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This guy again. Your life no just straight. O can remember when you said that you live abroad, now you're talking like someone who still lives with his parents. What about the time that you said that you impregnated a girl?

Abeg, all these cheap liars shift.

stop doing things that will give him cause to snitch.

You're setting a bad example for him to follow.

I think that young man doesn't want to live a rough life like you. Is that why you called him a snitch?

@op your stories doesn't add up some times, some times you claim you are 35 years old, other times you claim you are 37 years old.

You scammed a church, won bet9ja with juju. Haba, if at 35 you still do all those vices you listed then your bro should be scared of you showing him how to be a real gee as you claim.

First , shame on this forum for bring such senseless post to the general public! For crying out loud, people visit this page from different country, bro who give a heck bout you, your brother and your family? Damn, m disappointed

Secondly, quit your bad habit and be of good example , m very sure your younger brother don’t do these shiiiits you do , don’t corrupt him

Thirdly, m seeing your mumsi , Neighbors and sister in the context, hope you don’t reside with your parents o! Because if u do and you have these messsy lifestyle , omo u go suffer eh.

Be like na “mama thank you” na e u de chop! I just hope m wrong sha!


Go change ur habit , only u gambler, only u alcoholic , only u de carry olosho , stupid you come still de tell ur junior brother way no come get sense ! Na wa

ChizzyBuna:
You dont get it
We are talking about brotherhood
Even Parents keep secrets away from their children.
Does your mother tell you everything that happened to her? NO
Some things only soblings should know about
Some things only parents should know about

I give him advice that he shouldn't gamble because i did it and it was bad experience.
Instead of him to learn lesson from my personal stories, he goes about telling everyone that im a gambler. WTF??

family >>> brotherhood



it not that he cant keep secret, he is just simply isnt liking what u are doing

For the sake of his future and his own life you need to deal with him and help reset his brain. You've only tolerated him because he's family, if it's an outsider they may harm him so better to let him know you don't snitch, then you also keep secrets from him. But trust him resetting his brain will be doing him a good favour

Keep things personal... Although at some point one needs a confidant, but your bro ain't that person

ChizzyBuna:
I have tried my best as a senior bro ...

You can see a power play going on here. He's trying to destroy your name in front of your family. This is often a result of jealousy. You probably have things he doesn't have and he's envious of them. Or maybe, your people know you as a good person while he has some shady reputation and is trying to cover up for it by making you look worse.

While this sort of jealousy does happen between siblings, I find it weird that it's happening between males in their mid 20's for that matter. Your best bet is to keep him at arm's length. Speak to him and all that but make your discussions as formal as possible. I'd even advise that you confront him so that he knows you know. But you should only do that on the condition that it doesn't turn into a fight because he's going to deny it and may fight back.

una no go kill me with laugh

ChizzyBuna:
You dont get it
We are talking about brotherhood
Even Parents keep secrets away from their children.
Does your mother tell you everything that happened to her? NO
Some things only soblings should know about
Some things only parents should know about

I give him advice that he shouldn't gamble because i did it and it was bad experience.
Instead of him to learn lesson from my personal stories, he goes about telling everyone that im a gambler. WTF??

Honestfrend:
Egunjeh... That's d spirit.. If he wants someone 2 keep his secret the person must not do it on empty stomach..

Hahaha, you are obviously a good businessman.

MeghaneMorgane:
What are you afraid of letting your parents know exactly? Children of these days hiding stuffs from their parents.

I also having running mouth when I’m with my parents and I don’t hide anything from them. What am I hiding exactly ?

And if you tell me anything, just know that my parents will hear. So my brother, I cannot advise you because I’m exactly like your younger brother.

Do you also tell your parents your own secrets, especially the intimate ones? Like the number of guys you've slept with, the breakdown of how it went down, and maybe how the guy ghosted you after you both were done?

If your answer is a NO, then you're just being a snitch and hypocrite like the brother in question. If you really don't "hide anything" from your parents as you claim, you should be open to revealing your secrets to them too, instead of hiding yours while revealing that of others.

Be your brother keeper

Na who talk am?

Shoodboi:
Do you also tell your parents your own secrets, especially the intimate ones? Like the number of guys you've slept with, the breakdown of how it went down, and maybe how the guy ghosted you after you both were done?

If your answer is a NO, then you're just being a snitch and hypocrite like the brother in question. If you really don't "hide anything" from your parents as you claim, you should be open to revealing your secrets to them too, instead of hiding yours while revealing that of others.

My parents know everything. For your information, I have not had any yeye intimate moment with anyone because I’m not married. They know my itinerary, they know when I go out for drinks with my friends, when I drink beer or wine, they know. They know the guys I’m talking with, they know my friends, they know who’s asking me out. They know. I don’t have secrets with my parents. The day I slept over at my friends place who is a guy, they knew too.

Na last born? Na their way be dat, no vex! They don't grow easily

You sound like a common tout. Good to know your brother has at least some sense

ChizzyBuna:
He is the last born.. smh
It hurts me, because i see how other guys bond very well with their younger bros
Rolling together like 5&6
Covering each others back.
God knows i tried my best but this has made me not want to do anything with him again

I understand ur pain bro. It's a very lovely experience that any real G would love to feel . This reminds me of my younger brother. He's not my immediate though but we are like twin today. We over bonded. He's a doctor now, baba d even take care of me like say na him senior right now. I can die for him. He is a very big blessing to me.

