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Chidi2022:
Oga go sit down.... Yen yen yen.... its always easy to spot a senseless person like you... You dey find physically ba? if i no beat craze commot for your body, make i no wetin cause am.... i no learn takwando in vain..... No let me commot yah teeth oooh.

Lol.......you have been heard my dear.

Hope you have prepared dinner??

Godoverevery:
Lol.......you have been heard my dear.
Hope you have prepared dinner??

Lmao.... you no well... you wan chop dinner?

Oizee:
@ Redomi, I am a woman and I have also realised that when a woman say something don't just take it for granted, she will do it, last two month, a widow told her brother in-law that he would die by accident and the guy made a video of her when she was saying it.
To cut the story short, the brother in-law was buried last Saturday, he was involved in an accident and he died on the spot....
They warned the guy but he took it as nothing.....whether it's coincidence or she actually did fetish stuff to end the guy, we don't know, one sure thing is that, there is power in the tongue especially when its used to pronounce evil.

Thank you so much, I'll see what I can do

Chidi2022:
Lmao.... you no well... you wan chop dinner?

I dont mind if you on the menu dear.

Redomi:
Good morning nairalanders, I have known this girl from my secondary school days, she was my junior though are not dating then, even we don't do normal talking.
5 years ago we meet again, and we started talking, them issue of relationship came in, we started dating before finalizing the marriage rite last year, shortly after we had our first baby.
I have been doing everything to pleased this girl including going to market to buy foodstuffs, gave her little money to start a provision shop, though she has some money she saved during her NYSC days,she added everything together and open the shop.
To cut the story short, I have a betting shop and I'm also into poultry business, there was Newcastle outbreak in my farm, I lost all my chicken, so I used to borrow money from her sometimes and I paid back on Monday when I get my weekly commission as a betting agent.
I noticed she has been bossy over me since I'm broke, there was a day she sized my phone last week cos I couldn't pay the 25k I owe her, I paid her 16k out of it, I later have to tell her to take the half bag if rice we just bought the previous day so that she can sell and gu e me my phone, after few hours she later gave me the phone.
Fast forward to what happen, I finished eating almost 11pm yesterday, and I'm feeling dizzy and I told her to stand up and let me sleep in the chair, she shouted on me on top of her voice, I got angry and ask if she is alright, them I challenge her that I have been noticing she had wlbeen bossy, she is now the husband and I'm the wife, mind you, she has never help me with laundry since last year August, I have been washing all my clothes myself, including cooking, I do most of the cooking , etc
The issue got into a heat argument yesterday night, she started saying things that wasn't pleasing to hearing, she said "the debt I'm in is what will kill me" "I'm an unfortunate being" "all men are useless except his son" "that I will never be successful" etc

But she said something that made me stand up and beeged the neighbors to allow me sleep with them, she said "She will still stab me to death" or "she will poison me to death"

I beg u pls take threat to life seriously.

Modified:
Op you need to carefully break up with your wife.
While at the divorce process

Don't eat her meal
Don't have sex with her.
If you love your life u will take my advice.

Redomi:
Good morning nairalanders, I have known this girl from my secondary school days, she was my junior though are not dating then, even we don't do normal talking.
5 years ago we meet again, and we started talking, them issue of relationship came in, we started dating before finalizing the marriage rite last year, shortly after we had our first baby.
I have been doing everything to pleased this girl including going to market to buy foodstuffs, gave her little money to start a provision shop, though she has some money she saved during her NYSC days,she added everything together and open the shop.
To cut the story short, I have a betting shop and I'm also into poultry business, there was Newcastle outbreak in my farm, I lost all my chicken, so I used to borrow money from her sometimes and I paid back on Monday when I get my weekly commission as a betting agent.
I noticed she has been bossy over me since I'm broke, there was a day she sized my phone last week cos I couldn't pay the 25k I owe her, I paid her 16k out of it, I later have to tell her to take the half bag if rice we just bought the previous day so that she can sell and gu e me my phone, after few hours she later gave me the phone.
Fast forward to what happen, I finished eating almost 11pm yesterday, and I'm feeling dizzy and I told her to stand up and let me sleep in the chair, she shouted on me on top of her voice, I got angry and ask if she is alright, them I challenge her that I have been noticing she had wlbeen bossy, she is now the husband and I'm the wife, mind you, she has never help me with laundry since last year August, I have been washing all my clothes myself, including cooking, I do most of the cooking , etc
The issue got into a heat argument yesterday night, she started saying things that wasn't pleasing to hearing, she said "the debt I'm in is what will kill me" "I'm an unfortunate being" "all men are useless except his son" "that I will never be successful" etc

But she said something that made me stand up and beeged the neighbors to allow me sleep with them, she said "She will still stab me to death" or "she will poison me to death"

Oga, go get a job!

