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Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by satandeterrible: 5:32am On Jun 14, 2022
Many fools here saying the son should sleep in the sitting room.
Imagine.
Are men born to suffer?
So the boy should sleep in the sitting room while the girl enjoys the whole room to herself at night?
The girl get two heads? Why can't she too sleep in the sitting room so the boy cab sleep in the bedroom.

That's how unnessasry divisions start cropping up in the family.

OP, you girl is spoilt and that's a fact.
She probably masturbates while alone in a room, or she probably has stuff she smuggles in and out of the house which you do not know.

When I was young, I had three siblings and we all slept in one room without issues.
But you think your daughter at her tender age deserves a room for herself.
Okay.

Keep on spoiling the brat.

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Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by ecolime(m): 7:47am On Jun 14, 2022
I have both genders and this is how I would handle mine if I wasn't living in a 3 BD.

Get a 2.5 by 6 bed for each child and let them share the room.

You could also get an adult bunk bed for them. The boy stays on top while the girl stays below.

It's not reasonable for you parents to share a room and the younger child take a room all to herself while her brother sleeps in the sitting room. You are not being fair to your son. Don't breed hatred in him.

Teach your daughter to be accommodating. She doesn't need to dress in the room, she can always bath and dress fully in the bathroom.

If you guys relocate abroad as a family, the easiest apartment to get without breaking the bank is Miniflat or 2BD. Many Nigerians abroad who lived in duplexes in Naija live in 2 BDs with kids of both genders and this is how they live.

N.B: If the boy is comfortable with sleeping in the sitting room then no qualms. You can convert the dining section to a bed space for him while he keeps his clothings in his sister's room.

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Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by youngking22(m): 9:35am On Jun 14, 2022
The best solution, is too get a bunk bed. Your son gets the top, while she gets the bottom. A little space in the room can be for her own table for her feminine stuffs, your son also his own table. If there is a wardrobe,there can share it equally, I have three cousins, we shared one room and these was our settings. Trust me they will bond very well.

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Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by WhatThen: 9:45am On Jun 15, 2022
pozehnani:
Let your son be sleeping in the sitting room then or is that not a space. I'm suggesting this to prevent any form of sexual immorality between the two of them. Though the boy can still share the room with her, only that he can not sleep there at night.

By the way, what of family of six that live in a room and parlor apartment? Are they not living fine.?
That your girl is being too choosey and I think you caused it. Teach your children how to manage when things are not so rosey otherwise they'll grow up not being contented or knowing how to manage hard times.

Nothing too difficult here

You seem like a sick pervert to me. They are siblings for crying out loud. What the hell is ' prevent sexual immorality between them...' Some really sick reasoning. Did your brother sleep with you?

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Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Trippledots(m): 4:31pm On Jun 15, 2022
Wetin person no go read for this nairaland fgs!! Na house for rent i de find wey i end up here oh.

How did you raise those kids? That a sister and a brother can't stay in the same room There is an ensuite toilet in each room for any personal privacy for anybody.

This world is fucken gone!

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Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by YoungLionken(m): 9:34am On Jun 18, 2022
It is very easy, divide and rule..

If you know you know...
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by mbahdi(m): 9:37am On Jun 18, 2022
Very simple.d girl should take one room.the boy one room.you can take d parlor.ur wife will take d kitchen.so when ever you want to meet ur wife,u both can meet in the bathroom or still dinning.cant come and kill myself on matter wey pass me.

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Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by cecilgee(m): 9:37am On Jun 18, 2022
Make partition for them with plywood and separate doors.
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by ogtavia(m): 9:37am On Jun 18, 2022
If you can, convert the spare room into the parlour and the demarcate the parlour into two rooms. This is assuming the other one room is not ensuite.

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Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by VeryWickedGoat: 9:37am On Jun 18, 2022
Allow them to Bleep each other afterall you and your wife are also fucking each other.

Its the trending thing now. A lot of step siblings are banging each other on saner platforms like pornhub, xvideos and co and nothing happened. You can even get them cameras so that good money can flow into your family.


Stop being archaic!!

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Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by OGwales(m): 9:37am On Jun 18, 2022
teekay213:
Hi,

I got a 2bedroom flat because the place is close to me and my wife place of work.we couldn't get a 3bedroom around the area cos that was the one we saw at the time and it was not costly.

But here is the problem I have a 19yrs old boy waiting for admission and a 16yrs old girl in ss3 but I don't know how to allocate the 2 bedroom maybe my wife and I should take one and leave the other room for my son and daughter but my girl is already a lady and she doesn't want to share a room with her brother,,am also thinking my wife should share one room with our daughter while I share the remaining room with my son but what if me and my wife need each other.

Where we relocated from we had 3 bedrooms and everyone had his room but because that was the only apartment near and less costly we had to take it.



