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Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by arabbunkum: 10:03am On Jun 18, 2022 |
Get a plywood and demarcate the room for the teenagers. |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Damieadeh(f): 10:03am On Jun 18, 2022 |
Bros, My advice is look for a carpenter to help dermacate the room with plywood also with separate doors. That would be better. But talk to your girl to learn how to manage. Goodluck. Hi, I got a 2bedroom flat because the place is close to me and my wife place of work.we couldn't get a 3bedroom around the area cos that was the one we saw at the time and it was not costly. But here is the problem I have a 19yrs old boy waiting for admission and a 16yrs old girl in ss3 but I don't know how to allocate the 2 bedroom maybe my wife and I should take one and leave the other room for my son and daughter but my girl is already a lady and she doesn't want to share a room with her brother,,am also thinking my wife should share one room with our daughter while I share the remaining room with my son but what if me and my wife need each other. Where we relocated from we had 3 bedrooms and everyone had his room but because that was the only apartment near and less costly we had to take it. [/quote] |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by seanwilliam(m): 10:03am On Jun 18, 2022 |
IamMobisola:Lol , In some homes, girls Dey waka about naked too. Infact with only bra and kokodi ( short leggings ) some will just put on transparent top without bra, showing their ever-ready-to-fight nipples .. If she’s on her period , make she enter toilet change pad, trying to inconvenience the boy cos of flimsy excuse is rubbish to me.. In that case, make she go sleep in her mom’s room , and the boy should sleep in his father’s room. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by sonofElElyon: 10:03am On Jun 18, 2022 |
teekay213: Stay with your son and daughter stays with your wife |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by smithbidy(m): 10:04am On Jun 18, 2022 |
teekay213:The best thing from my side is; the daughter take over the room while the son has all in belonging there in her sister room. And you get a bed for the son to sleep in the living room/parlor; but for peace to reign you liase with your daughter to always be the one to set her brother bed, while the your son himself onset it in the morning. So whenever; the guy needed something in the room he can always knock and find his way through. But lastly, make it a point of duty not to entertain visitors as earlier as 7am and let all visitors leave very early so as not to inconvenient the guy. My view is because the lady needs more of privacy. |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by ABANGWABOI(m): 10:05am On Jun 18, 2022 |
Lanretoye: The funny thing is that the brother is 3 years older than her. Yet he doesn't feel entitled.. but his younger one of 16 is already feeling entitled.. That is how the raise stupid ladies everywhere. When you jam her tomorrow as an adult to date her or something,you would know that this is an idiotic entitled adult raised by weak parents that couldn't instill proper morals and manners in her. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by DEADALIVE: 10:05am On Jun 18, 2022 |
How do you train your children mindset if they can not cope and live together! Then when she finds herself in a situation where she has to stay and sleep in a room with a guy for a period of time she would rather call you and ask you to pay for hotel for her! OP! Tell your babi there is nothing you can do and if she still not satisfied ignore her....las las she will adjust learn and cope.... Regards. |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by MemoriesAndMe: 10:05am On Jun 18, 2022 |
Get a bigger place so both kids can have their rooms. They are grown and are of opposite sex, it's not ok to have them share same room. Of course, you and your wife will need the master bedroom, so a 3 bedroom spot is what you need. |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by mailemy(m): 10:05am On Jun 18, 2022 |
Your son can sleep in the parlour. Get him a small size mattress to always sleep there at night but can share the room with your son. Except your room is wide enough to be separated with a pligh wood. teekay213: |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by temitope27(m): 10:06am On Jun 18, 2022 |
pozehnani:y can't be girl sleep in the sitting room? Y the boy 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Connected1: 10:07am On Jun 18, 2022 |
Mr. OP, you are just being a weak man. Whoever needs privacy should bring money so you can rent a 3 bedroom flat. Make laws that would unite your family and also make them face adversity together. I rented a flat for my parents and I lived with them for about 2 years, I paid the rent even till now but I slept on a mat in the parlour for months until I bought foams for the remaining two rooms. I had an option to rent my own apartment and I also had the option to sleep on the only available foam, they willingly told me to do so out of appreciation but they are my elders and I was raised to treat people nicely. That your daughter needs a brain resetting slap and many restrictions, don't mind that stupid girl saying they may engage in sexual intercourse, she has a damaged mentality from poor parental upbringing. A united home go through hard times together, how you raise them now will determine how they will live as a big family tomorrow. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by emorse(m): 10:07am On Jun 18, 2022 |
uptownemmygee:One in Ilorin, one in Ijebu, another two in Kaduna and Onitsha. These are abnormal occurrences and they are very few compared to the norms. Have you or anyone you know personally ever made sexual advances towards a blood relative? Besides, you can't tell me that you have never seen matured siblings (well in their twenties) living in a single room apartment before away from other family members. Abnormal occurrences should not guide one's decisions abeg. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by AFONJAPIG(m): 10:08am On Jun 18, 2022 |