Redomi:
Good morning nairalanders, I have known this girl from my secondary school days, she was my junior though are not dating then, even we don't do normal talking.
5 years ago we meet again, and we started talking, them issue of relationship came in, we started dating before finalizing the marriage rite last year, shortly after we had our first baby.
I have been doing everything to pleased this girl including going to market to buy foodstuffs, gave her little money to start a provision shop, though she has some money she saved during her NYSC days,she added everything together and open the shop.
To cut the story short, I have a betting shop and I'm also into poultry business, there was Newcastle outbreak in my farm, I lost all my chicken, so I used to borrow money from her sometimes and I paid back on Monday when I get my weekly commission as a betting agent.
I noticed she has been bossy over me since I'm broke, there was a day she sized my phone last week cos I couldn't pay the 25k I owe her, I paid her 16k out of it, I later have to tell her to take the half bag if rice we just bought the previous day so that she can sell and gu e me my phone, after few hours she later gave me the phone.
Fast forward to what happen, I finished eating almost 11pm yesterday, and I'm feeling dizzy and I told her to stand up and let me sleep in the chair, she shouted on me on top of her voice, I got angry and ask if she is alright, them I challenge her that I have been noticing she had wlbeen bossy, she is now the husband and I'm the wife, mind you, she has never help me with laundry since last year August, I have been washing all my clothes myself, including cooking, I do most of the cooking , etc
The issue got into a heat argument yesterday night, she started saying things that wasn't pleasing to hearing, she said "the debt I'm in is what will kill me" "I'm an unfortunate being" "all men are useless except his son" "that I will never be successful" etc

But she said something that made me stand up and beeged the neighbors to allow me sleep with them, she said "She will still stab me to death" or "she will poison me to death"

U started it all, u day go market for your wife? As in she'll be at home while you go to the market? You do the cooking as well as laundry? Do you wash her undies? Them swear for you? Guy man up and take charge of your home, you broke financially u still broke for sense? Send her packing if she can't accord you the respect you deserve as her husband.

Godoverevery:
I dont mind if you on the menu dear.

lol.... do you want fishbone to hook you on the neck? Lol... you are so funny.

What happens If I decide to leave with the child

She has given u two options to choose from.

Better think well and find a lasting solution to ur problem.

Ladies don't just threaten people but they keep to their words. Just be careful.

Godoverevery:
I don't understand the thing of you ladies always attacking people parent atime they say something that doesn't suit you.

For Christ sake he is entitled to is opinion on this forum.....bringing is mum into the conversation is totally unnecessary and I think the mods need to start banning you people for this.

It is irritating how fools here are always quick to leave who ever make comment and start dragging there parent (especially mother) into the convo..

You are civilised and educated......if he says something about women you totally disagree with just say your opinion....stop bringing is mum into the convo just to make a point to feel superior.

You keep using 'is' instead of 'his'.

ireneidiva:
You keep using 'is' instead of 'his'.

I only made the mistake once in the last paragraph.......so am not perfect.

You can cross check again.

Godoverevery:
I only made the mistake once in the last paragraph.......so am not perfect.

You can cross check again.

Twice in the second paragraph. Just say thank you and move on or ignore my comment and correct yourself. The comment was not necessary.

ireneidiva:
Twice in the second paragraph. Just say thank you and move on or ignore my comment and correct yourself. The comment was not necessary.

Say thank you can correcting my best seller book.

if you did for gratification sorry you can kiss my black ass.

Godoverevery:
Say thank you can correcting my best seller book.

if you did for gratification sorry you can kiss my black ass.

You need to edit this your first paragraph again. I don't understand what you typed. And I'm done with you.

ireneidiva:
You need to edit this your first paragraph again. I don't understand what you typed. And I'm done with you.

Learn to mind your business always so you can live long.......never quote me again maniac.

And you are here typing on nairaland instead of going to report her to the police station and also package her back to her parents house, hope you have informed your people about this threat, don't take it lightly. This was how Miriam Sanda stabbed her husband to death.

Mindlog:
Your delusions are your are your truth.