Rubbish

Some families lives in just room and parlour without confusion, some also just a room with love and happiness. Mr Man organize yourself and be thankful.
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by MANNABBQGRILLS: 9:37am On Jun 18, 2022
Aaaaarghmed:
Look for a board and demarcate their room if it's big enough.At least make small privacy dey for dem
@OP, here is the answer you seek for.
Goodluck!

Thanks Ahmed, you so in our minds.

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Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Branzy(m): 9:38am On Jun 18, 2022
satandeterrible:
Many fools here saying the son should sleep in the sitting room.
Imagine.
Are men born to suffer?
So the boy should sleep in the sitting room while the girl enjoys the whole room to herself at night?
The girl get two heads? Why can't she too sleep in the sitting room so the boy cab sleep in the bedroom.

That's how unnessasry divisions start cropping up in the family.

OP, you girl is spoilt and that's a fact.
She probably masturbates while alone in a room, or she probably has stuff she smuggles in and out of the house which you do not know.

When I was young, I had three siblings and we all slept in one room without issues.
But you think your daughter at her tender age deserves a room for herself.
Okay.

Keep on spoiling the brat.

One bed o. Kids now have anyhow right and privileges
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by jimtemi1: 9:38am On Jun 18, 2022
Both lparent, should take 1room,the girl should take 1room , why the brother sleeps In the sitting room, if only the 2children are insecure. Because if they were secure nothing bad in both of the sleeping in the same room but not the same bed, and one should go out when the other is dressing up... Let make life easy for ourselves

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Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Offpoint1: 9:38am On Jun 18, 2022
pozehnani:
Let your son be sleeping in the sitting room then or is that not a space. I'm suggesting this to prevent any form of sexual immorality between the two of them. Though the boy can still share the room with her, only that he can not sleep there at night.

By the way, what of family of six that live in a room and parlor apartment? Are they not living fine.?
That your girl is being too choosey and I think you caused it. Teach your children how to manage when things are not so rosey otherwise they'll grow up not being contented or knowing how to manage hard times.

Nothing too difficult here
To prevent what did I just read? That's a sick statement
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by AntiWailer: 9:39am On Jun 18, 2022
Move to ur boy's room and let the girl move with the Mum.

Ur girl has reasons why she does not want to stay with him..


Respect her choice.

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Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by kaludestiny10(m): 9:39am On Jun 18, 2022
Op, this is the best advice to take. This post says it all. Thank you[ author=pozehnani post=113758664]Let your son be sleeping in the sitting room then or is that not a space. I'm suggesting this to prevent any form of sexual immorality between the two of them. Though the boy can still share the room with her, only that he can not sleep there at night.

By the way, what of family of six that live in a room and parlor apartment? Are they not living fine.?
That your girl is being too choosey and I think you caused it. Teach your children how to manage when things are not so rosey otherwise they'll grow up not being contented or knowing how to manage hard times.

Nothing too difficult here [/quote]

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Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by boveday: 9:40am On Jun 18, 2022
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by logicalhumour: 9:40am On Jun 18, 2022
What did I just read?

If any of them can't live with the other, let that person leave to wherever the fûck they want to go. This is not America. We are blacks, we naturally live together.

This is why so many siblings do not bond these days.

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Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Romanoff(f): 9:40am On Jun 18, 2022
If you have money, there are some bedroom separation videos I see on IG for sharing rooms between males and females, they look so good and from me estimate could cost roughly around 700k to 1mil.

Now, if you can afford that, it means you can just get a 3 bedroom.
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by NigerianAngelo(m): 9:40am On Jun 18, 2022
teekay213:
Hi,

I got a 2bedroom flat because the place is close to me and my wife place of work.we couldn't get a 3bedroom around the area cos that was the one we saw at the time and it was not costly.

But here is the problem I have a 19yrs old boy waiting for admission and a 16yrs old girl in ss3 but I don't know how to allocate the 2 bedroom maybe my wife and I should take one and leave the other room for my son and daughter but my girl is already a lady and she doesn't want to share a room with her brother,,am also thinking my wife should share one room with our daughter while I share the remaining room with my son but what if me and my wife need each other.

Where we relocated from we had 3 bedrooms and everyone had his room but because that was the only apartment near and less costly we had to take it.


Just buy a second mattress and throw in your children's room. Problem solved.
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Damead: 9:41am On Jun 18, 2022
teekay213:
Hi,

I got a 2bedroom flat because the place is close to me and my wife place of work.we couldn't get a 3bedroom around the area cos that was the one we saw at the time and it was not costly.

But here is the problem I have a 19yrs old boy waiting for admission and a 16yrs old girl in ss3 but I don't know how to allocate the 2 bedroom maybe my wife and I should take one and leave the other room for my son and daughter but my girl is already a lady and she doesn't want to share a room with her brother,,am also thinking my wife should share one room with our daughter while I share the remaining room with my son but what if me and my wife need each other.

Where we relocated from we had 3 bedrooms and everyone had his room but because that was the only apartment near and less costly we had to take it.

