are scared of answering those easy simple questions because you know that answering them will expose your folly

_{Personal text: Jesus is not a theologian. He is God who told stories.}

How

Enrythesis:
explain to the forum y put on clothes instead of going naked like animals. cos it's obvious u already concluded that man is animal

Animals aren't naked they hv fur....I think moderation is key and obeying everything Jesus said directly.....

AntiChristian:
Illegal sex is forbidden truly!

But why was the biblical God unable to stop his sons coming to earth to have sex with humans in Genesis 6:1-4?

And the copulation was even granted amen to fertilization to produce giant sons of Godmen.

I still can't believe sons of God could have sex organs that can copulate, produce sperms and the sperms gingered to fertilize a human ovum despite the mitochondrial difference!

And God permitted all these to happen only to regret it later!

They are fallen Angel

Dtruthspeaker:
Actually 98/2 with 98 = they won't fail and 2= only an evil person will fall here.

So, you can see how great the fall and the accompanying disappointment is.

Then the "omni" title is null

Offpoint1:
Then the "omni" title is null

He Knew, therefore His Omni is very well intact.

BigBashiru:
Animals aren't naked they hv fur....I think moderation is key and obeying everything Jesus said directly.....

good one. I like your point, then explain moderation in fornication and adultery. we both know no moderation in this case. or will u say if I fornicate once every month it is moderate to who fornicates every week wat is wrong is wrong

AntiChristian:
Why regret if he's omniscient?

Omniscient means "knowing all".

Therefore, GOD KNOWS you can pass if you want and He shall respond with happiness and HE ALSO KNOWS that you could fail (if you do not want to pass) and He shall respond with Pain and Anger.

Thus, Omniscient.

AntiChristian:
God is supposed to know for sure what the future holds. So why would he regret what he knows will happen except he doesn't know?

I have answered this question. Even you know the future of your children for you have a similitude of His omniscientness you know the one that will be a weed smoking agbero and the one that will be working in a respectable place, and you shall regret over one and be joyfull over the other.

Dtruthspeaker:
He Knew, therefore His Omni is very well intact.

Stop contradicting bro...
He new and punt on it, so how's that our fault?

Imagine me knowing well, Nigeria would lose a match against Argentina, then I went ahead to placed a bet on Nigeria to win... When the result of whom I've already knew comes, I decided to blame/punish Nigeria for it... Dude does it make any reasonable sense to you? Be honest.

If you drop hot oil in a room with a 2 year old child in it, if they child crawl and dip his/her hands inside... Who's fault is that?

Offpoint1:
Stop contradicting bro...
He new and punt on it, so how's that our fault?

Imagine me knowing well, Nigeria would lose a match against Argentina, then I went ahead to placed a bet on Nigeria to win... When the result of whom I've already knew comes, I decided to blame/punish Nigeria for it... Dude does it may any reasonable sense to you? Be honest

It is exactly as you know and knew (omniness), Nigeria can beat Argentina (if they will to) PLUS, Nigeria can loose to Argentina when not serious, and you bet on whatever is your preference.

But, the whole view is that YOU KNEW BOTH OUTCOMES AND THE REASON FOR EACH OUTCOME!

Which is why when Nigeria loses, we always blame them saying "they were not serious enough"!

Very very reasonable!

Offpoint1:
If you drop hot oil in a room with a 2 year old child in it, if they child crawl and dip his/her hands inside... Who's fault is that

Man is not a 2 year old baby, and no where did you see in the Bible a 2 year old write an exam.

Therefore, this is about grown ups and as life has proven it is only a stupid grown up who shall fall into a hot pan of hot oil, only a stupid one.

Dtruthspeaker:
It is exactly as you know and knew (omniness), Nigeria can beat Argentina (if they will to) PLUS, Nigeria can loose to Argentina when not serious, and you bet on whatever is your preference.

But, the whole view is that YOU KNEW BOTH OUTCOMES AND THE REASON FOR EACH OUTCOME!

Which is why when Nigeria loses, we always blame them saying "they were not serious enough"!

Very very reasonable!



Man is not a 2 year old baby, and no where did you see in the Bible a 2 year old write an exam.

Therefore, this is about grown ups and as life has proven it is only a stupid grown up who shall fall into a hot pan of hot oil, only a stupid one.

Answer my 2nd question, before I'll talk on your point.

If you have a year old child in your kitchen while cooking, you had oil boiled, then dropped the on the floor, walked out of the the kitchen... If the child puts his/her hands inside the oil, who should take the blame?

Offpoint1:
Answer my 2nd question, before I'll talk on your point.

If you have a year old child in your kitchen while cooking, ...

No where in the Bible did you see God ever test a 1yr old or 2yr or even a child. so your question is unreasonable and out of scope.

Dtruthspeaker:
No where in the Bible dd you see God testing a 1yr old or 2yr, so your question is unreasonable and out of scope.

Answer my question first, you don't see me mentioning names in the question I asked.

Who should take the blame, the child or you?

Give me honest answer

Enrythesis:
good one. I like your point, then explain moderation in fornication and adultery. we both know no moderation in this case. or will u say if I fornicate once every month it is moderate to who fornicates every week wat is wrong is wrong

check the dictionary definition of these terms... that will guide you!

Layographics:
God is not a dictator..he gives you opportunity to make your own choices...that is why he doesn't force you into doing his will

"If you don't do my bidding you will burn in an eternal lake of fire."

That IS a dictator my friend. I don't know how you can say that he is not.