My parents decided to marry each other, my father went with his kinsmen to my mother's family to seek her hand in marriage, provided what my tradition requires of a groom and his family and when the traditional marital rites were completed, they had their Church wedding a month later after which they began living together.

Over the decades, my father is still warmly welcomed and highly regarded by my mother's family, that is not what is accorded a "buyer"...a buyer is pay and disappear.

He asked you a simple question and you're here writing epistles.

MadarasBlade:
He asked you a simple question and you're here writing epistles.

If you nor him can't find the answer in the epistle according to mindlog then I can not be of help.

Chidi2022:
Oga go sit down.... Yen yen yen.... its always easy to spot a senseless person like you... You dey find physically ba? if i no beat craze commot for your body, make i no wetin cause am.... i no learn takwando in vain..... No let me commot yah teeth oooh.

You wan panel beat craze komot from the comrade body?
where be the venue of Una fight

FREDCLSSICO7:
You wan panel beat craze komot from the comrade body? where be the venue of Una fight

lol....na my friend...

Marriage crisis. Between you and GloriousGbola, previously known as Ornicus, whose wife has been established to have always beaten him regularly, I don't even know whose condition is worse. But unlike GloriousGbola, you seem like a responsible man, so you deserve pity.

Consider separating from that woman unless she is willing to change for good.

AbosedeFalade:
Marriage crisis. Between you and GloriousGbola, previously known as Ornicus, whose wife has been established to have always beaten him regularly, I don't even know whose condition is worse. But unlike GloriousGbola, you seem like a responsible man, so you deserve pity.

Consider separating from that woman unless she is willing to change for good.

Righttoreject aka cinderallako, you had to diss another person with another moniker abi? How small is your sense, pls tell me? Because I don't understand this unprovoked diss, or is it that the gbas gbos smackdown from Glorious gbola on Saturday pained you so much you've not been sleeping well? Get sense fa, it's free o, toh....

Redomi:
Good morning nairalanders, I have known this girl from my secondary school days, she was my junior though are not dating then, even we don't do normal talking.
5 years ago we meet again, and we started talking, them issue of relationship came in, we started dating before finalizing the marriage rite last year, shortly after we had our first baby.
I have been doing everything to pleased this girl including going to market to buy foodstuffs, gave her little money to start a provision shop, though she has some money she saved during her NYSC days,she added everything together and open the shop.
To cut the story short, I have a betting shop and I'm also into poultry business, there was Newcastle outbreak in my farm, I lost all my chicken, so I used to borrow money from her sometimes and I paid back on Monday when I get my weekly commission as a betting agent.
I noticed she has been bossy over me since I'm broke, there was a day she sized my phone last week cos I couldn't pay the 25k I owe her, I paid her 16k out of it, I later have to tell her to take the half bag if rice we just bought the previous day so that she can sell and gu e me my phone, after few hours she later gave me the phone.
Fast forward to what happen, I finished eating almost 11pm yesterday, and I'm feeling dizzy and I told her to stand up and let me sleep in the chair, she shouted on me on top of her voice, I got angry and ask if she is alright, them I challenge her that I have been noticing she had wlbeen bossy, she is now the husband and I'm the wife, mind you, she has never help me with laundry since last year August, I have been washing all my clothes myself, including cooking, I do most of the cooking , etc
The issue got into a heat argument yesterday night, she started saying things that wasn't pleasing to hearing, she said "the debt I'm in is what will kill me" "I'm an unfortunate being" "all men are useless except his son" "that I will never be successful" etc

But she said something that made me stand up and beeged the neighbors to allow me sleep with them, she said "She will still stab me to death" or "she will poison me to death"

Just behave as if every thing is fine

Start making plans for her to leave that house and it means separating from her

Inform your family, let then be around same time with your inlaw, invite her parents with out her notice, expose all she said to them and let then be the one to take her home as they ate leaving, even if they are coming to your house from the moon

