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Myopic View Of Men(domestic Violence) by Francisanointed(op): 5:07am On Jun 12, 2022
I was charging my phone few weeks back in a neighbors house when two boys were saying it is good to beat your girlfriend and wife. I told them NO that it is absolutely wrong to beat a girl no matter what she did. He told me he went to work and when he came back,his girlfriend didn't cook. That made him beat her. Couple with the fact that she spoke to him anyhow after she knew was wrong. I told him there are several ways to punish a lady when she offend you. Beating should never be part of disciplining a woman in relationships or marriage.
Nomatter what your wife or girlfriend do to you,even if she slap you or insult you in public, there are better ways to punish her. No woman should be beaten. I wonder were some women got their husbands from. I went to a party the other day to back up for someone, a guy was just embarrassing this lady. Women should test the anger-level of their spouse before saying Yes I do.
Re: Myopic View Of Men(domestic Violence) by PoliteActivist: 5:12am On Jun 12, 2022
Depends on the culture. What you described is Western culture. In some cultures women are brought up to expect a beating if they did something very wrong
Re: Myopic View Of Men(domestic Violence) by Freestainworld(m): 5:16am On Jun 12, 2022
Many ladies prefer those kind of guys, when they meet reasonable guys, they will use them to play table tennis.
Re: Myopic View Of Men(domestic Violence) by neonly: 5:33am On Jun 12, 2022
Mofo no no wonder u still they charge yur phone in yur neighbours house
God go let you jam better uncultured woman then yur eyes go open
Re: Myopic View Of Men(domestic Violence) by Cutehector(m): 7:02am On Jun 12, 2022
Freestainworld:
Many ladies prefer those kind of guys, when they meet reasonable guys, they will use them to play table tennis.
true
Re: Myopic View Of Men(domestic Violence) by Samakus(m): 7:03am On Jun 12, 2022
Francisanointed:
I was charging my phone few weeks back in a neighbors house when two boys were saying it is good to beat your girlfriend and wife. I told them NO that it is absolutely wrong to beat a girl no matter what she did. He told me he went to work and when he came back,his girlfriend didn't cook. That made him beat her. Couple with the fact that she spoke to him anyhow after she knew was wrong. I told him there are several ways to punish a lady when she offend you. Beating should never be part of disciplining a woman in relationships or marriage.
Nomatter what your wife or girlfriend do to you,even if she slap you or insult you in public, there are better ways to punish her. No woman should be beaten. I wonder were some women got their husbands from. I went to a party the other day to back up for someone, a guy was just embarrassing this lady. Women should test the anger-level of their spouse before saying Yes I do.
You were making sense until you got to the bolded..

Get this particular warpped thinking out of ya head, will ya? Violence should never be condoned irrespective of the gender.

As for me, even my woman knows that, every form of physical violence will be met with equal and greater violence, gender notwithstanding.

If I can control my anger and shy away from hitting you, why can't you? Dem born you well you hit me first, you go land for hospital for sure.

I no dey beat woman no reach when she hit me first. She go too collect cos the beast in me will be unleashed. Aside this, nothing will make me beat you no matter the provocation. Highest thing you will do is to run your mouth and me kwanu get idk attitude
Re: Myopic View Of Men(domestic Violence) by emmanuelbrown26: 11:19am On Jun 12, 2022
Op u deserves a very beautiful and sexy slap from me. Infact u an idiot.
what kind of idiots are fathers breeding this day all in d name of men?
I'm highly disappointed in your father for raising a bastard son
Re: Myopic View Of Men(domestic Violence) by LadyRosa(f): 11:53am On Jun 12, 2022
Stupid girl, them never marry you them still dey beat you untop.

This girls will never advice themselves.
Re: Myopic View Of Men(domestic Violence) by Francisanointed(op): 3:39pm On Jun 12, 2022
It is always important to give your opinion without abusive or insulting words
Re: Myopic View Of Men(domestic Violence) by Oizee(f): 4:02pm On Jun 12, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:
Op u deserves a very beautiful and sexy slap from me. Infact u an idiot.
what kind of idiots are fathers breeding this day all in d name of men?
I'm highly disappointed in your father for raising a bastard son
can't u just give ur own opinion without abusive words....u went extreme by calling him bastard....u must b high on something
Re: Myopic View Of Men(domestic Violence) by emmanuelbrown26: 8:49pm On Jun 12, 2022
Oizee:
can't u just give ur own opinion without abusive words....u went extreme by calling him bastard....u must b high on something
Yes he is a bastard and he will always remain one until he emancipate from being an idiot
Re: Myopic View Of Men(domestic Violence) by efficiencie(m): 10:25pm On Jun 12, 2022
Francisanointed:
I was charging my phone few weeks back in a neighbors house when two boys were saying it is good to beat your girlfriend and wife. I told them NO that it is absolutely wrong to beat a girl no matter what she did. He told me he went to work and when he came back,his girlfriend didn't cook. That made him beat her. Couple with the fact that she spoke to him anyhow after she knew was wrong. I told him there are several ways to punish a lady when she offend you. Beating should never be part of disciplining a woman in relationships or marriage.
Nomatter what your wife or girlfriend do to you,even if she slap you or insult you in public, there are better ways to punish her. No woman should be beaten. I wonder were some women got their husbands from. I went to a party the other day to back up for someone, a guy was just embarrassing this lady. Women should test the anger-level of their spouse before saying Yes I do.
A woman should not lift her hand against a man if she cannot take a retaliation. A woman should not provoke her husband until he morphs into the very beast that beats the shit out of her. A woman should not marry a readymade beast and hope to convert him into a sane man.
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