PraiseGodNoTime

ChizzyBuna:
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1.Your brother must not be your friend.
2. You can end your relationship with your friend when you are fed up, but you can't do that with your brother. So when you tell them too much and they turn against you,na wahala be that ooo.
Relate with him as a brother and remove friendship from there.

ChizzyBuna:
I have tried my best as a senior bro to talk to this boy and try and bond well with him.

As per man to man. He just turned 24
I try to orient him on street levels and how to be a real G.

But he will go behind my back and start sharing our personal talk with his friends, our neighbours, and the worst part is he shares everything i say to our mother.
That i purse women
That i gamble
That i go to joints
This boy cannot keep secret at all

This is someone i expect to be my Guy
someone that should cover my back
Any little gist i have with him
he will go behind my back to tell momsi
Like WTF

I have decided that i will NEVER talk to him again.

Now, what should i do
Should i cut him off and avoid him completely and never speak anything with him again??
Or
confront him and deal with him for talking too much

My sis say i should forgive him but omo i no send that boy again

You are the one suffering from insecurity and you are the one who is not a real G. A real G know how to mind his business, the guy didn't complain to you about anything but you are pushing your ideas into his head. A real G knows that guys get to learn somethings base on the hit on them from the street, a real guy is on the rescue mission not on panic mode, the guy is not having challenge with his life and that is why he is not complaining but you are the one try to protect him for a non existing threat

Bro try talk to your bro,the word blood is thicker than water is for a reason I dey get issue with my famz onto say I still small ooo but I still want try talk to dem and connect if you cut him off walai you go still feel and am I'm are at some point you no go fit sleep for night Wella abeg try follow am talk

You are the one that should shut up. If he is a role model he shouldn't be worry about the so call secrets.All that is needed is to be upright. Then u wont be worried if your secrets are in the open.

TechBIogger:
oga shut up

Looks like children's thread.

Later guys

ChizzyBuna:
I have tried my best as a senior bro to talk to this boy and try and bond well with him.

As per man to man. He just turned 24
I try to orient him on street levels and how to be a real G.

But he will go behind my back and start sharing our personal talk with his friends, our neighbours, and the worst part is he shares everything i say to our mother.
That i purse women
That i gamble
That i go to joints
This boy cannot keep secret at all

This is someone i expect to be my Guy
someone that should cover my back
Any little gist i have with him
he will go behind my back to tell momsi
Like WTF

I have decided that i will NEVER talk to him again.

Now, what should i do
Should i cut him off and avoid him completely and never speak anything with him again??
Or
confront him and deal with him for talking too much

My sis say i should forgive him but omo i no send that boy again

I don't see you as a very responsible elder brother.

ChizzyBuna:
I have tried my best as a senior bro to talk to this boy and try and bond well with him.

As per man to man. He just turned 24
I try to orient him on street levels and how to be a real G.

But he will go behind my back and start sharing our personal talk with his friends, our neighbours, and the worst part is he shares everything i say to our mother.
That i purse women
That i gamble
That i go to joints
This boy cannot keep secret at all

This is someone i expect to be my Guy
someone that should cover my back
Any little gist i have with him
he will go behind my back to tell momsi
Like WTF

I have decided that i will NEVER talk to him again.

Now, what should i do
Should i cut him off and avoid him completely and never speak anything with him again??
Or
confront him and deal with him for talking too much

My sis say i should forgive him but omo i no send that boy again

This one na hehe big bros

MeghaneMorgane:
My parents know everything. For your information, I have not had any yeye intimate moment with anyone because I’m not married. They know my itinerary, they know when I go out for drinks with my friends, when I drink beer or wine, they know. They know the guys I’m talking with, they know my friends, they know who’s asking me out. They know. I don’t have secrets with my parents. The day I slept over at my friends place who is a guy, they knew too.

Yawns... We know your type.

You are doing something bad and you expect him to cover your back. Weldone bad boi

OriginalCEO:
Looks like children's thread.

Later guys

Bye Methuselah

MeghaneMorgane:
What are you afraid of letting your parents know exactly? Children of these days hiding stuffs from their parents.

I also having running mouth when I’m with my parents and I don’t hide anything from them. What am I hiding exactly ?

And if you tell me anything, just know that my parents will hear. So my brother, I cannot advise you because I’m exactly like your younger brother.

subsidywise18:
1.Why do you have to share everything with someone

2.Also, look at it this way...your brother may be trying to help you. Gambling, chasing women, and going to joints are all bad habits that can wreck your life long term. I'm not the arbiter of your life, but having seen and heard far too many stories that touch that begin at those three things....be watchful. Gambling in particular can chop your money, including the one wey you never make.

Anyway, watch your habits, and also at the same time, no need to tell everything to everyone. [b]I don't go to bars, womanize, or gamble...[/b]and I don't feel the need to tell all my secrets to my brother.

So what do you do?

why not check yourself first bro. and ask yourself these questions
1. am i doing anything secretive.
2.why am i hiding myself from my family,the ones to save me in times of danger.
3.am i a role model to my young ones.

if yes,. then you can play a matured relationship with your brother.If not desist.