You can make the boy use the sitting room, the girl can be using the one bed room while you and your wife can be using the other bedroom.

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Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by SMGGroup: 9:42am On Jun 18, 2022
osato45:
have a talk with your kids and let them understand why things are the way they are.

In terms of sharing, you can get a second mattress or foam possibly 2 by 6 type and place in the room where the kids are to stay, let the eldest occupy the bigger foam and the youngest takes the smaller foam which would be placed on the floor

Or better still get a wooden bunk bed of 3 by 6 that would make one person stay up and the other stay down

it's not about space to lie down. It's about privacy

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Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by seanwilliam(m): 9:42am On Jun 18, 2022
osato45:
have a talk with your kids and let them understand why things are the way they are.

In terms of sharing, you can get a second mattress or foam possibly 2 by 6 type and place in the room where the kids are to stay, let the eldest occupy the bigger foam and the youngest takes the smaller foam which would be placed on the floor

Or better still get a wooden bunk bed of 3 by 6 that would make one person stay up and the other stay down
@teekay213
Don’t try this !!!
Me and you know that reality is different. Pls sir don’t do this .


Let your son sleep in your room
Let your daughter sleep with your wife .



If you need your wife( I like your choice of words, shows you’re an elderly person grin), you can always get her when the guys no Dey around ..


Pls don’t let them sleep for same room,
They’re mature and at exploring stage..

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Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Johel(m): 9:43am On Jun 18, 2022
teekay213:
Hi,

I got a 2bedroom flat because the place is close to me and my wife place of work.we couldn't get a 3bedroom around the area cos that was the one we saw at the time and it was not costly.

But here is the problem I have a 19yrs old boy waiting for admission and a 16yrs old girl in ss3 but I don't know how to allocate the 2 bedroom maybe my wife and I should take one and leave the other room for my son and daughter but my girl is already a lady and she doesn't want to share a room with her brother,,am also thinking my wife should share one room with our daughter while I share the remaining room with my son but what if me and my wife need each other.

Where we relocated from we had 3 bedrooms and everyone had his room but because that was the only apartment near and less costly we had to take it.



Your daughter and son should share a room...they are blood siblings..you and your wife should share a room...if your children insists,then they got evil thoughts and motives.

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Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by hibeebeeking: 9:43am On Jun 18, 2022
They both be sharing the bedroom, but the boy will be sleeping in the living room. He should know how to scot before he will get admission.

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Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Offpoint1: 9:43am On Jun 18, 2022
Raising a brat as daughter, don't act like an African man... Dey form western life for African Country.

If circumstances don't permit the right apartment, let them share the available. Explain to them, anyone who protest, rebel or refuse to be reasonable should be treated with fist hand.

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Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by chukwuibuipob: 9:43am On Jun 18, 2022
sad if the room is big,damarcate it with wood/aluminum
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Adesina18111(m): 9:43am On Jun 18, 2022
A room for the girl and another room for you and their mom... A man must always be a man...as the boy he needs to understand that hustle don start for him b dt so he should not relax...The boy should pack his stuffs to the parent room and let the girl has the other room.
Just get a comfortable mattress for the boy so he can always sleep on it in the sitting room...SEBI na to sleep and wake up...talk to your boy to understand the situation on ground...don't let the condition affect your family situation...it's not proper for the two siblings to be together in d same room cos they were not used to it according to what u said that you were staying in 3 bedrooms before...make d boy dey use sitting room to sleep pending the time he gets admission...
My opinion tho

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Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Globad(f): 9:44am On Jun 18, 2022
UpInTheSky:


Nobody here is a mind reader, neither are we there with you. You could've stated the above in your OP to let people know what would be feasible or not, because only you know the situation of the room and how big it is. You left the table open for different suggestions, so. At the end of the day, it's up to you to do what you deem suitable for the situation, whatever that may be. Good luck.


Your comment is sensible and balanced.

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Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by 40fy: 9:44am On Jun 18, 2022
Guderian:


The street Where i lived before a brother was sexually engaged with his sister because of her hot body.he wasnt ashamed to say it out.





**Skibo!!

**For real, my nigga?? cry


Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by okoroemeka(m): 9:44am On Jun 18, 2022
pozehnani:
Let your son be sleeping in the sitting room then or is that not a space. I'm suggesting this to prevent any form of sexual immorality between the two of them. Though the boy can still share the room with her, only that he can not sleep there at night.

By the way, what of family of six that live in a room and parlor apartment? Are they not living fine.?
That your girl is being too choosey and I think you caused it. Teach your children how to manage when things are not so rosey otherwise they'll grow up not being contented or knowing how to manage hard times.

Nothing too difficult here
the girl Is not choosey,there is a reason she doesn't want to share with her brother,but she can sleep on the bed while the guy sleep on a foam on the floor,husband and wife suppose sleep together,I beg,what do you mean separate room for your wife,pls don't try that,keep your wife close,your kids can sleep wherever they see

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