Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,155,893 members, 7,828,157 topics. Date: Wednesday, 15 May 2024 at 03:42 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! (2522 Views)
Man Drags Wife To Court For Changing Children’s Surname To Lover’s / I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? / Man Changes His Surname To His Mother’s Name (2) (3) (4)
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by Maddict1: 10:17pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
Ardar: Thank you sir. I'm actually considering this. But sir can I change the name now, so my bank accounts, Passport, NIN and some other official documents can start with it then after graduation I'll effect the change on my academic documents? |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by Maddict1: 10:21pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
Corporate2020: Hehehehehe! One deadbeat don dey defend him fellow deadbeat. Na your children I just dey pity, dem never know wetin wan hit them, abi e don hit them sef. Be like your children don even disown you sef, na why you carry that anger come here. Sperm donor wey wan harvest wetin him no plant. Ewu 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by Maddict1: 10:28pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
JONNYSPUTE: Sperm donors are biological fathers of their kids, you don't see those kids taking their surnames. Like I said before, them no go tell me anything, i be my mama pikin loud and clear, everybody know that one. my own is what will these people even stop me from sef? telling me I'm not part of them will prevent what actually? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by frozen70(f): 7:30am On Jun 07, 2022 |
Maddict1: Thanks dear, I wish you success 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by frozen70(f): 7:31am On Jun 07, 2022 |
Maddict1: Maybe |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by Nobody: 8:46am On Jun 07, 2022 |
Maddict1: Yea you can |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by Runsboi(m): 7:48pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
Maddict1: As in ehh My heart goes out to his children 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by Runsboi(m): 7:50pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
Ardar: This is practically one of the most sensible reply here not the ones talking about father's family and mother's family meeting just because person wan dey answer him mama(woman) name 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by McDuncan: 8:52pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
Maddict1: I've read most of your posts here but, one question remains; is it your mother's name you're joining up with your father's name or your mother's surname? |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by pocohantas(f): 11:55pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
JONNYSPUTE: Lol. We both know this would never happen. The woman’s side would hardly ever reject a child. Even if e get down syndrome, they will accept him. I don’t know what OP is going through. So I can only wish him peace. 9 Likes |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by JONNYSPUTE(m): 10:35am On Jun 10, 2022 |
pocohantas:.....Well. We can never tell. I wish him well. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by cayorday89(m): 11:43am On Jun 10, 2022 |
BadInvestment: |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by cayorday89(m): 11:46am On Jun 10, 2022 |
BadInvestment:Maddict1, this is what you are supposed to do, it's ought to be the norm, your own name is supposed to be your children's surname and not the one you grew up with. Either you change your surname now or not to your mother's own is not the main thing, the best you could do for her is to be there for her when she needs you, make her proud and happy always as a way to repay all that she has done for you. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by Maddict1: 1:08pm On Jun 10, 2022 |
McDuncan:My mother's name 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by Maddict1: 1:09pm On Jun 10, 2022 |
pocohantas: Thank you for this. |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by Maddict1: 1:09pm On Jun 10, 2022 |
JONNYSPUTE: Better. |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by Maddict1: 1:19pm On Jun 10, 2022 |
cayorday89: I know all of these but the thing is I'm usually triggered when I'm identified by/with the name. I've already started including my mom's name and I've never felt better! I want to be identified and linked with someone who was empathic to me and didn't make my life a living hell, someone who didn't make me depressed and suicidal, someone who didn't make me feel like I was worthless in all ways, someone who was glad to be related to me and defends me against all odds. Parenthood is a choice, one isn't a parent just by their ability to procreate or have children you know. I want to be a child of the person who chose to be parent to me. My kids will eventually bear the names of both their parents so why don't I lead by example? 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by cayorday89(m): 3:05pm On Jun 10, 2022 |
Maddict1:Seriously, I understand and can relate with your feelings.. If that is what is okay for you and make you happy, please do it, your happiness is above other things... Go with it the right way to prevent confusions especially with all the different documentation one has to do now as a Nigerian... I know someone on Facebook who did exact same thing as you want to and he has also given tips on how one can go about childhood trauma suffered from parents. 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by Maddict1: 7:00pm On Dec 03, 2023 |
After so many back and forths, i finally took the long awaited step to officially change my surname and I've never been prouder since i did. I usually beam with joy whenever I'm writing my name on any official form I'm filling ahh! The only issue I'm faced with right now is the inconsistency in my bank account names on different bank platforms, i don't know if any one has also expérienced this, some bank platforms sometimes still display my old name whilst people are making transfers to me and that makes them wonder if the account is actually mine, I don't know why that's happening cos I've officially changed the name on all of them, BVN, NIN inclusive. I've called the CCs of all my banks and they don't seem to know what to do. Is there any fix for this? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by Maddict1: 7:03pm On Dec 03, 2023 |
Also since I'm currently in my final year in the university, I don't know how possible it is to change my name in school, I can't enquire now cos we're on holidays. I just want to know if anyone has successfully changed their name in school too and process it took. |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by Intergrated: 7:28pm On Dec 03, 2023 |
Zonefree:epic . Or your wife's father's name. |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by Stevenbright(m): 7:57pm On Dec 03, 2023 |
Maddict1: What she is saying is it has to be done with the consent of your mum's family since you are about taking their family name as your surname. Otherwise, if you just do it on your own without due process, they can deny you and your nuclear family in the nearest future when it is most important. |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by Maddict1: 8:26pm On Dec 03, 2023 |
Stevenbright: I didn't take their family name, i took my mother's name. deny me as in how?? deed has already been done sha 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by Maddict1: 8:28pm On Dec 03, 2023 |
Intergrated: association of deadbeats don come again i kuku get una strength 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by Intergrated: 8:32pm On Dec 03, 2023 |
Maddict1:madman you don't know the meaning of generational name I wonder the kind of useless children wen dey graduate this days. Your father useless does it mean your forefathers were useless. Mention me till infinity guy u no get sense finish. |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by Stevenbright(m): 8:42pm On Dec 03, 2023 |
Maddict1: Ok, she didn't get this point. She thought you taking your mum's maiden name (her father's name) In this, since you took your mum's name, there is no issue other than you are starting a new paternal lineage, starting with you. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by Acidosis(m): 9:24pm On Dec 03, 2023 |
You mean the name of the father of your mother? I hope he wasn't a deadbeat too? 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by Maddict1: 9:50pm On Dec 03, 2023 |
Intergrated: na forefathers born me? wetin your generational name don do for you?? and see me here thinking this uselessness ended with my deadbeat, i nor know say you follow. na people like you dey wan die on top family land, i sure say you never even comot your papa house laidis. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by Maddict1: 9:51pm On Dec 03, 2023 |
Acidosis: no, just the name of my mom and a random male name to reduce plenty talk 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by Maddict1: 9:52pm On Dec 03, 2023 |
Stevenbright: yea, just my mom's name 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by Justbehave(m): 10:28pm On Dec 03, 2023 |
Maddic..t meaning madness. I'm not suprised |
Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by Maddict1: 11:01pm On Dec 03, 2023 |
Justbehave: act like your username for a change, you'd regain your lost brain cells 3 Likes |
My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... / Does Our Parent Have Legal Right To Reject A Partner They Dont Like? / 10 Things Women Should Know About Marriage
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 68 |