That's the end, let her go and kill herself

Once a woman becomes violent with her speech, watch it

Person wey die, him own done end

Redomi:
Good morning nairalanders, I have known this girl from my secondary school days, she was my junior though are not dating then, even we don't do normal talking.
5 years ago we meet again, and we started talking, them issue of relationship came in, we started dating before finalizing the marriage rite last year, shortly after we had our first baby.
I have been doing everything to pleased this girl including going to market to buy foodstuffs, gave her little money to start a provision shop, though she has some money she saved during her NYSC days,she added everything together and open the shop.
To cut the story short, I have a betting shop and I'm also into poultry business, there was Newcastle outbreak in my farm, I lost all my chicken, so I used to borrow money from her sometimes and I paid back on Monday when I get my weekly commission as a betting agent.
I noticed she has been bossy over me since I'm broke, there was a day she sized my phone last week cos I couldn't pay the 25k I owe her, I paid her 16k out of it, I later have to tell her to take the half bag if rice we just bought the previous day so that she can sell and gu e me my phone, after few hours she later gave me the phone.
Fast forward to what happen, I finished eating almost 11pm yesterday, and I'm feeling dizzy and I told her to stand up and let me sleep in the chair, she shouted on me on top of her voice, I got angry and ask if she is alright, them I challenge her that I have been noticing she had wlbeen bossy, she is now the husband and I'm the wife, mind you, she has never help me with laundry since last year August, I have been washing all my clothes myself, including cooking, I do most of the cooking , etc
The issue got into a heat argument yesterday night, she started saying things that wasn't pleasing to hearing, she said "the debt I'm in is what will kill me" "I'm an unfortunate being" "all men are useless except his son" "that I will never be successful" etc

But she said something that made me stand up and beeged the neighbors to allow me sleep with them, she said "She will still stab me to death" or "she will poison me to death"

This one na Weakling..
I can't wait for the news of her stabbing you to Grace the front page..

Pls make sure you don't sleep with clothes on to make the stabbing easy for her..
SIMPle boy..

Barbiturate:
You need to leave the house for her before she harm or kill you. You caused it all when you started borrowing from her. Most women lose respect for their men when they provide or support financially.

My Advice; first, report her to her family. Then find a place to stay ATM and then concentrate more on your business and finances. Approach microfinance banks for loan to boost your biz.

If you ignore her and increase in biz n finances, she will come begging someday. If you have a child with her, make sure to support her financially because of your child.

It is well with you

Phool.. so when a man is down he shouldn't borrow from the wife if she has some to spare...? He must go borrow outside and take loans..
No wonder most of you men are miserable this days and die off so early and the women would now enjoy the Children you singlehandedly laboured to raise..
You and Op dey d same SIMP- group..
Awon Weakling..
Geddiffok Outta here Phool

jackslow:
Divorce her when you're still alive ,place her where she belong ,there are better women out there ,don't let any one tie you down


Set her free you will have thousands of women at your disposal from wich you can choose from.

Just don't know why a man will carry his money to buy a woman and bring her to his house to be feeding her,clothing, paying rent for her and ensuring her emotional stability,all for what ? What exertly are you gaining in marriage that you can't get outside marriage.

What is the issue with men.

How can human being be so irrational.

All that you think a woman can offer you in marriage,you can actually get it for free outside marriage

I don't know you but I would find you one day and I would buy you beer..
Marriage is an overrated nonsense and has no benefit for Men..
This days na irresponsible Men(those that refused to be a donkey for women/wives) they last pass these good boy husband's that die off due to pressure to meet up whilst the wife goes about enjoying the kids he the slave has trained for her single-handedly ..
Like this now..
Na baby mama parole I wan run..
Nonsense and Marriage to modern Woke generation women.

Olasyke:
You don buy job

Em buy am for German currency..

Justbehave:
Proudly a baby daddy with 3 kids.Na Una wan dey marry.

Guy how far...
You know any better girl wey dey interested to be a Babymama abeg link me up..
I need a baby mama urgently..


Why buy the cow when the milk is free..
Na MuMu dey marry..

JovialJune:
Meaning your mother was bought, her parents collected money from her would be husband your father in the name of bride price, meaning you are a product of a sold commodity

Good for you.

When your father paid for your mother's bride price,he automatically bought her..
You are also a product of a So1d commodity..
Stop Wailing

Oizee:
@ Redomi, I am a woman and I have also realised that when a woman say something don't just take it for granted, she will do it, last two month, a widow told her brother in-law that he would die by accident and the guy made a video of her when she was saying it.
To cut the story short, the brother in-law was buried last Saturday, he was involved in an accident and he died on the spot....
They warned the guy but he took it as nothing.....whether it's coincidence or she actually did fetish stuff to end the guy, we don't know, one sure thing is that, there is power in the tongue especially when its used to pronounce evil.

There is no power in the tongue of a Stoopid widow..
It is either she went diabolical or it happened to that young man out of coincidence..
If curses do kill.. why Buhari and others never die...
My former state governor you know how many widows and pensioners we curse the idiot.. the fool is still alive and Kicking after leaving office almost a decade ago..