Apamu what do u mean she's a lady... if she can share with someone let her be sleeping in the parlour or her her own apartment... slay queen for mouth 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by highbee02: 10:08am On Jun 18, 2022 |
Let your wife and daughter share a room, ditto for u and your son. U will only need to control your urge and do the do with your wife when the children are away. |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by idanone(m): 10:09am On Jun 18, 2022 |
teekay213:place a demarcation in the room, maybe wooden or aluminum and relocate one there and the other to the second part. Simple as ABC |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by skedy1(m): 10:09am On Jun 18, 2022 |
pozehnani:I like this one 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Jijuo: 10:09am On Jun 18, 2022 |
She's young and full of drama. |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by phemmyfour: 10:11am On Jun 18, 2022 |
teekay213:Very easy Boy: sitting room Girl: One room Husband n wife: One room Even when I had a room, i practically turned the sitting room to my room 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Elsueno: 10:11am On Jun 18, 2022 |
Dailyparrot: Nop, the two of them SHOULD NOT SLEEP IN THE SAME ROOM ALONE, even for siblings of same sex in same room, it's advisable for them to have separate beds...The only situation where siblings of different sex can sleep in d same room is when there is someone they both fear & respect. P.S am talking of teenegers above 14 years woh |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by emorse(m): 10:12am On Jun 18, 2022 |
seanwilliam:I tire o. Just making a mountain out of nothing. |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by WhatCanIsay(m): 10:12am On Jun 18, 2022 |
Romanoff: You guys are funny. How much did he pay for the two bedroom apartment for you to even think of making such suggestion amounting to at least 700k expenses. Ike gwụrụ |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by emorse(m): 10:14am On Jun 18, 2022 |
IamMobisola:Like in OP's case ba. Thank you. Case closed. |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Exkandayee(m): 10:17am On Jun 18, 2022 |
Romanoff:You are crazy,how much is op rent.. .. |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by KosiGee(m): 10:17am On Jun 18, 2022 |
SaiRuiMall: There’s nothing like dysfunctional family here. Op is a happy man who happened to have the misfortune of relocating to another place with limited resources to afford and sustain the type of life he and family were used to. Did you read the part where he stated that they were living in a 3 bedroom accommodation and now living in a 2 bedroom one? Prior to this, they all had their spaces. There’s nothing wrong with that. He did all he could to make his family happy….they are used to living like that and have been orientated that way. Yes the 16 year old girl is the lady of the house….what’s wrong with that? I think lots of people are misinterpreting what he meant. I know a young man with two children…a boy and a girl..they are less than 10 and have separate rooms. Not everyone grew up in an environment where the parents have lots of kids and they are all crammed up in one or two rooms. I’m sure the op has something working for him at the moment. One room for the parents….the little big woman can have the room and her privacy….the boy is about to leave for Uni…he can sleep in the living room on a separate mattress which he can pack up and store inside the girls room in the morning…he can store his stuffs there….meaning both kids can share the room till it’s time to go to bed. The problem with such arrangement is that the boy can come home one day and would like to stretch out, have a snooze, do his assignment in the privacy of the room without being disturbed by people watching Tv or having a discussion in the living room. The dilemma created by this experience would make the op to work a bit harder and hopefully secure a more convenient accommodation for his family and also would motivate the boy to work hard and better his dad. You should stop calling the young woman spoilt. It’s not her fault. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by SaiRuiMall: 10:17am On Jun 18, 2022 |
IamMobisola: It's not dysfunctional. if you have any sexual feelings for your blood siblings, now that's dysfunctional because you are sick. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by bonnyhope: 10:17am On Jun 18, 2022 |
teekay213: So na everything una go bring come here Most people that will comment on this thread are age mate to your children 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by idu1(m): 10:19am On Jun 18, 2022 |
The way people would think siblings will be fuvking themselves if they stay in the same space is making me cringe. Are we now an animal? Get two small sized mattress for them to sleep in that room for God sake. |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by IamMobisola(f): 10:19am On Jun 18, 2022 |
seanwilliam: There's no need to inconvenience the boy. The man should share a room with his son while the girl should share the other room with her mother. That solves the case. |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Emma2Seconds: 10:19am On Jun 18, 2022 |
What's there to hide again seanwilliam: |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Jimbadly: 10:20am On Jun 18, 2022 |
Romanoff: You have beautiful, well manicured fingers.
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Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by IamMobisola(f): 10:20am On Jun 18, 2022 |
SaiRuiMall:What kind of mentality do you even have? You mean a grown up man should be allowed to see his grown up sister naked? Or vice versa. Really? Cc seanwilliam is this true? 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by seanwilliam(m): 10:22am On Jun 18, 2022 |
IamMobisola:exactly. It makes sense that way |
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